How to protect yourself from bad habits

This advice is not something you don’t know I’m here to reinforce it. I have realize I no longer post as often since I started writing during the lockdown where I had all the time in the world so if you are seeing this from your email you are the reason I’m writing. You believed in my ideas and this habit of writing was one of the strategies to help myself avoid void and end up doing bad habits.

Do something if you have free time
I use to think my job was important but not worth it but up until I lost it and realized it better to work than not. Free time and having nothing to do on a day may lead you to doing negative things that’s doesn’t show itself as negative.

Here is a example the lunch at work is 30 minutes and you finish eating at 45 now the next 15 minutes either goes to ill debates or smoking.

Ever notice at work there is no much motivation around what’s ya’ll doing only paycheck is; imagine talking about your goals during lunch or how your work has changed your life?

That’s worth doing during your free time than gossiping or talking about TV series. The above statement is an example of small batch of free time, what’s about those who doesn’t work at all? For those who I happen to be one of them as of writing this blog what can you do to avoid doing ill?

Disclaimer I may be a little privilege and have a source of income every month on passive income ,passive income means after I receive the money I have nothing much to do which lead me to having this free time.

Now getting back to the point ,the something you can constantly doing is applying and looking for a job or trying different businesses like selling something on the street for starters while having a bigger picture on how you can spend your time.

Depending on where you live there are hard physical jobs and other handyman jobs you can take rather than sitting on a tuck shop and watch the sun take time from you.

Build habits that’s will propel you forward invest your time wisely and take your time choosing the right vehicles don’t be drifted by air and join and schemes that’s won’t last.

Listen to educational content and stay away from television
Your breakthrough in life will come from something you heard or saw and if you get your inspiration from television I doubt there’s something there for you to get you out of your predicament situation.

When you start the personal development route you will learn life contradictions and more and how hooked you may be, I think that’s where you will need to control your intake of this information with a grain of salt.
This might not resonate to you but keep reading as I have a great point at number 4. The summary of this second point is do the boring worth a while things rather than temporally entertaining things that’s won’t matter in your future.

Read books hard as it is but it’s doable on other hand hit a gym and try balancing these things.

When socializing be conscious on what’s you are talking about when you are talking to people and clearly distance yourself from friends that’s lead you to bad habits like drinking and maybe chase girls and unproductive debates about government and celebrities.

Help people
This is my strategy but I’m conscious on who imp helping but I suggest to you do this in real life not on social media that’s way it will be effective.

So last year when I reached what’s its seems to be my rock bottom ,I started helping my rich grandfather who doesn’t stay with me with one of his businesses without expecting anything on the other hand my aunt was building her house close by and I was the obvious choice for helping.

And last month my grandpa borrowed me 40k to get back in business and also my aunt trust me with her finances thus I can use that’s money and replace it every time.

You may not see who you can help but trust me there is a person who need something to get done, all you have to be is be trustworthy and be efficient and always speak the truth in good and bad times.

This may look like motivation and so on but it’s apply in every aspect of a person’s who value success.

I also know there are times where a person who is in great position and make business deals and have to give municipality side drink money, that’s not the case here that’s the corruption on the politicians end and business people are forced to align with this act, I’m sure there are bad business people as well but you don’t want to begin your journey of having a habit of paying bribes to get things done.

What’s causes bad habit
We cannot protect ourselves from something we don’t know how we find ourselves in. Although I said bad habit in the sub-title but I mean any habit for that’s matter but we are trying to fight the bad ones here.

Reading the atomic habit book they say habits are cause by certain cues meaning we do this which lead us to doing the next thing.

You went to buy bread in the morning and remember you have to buy cigarette as well.

The other way is the environment I am an example every time when I’m in my bedroom I crave pop corn because I associate it with the computer screen and anything I think of watching.

And to fight this negative habit’s we must remove the things that’s cause the cues ,like changing a shop and be vigilant most of all of this remove TV or the type of content that’s cause me to want pop corn.
With time on your hand find other tasks to do instead of those causing you to do the bad deeds.

Maybe you have a habit of cheating to your partner and it not something you have got grip off .You may need to work towards solving that’s bad habit like putting your babe on the profile display when you try to take the number of a side chick and you will remember the oath you did to yourself of not cheating.

Bad habit of forgetting people’s names, simply repeat it in your mind the moment they tell you rather miss few lines of what’s they say and ask them again then forgetting their names.

See your life meaningful
Maybe your life is straight forward and that’s not such a bad thing, but since you have people you admire in life the question is why can’t you be the one admired by others as well?

The meaning can be simply having talented kids who sees you as their manager or investor or try to partner with youth who are doing what’s you wished you have become and become a motivator and patch in the back for them and when they realize their goals you will be a important person in their lives and a role model to any one in that’s niche.

This point is simply to say find meaning of your existence other’s say a purpose ,and your life will be aligned and the bad habits will run away e.g. you are a soccer coach and you say no smoking in your team that’s obviously stop you from doing it as well.

You start a business and don’t think a business as a traditional thing of opening a stand outside and wait for people to come and buy, learn the internet and open a website thus your mind will be open to more things.

But if you will do it in the physical world the habit of sleeping in and opening your shop late may take you out before you even begun those bad habits are bad in business and at work.

Prove a point in a positive way, tell your friends you won’t get absent this year and bat on it or you won’t be late. This bat will motivate you and have you never snoozing your watch.

Without mentioning social media and internet habits I would haven’t be relevant so becareful on how much time you spent there because real life will be waiting for you ,check the cues that’s lead you to picking up a phone and dodge your work and put your livelihood in line.

Before I lost my job I wasdon’t already threatened by my boss that’s if I don’t stop using a phone im gone ,it’s was very hard stopping but I had to don’t find yourself in that’s terrible situation.

Thank you if you have read this far and you see other subject below don’t hesitate this information is worth binging. LnM (ULwaz No Makhula) follow us everywhere. I hope I will stop my bad habit of not writing more often.

