Why average people thinks they know everything?

The most respected philosophical thinker of all times call sacroties was qoutes saying : the real wisdom is knowing that’s I know nothing

So what’s about you , when you talk to people what’s do you talk about? Are you type of person who have all the answers and disagree to others or on the other hand you agree add always add?
Today we will talk about this behavior

  1. General knowledge is everywhere

People thinks they know because they listen to their friends ,to the news and read different types of blogs that’s ain’t written by professionals.

Take a covid case for instance everyone has a say ,but nothing seems to matter the only thing that’s matters is following regulations.

The approach of topics we talk about is taken lightly yet they affect us in our lives others influence their friends with wrong information and a youtuber tries to get add teaching a subject poorly or from a good source but failure to interpretation leads to get distorted data.

  1. People thinks their smart cause their a bit older

Ever watch a parent argue with a smart kid until a mother or a dad promises a whipping if the child don’t stop asking such questions?

This may be question about god or law and so on and we as parents never agree that’s my child we don’t know but we believe is worth doing.

Or like my mother says we were born things like this and you not going to change them, you see for me we always argue about money and marriages on how expensive this things are and always thinks of a simpler cheaper way.

But the arguments becomes stronger from adults and a bit personal and intimidating cause they have been through it ,my main concern is losing all this money for one day worth it and go back to work and graph again?

  1. They’re not curious enough

When you think you know ,then there is no room for improvement no open mindness and definitely no empathy.

But in order to have a shift you need to be curious about other things that’s seems like out of your reach and facts that’s can revolutionize your life avoid settling on old concepts and be adaptive of change.

You can act like you know but when time to perform comes you under deliver don’t be like that’s ,for myself I have admitted that’s I know so much and I leave the rest to other people I trust and who have my best interest at heart.

On contrary I can take more than I could and act like I know more than I do and remain in the same place for the rest of my life , & entertain unproductive debates and that’s a fake living.

  1. No one see him/herself average

Riding a taxi I can join the debates and only to find no one wants their points to be challenged everyone wants validation and worse from total stranger.

You don’t want to be in this neediness of social acceptance live your own life and cultivate your own powerful ideas and take what’s other people rumble about in general sense with a grain of salts.

And stay away from information that’s won’t do you any good , no lesson or awareness to gain rather stay with your thoughts and eat from the best minds in the world thus you can fled from being another spec of dust opening their mouths speeding corona .

  1. They base their knowledge on assumptions and hear about than reliable source

News on tv and radio can be misleading due to the political play in place and monetary benefit to the broadcaster and the fact that’s this institutions can be government owned say something else.

Yet people still stand by tabloids negativity and terrible news that’s aint newsworthy and tv propaganda and once a person finds himself right once assumes that’s he is genius.

Since average person doesn’t read books except textbooks for formal education and that’s is scemed through for marks ,you cannot take what’s people say to heart and use it to guide your life.

As a person who wants to be better than average you must make a conscious choice on your consumption of data ,don’t diminish people’s views upright but don’t digest it quickly luckily we have sites like qoura and digest with great information unlike

Facebook Qoura has substance people go there to answer people’s curiosity and lack of answers yet twitter and Facebook are just chat for fun and amusement you rarely get good insights unless you follow the right people.

Thanks for checking this blog out ,I know I haven’t been posting much lately my apologies. But I like being missed I notice the response is high when I have been gone. But it’s not just that’s I found a new job and as of writing this im at work anything I can do to balance things and not lose connection with you.

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Why most people don’t care about money yet they think they care

This is a fascinating realization and I might be guilty a bit but most people don’t care about money yet it is so important. You also think you do care about money but the fact is you don’t care, if you love money you would not do things to impress other people with it but you will keep it and impress yourself following social proof is natural but to embrace the important of money you should fight against that’s urge of keeping up with the Jones.

They think money is for spending

Maybe you one of those people who thinks money is for paying bills and buying same food every month well let me burst your bubble money has many functions and bribing is one of them but I don’t mean negative stuff like that’s. Money has a function of making you well off meaning you can become to the point where money is not the reason you wake up in the morning to work for but wake up to spend it wisely and have fun with your life.

Secondly money can make you generous and give to those who has been really been dealt a bad hand not those who have anything functioning in their body yet can’t apply it well. Thirdly money can solve money problems even those that’s doesn’t seems like money problems and on the other hand money can be the problem for you if you are obsessed with it yet can’t handle it.

