Self control is very important here is why

This topic should be encouraged and be talked about more often, the reason I’m touching this is because growing up we should be able to control our impulses and deliberate on things. I don’t know how long I can push this subject so please help me out and comment as well.

You can avoid doing things that’s will cause you serious problem

If you are in a love relationship you can avoid, falling for other person by disciplining yourself to avoid any signs of chemistry between you and stranger’s. This is work and you should not take it lightly and your friends should respect your ways, but take charge of that’s situation and move away from that’s influence.

Rape is a buy product of lack of self control that’s why you should be of sound mind when you make decisions and actions. But don’t get this confused life is risky and you should be willing to take those risks that are needed to be taken to reach positive heights of life. But unnecessary risks of sleeping with a girl while she is saying no are a big mistake.

Emotional abuse is a huge tool that’s people use to manipulate people ,for a woman it’s a powerful to a partner to make him do what’s she wants’ and don’t mistake this for influence ,influence is made naturally and gain both parties emotional manipulation is one sided gain and its always backfire so if you are a lady using this negative techniques to get things done in your relationship control yourself earlier before you find yourself in a bad position of losing a good man because of your wrong deeds , you might not cheat or anything tangible but games of mind and always suspending and playing the detective type can be a problem in a long term relationship.

You can be good with money

We live in a money world and its takes a discipline and self controlled person to manage it properly and for me this is the skill I’m trying to master by all means to the point that’s at home I am a treasurer and for years I have been trustworthy and kept the books well all left is to multiply it. If you can think through your purchase and really factor the money going out and how much time to get it, you will be in your good control to buy needed things than wants, you will seek assets more than liabilities and as you grow and maybe become a business person in your life you will buy liabilities with the business tax money cause you will be controlling every aspects of your money life.

It’s a normal thing to hear people say live below your means, what’s I should emphasize to you is that’s doable and you can try it. Instead of spending your whole paycheck, spend at least 60% and save 40% this will be a good test of your self control and the strength of keep going and your ability to control your emotions and eager to buy stuff you don’t need and you will be able to stick to the budget.

Here is the example from myself, I earn 5000 a month and straight up R1200 goes to the savings, then R500 goes to my family as support as I still live at home and what’s left goes back to the business and I’m usually left with nothing or less than R300. But as people we are not the same other’s have cars and drink alcohol and have all sort of things but control means simplifying your life you should try to do that’s by all means and avoid having habits like drinking mess with your live below my means plan.

You can control your emotions

By keeping calm when you are angry doesn’t means you don’t know how to act on it and make noise like other people do. But that’s level of self control you have or you need if you blast when you mad at someone. The breath in and out technique or moving away from the individual trying to test you can work and keep you out of jail and doing something you can regret.

If we can let our emotion get over us people will be showing streams of tears everyday but somehow we have mastered that’s part as we grow but still deep down we hurt. So what’s do you do when unfortunate thing happens to you? Well firstly I can say let the process of sleepless night and thinking over and over take place then move yourself from that’s situation especially if your body is still intact.

As days goes healing will take place but don’t give in to giving up and blame and so on just have a view of who I wanted this to happen to except me? Or what’s this lesson has for me and so on ,yet you are hurting and you’ve lost and schemed by that’s life and if you expect the good only in its you won’t do anything meaningful in life and you don’t want to be in that’s position.

You will have courage and confidence in yourself

You see in closing having a cell phone free at home that’s no call might mess with your other half is a real peace of mind. The courage part is knowing that’s you can handle everything coming your way because you are aware and mindful of everything that’s happening around you. For me my weakness is really feel if a lady embarrass me or rejection in general but I have grown to deal with it cause I’ve been applying the sales man skills, the courage to approach still in that’s state of expecting anything and knowing I can handle my embarrassment is what’s has kept me going, in both selling and approaching.

Moving on untouched territory needs focus and really a player mindset, so say for the 1st time you are buying a big purchase say a car what’s will you do? here what’s I will do because its minimizes risks, I will go with my uncle who has bought two cars and tell him to help me with most things except negotiations because that’s part should be mine and I will be paying unless he is a better negotiator, the courage here is knowing that’s you not good at anything and get help.

It will be a general skill that’s will do you good

I have a tendency of telling people I know that’s I read books so the knowledge I usually share has a reference, I hardly have my own opinions my this information I read has turn out to be mine because I use it and its doing wonder’s for me and I happen to have a positive attitude and high self esteem and you can put me with anyone we can connect.

I wasn’t always like this it started in 2018 January when I follow certain channels in YouTube and its introduced me to business and books ,and last week in YouTube I found the contracting videos that’s is against too much personal development and there and there I had to try and balance the whole thing and avoid scammers and fake gurus , while realizing that’s they may be fake guru but if you believe in their information and apply it  its works and books may do the work so I won’t stop but balance real life and studying and doing .