How to decrease chances of catching Corona Virus

Welcome to another piece of the most popular subject of the moment Covid19. Disclaimer this is not a professional advice it’s a survival skill from an ordinary person for more in depth advice contact a doctor or a proven facts on the web. Here is a discipline and a new habit you need to cultivate to not be caught by this virus

Be paranoid and don’t mind looking stupid

You life is at stake you need to do what’s ever in order to survive until this hell hole we find in pass or can be contained.

Wear masks and face shield ,have your own little sanitizer for on the go situations especially if you like me and about to get to a work place where there has been numerous cases of this pandemic ,gloves should be your friend as well as your overall hygiene.

Wash regularly your clothes & hands even have a uniform remaining at work don’t take it home with you and maybe you can consider using a laundry if you can afford it.

Take medication before it’s seems necessary

This doesn’t mean drug yourself but already vitamins boosters tablets and so on are recommend.

Getting back to to Our popular qoute eat your food like medicine or you will end up eating your medicine like food , personally I don’t enjoy eating things like garlic and lemon that’s is being recommended but if that’s what’s its takes to prevent in advance than its a best call cause any medical inconvenience cause a serious distress.

The obvious keep away from crowded places

This may mean waiting for a month end craziness settle down. Or do your grossing earlier or use internet shopping and get things delivered on your doorstep.

Follow the laws in place putted by your government and professional doctors and stop sharing cigar and unnecessary hangouts.

Embrace technology and use it for good not just social media ,use your zoom and skype to conference and keep the work going increase your chances of being indoors until there’s is a cure or a proven system to get covid out of a person system and live normally again.

But even when that’s day come you should be able to live virus free by keeping the above good habits.

Don’t physically contact other people and keep a distance if you don’t have mask on

Kissing and hugging as well as shaking hand are already old way of showing love so don’t be stubborn and act foolish like anyone else.

You know at first I didn’t take this virus serious up until people I respect got affected business wise ,for starters I didn’t watch tv since 2018 January but lately I had to watch president speak cause his restrictions affected me in many ways.

But what’s I got clearly eirlier on was the fact that’s its all on me ,if I continue the old way I will get burnt so do you ,keep social distancing and conspiracy or not we will all be fools so don’t try to be a special case and think this doesn’t exist because you haven’t see live in action.

It’s time to enjoys and disable tension within your valuable relationships

This may look out of the subject but by seeing this chance as a way to bond with your family you will come out strong than trying to run away from them cause you are not use to be with them since job takes all your time.

Working from home has obviously shown another side of life that’s you were oblivious from or having your patner layed of make it seems like he/she wants your love more or they want to take out their stress on you.

But if you can look at it positively and enjoy the moment that’s can be quickly taken and give her/ him all the love with the time that’s just presented itself now you will thrive even in the future.


Seeing you housewife how she spends her day shouldn’t get to you cause what’s ever you see ,if she had to follow you at work all day you can be uneasy too so let it be and understand you choose this arrangement long time ago and minor inconveniences should derail both of you.

Well starting this blog ,like any other of my posts I rarely think I can make it to point number five as I almost gave up at 3 ,but I had to be focus and give you the best information I can.. With that’s said follow us as ULwaz No Makhula (LnM) everywhere online and for our local music lovers we have a new song out called #Kushi_Gqom ft Caleb ,Ntomby ,Nancy M and Magibela Produced by eRevo #Spliff_Entertainment

Who is more valuable family or friends?

This might look like a question but most people fail to make this distinction in their lives that’s why we are showing the crucial differences today and how we have found to work best when making life decisions that’s involves this people in our lives.

God has bless me with both friend and family also have friends that’s doesn’t come close to my best friend who has become my adopted brother who we run this blog with. So let’s see if there are no lessons to be taken on this subject.

There are 3 type of friends , Friends for (Reason ,Season and for a Life)

This is self explanatory but as we know the elaboration open our 6th sense and we then connect the dots better. So comparing friends with family is a huge understatement we tend to value the blood thicker than water myth ,yet is true and we don’t choose our families while we choose friends.

The question is in this 3 type of friends which one is yours? If it’s for a reason get that’s over with and move on with your life and don’t hold on too much to that’s friend because what’s ever reason you are together will end someday.

The friend of a season can be good and bad if they love you if you are rich then run when you struggle then that’s a seasonal friend , others love you when you are poor like them when you better yourself they leave you.

And more type of friends so choose wisely for me a friend should always be there in good and bad ,rich and poor ,your family and his can also be close because of what’s you have .

Family over everything

I tend to agree with this one from the get go why because family can be your downfall in life or uplift so having them in their place can do you good.

The best think to realise is there are two type of family ,present one and future one if you still live with your mother and father sister brother and grandma then that’s your present family.

But if you are married and you have your own wife or husband and your kids then that’s future family ,what’s ever culture you build within this family will determine the better life experience you will have or life of grudges and hate you will have to endure .

Either way you can consider your family opinions in your life journey but it’s not family over everything ,but because they love you and emotionally attached they can be a great sheild from harm and hardship but some of that’s is necessary for you to build a thick skin for you ,in business and life in general.

People outside your immediate family have unbiased opinion and life lessons that’s can change your life for the better ,so question everything and every norm and old myths that’s blocks your path. Leaving your family is the first thing to test you and help you navigate life.

How many friends should a person have

This shouldn’t be a thing , why because nobody can keep up with a lot of friends let alone one with our busy morden lives but let’s say you have 10 friends which one is more valuable than other?.

For us friendship is like love relationship you need one or two more than that’s it’s all crumble down , for example one of your friends see you as a best friend while you see him or her as a regular friend ,then friction will start showing.

The best thing is to have equal friends and then one best friend because commitments comes with accountability and responsibilities. Facebook friends are not your friend are people you may know , same as Twitter and so on.

The more you build superficial freindships with no substance the more chances you will be used by other people and leave you holding the empty bag , build networks instead, business net ,social community net , book club net and so on positive stuff and please don’t hang with criminals and losse girls because that’s what’s yourl become.