They have wrong beliefs about money

To be honest I know most of this beliefs but I never consider them or associate them with money I thought it’s something people say’s for no reason. But things you just say have a meaning and if somehow your mind process it you can end up having a negative view of that’s thing.

For example people say money is a root of all evil, which is not true you see how you act with other people money and cutting corners with it says more about you than the money itself. Money is a simple paper which exemplify trade between two people wanting to exchange something ,when your mind tell you to go steal money or keep change and cook books you don’t necessarily want money but you want what’s money can do buy a car a dress and so on.

Penny save is penny earned having that’s back of your mind limit your thinking to only make penny returns on your investment if you think you care about money you shouldn’t think like most people. Dismiss this kind of beliefs and create your own and think big numbers cause it true you attract what’s you think about .Rich people are greedy or selfish is a terrible mindset because its pushes you away from the only people who cares about money who can also teach you about money but if you resent them well you will get the same feedback.

You need to work hard to make money

If you believe this you may care more about your work than money since every month you don’t save as much as you suppose to. Your work ethic is good but that’s shouldn’t be your long term strategy about money cause if so you will never have more than enough and when by luck you do you won’t have time to enjoy it because the source require your attension.

The concept of multiple streams of income comes from this and that is why you don’t need multiple jobs but multiple assets that are pay you every month or every week or every day even every hour without you working physically or mentally for that’s matter except counting your money and tighten the books.

See if you truly love money like I do you don’t entirely leave things to people especially those concerning money you need some level of paranoid until the person you hired has repeatedly proved him/herself then you can trust those people with your family and your life in to a huge extent that’s a family lawyer or your head of security depending on your type of lifestyle Key pay this people well and don’t assume he’s an accountant he will steal some don’t create that’s room.

You think poor people are lazy or can’t think

I’m also quick to judge but in my experience wealthy people realize that’s not all people who are broke made themselves that’s way. They know about circumstances beyond their management and they know that’s we are not equal and slowly but surely I sympathize like this now as well.

In order for you to see how people are suffering because of a lack of tools and resources and even food make yourself a habit of leaving a tip when you buy or eat somewhere and see people who works in places where they earn minimum wage get excited.

All his/her salary covers number of people back at home and for you to say the person is working why should I give him a tip ,says more about you then the person trying to feed his family with minimum wage. Of cause other’s can be lazy and lack effort but those people are the most creative people and put them in the right place they will fasten the job because they want to chill but yet they need and value money.

This goes back to the topic of the day physical lazy people may suspect that’s why should I work hard for money that’s where smart work comes in. Every path towards money has a bit of it challenges you must endure if you really care.

They don’t have assets but have degrees

If you have a lucrative job that’s pays well doesn’t mean you care about money. If you live on that work and buy fancy cars and you have a big house and family you are not focusing on money but focusing on those things.

If your savings and investment is more than your take home you still an average person with a huge paycheck and I’m not trying to diminish your success you are a successful midlle class and that’s a good life but your kids have nothing after you gone and money cannot change a person who is not sophisticated about money.

Teach your children about money if you care about it and learn this financial education yourself, asset’s are things that’s pay you money every month not the ones that’s deduct your account every month those are liability and the bank won’t help you become rich but they can safety keep your money and take their fees for that’s.

So if you think you are rich because you have a lot of money in the bank thinks again you are rich in a sense but that’s just liquidity to help you have a buying power but your net worth shouldn’t be fixed in one place. Why because if that’s one place suffer some unforeseen consequences? Yea you will be out of the game and money tends to get bored and flow to people who can use it so save and invest some.

Thank you money lovers we are together in this ,money has nothing to do with your happiness but it can elevate it so don’t sleep on that it important. Keep bettering yourself and you won’t regret it for disclaimer I learnt this lessons for successful people who don’t consider themselves financials expects so am I take my advice’s with a grain of salt.

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How to protect yourself from bad habits

This advice is not something you don’t know I’m here to reinforce it. I have realize I no longer post as often since I started writing during the lockdown where I had all the time in the world so if you are seeing this from your email you are the reason I’m writing. You believed in my ideas and this habit of writing was one of the strategies to help myself avoid void and end up doing bad habits.

Do something if you have free time
I use to think my job was important but not worth it but up until I lost it and realized it better to work than not. Free time and having nothing to do on a day may lead you to doing negative things that’s doesn’t show itself as negative.

Here is a example the lunch at work is 30 minutes and you finish eating at 45 now the next 15 minutes either goes to ill debates or smoking.

Ever notice at work there is no much motivation around what’s ya’ll doing only paycheck is; imagine talking about your goals during lunch or how your work has changed your life?