Back to the subtitle the  general skill is ability to engage with people ,introvert is not a good character traits you might miss opportunities and if you are an open person and end up hanging with everyone who will do you no good then you will have a problem. If you control yourself you will know when to speak and know when to shut up , know the timing and really avoid what’s I use to do with ladies ,I wasn’t considerate if a girl disappear the whole day on the phone I’m starting to suspect ,so instead I should’ve gave those ladies the benefit of the doubt and let them live their lives and come back to me when they miss me to the point that the relationship is that’s serious.

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Why self discipline is so hard

Today’s article is inspired by my own procrastination ,its Friday today and my post is late by 3hrs .There is no excuses for not delivering in time it’s all based on the lack of myself discipline ,because I’m going through this right now I can easily see the challenges causing it.

  1. Laziness and excuse artists

Hard important things are not easy to do, the easy things to do you do them without thinking and the things that’s you have habit of doing comes easy. But new one’s like writing this blogs earlier on its easy and exciting but as I keep going enthusiasm get low and the only thing that’s can keep me of float is myself discipline.

Being lazy is common drag and waste time doing shinny things or things that’s won’t have any results. I have had time today to be in a place of physical work and its easy to see things that’s will make a huge impact there but one guy was busy cutting corners in a serious job you need to discipline yourself to avoid doing too much housekeeping and less productive work cause your supervisor will notice you and make sure you are the 1st to go when times are hard.

Excuses are the killer of self discipline that’s why they are negatively affective, if you don’t do something important and have a reason why you don’t do it then you are safe. But in reality you will be legging behind and excuses never shows up when it’s time to show some productivity and time keeps spinning.

So what’s you need to do every time you find a reason to do something, just do it or do nothing and see what’s will happen. Here is an example you have a task that’s you need to do and you are craving TV series rather than choosing the latter ,decide to do nothing if you get bored do the important task then after that’s it will open the window after you have finished it to actually enjoy the series.

2. Its require endurance and a goodwill

Watching a TV series produced by 50 cent called For Life, the starring shows a serious courage from being a convict to becoming a lawyer since he was arrested for the thing he didn’t do. He endured and disciplined himself to read hard law books and  started appealing to court and helping other inmates like him ,while he is trying to get the files of his own case and people behind this scandal haven’t give up and they suppress all his efforts but he doesn’t give up.

That’s discipline on steroids maybe there are no consequences of not doing what you supposes to do but trust me there are always those underneath but maybe it’s not like the above story where all odds seems to be against you.

Life on its own is hard add something that’s you suppose to do everyday then its way harder. Employers have to constantly motivate their workers to love and see value in their work and after few year add a little drip but worker still finds reason’s to strike and do all sorts of inefficiency they can get its end up being a habit that’s people needs pep talk and the problem starts when a person try to start his or her own business and have to motivate himself and his worker’s.

So self discipline is hard but the reason for that’s is we don’t know that there is such thing, our why’s are lame the strong one’s are through nature like having a kid now imagine hustling for your child and focusing on bettering his life and end up forgetting about yours and not knowing how your child will turn out is a real mystery that’s why the discipline should come from within and your north star be your better self.

3. Its needs giving up the good stuff

Delaying gratification is a normal thing for people who are successful and those who are going to be .It’s hard to not eat your favorite food so you can stay on shape, it’s hard to save more than 10% so you can achieve your financial goals earlier, it’s hard to maintain the relationship schedule to make your love life work on your busy life but that’s what’s you need to do to get all of the above right.

Person who is going to make it in what’s ever he or she is doing avoids distractions, also avoids shinny things and trends and most importantly don’t try to impress other people they know what’s their doing is more important to their lives than a friend opinion.

Showing up is what’s its takes to start going in a right direction, the physical work I’m talking about since I work for myself I have a tendency of showing up whenever I like but I do what’s I can when I get there, I can try to do more and wake up early but I believe in effectiveness and lie to myself that’s I’m using the 80/20 rule. I know I can come early and leave late and fool around all the time or just come at 10 and work hard for 3 hours then leave until I reach my target.

4. No one or few people practice it.

Worker’s constantly come late at work be different, at church no one likes to start a song be different, in class no one likes to give the teacher the answer be different, no one wants to play midfielder take that’s position and master it. In most cases you can be the opposite of what’s most people are doing and do what’s they hate and win in life that’s all it takes.

Don’t be scared of other people actually build a system for yourself to not be scared of people ,my uncle is better at this I know him he was a cop and people became his friends. He’s famous and can get along with anyone his discipline to master that’s skill and ability to make a small talk has became handy in his own life, he was an investigator and people were open to him a shared what’s they knew, maybe you may argue that’s he learnt this at police academy but I may respond the discipline to apply those tools is what’s important.

I learn the people’s skill by practicing it and once I move away from people for the long period of time I found myself beginning to be an introvert which is not a good trait for person who is ambitious like me.