You are the average of five people you spend your time with

Would you choose to spend time with 4 millionaires and you being the fifth or spend time with your 4 kids and you being the fifth.

Although this saying on my title can be contradictory its point is the more time with certain people you get to have their traits and habits as well as their beliefs.

With that’s said having a blog like this as a friend could be a huge leap forward into a cycle of your surroundings ,because you don’t necessary need physical friends to create a psychological cycle that’s with be the average of your thoughts we can be your mentor from far.

Now one friend add to your averages ,then your closest family members second and third your online mentors and positive vibes forth being your love partner and lastly its you and your decisions.

To summarize all this you are your worse enemy what’s ever you decide to take out of this blog is on you to implement it.

People treat you the way you treat yourself and them

See if you show people by action that’s you can be trusted and you keep your word people will reciprocate that’s.

Be a cruk , manipulate lie and cheat chances are karma will play it role so to have a family liveable with you need to be a brother ,mother ,father and kid that’s listen and put himself in other people’s shoes have humility and audacity when putting a point across like acting what’s you preach.

Same to maintaining a friendship for us ,you should be in business with your friend so the money you will make you can enjoy better together lol ,on a serious note you learn your friend best when you see his life skills and how he put out fires and that’s happens well in hustle.

I hope you found me friendly today fam , my goal is to turn this posts to a YouTube voice over videos and if you can pull that’s off 0840196532 whatsapp me.

And later on in life turn it into a book if you can get my right to collect all the posts ever made to chapters and adit it for a better good read . LnM (ULwaz No Makhula) that’s where you like us and follow this blog to get more interesting content #Spliff_Entertainment

Life with purpose is worth living

Today I I’m a position in my life, where I don’t have any qualifications that’s could help me get a reasonable paying job thus I’m not excited looking for a job. I did study radio production and finished it but I wasn’t planning to use that’s skill anytime soon, I did apply in the nearest radio station but no feedback and yet I know I will do this job as a hobby one day.

 The only way I have discovered meaning in my life is by continuous learning and self-education, financial education, and discipline and before I woke up I already learned something new but before I go into deep let me put this in point form so it will have a better context.

Have first source of income that’s doesn’t require your time.

Before telling the story above I did got a job as a welder and saved all the money to create one source of income and this doesn’t require great intellect only commitment to see it through.

I have set myself free from financial trap and now I’m busy learning and planning and drafting my future ,although its took me a while to have a written goals that’s I kept going back to but I always have important things in the back of my mind and eventually see them through. It hard to think or learn if your focus is on your 9-5, after it you don’t try to outgrow your yesterday self.

Once money is not your core problem then it’s coming to you every month or day, then you can start and plan your future of cause you can do it after work and sleep a bit late because the bills are already there maybe the child or two as well. What’s I will do on that’s case my kids will have to grow quickly so they can help me build their better future.

Be humble in a pursuit of your life purpose

My grandfather a successful business man is so humble and has humility to put himself in the shoes of the struggling people when he speaks and for that’s I respected him more.

For me I was a bit arrogant seeing my things working out while others were struggling to make ends meet ,but after couple of failures I realized life is unpredictable if I don’t strengthen my weapon (Mind) and mind my own business ,I might end up like people who are struggling and all of my hustle will be history.

I have received a better explanation from YouTube on success TV that’s being successful is not having millions in a bank, although that’s can be important to other people it doesn’t means that’s what important to you as well. If you have passion like music you know your life purpose is around to one day performs for thousands of people and have your song on radio around the world.

If you just got married you also know your next important life purpose is having kids and take care of one another. If you want to have money and experience different kinds of things in life you might want to start a business and endure what’s to come or study to get a lucrative job.

 Here is what’s I have realized if I was not in some place someday and got introduced to a certain thing I will still be alive and oblivious of, but here is another catch there are a lot of things you should treat it that’s way even if they have been presented to you, especially if you have figured out your life purpose you can tell they don’t align then dismiss them.

Everyone knows the world is noisy and Corona made it worse before this pandemic I was oblivious of what’s was happening in the world because it had nothing to do with my long term or short term goals and that’s not being not humble or curious about what’s happening in the world “No” but because I’m still focusing on my money and how to get more of it and I cannot let news’s or daily 30 minutes show distract me. With my leisure time I study learns and listens to productive stuff.

Waking up and happiness will be linked to your life purpose

Other people have got used to waking up early because of the habit their jobs give them although they have to snooze an alarm once or twice, the day you wake up consistently fired up to do something is the days you would’ve realized your life meaning.

This doesn’t mean it won’t get hard but if you can endure hardship on that’s a thing and come to the other side better than you will have a life worth living. You may be a boss of a company that’s won’t mean you will always be nice to your workers, it’s part of your job to be mean and do all the pep talk but apart from that’s you shouldn’t be a hard head outside of that environment.

For example is never a perfect idea to work for your family member because you take discipline talk to heart and you may need special treatment which is not called for, unless he was there in the beginning and you understand one another traits.

It’s take me a serious move for me to loosen up or enjoy a milestone because I have been through so much even in the love department I don’t get too excited too early no one is perfect and small thing usually rub people the wrong way. And sometimes a person get into bed with you for different interior motives and by the time you find that’s you get blown in a heart and loose all the momentum, this applies in business with our partners changing a direction after a year or 5 years after.

In short part of your happiness should rely purely on you not anybody else, not even your child because we may try to saw a good seed to them but we don’t really know how they will turn out.

If the title is good, the content is probably is too

It’s true we judge a book by its cover, and we judge people that’s way too. But I want to add to you reading this, in most cases there are reasons people look the way they do and if you can get to the bottom of that you can find the whole thinking of someone.

This also mean find the person looks, dress and smell good on the outside, what about the place he lives in? Does he or she reads  ,if not where does he get his ideas about life and the most important thing do you want to be acquaintance with this person?

