Maybe you have been through this and today’s article is not meant to give you an answer but ask for it. On the other hand I want to create an awareness that’s you are not alone, people have been backstabbed couple of times and they don’t trust anyone anymore even people they shouldn’t worry about and automatically push them away.
Why other people can’t accept love?
Love relationship and bonding with family is a hard one in our culture ,we see other races doing well in being united and really embrace the love for one another but I believe in our black community even your own blood when you show them love they think you up to something.
Today I have some kind of headache because I felt being sidelined I really tried to be the best version of myself and try to kindle some family relationship, but I saw that’s my effort is not welcomed I didn’t need to be told I felt it or say my intuition revealed everything to me that’s I was already told but I’m not complaining. My question will be why would this family thinks the worst of me while I’m trying to be myself and practice the bonding that’s will matter in a long run?
What’s will happen to the future bloodline that’s I will create? Should I accept the fact that’s there are member’s of family that’s this kids should not entertain spending time with? I don’t know this is pure love but I’m sure I will have to protect my kids from all the experience I’m having.
The main problem is it’s hard to tell what’s happening am I deceived or it a real thing? I won’t declare my conclusion here but maybe you have gone through the similar thing please comment and let’s talk about it.
Why people who suppose to trust you doubt you?
Its might look like when you are in a company of other people without their other half you are ok and can really be cool and be welcomed or say that’s person is welcome to your place but when you goes to his there is some tension.
Why some other people are really bad with hosting people especially those who are married and treat people so differently from one another and why they expect you to know how to act in their company apart from being yourself? This is questions I’m concerned about and maybe my wife will put me on this awkward position someday but till then this is abnormal for me. I want to make a serious disclaimer other couple are very welcoming and really great hosts, when I visit people I don’t necessary look for this things they just show up and I am a very nice person I know myself so what’s I will suggest is don’t talk too much behind the visitor back, instead tell that’s person directly how things are done around your home and what they need to do after eating or when waking up then having a straight face now and then.
Good gesture and present not well received
Have you ever try to give someone a hug or a present and they act weird like maybe who are you to touch them or what’s do you want in return since you are giving them a gift.
I have learnt a real lesson some people can really find a way to repay your debt that’s you did out of kindness but you don’t need to know eventually why the good deed other people do for you.
There is more upside into helping people then downside but other always resist help because they have been corned before by corn artists ,but that’s hardly a family member so why a person closer to you sometimes don’t want your help?
This may be wrongly interpreted thinking we deserve help from our families that’s not wrong too but in between there is love shown through helping one another and opening opportunities for one another and so on so the load won’t be on one or two people supporting a family.
Body Language talk 1000s words and the trick with this is people realize the gesture after you had an important conversation and they are now alone thinking what’s this person meant and why she/he look like this when talking about this?
Why people can’t speak their real feelings and make the other person aware
This might sound like I’m talking about a boy plans and thinks of approaching a girl but end up being scared and not do it but that’s not the case. I’m sure human nature disagrees with the subtitle but people pretend other people because they are scared what’s they might become or thinks they might need them in the future or what? Maybe you have an answer interact with me.
Personally, there are lots of people I don’t like but they’re not close to me so it doesn’t matter anyway, but imagine opening up to someone and set them free, how would that work? I think it’s worth a try or maybe say it in the most polite way possible.