5. The audience  put some pressure

I will start by saying show people you’re positive traits as soon as you can, you hard working ethics and more. Show that’s side of you so it won’t be like you are changing all of the sudden, or you will have spectator’s that’s won’t do you any good.

The remarks and gossips and who said what’s about you ,why you are working so hard and so on try to be in a space where this is not too much. You need it to guide you but if it all you get then you are bound to be stopped in your tracks. People you need are those who are engaged like you in something this are winner’s .ever since I started something most business people has gave me courage and great influence and positivity.

One said you charging too low ,other said I see you one day having a million rand and that’s really caught me off guard but it’s meant a lot and I’m positive I will get there and I’m working towards it so hard and the understanding I have is there are conventional ways of doing things and there are really business savvy ways all hard work but require self discipline.

Thanks for catching up with us, LnM we are nothing without you keep grooming yourself and win. I don’t consider myself a motivation talker or something like that’s .i am a practical person and sometimes when I give an advice people don’t take it because its requires self discipline like the other day my little brother who stays with my father said he wants’ 4k so he can trade  but he don’t have it.

I told him to save and skip his birthday celebration this year and on December forget about new clothes because all this require discipline he came back and suggested what’s if he sells his laptop?

I figure I don’t have to answer that it’s what’s app and nothing he can see anyway. So if you ask a person an advice be sure you really needs it and respect that person enough to argue and tell why this advice won’t work for you than going to look for another crazy plan and present it to him/ her. If you knew what’s you were going to do why bother other people?

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Few things you can live without and you shouldn’t worry about them

We live in a consumer society and as people we want to own everything under the sun but that’s might affect you badly if you want to keep up with the Jones while you at the bottom class. This is not a minimalist message or cut coupon kind of information but its common sense that’s we can all relate to.

This is financial but its inspired by emotional attachment from other people, today I went to clinic and there was a real cue there and I saw people waiting hours and I was one of them for that’s service but what’s was really mind blowing was seeing youth wearing $1000 / R1000 sneaker but using public healthcare, my math says I rather go to a doctor and pay a little bit and don’t own expensive sneaker and get my time back. Let’s get this into point form.

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Dstv or subscription cable TV

Paying premium on entertainment is for rich people say double digit millionaire who can pay for the whole year without a blank. But rarely you will see this people do that’s because they encourage reading books and a bit of balance of the entertainment for their kids. Now getting back to us ,if money is important to you ,you know R100 per month is R1200 per year that’s 12 000 in 10 years instead you can have a TV with Ariel or once off open HD and enjoy national tv for free while tackling real challenges in your life and better yourself.

The only subscription we recommend here in LnM is Audible not Netflix, in audible you can get audio books of personal development and improve your current situation. Or use YouTube for free just by buying a small data , personally since 2018 nothing entertain me more than learning to the point that’s I thought maybe sometimes I need to stay back a bit and revise the information I have learned and try to apply it in my life. Although I have had some success so far but my learning is above my actual life outcome.

Expensive clothes

Uniforms here are the best recommendation; you can live happily and well respected while wearing Mr. Price clothes or HnM but all you have to do is to keep them clean. Like every young person we get obsessed with cloths and this is just a way to get social validation from our friend but at our parent’s expense.

The best practice a parent can give is teaching his/her kid to not get anything they want ,especially don’t give them luxury at an earlier age that’s will end up going to their head and make them feel entitled while they still don’t know how to work for this things.

I like to make examples with myself  ,so I taught my nephews to save money and if someone borrow it charge them interest  ,but so far I have failed to teach them assets which are things they can buy that’s will make them more money. Clothes are valuable if you sell them and them represent your brand, so we encourage that’s but be mindful it’s a challenging industry.

Lot of lame friends

Having a lot of friends won’t do you any good unless its quality people and once the number is high that’s friendship won’t be effective so try to have a handful of people you call friends. I knew a guy who I thought we came a long way, I didn’t consider him much of a friend because I already have a best friend so he was just a friend or acquaintance we had something in common and if we didn’t talk about that’s thing we were totally different people.

But there is something he did that’s I took lightly at 1st but later I realize I cannot keep this guy very close today I’m really keeping my distance from that’s guy. So for you reading  you don’t need to go through the same thing ,study people and see their actions ,if they do one of the member in a group wrong like backstabbing or gossiping they could possibly do it to you let alone a friend that’s can sleep with people’s exes that’s a homerun for a red flag.

Keep handful of friends really valuable people ,people you can count on and who can count on you and try not to test people in anyway act in a time of need because people they can sense if they are not trusted.

Low paying and uninspiring job

Little reason’s to stay a certain job, pay or its potential to pay well or if you enjoy doing that’s job or lastly its cause or mission is bigger than all of us. At work you should not worry about what’s other’s think because that’s will lead to mod mentality and yourl end up being average.