That’s worth doing during your free time than gossiping or talking about TV series. The above statement is an example of small batch of free time, what’s about those who doesn’t work at all? For those who I happen to be one of them as of writing this blog what can you do to avoid doing ill?

Disclaimer I may be a little privilege and have a source of income every month on passive income ,passive income means after I receive the money I have nothing much to do which lead me to having this free time.

Now getting back to the point ,the something you can constantly doing is applying and looking for a job or trying different businesses like selling something on the street for starters while having a bigger picture on how you can spend your time.

Depending on where you live there are hard physical jobs and other handyman jobs you can take rather than sitting on a tuck shop and watch the sun take time from you.

Build habits that’s will propel you forward invest your time wisely and take your time choosing the right vehicles don’t be drifted by air and join and schemes that’s won’t last.

Listen to educational content and stay away from television
Your breakthrough in life will come from something you heard or saw and if you get your inspiration from television I doubt there’s something there for you to get you out of your predicament situation.

When you start the personal development route you will learn life contradictions and more and how hooked you may be, I think that’s where you will need to control your intake of this information with a grain of salt.
This might not resonate to you but keep reading as I have a great point at number 4. The summary of this second point is do the boring worth a while things rather than temporally entertaining things that’s won’t matter in your future.

Read books hard as it is but it’s doable on other hand hit a gym and try balancing these things.

When socializing be conscious on what’s you are talking about when you are talking to people and clearly distance yourself from friends that’s lead you to bad habits like drinking and maybe chase girls and unproductive debates about government and celebrities.

Help people
This is my strategy but I’m conscious on who imp helping but I suggest to you do this in real life not on social media that’s way it will be effective.

So last year when I reached what’s its seems to be my rock bottom ,I started helping my rich grandfather who doesn’t stay with me with one of his businesses without expecting anything on the other hand my aunt was building her house close by and I was the obvious choice for helping.

And last month my grandpa borrowed me 40k to get back in business and also my aunt trust me with her finances thus I can use that’s money and replace it every time.

You may not see who you can help but trust me there is a person who need something to get done, all you have to be is be trustworthy and be efficient and always speak the truth in good and bad times.

This may look like motivation and so on but it’s apply in every aspect of a person’s who value success.

I also know there are times where a person who is in great position and make business deals and have to give municipality side drink money, that’s not the case here that’s the corruption on the politicians end and business people are forced to align with this act, I’m sure there are bad business people as well but you don’t want to begin your journey of having a habit of paying bribes to get things done.

What’s causes bad habit
We cannot protect ourselves from something we don’t know how we find ourselves in. Although I said bad habit in the sub-title but I mean any habit for that’s matter but we are trying to fight the bad ones here.

Reading the atomic habit book they say habits are cause by certain cues meaning we do this which lead us to doing the next thing.

You went to buy bread in the morning and remember you have to buy cigarette as well.

The other way is the environment I am an example every time when I’m in my bedroom I crave pop corn because I associate it with the computer screen and anything I think of watching.

And to fight this negative habit’s we must remove the things that’s cause the cues ,like changing a shop and be vigilant most of all of this remove TV or the type of content that’s cause me to want pop corn.
With time on your hand find other tasks to do instead of those causing you to do the bad deeds.

Maybe you have a habit of cheating to your partner and it not something you have got grip off .You may need to work towards solving that’s bad habit like putting your babe on the profile display when you try to take the number of a side chick and you will remember the oath you did to yourself of not cheating.

Bad habit of forgetting people’s names, simply repeat it in your mind the moment they tell you rather miss few lines of what’s they say and ask them again then forgetting their names.

See your life meaningful
Maybe your life is straight forward and that’s not such a bad thing, but since you have people you admire in life the question is why can’t you be the one admired by others as well?

The meaning can be simply having talented kids who sees you as their manager or investor or try to partner with youth who are doing what’s you wished you have become and become a motivator and patch in the back for them and when they realize their goals you will be a important person in their lives and a role model to any one in that’s niche.

This point is simply to say find meaning of your existence other’s say a purpose ,and your life will be aligned and the bad habits will run away e.g. you are a soccer coach and you say no smoking in your team that’s obviously stop you from doing it as well.

You start a business and don’t think a business as a traditional thing of opening a stand outside and wait for people to come and buy, learn the internet and open a website thus your mind will be open to more things.

But if you will do it in the physical world the habit of sleeping in and opening your shop late may take you out before you even begun those bad habits are bad in business and at work.

