How to decrease chances of catching Corona Virus

Welcome to another piece of the most popular subject of the moment Covid19. Disclaimer this is not a professional advice it’s a survival skill from an ordinary person for more in depth advice contact a doctor or a proven facts on the web. Here is a discipline and a new habit you need to cultivate to not be caught by this virus

Be paranoid and don’t mind looking stupid

You life is at stake you need to do what’s ever in order to survive until this hell hole we find in pass or can be contained.

Wear masks and face shield ,have your own little sanitizer for on the go situations especially if you like me and about to get to a work place where there has been numerous cases of this pandemic ,gloves should be your friend as well as your overall hygiene.

Wash regularly your clothes & hands even have a uniform remaining at work don’t take it home with you and maybe you can consider using a laundry if you can afford it.

Take medication before it’s seems necessary

This doesn’t mean drug yourself but already vitamins boosters tablets and so on are recommend.

Getting back to to Our popular qoute eat your food like medicine or you will end up eating your medicine like food , personally I don’t enjoy eating things like garlic and lemon that’s is being recommended but if that’s what’s its takes to prevent in advance than its a best call cause any medical inconvenience cause a serious distress.

The obvious keep away from crowded places

This may mean waiting for a month end craziness settle down. Or do your grossing earlier or use internet shopping and get things delivered on your doorstep.

Follow the laws in place putted by your government and professional doctors and stop sharing cigar and unnecessary hangouts.

Embrace technology and use it for good not just social media ,use your zoom and skype to conference and keep the work going increase your chances of being indoors until there’s is a cure or a proven system to get covid out of a person system and live normally again.

But even when that’s day come you should be able to live virus free by keeping the above good habits.

Don’t physically contact other people and keep a distance if you don’t have mask on

Kissing and hugging as well as shaking hand are already old way of showing love so don’t be stubborn and act foolish like anyone else.

You know at first I didn’t take this virus serious up until people I respect got affected business wise ,for starters I didn’t watch tv since 2018 January but lately I had to watch president speak cause his restrictions affected me in many ways.

But what’s I got clearly eirlier on was the fact that’s its all on me ,if I continue the old way I will get burnt so do you ,keep social distancing and conspiracy or not we will all be fools so don’t try to be a special case and think this doesn’t exist because you haven’t see live in action.

It’s time to enjoys and disable tension within your valuable relationships

This may look out of the subject but by seeing this chance as a way to bond with your family you will come out strong than trying to run away from them cause you are not use to be with them since job takes all your time.

Working from home has obviously shown another side of life that’s you were oblivious from or having your patner layed of make it seems like he/she wants your love more or they want to take out their stress on you.

But if you can look at it positively and enjoy the moment that’s can be quickly taken and give her/ him all the love with the time that’s just presented itself now you will thrive even in the future.


Seeing you housewife how she spends her day shouldn’t get to you cause what’s ever you see ,if she had to follow you at work all day you can be uneasy too so let it be and understand you choose this arrangement long time ago and minor inconveniences should derail both of you.

Well starting this blog ,like any other of my posts I rarely think I can make it to point number five as I almost gave up at 3 ,but I had to be focus and give you the best information I can.. With that’s said follow us as ULwaz No Makhula (LnM) everywhere online and for our local music lovers we have a new song out called #Kushi_Gqom ft Caleb ,Ntomby ,Nancy M and Magibela Produced by eRevo #Spliff_Entertainment

Practice good relationship with other people

With the world moving to automation people with have more time in their hands and the company we keep will matter more than ever, that’s why today we look at ways to practice good relationship with other people. It’s may be a family member a stranger or a colleague what’s ever it is you will learn something here and possibly some of it it’s just reinforcement of what’s you already know.

Do your parts in maintaining the relationship you value

I am a passionate learner and I try paying attention to a lot of things in my life and at the age I’m at I value relationships although its looks like it’s a spare of a moment thing and other people may think I’m on their case, that’s not the case at all I just value them knowing It or not.