The perks and benefits shouldn’t be the defining factor when you pick a job because you going to spend your whole life there, doing that’s thing. Consider the environment the people the leader and the team spirit, be the best version of yourself when you at work and crush it every time they watch result , if you could find a job where you can be yourself in it and have a positive attitude most of the time that’s will be the winner.

But not all jobs are like this other jobs are for you to get yourself from the ground up. Don’t look at your paycheck as fruit of your labor but look at it as a ladder to a better life, meaning you won’t use all the money on bills but you will think of saving and starting a business and investing on assets. You will buy books and attend conferences and take those lessons’s and put them into good use.

Luxury house, car earlier on

You and I shouldn’t buy luxury the moment we can afford to make the monthly payments, this is my mindset I cannot do a debt that’s will leave me vulnerable to options. House mortgages are 15 to 30 years payment every month car is 5 years unless I buy this things in cash. At some point I know I can buy them in cash so the discipline I need to have to raise this money from my job I will apply.

I don’t know how other people operate but if this job is all you have or you can get the job elsewhere but you still going to need the blessings of the present job to move, what’s if one day you have to challenge your boss because he is breaking certain laws of the company and it will affect your job. Knowing you have kids and house and a car that’s needs monthly payment you have two options challenge him and be at risk of losing that’s job or maybe he may understand and change his ways. Or let it slide and always compromise because of the luxuries you don’t want to lose.

I learnt very well in 2014 that’s money is important to have it in the bank ,than anything tangible ,that’s year I lost my well paying job but I had a lot of money and no luxuries yet but I was planning to get one the following year cash. Forget about fica credits score myths and the ability to borrow that’s shouldn’t be your problem, you should teach yourself how to leverage debt or don’t take it if you scared of taking risks and can’t manage your own money.

Thanks for hanging out with us today on LNM we appreciate you taking the time to invest on you. Our observations are not government recognized it’s our views and our way of life ,you can always contact your financial advisor and legal entity to guide you but you can always show them the direction which is what’s we are trying to give you.

How frustrations can positively impact your life

Nobody loves cues or wait we want fast and efficient as people, thus that’s why there has been so much innovation in the world and countries like USA and China leading in global power and improving life of human kind. But this improvement actually comes from individuals in most cases and government pulls through to support whatever intaprenuer has figured out.

South African Business man and a visionary Mr. Elon Musk is improving the situation of energ y but creating products that’s doesn’t mess with climate like electric cars ,while he strive to take human kind to mass planet since earth is slowly lacking resources and human species growing rapidly.

Hes not alone in this The richest man in the world Mr. Jeff Bezos is also building transport for the same mission the rockets in the Blue origin head quarters. Mr. Bill Gates of Microsoft’s is aiming at eradicating most killing diseases by 2030 by donating his funds for vaccines that can help the masses especially in the African continent.

This few people I have mentioned are some of the number of rich people who were frustrated by the situations around them and did something about it. So this is a call to you as well you don’t have to be a billionaire to figure out a solution and work towards it. Now let’s see how this anger or frustration can impact you positively.


Can make you realize and see opportunity in what’s bothering you

Knowing what’s wrong can help you figure out a solution and that’s where goals usually come from. If your goal is to solve this problem, now you have something to live for and that’s can’t be your kid because your kid is not a problem.

But if you don’t do anything about the situation you find yourself in and anyone in your community is ignoring it, chances your child might experience the same predicament unless you relocate but there as well there will be challenges as well. What’s if you take charge of those situations or at least think about them because that’s way you can go forward in the suggestion box and suggest your thoughts that’s might help everyone


You can make money out of point number 1 if you saw it as a blessing in disguise

This comes down to awareness to what’s we are doing with our time, money and life as well as our associations. For example say you stay in the bad neighborhood and  your kid is going to grow there and the problem is he might be negatively influenced and become the bad version of himself or herself .

You cannot afford yet to move and you not in a position of power to control the situation your kid will grow under ,Don’t forget thought you can be vocal in community meetings and have lists of suggestions in dealing with this challenge and the more you involved chances are a forum or community leaders will put you in charge of programs that’s deals with teenage drug abuse ,early pregnancy programs and so on.

Because this will be close to your heart the more you eradicate and get this your boys out of the streets the more you are recognized as a person of value and get compensated accordingly.

Other scenario is simple people who was sick and tired of walking distances and join the cues where they needed the services and concluded by talking to big corporations to bring this products and services near them. The person who comes forward may offer the space and let the business rent it or may get a percentage of a once off payment for making a business aware of their lack of research since now new market is brought in by you.

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Can show you what’s you did wrong and leave you with a lesson

Other frustrations comes out of our wrong doings and the fact that’s we did something wrong means that’s we are inevitably going to get stressed. Now this point is about how you use that’s stress, is it your chance to cry and complain and become a victim of your own doing or is a learning curve?