I’m 29 years old now and I don’t feel that’s age and I cannot associate it with my 23 years old me ,except the way my mind has grown from past 3 years I have started investing on myself by learning ,here is where I’m going with this I still have friends I met while I was in high school and they are not growing that much ,some do but the important values I appreciate in a person are not there and we are slowly diverging and I cannot stop this process no matter how much I like them since we are losing common ground hanging out is a bad call and I’m making sure for now I’m not encouraging the connection again since other’s are changing for the worse and they know it.

Contrarily to the subtitle some people work hard on their out appearance than the necessary tools they possess in their heads so be careful, others are fake and sometimes I feel like fact when I’m around big fishes but I know I’m dedicated because if Jim Rohn could come now and ask me to show him my financial goals,I will pass that’s test or ask for my schedule or ask to spend a day with me I will not get a total but I won’t be a total disaster either.

What’s makes your life worth living

I have imposed my beliefs in you and you have bought it into a certain extend and thank I’m honored to influence you where ever you are, would you do me an honor to return a favor. Comment below and let me learn about your philosophies and see if I can’t grow from them.

Right now is the anxiety for me, I really don’t know what’s next I have variables I can control and some I can’t so not knowing what’s next makes my life interesting cause this month I received 40k and a girlfriend last month if I said I knew this things will happen I would have been lying but for this to happen I had to position myself, go out and make small talk and present my case and I don’t do this for a living it’s just what’s happened.

For most people anxiety is a bad thing because they focus more on the negative bad things that’s might happen next ,I challenge you to anticipate that’s less and get on with your business expecting bigger and better returns. Writing this blogs is something I do because I have a lot of time in my hands and that’s really nice,I have things that’s I need to do but they’re not that demanding or actually my responsibility ,I do feel some kind of guilt when I work below my potential but still I will never know my full one I have to start where I am and move up.

The paranoia and always being aware and the new ability I have to talk sense, you wouldn’t believe this but I once found myself failing to talk well with people or filter myself my thought then usually comes out as they are and my friends told me and I kept getting better and have learnt to keep my mouth shut not in a awkward way but listen more.

In closing I’m no longer scared of people this was a serious realization that’s stopped many people from pursuing their life purposes, how did I do it I simply kept learning and reading a book and got confident that every time I’m around people I probably know something they don’t know which is important so there is no reason to be scared of anyone, a doctor, nurse, police, lawyer or anyone in a position of power I tend to be cool with them and actually be curious about their profession and then we will get the ball rolling.

Thank you for spending time with me today, if last year this time I knew I will be writing and sharing information I‘ll probably picture myself doing this but it’s started from an article for ULwaz No Makhula music artists and the YouTube channels I follow the most kept saying they started on Blogs and actually recommended it and it got clear since I have a background in writing scripts for radio why can’t I build a powerful community that can benefit from my insights and knowledge as well as life experience. Here we are now part of us and follow us to not miss anything we do here, YouTube is possible in the near future and you don’t want to miss that’s too.

How to start from the bottom up

Maybe I have talked about my hustle in other articles but here is dedicated to just that’s and the mindset, work ethic, and more. There will be no particular order in this advice and lesson’s. The goal of today’s piece like “Steve Jobs” is to help you think differently. There was a speech by the man himself saying dogma were man-made that’s doesn’t mean we should keep following them so I will share the way I move so far to reach my financial freedom and I will be honest it’s not easy.

Don’t be a consumer ,be a saver and an investor

My first job was Toyota and I worked there for 2 and half years and its was enough for me to start building my own cash cow, which was rental rooms. My retrenchment came at the right time while I was thinking of buying the car the following year and thanks god because I already had my driver’s license then around 2017 ,I have drove once or twice ever since and I don’t mind cause I know if I love a car I will have to break my own.

My living strategy was saving and then I had no much commitment and my girlfriend was out of high school she was perfect for me I was stingy probably still am.

By the time I left a job I had around 250k plus 50k from provident fund so I still had to figure out my move of how I will save this money, life was good then no stress up until I started building rental rooms.

Be ready to fail big and consistently

Loss and failure is the name of the game, but I don’t want to make it sound lightly this is where people give up and to be honest I don’t blame them but giving up completely is a bad call.

Here is what’s I did during working building my rooms, I listened to financial education on YouTube and listened to business people there and I read books a lot and tried to emulate their work ethic and by the time the black sworn come I was prepared mentally like the book unfuck yourself by Gary bishop, its re-enforce what’s I already know in business if things are going to well something bad is really coming and you didn’t attract it its just laws of nature.

Although Bob Procter seems to disagree so that’s pessimists will stop being negative about starting something new, that some businesses do succeed without major failure or it’s not true that’s people get broke at 30 it’s just what’s pessimist pay attention to and there is always the good and bad side, for you to succeed you need to try to look at the former.

Something terrible happened and rooms were closed and there was no source of income at least one but it was not even close to what’s rooms pay me, that 2018 and stress took a couple of days and couldn’t sleep and ended up keeping my distance from that’s building and look at it objectively not as my retirement fund.

The risky come back

Its 2020 and that’s like now and my rooms are back and things seems to be going well but there is a lot at stake you guys can pray for me to be able to fix all that’s needs fixing before I run into the dip of failure again.

My successful grandfather who supports me in my hustle and who I support a bit in his gave me strength during the first disaster and told me not to sell and I listened and now I’m back and this year he loaned me 40k to down payment another property and I’m very grateful about that’s.

This will be my third small rooms and more cash flow and few debts that I will settle by the end of the year now more risks, am I scared a little do I get stressed now and then yes a lot like when buying a new house there is a lot that’s can go wrong and I tried reaching out to elders and turns out there is no one I’m on my own and I have got used to that.

Your dreams and your better future is your and entrepreneurs or business-minded people are not in a luxury of living a risk-free life because there is none anyway, people who are not investing in the better future of their livelihood are preparing themselves for unmanageable catastrophes and be not one of those people and take control and charge of your life.

Sacrifices

My DNA like Gary Vee usually says doesn’t feel my sacrifices as something I deny myself to do or enjoy is just part of how real life is supposed to be. The problem is school and in church, we are not taught to delay gratification although bible touches on Jesus being a sacrifice the main challenge with Christ deed he left his people free ride in religion and according to hustle without sacrifice, there are no fruits and worse if the bible says there is already someone who has sacrificed himself for your sins, chances are you will keep sinning knowing you will be cleansed in altar every Sunday.