I had an honor of buying my grandpa a birthday present this week last year I failed to do that’s because he had a huge party and I realized my gift won’t matter that’s much but this year no one was paying attention and me myself I pay attention to the fact that he values his birthday when he turned 69 years old and told me no one remembered his birthday and I felt bad and made a commitment to do something in his birthday since he is the elder male in the family and I’m lucky to be close to him since he became so successful in his lifetime.

This story is to make a point that’s the relationships you cultivates grows and fraction is bound to happen but how you come back from that’s makes the whole difference, this also means when you in an argument with an important person in your life or anyone for that’s matter you should think through your words carefully because they may last longer than your sorry.

My goal with this blogs is simple to have likeminded people following me and helping one another go through life with awareness and don’t be sidelined by our work and daily choirs ,blogs are small and straight to the point which makes it a great way to learn.

Avoid having people you bully

Although nature didn’t create us equally and we different in many ways from gender to age , geographical location and mental states its important that’s no one gets bullied as we grow we will lose people but our bad actions shouldn’t be the cause and the main problem you will do this in front of people that’s matter to you and they will change the view of you.

This point will tied close to your own people’s skills ,personally I consider myself bad with the opposite gender thus although I’m looking for a way to improve but I still try not to push it ,Those kind of relations I build them from the foundation of chemistry and if there’s none then I don’t approach that’s party. On the other hand if it’s strictly business or work I’m good working with them if it’s a working environment situation but on my own businesses I still find it hard to collaborate with them.

Last week since I’m involved in a music industry as a producer and an artist I needed a lady to do a photo shoot with and manage to get two unlucky I needed one so I had to stop the other lady.

 The lady took long to confirm and understandably I was just a stranger referred by a friend but it’s took some days to get an answer but that wasn’t the main issue, what’s happened next is, the lady that’s confirmed cancelled on me so I had to go back to the one I stopped two of them friends and to my surprise they rejected me and made a unrelated reason for not helping me.

They said you rejected us while you were the one needing people and they continue saying the world doesn’t revolves around us as artists, I was supposed to be considerate and think of them as their students they have classes so it a no.

 I thanked them and postponed the shoot and the issue here is that’s they might have had a point but they said more than necessary and if you disagree please comment below. So this another form of bullying we get from our fellow human beings and I have been on the watch on such behavior and my music company doesn’t have female artists and luckily no one has ever want to and I’m not looking.

Know your weakness when it’s comes to relations

The above is a conscious awareness of me and limitations, for 50 cent is his family he’s good at almost everything he does but terrible with keeping it’s cool with his family by certain extent and he’s aware and working on it. What about you maybe we men come across too violent or you find it hard to influence other people near you thus failing to build mutual respect with other people.

There is the book I’m reading crucial conversation is a perfect book you need to conquer your weaknesses, be alert to what’s beliefs your surroundings had installed in you to hate certain people in my culture is a normal thing for mother’s to fight the battles of their exes with a kid and the kid end up hating father maybe the father made things worse by pulling back maintenance support to the little child who has nothing to do with your fights.

 At this point I understood that’s as parents we should not prevent children’s from seeing our fights so they will learn from them and make the decision either they adopt the bad behavior or they tell themselves that’s they will never treat their partner like this or on the bright side if you start thinking of dodging the kids to the bedroom conclude not having this fight at all.

 I’m writing from other people’s experiences because I’m not yet married or anything like that’s but I have been once in a room with parents fighting and my kid shouldn’t go through the fear I did when that’s happens.

Be honest and tell the truth all the time and face the consequences

Truth always has consequences and for me it’s the route I had always took and repercussion dealt with ,It not an easy thing and you have to endure a lot of stress towards revealing a truth of what’s might happen. Face to face with other people around is a better place because is closing behind closed doors the reaction may be uncontrollable.

This apply to your work in Toyota they encourage a worker coming forward after doing a defect in a car in an assembly line other than hiding a defect with a potentially of killing the whole family on the freeway.

