Life is easy when going according to a plan is and the way parents expects. But at some point you will realize as you grow up that’s you didn’t win in a sport you were passionate about , you didn’t start that’s business ,you didn’t become a music super star ,the question will remain how did I end up here? Or is this life I was hustling for? Life may be good but the void within and what’s ifs of your life dreams.
- To some day realize our dreams
I’m proud of my friend Makhula as he once said music is his passion and his life dream. The reason this is important from him is, from the look of things he has everything a successful person might need but he is being realistic about not reaching his childhood fantasy of being a music superstar one day and as a friend I suppose his vision because I’m in the same boat with him and for me it’s all I have right now and the only thing that’s should work because side hustles doesn’t fulfill me not even close but music has a potential of making me happy and strive for more.
- Because parents are still there to pick up the pieces.
Don’t be scared of what’s people will say, in most cases people has their own worries and you don’t matter that’s much until you make it matter. So take chances and use your money as investment rather than fruits of your present labor. If you take this risks you are writing your own story that’s its will be a great biography one day.
My wishes has shifted a bit lately apart from making it in music, what’s will happen after that’s matter more and I will use my fame to change the world and get the recognition from channels like Alux.com because their the part of the struggle I’m in they help my journey easy because of their lesson’s not just them, success TV and Valuetainment as well as grant cardone.
I know others are seemed to be building some cult movement but what’s I have found is the information works and people who complain are those who hurry or invest poorly in their programmers. I have saw a ROT since it’s only the investment I have ever had and if I could take a program it’s would be just a thank you to this people.
Back to the point, I fail its ok my mom is here or dad, the only problem with this is their influence of love trying to protect you from pains of failure so be careful and don’t let their words derail you. Keep trying and do what’s ever ethically right to get back on your feet and make your hustle work.
- Don’t think small ,and don’t hustle for a living
What’s I have done with my life is to balance my financial life , I don’t have any commitment that’s needs premium every month ,that’s way I only have money to save and bills to pay and cash to take more risks. Now I have a new strategy I save for bigger risk since things works with money I have never been a person of luxury and money spender. At home I try by all means to cover necessity nothing more or less ,so the day I changed and started to think differently I had already bought Premium TV for my home but the following year me wasn’t going to do that but at home their managing to pay for it , I don’t because I don’t watch it. And I know I shouldn’t think of myself only and other people are not like me ,but for my nephews the only thing I’m trying to do is being a positive influence.
Back to the subtitle apologies for being all over the place, Thinking small also have to do with starting a business without learning first at least a bit that why we have me too businesses that’s really might not make a huge impact. Other’s go out in the street and sell and end up fixed there as a job because money get loose and more stuff is being bought. I
n the morning I was reading unscripted by Mj Demarco, he says he once notice a beam with stuff that’s was about to be taken by janitors, Bicycle, boxes, clothes and so on. He say someday way back someone open a wallet and bought this things and today their valueless. My point is you don’t need anything that’s you think you need, you want those things and any excuse to buy them they doesn’t align to the person you want to become. I am a perfect example if you can come to my room now the only stuff I have make me money it’s a music studio and I invest songs with it and there is a desk and a bed nothing more.
Your level of thinking collate with your standards in life, standards in this context is not big labels you wear but the value that’s comes to you if you do a service or sell a product. If you think highly of yourself you will charge that’s much for the things that represents you. So think big and act as such work more and like grant 10x your work ethic ,so you will minimize the number of years you will work that’s way unless it makes meaning to you.
- Be in the position of having nothing to lose.
This blog site talk more to entrepreneurs than average people, but if you follow us you can also benefits from the mindset shared here. Say you have a job and a payed off house and car and a small business running without you would you tolerate you boss mistreating you? I think no cause you have a backup plan and you have nothing to lose. That’s how you actually have to set up your life to have nothing to lose ,be self reliance and slowly moving from your parent’s old way of doing things unless they have proved to be a great role models who made it in business and life and were a example of warm home. As you involve yourself in many things you mind with experience hardships and things to endure give it rest enough to face another day , learn mediation also learn to enjoy your own company.
- Risks not worth taking as a young person
This article might be wrongly interpreted so let’s put our position clear. Don’t take risk of starting alcohol and drugs or smoking. Don’t take a risk of trying to be a Casanova or a player that’s won’t be worth it. One girlfriend is fine and then you should do that to improve your people’s skills and protect yourself from the risk of having a child earlier in your life because that will limit your risk taking.
Don’t take advantage of other people in a bad way add value and take what yours. Don’t risk joining gangs or becoming a thug or dating old people for money.
If you find yourself in jail please choose the right mindset to hang with ,you can be a fool and attend church in there but do yourself a favour and not become one of the number’s member and try to prove something and try to replicate that life when you are out in a outside life its won’t do you any good. People who can open doors for you will keep their distance and community will be watching you and be a suspect for crimes around.
Thanks for taking the time and reading , maybe your kid can benefit here it’s a good time for this kinds of lesson’s because sometimes as parents we hardly talk about this stuff cause of our daily busyness of trying to put food in the table. LnM please follow us and like our page as ULwaz No Makhula