For me it’s a step like this, I have made a major mistake and it’s taking a turn in a trajectory of my life, I was going that’s way now I need to think should I continue or wait or face the problem head on? These are normal questions we ask ourselves when something comes in our way, but I want you to think is this a threat or a real thing? is it a fear of unknown or a fact that’s everyone has experienced? .

The only way I deal with challenges is I take responsibility , I will say what’s did I do wrong not in a self pity way but in a real deep ask and I will find that’s I didn’t listen when people tell me that’s so and so might happen I arrogantly go ahead without doing my real research ouch.

The lesson there is next time is should listen to people no matter how unimportant they look or if I think they have an agenda cause at the time I will have moment to access the situation of what’s if he is right? . This does not imply that’s you should listen to pessimists people who are always negative about things.


Envy is a form of frustration for other person’s success in a certain aspect of their lives, you can use it to propel you forward and not allow it to be jealousy

I believe we all have some of this wishing we have things that’s other people have. But the truth is we can achieve or have some of those things unless they’re things that’s they were special to them only. But cars ,houses and status and beautiful family that’s is replica table .

The frustration is the work part that’s this people put towards achieving all of this if what’s you want requires smart work and you only have hard work then you cannot achieve the same results unless you learn those smart skills. If the type of partner you want is out of your league then your job is to figure out how you can get to the position that’s this person can be interested in you.

For example it’s a common thing that’s a police marries a teacher or a politician dates a professor and so on. So you do the math apart from beauty in social hierarchy where the person you want and where are you and gravitates towards the same or above that’s level so you can have the upper hand. Because relationships that’s are usually based on beauty and material things never lasts .

While if the foundation is considerate ,respect and love for that’s person lasts forever. You might be frustrated dating same kinds of type of people is because your standards of life might not be growing and most importantly you may be not growing your mind in the areas you want to do well in.

Thanks for joining us here at LnM; we cannot thank you enough in trying to be a better social member while the world seems to be going crazy. We are not here to offend or harm or brainwash you in anyway but instead our goal is to create awareness to people who wants to live life with open eyes to the opportunities of a better life filled with meaning and humility not the lack off.

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How to write as an amateur

Welcome to LnM and don’t be offended by the title of today’s topic, but I realized when starting writing this blogs that’s there was nothing special about writing. You just have to pay attention to other people’s format and repeat with different message or same message putted differently from your own experience.

Today I will touch on writing a song and anything you might want to write. My understanding there are few reason to writing like talking is to get a feedback or a messages across ,you can use it as a form of mediation as a reminder and lastly to teach someone or many people at once following certain system.

Do the work

  1. You are not an amateur if you have something to say

Platforms like social media makes people write for terrible agenda’s but if you are reading this I want you to shift your mind. Think of something valuable you can write about that’s unique to you that’s you think people can benefits from.

That’s it’s all its takes see for me I once reply on twitter on Microsoft post where they want to revolutionize the journalism industry and they wanted people views , I replied and because there is no spelling corrector there I sent the messages but it’s had a lot of grammar so that’s me admitting to the fact that’s there is terrible writing .But I saw tons of like because others understood what’s I was trying to say and only blame the grammar which lead me to putting in browser spelling corrector and that’s when my handicap disappeared ,Microsoft word had me lazy to master spelling but either way I leverage it and avoid unnecessary work.

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2. You need to know how to think deeply /connect the dots from the main subject to pieces

English is not my mother’s tong but it doesn’t matter its mine now, what’s important is that’s when you write you don’t deviate too much from the reason why you pick up your fingers and type on the first place.

And know if you have a format you have created for yourself like saying like me ,I don’t write below 5 points so whatever I’m talking about I should think even points that’s doesn’t exists to hit my target lollI’m kidding but you get the point.

I could write one script for 3 days because points may be missing at the moment I started so when I get back at it the next day I’m fresh , I keep going. Pay attention to all your material and reread your subtitles to not repeat the same things in different ways ,this apply to artists as well using same unique words on your lyrics or lines makes you seem lazy and not appreciated by your fans. As much as I always suggest writing from a stand point of writing for yourself realize you shouldn’t fool you. As people we want something fresh and new every time.

3. Tackle real issues

By this point you are a writer and for you to be recognized as a better amateur you need to come through at an issue and break it apart and put your powerful two sense. Meaning don’t hurry talking and using information other people already said about the subject , let it cool off and start to do your due diligence as a writer.

I will refer again to corona virus the songs was coming left and write from artists talking about this in its early stages, I waited and manage to do a three verse song with most of what’s has happened and my take about it. You see when you do that’s by then you have all the facts like Mr.

Warren Buffet say’s I don’t care what’s the stock market is doing for as long as I know the facts. So don’t try to pick up the trends writers are original and so should you .What’s has worked for me the most is to write more from my experiences than through research why is that’s because its seems practical for my readers.