 Ever since I have started businesses none have had success that’s I can say this was a milestone reached it’s a lost after another although something I can live with but the regret of not trying would be much worse in my later life and this blog is a product of starting something and keep pushing and be true to myself that’s I don’t know when I will succeed here.

Have a heart ,know what’s the world needs to know and what’s not about your life for example you wouldn’t tell the world that’s you have a bad habit of masturbating if you did there must be a huge chance you don’t take yourself seriously and no one will ever do. I know my example is not a comfortable one but my point will also be family matters and dark side of it should be kept a family matters not face book.

Raise your standards and show how you want to be treated

When people attack you try to keep a low profile and don’t rise to their anger and that’s on its own will make them realize you don’t entertain noise you just want solutions and understanding.

 The standards reflects of the quality friends you keep and family treats you the way you present your goals and beliefs personally I don’t believe in what’s my elders believe in and thus they know how to treat me in certain situations. Respect is important and really thinks of other people when you go through certain big decisions because it will affect them one way or another.

You may drink but if you act like a drunk you will be treated as such, you may be a church goer but be sidelined by your bad deeds trust me the bad deeds will out shine your church going habits. Life is not black and white and I’m not saying I’m 100% right in all the bold statements I make but if you want to make good relationships you must be a reflection of what you is want. If you found some valuable insight on today’s piece let us know ,thanks for taking the time and drop your own advice if you are a blogger below on the comments and tell me how can I improve my weaknesses that’s that’s I mentioned above. This is LnM (ULwaz No Makhula) on all social media.

breakthroughs I had reading books

I always refer to books and encourage taking a look into them but you might wonder why haven’t I share anything that’s I read. Well my concern is giving you my wrong interpretation of the original author meaning but today is a risk worth taking because after this you are responsible to confirm my understanding.

Books may say one thing but to us come as something totally different and sometimes we miss the whole point of the writer and we focus on money making books only or novels that’s becomes a form of entertainment ,today we not going to go much into fiction and novels but business books and life books with personal development.
I want to make this point clear the goal in reading a book is not to pass or fail like school or know everything in it but one breakthroughs is enough ,one idea or insight
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  • From how to invest in real estate by Brandon tenor

This book is supposed to be focused on acquiring houses and all different types of real estates although they end up doing that’s but my breakthroughs came from the behavior lessons they teach first and good financial habits to become a great investor.

My first realisation was 80% percent of your income goes to 20% of expenses every month you need to figure what’s those is and try to consciously direct your funds ,cause at this moment they control you and you cannot take a bank loan without first learning to think critically and logical about your money rather than only relying on your feelings and social pressures.

We all know this is a pareto principle that’s was found by George Pareto in 1952 which states 80% of our efforts lead to 20% of our results and 20% of our efforts leads to 80% of our results the only thing we need to figure out is which 20% is more effective.

This application to all life happenings ,but what’s I found intriguing here was that’s I already knew about the principle but because the examples weren’t made about money I didn’t connect the dots up until this book did.

From crucial conversation*

This is a great book im still reading it too many lessons im going to get , already took something. This book is a research of years which has some human behaviour in it and encourage the necessary skills that’s builds emotional intelligence ,about 3 authors turned consultants wrote this one.

What’s I got we as people when we are in serious conversations with important people in our lives may be boss ,spouse ,parents and so on we tend to be in two modes of trying to solve the differences fight or flight mode ,winning or losing ,making him look bad and cover my ego and so on.

The authors state before talking back out of anger first ask yourself 3 questions 1. What’s do you want 2. What’s my motives especially that’s drives my blood to rush in the first place & 3. Can’t I have the same out come or third solution without making a noise out of ut.

They argue that’s there’s always a third option that’s we are blind to because our emotions and inability to think through our responses blinds us. Mastering this skills is a choice between having a successful meeting and be the only one standing up for the group and not annoy the boss in the process ,is putting in law’s in their place the moment you get merried and still retain their love for your new family. There’s a lot in this book and already something keeps sleeping through my mind.