The starting from the bottom is not like that’s in that respect, you have to be in harm’s way and be willing to get burned for your life dream ever since I was in high school I had a picture of the life I want and to be honest is was more like of other people but sooner.

Now tables have turned with new insight and growing I have new plans and no rush of settling down cause I know that’s might slow me down, the hunger, drive, and unforced discipline is still part of my life enjoyment like writing this I had to be in another zone and most people cannot do that.

I have sacrificed most of my normal senses and developed new ones, for example, I’m no longer used to laugh out loud, I try to not be tense and be easy to talk to yet I know if I am in a working environment I’m very strict and pushy and it’s very awkward and the paranoid is keeping my eyes open all the time no matter the setting I’m in, I feel the tension and correct myself quickly if I get out of line and I spend most time alone few likeminded people here and hanging out with them cause us to talk more than do but we motivate each other and know we on the right track.

This is a quarter of my story

Having a thick book is not a easy task, having a book at all is a huge achievement cause people will benefits from your existence. By clipping my life here I’m portraying a picture things might be going well for you, have a job and a family and business you saved it for later and I agree not all people should do the same thing.

But being in control of your future and your time and how you spend it and opening your eyes with good books and really see the depth of life, but writing this I wish you to be curious and learn more do more and with your leisure time listen to audio books and biographies of successful people.

Look you may be a millionaire in your own right and knowing money when you have it you don’t change that’s much, yes you effort quality things even your skin is moisturized but still, your mindset is your and humility, love or hate of other people is still there.

Less than 3 million seems like you have something but by your standards you know you can have more and the tricky part is how you measure that’s worth if it’s liquid cash you might consider better investment tools or if it’s fixed in one property or maybe is in your personal assets than you are not rich but I’m sure you know this by now.

For those who are at the bottom and want to go up, here is one advice: avoid doing what’s many people do and follow what’s rich people do by listening to their advice and looking at how they handle themselves and lastly help the rich to get started cause if you help the poor at this stage they will drag you down with them. Go up and share wisdom and anyway you can help but don’t get swayed easily.

The real challenge is starting, when you in you can focus and get things done and a point across. Thank you for coming over and really use your curiosity for good cause there are lot of titles online and they’re no good hope I’m not one of those. I know I’m not the amusing type but please keep this Blog nearby or bookmark it my live journey will be printed here as well as our music hustle as LnM, Aka ULwaz No Makhula please like the page aside for the fun of it. Bye

What’s do you do when you mean well & people think you have interior motives?

Maybe you have been through this and today’s article is not meant to give you an answer but ask for it. On the other hand I want to create an awareness that’s you are not alone, people have been backstabbed couple of times and they don’t trust anyone anymore even people they shouldn’t worry about and automatically push them away.

Why other people can’t accept love?

Love relationship and bonding with family is a hard one in our culture ,we see other races doing well in being united and really embrace the love for one another but I believe in our black community even your own blood when you show them love they think you up to something.

Today I have some kind of headache because I felt being sidelined I really tried to be the best version of myself and try to kindle some family relationship, but I saw that’s my effort is not welcomed I didn’t need to be told I felt it or say my intuition revealed everything to me that’s I was already told but I’m not complaining. My question will be why would this family thinks the worst of me while I’m trying to be myself and practice the bonding that’s will matter in a long run?

What’s will happen to the future bloodline that’s I will create? Should I accept the fact that’s there are member’s of family that’s this kids should not entertain spending time with? I don’t know this is pure love but I’m sure I will have to protect my kids from all the experience I’m having.

The main problem is it’s hard to tell what’s happening am I deceived or it a real thing? I won’t declare my conclusion here but maybe you have gone through the similar thing please comment and let’s talk about it.

Why people who suppose to trust you doubt you?

Its might look like when you are in a company of other people without their other half you are ok and can really be cool and be welcomed or say that’s person is welcome to your place but when you goes to his there is some tension.

Why some other people are really bad with hosting people especially those who are married and treat people so differently from one another and why they expect you to know how to act in their company apart from being yourself? This is questions I’m concerned about and maybe my wife will put me on this awkward position someday but till then this is abnormal for me. I want to make a serious disclaimer other couple are very welcoming and really great hosts, when I visit people I don’t necessary look for this things they just show up and I am a very nice person I know myself so what’s I will suggest is don’t talk too much behind the visitor back, instead tell that’s person directly how things are done around your home and what they need to do after eating or when waking up then having a straight face now and then.

Good gesture and present not well received

Have you ever try to give someone a hug or a present and they act weird like maybe who are you to touch them or what’s do you want in return since you are giving them a gift.

 I have learnt a real lesson some people can really find a way to repay your debt that’s you did out of kindness but you don’t need to know eventually why the good deed other people do for you.

There is more upside into helping people then downside but other always resist help because they have been corned before by corn artists ,but that’s hardly a family member so why a person closer to you sometimes don’t want your help?

This may be wrongly interpreted thinking we deserve help from our families that’s not wrong too but in between there is love shown through helping one another and opening opportunities for one another and so on so the load won’t be on one or two people supporting a family.

 Body Language talk 1000s words and the trick with this is people realize the gesture after you had an important conversation and they are now alone thinking what’s this person meant and why she/he look like this when talking about this?

Why people can’t speak their real feelings and make the other person aware

This might sound like I’m talking about a boy plans and thinks of approaching a girl but end up being scared and not do it but that’s not the case. I’m sure human nature disagrees with the subtitle but people pretend other people because they are scared what’s they might become or thinks they might need them in the future or what? Maybe you have an answer interact with me.

Personally, there are lots of people I don’t like but they’re not close to me so it doesn’t matter anyway, but imagine opening up to someone and set them free, how would that work? I think it’s worth a try or maybe say it in the most polite way possible.