4. We are all thinkers, become a great one

Writers put their thought into papers then average people put all their thought in to action even if it’s harmful one. Wealthy people write a lot, I wouldn’t imagine myself spending a day without jotting anything down my point here just know to be great in life you should write.

Be your goals ,Budget and so on its associated with writing and most importantly write reminders of things you must do and things you already done and keep a head space in your head. I putted wealthy people so you can be encouraged to do it. Please don’t take the writing practice and rally people with it or thinks if people write something different from you they are not writer’s or they’re bad ones. I don’t consider myself a great thinker but the thought and ideas I get from reading other peoples work is amazing.

I hate the fact that’s math’s comes hard to me but words don’t so to become great at something also consider your weaknesses ,maybe you should be a statistician or a logical thinker and really crush people’s emotional weaknesses when they take decisions without contacting the head 1st. So on that’s case you love math simplify it for people like us and make it attractive and I’m sure I can read that’s.

Learning is now so easy , to the point that ignorant is stupid

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5. Only do outlines if you are writing a huge content like a book or more than 5 pages

Other writer’s may disagree and that’s ok , but my goal here is to make a amateur love to write so once I get too technical I will lose that’s guy or girl. Don’t draw your points for a side points you just wrote unless it’s part of research. But it’s your own dreams and horror’s you experienced just follow your memory and tell us what’s happened.

As of writing this how to write for beginners, I have no other person’s opinion because I cannot confirm that’s and I have no outline either all I do is I write about the things I know. I stare at my title and see value I can give out of it.

 There are steps like editing and proof reading in a  writing process , for now I’m asking you to do it yourself or do things once and lets the world figure .right now I’m writing from that’s stand point all I know if you squeeze my work hard enough you will find the juice.

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6. Why anyone should practice writing?

For legacy purposes, for meditation purposes when you write you get lost and really focus so I want that’s experience for you. Reading is the same thing and way better because through reading you get to have a sense of knowing new thing and your horizon get broaden.

And to be honest with you if I didn’t read the books, I would’ve not written anything in my life. Tweets and posts is not writing and the reasons behind that’s writing is wrong. No one entertain meaningful things there so you always get discouraged. Not hating on this platforms but when you write, write and when you play, play. A bonus what’s writing will do to you, you will stop wanting to write on social media its will seem lame and not life altering.

5 mistakes musicians make

Welcome to LnM, today we going to touch on things you should avoid when starting out in your music life , we were guilty of this as well and somewhat not perfect but we want to help our followers and people who constantly come back to stop doing this or at least improve. If you new here you might want to subscribe and look for a notification bell so you won’t miss a good how to info.

  1. Saving hits for one day you make it

We know people like Zakwe , Tns , Duncan and other artists are famous for releasing a song they did on 2015 ,We don’t recommend that strategy because you cannot control it , 1stly you don’t know how people are going to feel about the songs  you might be delay your success .2ndly nobody care until you make it, even the deal you seeking with that song wont reflect because executives and A&Rs don’t have numbers that shows how the song is doing because you haven’t released it and lastly you might be a one hit wonder if you do this analyze yourself.

2. Do diss tracks without a goal

Music is business if you going to make fool of yourselves in public you might as well get paid in the process. The music Vandals that are crazy about qgom music and those real hip hop cats get your priority straight if it’s doesn’t pay the bills its shouldn’t be so important .others will say they’re background is good ,then we will say  consider your children background as well have some balance and avoid having your name dragged in the mud just for the fun of it ,this songs will always be around and once you record something you wouldn’t play for your future family then you need to delete it and get back on track.

3. Don’t back up files of the songs

Have your music in multiple storage devices and even online on the cloud that way you can be able to release music even when you have writers block and do remixes or even resell your work as you grow, Producer back up your kits and sounds, and artists should have their own external hard drive and always sign split sheet every time the new song is recorded just in case one party decides to release the song later as his own

4. Don’t like to pay for quality

When young artists and old artists overlook the quality we just know they still playing, in Durban we don’t have an engineer that we can count on when it comes to proper mastering, Duane sin is not bad but he can be better as well. That’s why ULwaz No Makhula uses Rogan Kelsey from Johannesburg he has proved himself countless times. Why artists don’t want to pay for this services , our assumption is they thing there is no huge difference but wonder why their music doesn’t get the love that we get .People listen and they can tell from good quality to average quality or no quality at all and I don’t even want to talk about radio stations. As an artist you are also half entrepreneur and you need to figure what’s is that as well or otherwise people who can’t rap or sing will do the work for you and pay you peanuts .You Have to invest in your music, in 2020 mastering is only 650 Rands .mixing can be done by a lot of producers locally so you don’t have to sweat.