The cash flow quadrant by Robert Kiyosaki and rich dad team

We all should know Robert Kiyosaki while taking his lessons with a grain of salt he’s all over the internet but this book he didn’t write alone there is a professional business people involved even from real estate but as of writing this the points I want to make seems to keep going back and forth.

With that’s said it’s important to take some notes when reading or listening to a book. This one taught me that’s there are 4 type of quadrants in Life ” E-employee ,S-Self-employed ,B-Business , I-Investor” and they all operate differently in life and their thoughts process and their lifestyle differ a lot and they encourage if people want financial freedom they should focus on B & I .

And made point like if you are an employee E ,you can finance a house for 15-30 years and call it an asset but what’s you don’t know is that’s it’s whose asset yours or a bank ,you got it right a bank because it’s pays the bank money from your salary every month and to you it’s a liability because it’s takes your money.

While if you are in B can make a profit from other people’s efforts from the system you have set up to buy a house in cash while it’s didn’t come as your burden .

You have to read this book because it’s easy to understand while the title make it look like a tough business book ,they touch on taxis as well that’s B- business pay less taxes because of their financial savvy and can always use the money that’s supposed to go to taxes to grow their businesses while S-self employed pay higher taxes then anyone because they don’t create jobs like B and make huge difference in a community and E pays taxes even before they recieve their paychecks from their bosses so already they don’t have control of their finances and lastly I -investing makes money with money and other finance vehicles like stocks ,real estate and mutual funds this one can pay less tax because other investments has high risks and high returns and there are average investors and sophisticated ones like mr Warren Buffet you should also beware of ponzi schemes and get rich quick in I ,.

Unscripted and Fastlane millionaire by Mj Demarco

This are 2 books by the same author you can skip millionaire fastlane if you are in a rush to riches and need tools now because unscripted touches most important aspect of millionaire fastlane.

MJ found his major success in tech space after being in real estate and firstly being a limousine driver here he ended up being a computer programmer making a program that’s made 100 thousands every month till its evaluation lead to millions of acquisitions and made MJ a multimillion and he retired at 30.

The first thing I like about Mj view of the world is unlike most people and the accepted beliefs in our society today he crushes them and from psychological perspective he tries to frees our minds for believing man made dogmas that’s ends up having our lives set up in a certain way.

Like monday to Friday and chill on the weekend for him everyday is the same no boring lazy monday and a crazy weekend ,all is in his control and balance hence he encourage like cashflow quadrant creating system that’s frees our time to do what’s ever we want and when ever we want and not having a boss telling us what’s to wear or which time to go.

In order to achieve this self discipline is vital ,understand the industry you want to generate income from its must have this 4 qualities ,1. Entry barrier – it’s should be a hard market to get into thus less unnecessary competition and wanna bees. 2. Control – if your business run through Facebook for example you are in risk of being out of business if facebook changes it’s algorithms ,that’s why Mj has his own website with like minded people and traffic that’s make him money. 3. Time – What’s you do you should do it once and be able to leave it and maintain it without it requires you to be there everytime ,internet based businesses most are like this now uber and more you buy a car someone else drives it and gives you money.

He hates the businesses that’s rely on too much people because of HR involvement and people have a way of making things complicated but yet encourage business a also a great tool to financial freedom. And Forth is Scale – What’s you set up should be able to scale and make millions because it’s reach millions or it should have a magnitude one sale can be a million e.g royce royce or Ferrari etc.

This is MJ last stand to the worlds ignorance of money because he say a person seeking a financial freedom needs to first have a

difference beliefs about money , and see money as equivalent of value he produces and provides and encourage people to be producers rather than consumers more. This is amazing books the value in them cannot be matched I will really recommend you take the time to read them.