To get yourself out of poverty and mediocre, help other people

You might think you lack a job in your life ,or you don’t seem to have an intrinsic value. I can encourage you that’s you are not alone im like that’s I cannot point exactly what’s im good at and when I wake up in the morning sometimes I don’t have a day planned out. So I want to give you tips to make yourself valuable and have rare skills that’s doesn’t require any schooling.

 Be a people’s person

Try to be an extrovert and break the ice in places and start a conversation ,you see its not easy I believe I am an introvert by nature but because I am a continuous learner I studied books like How to influence friends & win people and now I got an edge. Grant Cardone always says everything you need a human has it, you just need to find a way to get it. See don’t mistake that’s statement for selfishness, actually do the service without much expectation and the rule of reciprocal will take it place. For me at home they know I’m good with money ,to be honest I’m not I just know how to lay a story for every cent spent and I know how to cover my loose hands where I really was careless. Here is your job serve more than once a person you are helping may not be paying u anything or your worth but it only a matter of time before you get referral and that’s when the other people will ask you how much you do so and so for.

 be honest, trustworthy, be open minded and tell your unpleasant if it comes to it.

People may be your gateway to your predicament and the same time they might use your situation and exploit you…  As desperate as you are, try to be a straight up person. I once saw a guy who helped a lot in our community, he would complain valid points to strangers about all the people he was helping and you can tell this causes stress and hate for this people but because they gave him something he kept it inside. I want to be honest I have been a victim of this as well ,I would do a number of work and the person I’m working for while I’m away hide some of the work so he/she could pay less. In times like this device a plan either count as u work or time their pay day and act accordingly because some money you don’t get .The other guy I was talking about he ended up being untrustworthy ,at night he will come and steal chickens for the people he work for. And even eggs, so this might also mean to people who rely to other people for their day to day please do right by them.

 Talk less, listen more .Help more and expect anything.

If this is not your professional work, don’t have much expectation, earlier on your goal should be to build relationships and see them prosper and if people don’t call you anymore don’t be mean about it. I remember I once worked as a garden boy for the first time in my life and I can still do it today. It was a flat with 12 tenants by then I already had different philosophies in my head and they contradict as well. So other people I will be good to them especially if their good to me, while others who don’t respect me I will be mean to them. I made my position clear I know my job description please don’t bother me ,but they all got patient with me and I grew to be able to help everyone expect one person who I hope I would’ve came around. There were different type of races there others try to protect me while others try to misuse me, but I found balance and I want you to find that’s within your community and organization.

Treat everyone like your future in-laws.

Can you do this? I learn this at my first high paying job at Toyota .if you don’t understand the colors of helmet what’s they represent from General Manager to a team member you’ll find yourself disrespecting your bosses boss. So what’s I did I learnt the company structure but still respect people like they were going to be promoted the following day .  The in-laws example is assuming the mother you meet in a taxi is going to be your mother in law one day, now imagine disrespecting that’s person. Obviously we are not built the same and people presentation shows what’s kind of respect they need, all you need to do is not be a arrogant person make room for people. I have a tendency of asking people, what’s skill do you have or what’s you good at because I know I can’t do much but I can pay for it. So now what’s if you were to show me your dark side? Chances we can’t get to that’s question.

Also help yourself in a process.

See you can help people and make money but you being the common denominator in all this, the question will be how are you helping yourself with this money? Maybe you are hurting yourself by consuming alcohol or you get paid by drugs .or maybe you have your own silly craving thatisn’t harmful yet it isn’t doing you any good. So help yourself getting out of those things ,it will be hard because those will be your vices and most of us have them and serious people don’t like people who work under substances .if you going to constantly ask for a cigarette while working that’s bad .

Thanks you being curious I might have left a lot of valuable information, and you might know better examples please comment and follow this blog to never miss a insightful article again. And the day I receive a message saying you’ve changed my life, I will have my life impacted as well in a way you cannot imagine. LnM (Ulwaznomakhula) like our page on your left and follow us in all social Medias #Spliff Entertainment Pty Ltd

Don’t let temporal situations trick you to making permanent decision

Hi LnM fam we are happy to have you join us today, ever since I realized that’s I don’t remember much from school but I know almost many things about new lessons I have involved myself in and applied it to my life successfully, I have dedicated myself to share all those insight because like me, someone might have a light bulb turned on and have breakthroughs and make his/ her life worth it. Today we looking at the mistake we make on doing things that’s last all our lives without giving them a consideration when we make them.

  1. Tricking yourself to stealing

I once found myself earlier this year working with someone with a lot of money and because I have already install my personal development in my life , I saw  I was tempted to steal and those I was working with encourage me to do this because  we were going to earn less later anyway. I’m not trying to be a hero here but I knew if I did that’s and steal this will lead to a bad habit of taking with less effort rather I should create the more valuable and money paying thing myself than stealing from bosses. This is more important because it tackle the side of us that’s is called loyalty and integrity ,you see if you have a track record of stealing you can never be putted in a position to look after inventory ,stock or money thus you might not get a job at all. This is great example because moment habit would’ve come with me throughout my life. But the main reason for me to start with this one is because its touches our morality and ethics and if those are broken and we cannot be trusted then we can never strive & prosper in this world

2.Your childhood is not a time to make reckless decisions.