5. They think dopeness is all that matters

I have artists who get surprised when I charge them for my beats, I respect them and they are dope but making beats takes time and they don’t push that much to create awareness that can lead to potential customers so being dope or talented is never enough. You need to raise your standards as an artist and improve your work ethic and pay people who helps you or you really don’t respect them .if you don’t push hard you cannot get a free beat and a free recording from me ,that waste of time you have to pay. If your dope songs are not well marketed or pushed and makes money they are useless that why is so important to replicate big artists and that why you need a job. This is it for today please add other mistakes artists makes on the comments we know we left a lot ,like signing bad deals but we haven’t  experienced that one and we don’t have a close friend we can refer to that why we didn’t say it but we know it’s there and artists must get council before signing anything. This is LnM Show, we going to give you a bonus

6. They blow through gigs money

Few performances the artists get doesn’t improve their craft in fact it’s hurt it, because they take the money and don’t reinvest but buy alcohol for themselves and girls as well as fake friends. Starting out you not a baler especially when you still make less than 10k per gig you still not that valuable so your behavior as an artist should change  ,you can get paid direct to an account and do yourself a favor leaving a card at home and try to have a love partner who supports you but not drain your funds ,this apply to female artists don’t have girl together right after your performance  ,and as much as you can support at home if you don’t have other source of income for your music at home they should not see the money you just make .reinvest on your brand. It’s enjoyable to do music related things not all of them but most they show you the possibilities, Things like music videos and photo shoots and so on if you do it by yourself now .if you get lucky and get a deal you will be able to control your album or single budget because you will be familiar with this stuff .We hope we didn’t offend anyone by our facts our goal is for you to learn and change your ways for the better LnM we out

5 points, Why it’s important to keep track of how you spend your day

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As of writing this, I recently does what I have always does after sometime, deleting contacts on my phone that’s no longer useful. I am a music producer and lot of things within music which sometimes needs audience on Social media but when removing contact’s linked with my whatsapp I realized that’s my whatsapp is liability every morning I have a new message from people asking for something to me .a song , a free beat or an advice about music which lead to me opening thing blog ,instead of people consuming my time one by one ,I rather dedicate time and write articles and there is a book by ULwaz No Makhula on Amazon called Music Insider that’s has all the contact’s you will need as a musician. With all that’s said I recommend a book called Deep Work on this topic , without waste of time let’s get to today’s topic.

Life is made out of minites and seconds , the time you misuse is giving your life away.

Mark Twain

1. So that’s you will live life worth living

If you can pay attention, to what’s you do the moment you wake up to the time you sleep, you will see where your life is going. I want us to be realistic here say you have a car and what’s you do is helping people and at the end of the day you have nothing to show for it do you think that’s is good living? Or say you wake up wash your face and go straight to hang out in the store with other guys is that’s worth doing? If you are attacked by this and you wish to respond be my guest but I doubt we will find a common ground. The goal of this articles is to open your eyes and have some cause you living for as going to work year after year is much better but if it’s not backed by a bigger cause you might be drifting through life and you will die to oblivious even to the most people in your life and I will suggest you avoid that’s by all mean. If you are an artist going to record every day and do beats non-stop can be exciting and really time consuming but when all said and done does it help the well living of your bottom line?


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2.To see if you not spending most of your day in daily choirs and your life is static, not improving.

For a person who is serious about life, my goal is to escape all the menial tasks at home and hire a person to those for me. Others can afford to do this but yet they know if someone do their dishes and clean their house will open a gab in their schedule and they don’t want to face that’s ,while others think it’s the kids job and not to be awkward kids needs to learn this things cause they are basic  in life ,cooking and all but the hard things should be what’s we instill to ourselves and our kids ,that’s reading books of personal development and biographies of great successful people as well as focus on our relationships ,that’s if you are married have time for your spouse intentionally and get out of the noise of daily tasks that’s surely will be worthwhile. Learn and teach about money which is really a challenging subject and a unique thing to deal with but if you can master that’s part all will seems to be running smooth. And your time alone focus on something, it may be hobby or something you feel may make a difference in your community or world. I know you may said let me see what’s this guy says and your life doesn’t go this lines and maybe you already have a worker but I’m sure somewhere you need to clean up and get your life in order.


3. So your will know that’s if you die today, you gave it your best.

As human beings all the worried that’s we have dearth seems to come on top, yet we seems to forget about it when we look at our priorities. I have some business where I have customers and I know more about what’s going on in the service I’m providing then then do from previous experience, because they don’t know some minor challenges is a huge issue with them so you too, you can say but during my day I’m serving people and they complain and all of that’s, the complaints may be valid but you know what’s you need to fix now or 1st that’s even if you die now your family can inherit viable business. So with all the above analogies take action that’s once done will open many possibilities for you , for me was watching certain channels on YouTube they really change my life and I would know who I am if I didn’t stubble on those ,then those channels introduced me to books and book 10x everything as I saw books are hard and you need to develop the habit in order to read and understand them , I took the route of audiobooks ,I still read books cause is the number one way to acquire information and since audiobooks are passive you can miss most important things.