Lastly I want to recommend different books for different reasons

I have a lot of books that’s im reading and have read and I feel like not doing justice if I list the last one rather I will give you names and titles :*Sa tue- The art of War this book taught me that’s ,if you say you going to do something do it or people won’t respect you and you will loose credibility and seem weak

* 48 Laws of power by Robert Green , I read this book as audio book and one of my earliest books it’s easy to understand but at the time I couldn’t apply it to my life but today its a different story.

*25 Laws of doing the impossible by Patrick Bed David ,I saw this guy on YouTube having a valuetainment channel and kept following him until he recommend his book since he was teaching about entrepreneurship he is such an inspiration and he made me see life and business differently.

* DR money guide by Dave Ramsey this book taught me a lot of things about money budgeting ,babysteps saving and most importantly negotiations and my mindset about failure and money.

* African Midwives I forgot the author is the first book In my life in 2017-18 this book literary changed my life and open up me to the world of reading ,its author is a mother it’s taught me more about life and helped me to be able to understand people and be open to then not judge them before I know them , also taught me to know the god role in my life I have been always been a religious person but because that’s what’s we did at home other than that’s I was still a normal person than this book tolds me let’s go and let god.


*How to win friends and influence people by Dell Carnegie ,I have never read a book twice but I owe it to this one its not a manipulative book its a skill everyone should have in order to live with other people productive and effective.

*Think and grow rich by Napoleon Hill this is a famous book it’s too big but I read it in my eary days and its was so fascinating , the thought are what’s make us or break us .

*Rich Dad poor dad by Robert kiyosaki * I read it earlier too and everyone has to its a no brainer the book is famous for a reason. *How to win in a sport of business Mark cuban it’s self explanatory but this billionaire is not doing numbers here he simply tells us how he made it starting from bottom up without loans and stuff , he says you only have to be right once to win big so failure is a normal thing here.

*Hustle Hard hustle smart by 50 cent this one showed me a lot of common things we have challenges with as people like our families are so close to our hearts they can be our downfall as well. *Elon must biography by Ashely vans , the inventor and business man elon must of this era who is still making big things taking us to space and building nice cars a must read.

*Ford biography , Hendry Ford whose a founder of a ford motor company worth millions to day ,his story is word listening to or reading. *Man search for a meaning by Dr Franklin , who was in 3 concentration camps and suffer the nazi oppression during the wars back theb a must read or listening he argues there’s always a meaning behind things that’s happens in our lives good or bad.

*Sepians by Yuvol noah harari , this is history of mankind where we come from till today how we have evolved and build this kind of society we are living in today , I haven’t read a book called homo dues which the author is said to be talking about the future ,a both must read in your lifetime.


*Negotiations without splitting a difference by Chris Voss ,best book on negotiations from a FBI hostage negotiator fun to read and quite humorous.

*Influence the psychology by Rorbet * I might not remember author surname but online you will find this book and others , this one touches our humanly born with triggers in our systems brains to comply and give in or not give in to situation ,reading this book will save you from a lot of psychological trick that’s can be played at you, from buying things you don’t like or need to not being easily manipulated .

The list is endless but im sure I have gave you the great start this mixture will do you good in your life , Novels I will recommend in their own blogs and possibly tv series that’s are educational Thanks for taking the time and reading such a long blog. LnM (ULwaz No Makhula) follow us every where .

Who is more valuable family or friends?

This might look like a question but most people fail to make this distinction in their lives that’s why we are showing the crucial differences today and how we have found to work best when making life decisions that’s involves this people in our lives.

God has bless me with both friend and family also have friends that’s doesn’t come close to my best friend who has become my adopted brother who we run this blog with. So let’s see if there are no lessons to be taken on this subject.

There are 3 type of friends , Friends for (Reason ,Season and for a Life)

This is self explanatory but as we know the elaboration open our 6th sense and we then connect the dots better. So comparing friends with family is a huge understatement we tend to value the blood thicker than water myth ,yet is true and we don’t choose our families while we choose friends.