When you are a teenager you might think you know how life work but if you are reading this you are lucky because I will tell you the truth “you don’t know anything about life”. Today we went to see our music mate who we grew up with ,who just lost his mom ,he is about to discover more things about life ,like running a household and more that’s parents usually take care of. Being a teenager is a temporal thing but being a adult last longer unless you kept acting like a kid even then. My advice to teenager or anyone with parents right now, try to teach yourself about life and personal development or at least listen to your parents when they tell you don’t do certain things. Tattoo is something we draw when we are young even in places that’s your spouse wouldn’t be proud of ,don’t fool yourself either saying you won’t get married cause that’s being naïve ,you may not want that but you want a love partner so tattoo is not a good idea ,no matter where it is ,it may cost you jobs and other business opportunities because other people value their surroundings. Unprotected sex with total stranger, maybe after some booze you feel like getting some be careful the abortions and babies left in people’s door and without parents is the outcome of people who make decisions out of certain mood don’t be one of them

3. Failure is not fatal and success is not the end

Giving up is normal outcome from failure or being tired ,but as this subtitle says failure is not dearth is just a small setback that is helping you to do correction as well as success doesn’t mean you can now settle down and enjoy the fruits . Both of this simply means be sad and learn and try again or be happy and unwind a bit and get back to it by setting up another target. The trick you can harm yourself with is having a windfall and taking it and spending it all before realizing that’s might force you to go back and look for the job ,while starting a business is not a must because you have found yourself in a positive financial position ,just keep living below your means and enjoy it for the long as it last. Giving up means never attacking your goal one more time and that’s not a way to do it ,just rest when you are tired and come back strong .Get all the motivation you might need because is all over the internet and the other motivation should be within you. As we speak I happen to be a great example right now ,it’s very cold where I am since its winter and I’m sitting in my computer writing for you and I don’t have any heater or air conditioning I just took a blanket and rap myself up 

4.If you are angry wait 48hrs before responding to what’s made you angry

A person who hold a grudge and act on it after a week ,depending on what’s you did to him he didn’t have a week he was in hell you can’t hold on anger for so long unless you revive it every time you see that’s person who did you wrong. I’ve been done wrong several times and if I always try to get revenge on those, I might have had many enemies right now and because I love business I know one day I will make enemies that’s I know and be able to live with but for now I have saw we don’t want revenge we want to prove a point when other’s do us wrong. That’s mentality means we putted ourselves in a position to get scammed or insulted and we want to show others this behavior is not acceptable to us, so you hurt the other person. What if you let it go? You’ll say what people will say, I’m scared of him? The catch if you are not taking revenge for your own justice then doesn’t do it at all because people won’t give you the respond you want and you will be one in jail or anywhere this anger might lead you.

5. Look to the future or better make the most of the moment without regret

The first part may be me, every move I make is directed to the future I don’t know but all I know it will be way better than my present because of my present actions. You may be the YOLO slogan kind of person, so I won’t be a person who gives a absolute advice do something now that’s you won’t regret later ,meaning if having fun now is what’s you want go for it but don’t wish you did something else ,your only live once must not affect your tomorrow situations  ,drink a rent money then tomorrow deal with a landlord . Stay online all the time instead of reading books and bypass the other people mistakes, then you’ll have to repeat the same shit and waste your life. The only thing life needs is balance you can enjoy now and future by drinking moderately, read on a schedules, gym and work this means be more disciplined than ever.

6. Value serious relationships you have and don’t be too eager to initiate new ones

Changing groups won’t work well on your mindset; you will be all over the place since many influences will hit you and your subconscious mind. Changing friends and partners may cause you to expect certain traits to people because of your past experiences, maintain the relationships you have after school and make them work and be worth a while. Forsaking a friend while still having common goal is not a sound move ,or having grudges within the family and not talk for years is bad because it’s the only sentiment relationship you have on earth ,it’s your bloodline and that’s will never change.

Be angry with them, if they hold you back keep the distance but don’t cut them off totally that’s will be making a permanent decision out of short term thing. And unmaintained relationships don’t show fruits so make sure you make use of your time with your loved ones.

I’m sure there is more that’s we find ourselves in and at the end of the day, find our dreams and vision dead at the end and even find ourselves lonely at times ,I hope the list above you can share to people you think they can find value. Please follow this blog and comment as well ,I would love to hear other people speak here thanks .LnM like our page on the left.

Why do we hide our realities and fake life on social media?

We think we are brands Actually we are not at least not most of us. We are living in a society that’s promote the personal brand which contradicts with who we really are. You see if you can base your so called brand into your actual living than that will be ok.

But if you have to put some ad on to fool strangers online then you are doing yourself a disservice cause you self sabotaging yourself claiming to be something you are not and that’s will take a toll on you ,the stress you will have will be linked to this fake life of yours . While you will be making money in real life hard work where you will drag mornings and complicated work politics .

You won’t see its not worth it to take that’s money and buy fancy phone and clothes to have more followers on social media especially when you don’t even have a talent or skill you are promoting just your looks or clothes you printed and try to sell it online. If you take time and do the math, see if you are losing or winning you will see whether to continue or stop making full of yourself.

Now I’m not totally bashing social media, but you need to study the platform you are using and if you happen to make money at least after 1-3 years then you might on to something. You need to understand if your online presence differ more than your reality, you might suffer online trawlers who call you scammer or fake model, and to girls social media might really be dangerous since you guys like to expose your body for the same reasons .

Now there’s a whole industry based on Twitter where woman monetize their nude content,I wouldn’t recommend this strategy of making a living to a person who reads our blog . Self love and sexiness cannot be contradicted and things you learn about body sexiness and woman power has nothing to do with exposing your body online .

The question you should ask yourself why am I doing this? If is needing money then get a job ,if you want a partner go out more and let go of this twerking stuff.

The hook ups are an industry but their risky because you might end up being a victim of human trafficking. And you might have a problem when you want to start a life of a motherhood and wife because past will reach out and try to ruin anything. For example I had to say no to one of my ex who asked for my private part picture since I had a aspiring music artist ,imagine having that’s out there when I make it eventually .

Social media make us miss the moment and our real background, a post that’s I saw once saying know your home situation and get out of instagram. Now say your house is falling can you take a picture in that’s? No you will be busy trying to fix it. This also apply to not enjoying a meal and get together since phones dictates the event ,if you can try with your friends and leave the phone’s and bring real camera you might experience this times better and the best memories are kept in our minds you don’t need a phone to do that’s.

How you deal with problems? I use to have a habit of posting everything even things I delete after I get back to my senses. Now I invest time and reread what’s I post and how it may diminish the person I may be attacking and maybe I cannot take back. The maturity will be when you really remove your life from social media , what’s I normally do now I go on face book and post links of my music and this blogs rather than engage in funny topics that are there and  harmful language .