4 To be a better organized person.

So since I lost my job in 2017, its opened me to the other part of life that’s seemed real and tough which if I didn’t lose my work I would’ve thought life is easy and poor people are lazy, loosing that’s job I got another one eventually its didn’t pay as good but still I was arrogant bragging that’s how come people don’t get jobs I just got another one. See my uncle tried to explain to me the privileges I have but I couldn’t understand until I lost that’s job again and realized I wasn’t good at it. Humility grew on me and I started to feel for people who are not doing well in life as I was now a bit in their shoes ,luckily for me I got curious and learnt this new mindset I’m suggesting here, getting back to the point because of the knowledge I have acquired and habits I have instilled in myself the last to jobs I worked in not even once I was late ,why was that’s I became organized as I started to take my day seriously ,automatically I respected my boss ,I even got a job where I wasn’t supervised and that’s compelled me to perform way better so when they barge on me I was on track and it’s all work well for me till I decided to leave and if you don’t plan your life in daily dose  many distractions will come your way you might not write everything you need to do but the one thing that’s you must do every day should be in your head ,saying if every day I did this one hard thing that’s is out of my comfort zone than my day will be worth it ,this suggests even if you don’t know how you going to get paid from this ,doing it and knowing maybe that’s there is a market for it its what’s matters and do that’s for a long whole. We are human one day missed because of the emergency is fine but make up for that’s loss time.


Action ,thats will forever change the trajectory of your life

Reach out to us for any life advice and music related information ,don’t give up ,don’t commit suicide ,don’t reply on your anger before contacting us , we will help you look things from a different angle

5 So you will be efficient in your tasks

In my community nothing seems to be urgent, for youth and technology invading our lives its worse .ULwaz No Makhula which is me and my friend we saw a really powerful work habits combining our music brand together we amazed our fans doing what’s other artists do in a year in 3 months. So in December everyone was going crazy as usual, we had our little craziness but it was mostly work. We submitted our music video that’s we shot on November then we recorded 3 new songs and got helped choosing a single for January then on January we dropped a music video on TV channels and YouTube , February we dropped a single and march we boosted our page and reach 3000 followers and sometime releasing another new song. I know others know people who release more than that is but I will assure you it’s expensive to market music and everything within it, that’s why there are few main players in the game. We were efficient in our tasks, 1. Because we pushed one another and both want what’s best for the group 2. Because we want to be successful as soon as we can for me the beginning of the year all my chips were in the music table and lastly 3. We are clear about what’s we are doing.

So you too, reschedule your day, week, month and so on if you working with someone we are people and ever changing don’t make huge decisions under a spark of a moment try by all means to be objective and lets situation pass and lastly what’s I will recommend the goal of having a partner in whatever you do is not for you to hold back what’s ever eating you inside as well as not bursting without thinking. You may ask to think about it or agree and if you feel you not ok with the decision reconsider but don’t put the whole building done because of a minor misunderstanding. And lastly don’t be a inefficient one in a team. Bonus point!!


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6. So that’s you will have a day that’s you are proud of

Do we average people have this kind of days? I doubt it, or rarely if it’s not my 9-5 that’s fulfill my day then I have a problem. Knowing that’s jobs are simply a economic transaction system I know is a way for me to get money are there other ways yes about 7 or more .But depending on your job or you are in a lockdown as we are now you can feel your job is a gateway drug to something meaningful that’s at least pay your bills. If not you drag to wake up in the morning and let alone doing the work ,I’m not a guru here I’m a 29years guy who  once experienced the day that’s he was proud of ,here it is at the age of 26 after I lost the job I was talking about above ,I simply took my provident fund and decided to build a rental rooms so during the construction I saw a shift in my life ,that’s I wish for you to experience as well in your life time ,its dint matter that’s I was losing money or investing but my Monday was exciting and I couldn’t wait to wake up and arrive at the site because what’s was going on there was mine and it has a potential to change my life forever knowing or not. Those day I ticked off a lot of things on my daily tasks it was amazing lots of good and bad and backstabbing and so forth but it was worth it , I grew with those experiences I was a boss for a moment in charge of a project without proper schooling about this I only knew what’s I wanted. I changed for the better there and what’s happened after changed me more I got encouraged to read more and its was a perfect time for me to change from the old 9-5 working me because I would’ve sided with my workers and nothing would’ve got done. I read books, I understood that’s if you in my position you need to have a way of doing things and mine was be nice but don’t tolerate sh*t and that’s way I manage to go far as I did and learned to cultivate a powerful relationship with my neighbors there whom at first I had my own wrong 30 second preconception about them, where you normally conclude a person character and attitude within 30 sec you met, the book I read called African midwives really helped me. It’s the 1st time I published something with so much of my personal life in it. You will be proud of your days if you really make them yourself and not anyone who comes to you and ask for whatever that’s doesn’t seems to help you but balance.