The question is in this 3 type of friends which one is yours? If it’s for a reason get that’s over with and move on with your life and don’t hold on too much to that’s friend because what’s ever reason you are together will end someday.

The friend of a season can be good and bad if they love you if you are rich then run when you struggle then that’s a seasonal friend , others love you when you are poor like them when you better yourself they leave you.

And more type of friends so choose wisely for me a friend should always be there in good and bad ,rich and poor ,your family and his can also be close because of what’s you have .

Family over everything

I tend to agree with this one from the get go why because family can be your downfall in life or uplift so having them in their place can do you good.

The best think to realise is there are two type of family ,present one and future one if you still live with your mother and father sister brother and grandma then that’s your present family.

But if you are married and you have your own wife or husband and your kids then that’s future family ,what’s ever culture you build within this family will determine the better life experience you will have or life of grudges and hate you will have to endure .

Either way you can consider your family opinions in your life journey but it’s not family over everything ,but because they love you and emotionally attached they can be a great sheild from harm and hardship but some of that’s is necessary for you to build a thick skin for you ,in business and life in general.

People outside your immediate family have unbiased opinion and life lessons that’s can change your life for the better ,so question everything and every norm and old myths that’s blocks your path. Leaving your family is the first thing to test you and help you navigate life.

How many friends should a person have

This shouldn’t be a thing , why because nobody can keep up with a lot of friends let alone one with our busy morden lives but let’s say you have 10 friends which one is more valuable than other?.

For us friendship is like love relationship you need one or two more than that’s it’s all crumble down , for example one of your friends see you as a best friend while you see him or her as a regular friend ,then friction will start showing.

The best thing is to have equal friends and then one best friend because commitments comes with accountability and responsibilities. Facebook friends are not your friend are people you may know , same as Twitter and so on.

The more you build superficial freindships with no substance the more chances you will be used by other people and leave you holding the empty bag , build networks instead, business net ,social community net , book club net and so on positive stuff and please don’t hang with criminals and losse girls because that’s what’s yourl become.

You are the average of five people you spend your time with

Would you choose to spend time with 4 millionaires and you being the fifth or spend time with your 4 kids and you being the fifth.

Although this saying on my title can be contradictory its point is the more time with certain people you get to have their traits and habits as well as their beliefs.

With that’s said having a blog like this as a friend could be a huge leap forward into a cycle of your surroundings ,because you don’t necessary need physical friends to create a psychological cycle that’s with be the average of your thoughts we can be your mentor from far.

Now one friend add to your averages ,then your closest family members second and third your online mentors and positive vibes forth being your love partner and lastly its you and your decisions.

To summarize all this you are your worse enemy what’s ever you decide to take out of this blog is on you to implement it.

People treat you the way you treat yourself and them

See if you show people by action that’s you can be trusted and you keep your word people will reciprocate that’s.

Be a cruk , manipulate lie and cheat chances are karma will play it role so to have a family liveable with you need to be a brother ,mother ,father and kid that’s listen and put himself in other people’s shoes have humility and audacity when putting a point across like acting what’s you preach.

Same to maintaining a friendship for us ,you should be in business with your friend so the money you will make you can enjoy better together lol ,on a serious note you learn your friend best when you see his life skills and how he put out fires and that’s happens well in hustle.

I hope you found me friendly today fam , my goal is to turn this posts to a YouTube voice over videos and if you can pull that’s off 0840196532 whatsapp me.

And later on in life turn it into a book if you can get my right to collect all the posts ever made to chapters and adit it for a better good read . LnM (ULwaz No Makhula) that’s where you like us and follow this blog to get more interesting content #Spliff_Entertainment

How do you go through the middle of the month

I would like to apologize to you who have subscribe and follow this blog called LnM. To be honest I have been lazy lately to write but on other hand I have been dealing with a stress of a middle of a month and acquisitions of a new old house as a real estate for me.