The social peer pressure we are getting is too much event the funeral are way expensive because some of this humble events are now recorded and people find wearing all black cool ,while the family is mourning. The goal of this article today, if for you to separate your life from social media even though like the future is going there, but it’s not look for other value out of it. The only thing you can try online is selling and really make money there if not there is no point, even positive quotes has lost it meaning because its comes from the book you might never read because you read posts.

Thanks I hope I have opened your eyes a bit today, becareful the most dangerous thing on social media is bad influences and repetition the habits of logging in and out and in and out every second. People swear there and others try to act like their smart, while others copy and paste jokes, don’t fall for it. LnM , please like our page on face book as ULwaz No Makhula.

Never take your 9-5 job for granted

In a self help society we living in, there is a huge resentment in jobs and people preaching self employment and being your own boss. But today I want to share a light of this trap, unless you work towards something bigger than where you are then you shouldn’t not hate your job, even if you have big dreams job will help you achieve them quicker and keep a bit of security. I want to add don’t let your consumerism habit keep you in a job that’s you hate not because you need it, but because you want to pay for your lifestyle not necessitates. 

  1. The easy way to get a better job is to have a job in a first place

This job will offer you experience and skill and some sort of mastery on what’s you will be doing everyday. and Taking that’s lightly and be deceived by gurus who ask you to take risk and leave your job ,you can always do that’s but make it a calculated move ,have already have a demanding business and reasonable income before taking that’s leap and have the ability to leave below your means.

Leaving the job you have right now might make it hard for you to get another job so be careful making this move as the subtitle say ,people refer the jobs to other people who are at the workplace ,meaning the reference only comes from the fact that’s this working people wants to improve their work standards not leave it completely to fairytale of running a business. In this blog we emphasize entrepreneurship but we also understand it’s not for everyone.

  • Job is not only a hard work to make a living or being in an office all day but it everything you do.

Here is a wakeup call, your job offers you the route with a reasonable stress unlike what’s your boss handles everyday .The job will make things happen for you, the only thing I can suggest is not treating your 9-5 as a way of life but while working try to escape the need to work by building something aside that’s will end up making equal money with what’s your present boss pay you.

 Here you should make research and invest on something that’s won’t make you lose money, if you can do this you have a chance of becoming a business person. For example building a rental rooms and take a rent every month if you can keep that’s up using your own income in three years you can make serious money just avoid improving your lifestyle when this happens because it will cost you your progress and you will be stuck at your job and not appreciate your new job of being a landlord.

Actors, musicians, Youtubers and other influencers are also working and not working is also working because you cannot go through a day without doing anything. So our 29yrs advice is make looking for a job a new job and also try to be creative and start your own job without being hired and try to grow and get out of the dip quickly.

  • A job is a ticket to your dream life or your plateau

I don’t factor much how much you are making because what’s you are making you agreed to at the time you started working it was good enough and you created wants that’s ended up making it like is small. The best way to raise your level of living is starting by increasing your income, so if you don’t know how to increase your income then increasing your stuff will leave you broke and miserable in the money side of things.

Success TV says don’t treat your pay slip or wage as a fruit of your labor but a ticket to your desired life , meaning don’t take your earnings and eat it all ,invest most and live on some. The lives of people becomes absolute because their philosophies about life has became absolute and if you already thinking like that’s you should start and be open to new ideas from people who are doing better than you in life .

 If you want to learn and improve your marriage learns from people who have been married longer than you and seems to be happy and same apply to finances. Because reaching a plateau is when you are in your high paying job and think you have made it in life, because you have a car, wife, kid and house.

That’s not true life is still going to throw problems in your life and you should be ready a wife can leave you and take your stuff if you don’t have prenuptial agreement or a kid may have a problem ,so as you master your work life and relationships also master the mindset and your environment.

  • To make the most out of your job use cash and avoid premiums

This is not a professional financial advice is the advice that I used, don’t use the money you don’t have to impress people that’s don’t care about you, even if they care its won’t matter when you work to pay debts for the most of your life. Enjoy the income as it come and budget if you can and try to have more money left over at the end of the month.

Look at your budget and look at the things you can eliminate and see things that’s no one will die if you don’t have them, new shoes, new clothes, new TV and so on and use those funds and double them in a form of selling something and adding profit or creating a cash flow recurring rental that’s when people will be paying premium to you rather than you paying premium to them.

  • Work is not a verb is a management system

For the country to strive its needs more producers than consumers, consumerism cause obesity and other problems while production cause great economy for everyone. Now as AI and AR is about to change the way we work ,working physically hard is slowly getting irrelevant and this goes back to the reason of working in the first place ,its was a management system what’s adults will be doing when kids are at school?

They will be at work and what do kids will be doing while parents will be at work they will be in school learning how to work and all the unnecessary things school teaches. This has became a system the countries are governed but this doesn’t mean so much work is necessary. Agriculture is necessary work as well as doctors and lawyers and some other important industries.

But the most striving business which is a transport business as for luxury cars which are what’s people work for in our days its what’s makes people get stuck in a system ,instead of getting a car that’s will do the work taking you from point A to point B ,we also want to show off to our social society and that’s make our jobs a verb something we have to do instead of trying to get out of the system by making money work for me ,while I explore my other talents and passions.

So as of today topic don’t resent work if it doesn’t fulfill your needs, look at your expenditure, what’s you do with that’s money because work shouldn’t fulfill you if it does that’s a big up for you, unless it’s your passion or you find meaning in what’s you are doing and the environment and you wouldn’t choose anything else but if you complain of being stuck, you are stuck in a system better yourself and get out.

Well here we are to the end of today’s topic and we hope its find someone who needs it .And from now onwards you will start seeing your work as not the end of the world if it is, then it’s the world you love living in. If you have accepted your situation and live to pay bills consider the possibility of not being able to support what’s ever you are supporting with your income?

Thanks for taking the time we can go forever just appreciate and be grateful of your job but don’t think you cannot do well than that’s but if you already living a simple happy life don’t complicate it ,keep that’s emergency fund and security for your family.