Back to the question of the day ,how do we spend the day’s within the month before we receive our salaries ,pensions , dividends ,profits and more that’s got us going for few days and back to daily doze of dread.

Im at work
Most people are at their jobs ,and thus miss huge chuck of other reality of their lives not saying working is bad actually is a must when you ask me.

Other run their businesses while others are self employed while others earn passive income with less work.

I know most people will they at the latter ,but I assure you as of now you not doing anything that’s you don’t want to do the only challenge you might be having is channelling you money to things that’s will relief you from depending on a job only.

You wake up everyday and do repetitive tasks ,you have studied and mastered your craft but the routine is killing your soul and you are seeking meaning in your life.

I want you to calm down you not alone in this purpose venture ,even the people who are seem to have their life planned out and fun we all find ourselves questioning our existence in this blog we encourage self learning reading books ,try something by Dr Franklin Man search for meaning and really see how fortunate you are to be in the position you are.

I sit around and do nothing
Nothing might be daily choirs in the house then later cook for a family ,for me that’s not nothing remember the housewives that’s all they do after taking care of kids who are at school.

But we are in a Morden age and everyone is aspiring for high paying job or a career of some sort or running their own businesses. I will ask you the question that’s should set a stand for this point “WHATS STOPPING YOU”?

Today I had a realisation that’s I let’s one of my goal sleep this year because I got scared but I really crushed the other by simply believing and by law of attraction.

Use law of attraction and pay attention when nature plays it part e.g say you want a car and all of a sudden without realizing it you get a promotion at work , the mistake you can make is starting by renovating your house or get married and don’t do what’s attracted the promotion in the first place.

Than doing nothing take pen and paper and write down your goals ,for me this year maybe it’s a coincidence but I did write my goals and kept checking them and updating them and saw some results that’s amazed me ,

the point with all this is you don’t need a job to start writing your smart goals and you rarely need money once you have money those are no longer goals are plans.
I hang with friends and gossip and smoke blunt all days.

This goes to young one’s I had to assume that’s you talk politics and pop culture that’s isn’t serving you in any way just pure waste of time. It’s lockdown and you’ve been layed off a bit and they gonna rehire you soon.

Clearly it’s a wake up call I know you’ve been dreaming of having some free time here you go what’s you doing now? I know ,I know you have ran out of funds but that’s not the case here .

The above choices are simply not worth it in a long run act like an adult and behave like there are kids relying on you for their well being ,start that’s now because the future will be exactly like that’s why don’t you get used to it?.

In the future I know I won’t be working for the sake of working I’ll be simply taking care of people and getting paid for that’s and im trying my best to learn them now and try different tactics to persuade them and get to benefit from our relationship ,win win situation not selfishness.

I remember people I use to spend time with had so much influence on me even though I was doing better than them in some aspect of life ,it was easy for me to take their advice and later regretted cause deep down I knew what’s I was supposed to do.

Im still good friends with some of this people but I have find a way to spend less time with them and my new friends are on internet on YouTube and Pdf books audio books and tv shows like shark tank take notes and look for the right people to follow and learn to better your life.

I day dream , play music and watch series

I am a fan of tv series ,I love them but luckily I have better recommendations than the most who watch the most trending one’s but less educational.

You see the channel I started watching called Alux on YouTube first said successful people don’t watch tv and later contradict themselves and suggested powerful one’s with life and money lessons which other people find boring and to be honest I had a hard time at the beginning as well but like a book reader it’s start hard and get easier the more you read .

Music can be bad when it’s come to time wasting ,I am a music producer and I go for months without listening to music because I get hooked really quick since I understand the dynamic of it.

I find a dope song and jam with it over and over and that’s important time wasted without bettering myself , don’t get me wrong it’s not all bad if you feel good sometimes blaze it and jam and enjoy the moment but don’t make it a strategic for your life .

Day dreamers ,im a wonder too that’s the only way I get breakthroughs in my life ,what has your day dreaming lead you?

The kinda day dream that’s doesn’t work is the one that is not calculated this week my other relative came and told me if he could have a million he can do so and so ,now you don’t want to think like that’s in your mind you show that’s you don’t have any idea how you can acquire such money.

You also show that’s you overvalue such money than what’s it can accomplish , I have never had 1000 000 but I once had 300 000 and seeing what’s that’s kind of money can do I manage to connect the dots leading to a million.

Others claim to have made such money in their lifetime but yet their not different from me and you ,why because they see it as fine art everytime they earn it monthly they don’t know it’s potential to set them free even from work they endure.

Let’s me close today’s article I hope you learnt something or too and I might sound like a stuck record tape saying common things over and over ,so I suggest you go back to other articles below and learn more .

This is LnM (ULwaz No Makhula) #Kush_igqom #Caleb #Magibela #NancyM #Ntomby #Learn #Grow

Naivety is a real challenge to beginner entrepreneur

Don’t we all start somewhere ? That’s why we must check our limitations and work with or against them

LnM

 Having no mentor and really trying to make my business work. 1st thing you can never master easy is people, people are unpredictable and those people involve scammers, fake vendors and bad customers. We going to talk about things that’s will really give a young business person a problem starting out ,but I’m not saying give up remember we talked about anticipation ,that’s what I want you to do expect the unexpected.

Not mastering your number and winging it

This has hurt me so badly even now as we speak, I built rental rooms from the scratch just because I saw I have money decided to go to a hardware and get building material and buy a site. While first I was supposed to do my numbers well and plan accordingly but I was so aggressive and with that’s force I manage to overcome all the…

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It’s ok to be confused

This one didn’t get too much attention but it has a like or so ,reblogging is a must don’t sleep on improving yourself

LnM

Pay attention is the two words I use the most here, I have found myself lost and don’t know which direction I should take in life. We hope by reading this you might have had this experience the key is notifying it. For us it happens when we about to get money, when we have to choose tasks and so on and even choosing the right path in life. Before I waste my points on the intro let’s get down to it.

Being confused is natural state of being

Other people can read you when you are struggling with something especially family members your mom or your spouse. Confusion is really important because the moment they see this they try to find a way to help you, it’s may appear like a stress sometimes but that’s not always the case.

Sometimes you may be talking to someone or trying to…

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Never take your 9-5 job for granted

Today is all about reflection and you cannot go wrong updating your online information and going with time ,yesterday fictions become facts but truths remain truths from day one. With this message don’t spend too much time on fictions your mind cannot differentiate

LnM

In a self help society we living in, there is a huge resentment in jobs and people preaching self employment and being your own boss. But today I want to share a light of this trap, unless you work towards something bigger than where you are then you shouldn’t not hate your job, even if you have big dreams job will help you achieve them quicker and keep a bit of security. I want to add don’t let your consumerism habit keep you in a job that’s you hate not because you need it, but because you want to pay for your lifestyle not necessitates. 

  1. The easy way to get a better job is to have a job in a first place

This job will offer you experience and skill and some sort of mastery on what’s you will be doing everyday. and Taking that’s lightly and be deceived…

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Why do we hide our realities and fake life on social media?

We are the product of our minds ,think right and have a better life consume the right content and keep growing the personal development industry is the only industry that’s contradicts itself. Pay attention to truth a what’s you are being sold either way the information is always good. Its better to learn then enjoy temporal episodes on tv that’s won’t impact your life in any way

LnM

We think we are brands Actually we are not at least not most of us. We are living in a society that’s promote the personal brand which contradicts with who we really are. You see if you can base your so called brand into your actual living than that will be ok.

But if you have to put some ad on to fool strangers online then you are doing yourself a disservice cause you self sabotaging yourself claiming to be something you are not and that’s will take a toll on you ,the stress you will have will be linked to this fake life of yours . While you will be making money in real life hard work where you will drag mornings and complicated work politics .

You won’t see its not worth it to take that’s money and buy fancy phone and clothes to have more followers on…

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