Prove a point in a positive way, tell your friends you won’t get absent this year and bat on it or you won’t be late. This bat will motivate you and have you never snoozing your watch.

Without mentioning social media and internet habits I would haven’t be relevant so becareful on how much time you spent there because real life will be waiting for you ,check the cues that’s lead you to picking up a phone and dodge your work and put your livelihood in line.

Before I lost my job I wasdon’t already threatened by my boss that’s if I don’t stop using a phone im gone ,it’s was very hard stopping but I had to don’t find yourself in that’s terrible situation.

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How to decrease chances of catching Corona Virus

Welcome to another piece of the most popular subject of the moment Covid19. Disclaimer this is not a professional advice it’s a survival skill from an ordinary person for more in depth advice contact a doctor or a proven facts on the web. Here is a discipline and a new habit you need to cultivate to not be caught by this virus

Be paranoid and don’t mind looking stupid

You life is at stake you need to do what’s ever in order to survive until this hell hole we find in pass or can be contained.

Wear masks and face shield ,have your own little sanitizer for on the go situations especially if you like me and about to get to a work place where there has been numerous cases of this pandemic ,gloves should be your friend as well as your overall hygiene.

Wash regularly your clothes & hands even have a uniform remaining at work don’t take it home with you and maybe you can consider using a laundry if you can afford it.

Take medication before it’s seems necessary

This doesn’t mean drug yourself but already vitamins boosters tablets and so on are recommend.

Getting back to to Our popular qoute eat your food like medicine or you will end up eating your medicine like food , personally I don’t enjoy eating things like garlic and lemon that’s is being recommended but if that’s what’s its takes to prevent in advance than its a best call cause any medical inconvenience cause a serious distress.

The obvious keep away from crowded places

This may mean waiting for a month end craziness settle down. Or do your grossing earlier or use internet shopping and get things delivered on your doorstep.

Follow the laws in place putted by your government and professional doctors and stop sharing cigar and unnecessary hangouts.

Embrace technology and use it for good not just social media ,use your zoom and skype to conference and keep the work going increase your chances of being indoors until there’s is a cure or a proven system to get covid out of a person system and live normally again.

But even when that’s day come you should be able to live virus free by keeping the above good habits.

Don’t physically contact other people and keep a distance if you don’t have mask on

Kissing and hugging as well as shaking hand are already old way of showing love so don’t be stubborn and act foolish like anyone else.

You know at first I didn’t take this virus serious up until people I respect got affected business wise ,for starters I didn’t watch tv since 2018 January but lately I had to watch president speak cause his restrictions affected me in many ways.

But what’s I got clearly eirlier on was the fact that’s its all on me ,if I continue the old way I will get burnt so do you ,keep social distancing and conspiracy or not we will all be fools so don’t try to be a special case and think this doesn’t exist because you haven’t see live in action.

It’s time to enjoys and disable tension within your valuable relationships

This may look out of the subject but by seeing this chance as a way to bond with your family you will come out strong than trying to run away from them cause you are not use to be with them since job takes all your time.

Working from home has obviously shown another side of life that’s you were oblivious from or having your patner layed of make it seems like he/she wants your love more or they want to take out their stress on you.

But if you can look at it positively and enjoy the moment that’s can be quickly taken and give her/ him all the love with the time that’s just presented itself now you will thrive even in the future.


Seeing you housewife how she spends her day shouldn’t get to you cause what’s ever you see ,if she had to follow you at work all day you can be uneasy too so let it be and understand you choose this arrangement long time ago and minor inconveniences should derail both of you.

Well starting this blog ,like any other of my posts I rarely think I can make it to point number five as I almost gave up at 3 ,but I had to be focus and give you the best information I can.. With that’s said follow us as ULwaz No Makhula (LnM) everywhere online and for our local music lovers we have a new song out called #Kushi_Gqom ft Caleb ,Ntomby ,Nancy M and Magibela Produced by eRevo #Spliff_Entertainment

breakthroughs I had reading books

I always refer to books and encourage taking a look into them but you might wonder why haven’t I share anything that’s I read. Well my concern is giving you my wrong interpretation of the original author meaning but today is a risk worth taking because after this you are responsible to confirm my understanding.

Books may say one thing but to us come as something totally different and sometimes we miss the whole point of the writer and we focus on money making books only or novels that’s becomes a form of entertainment ,today we not going to go much into fiction and novels but business books and life books with personal development.
I want to make this point clear the goal in reading a book is not to pass or fail like school or know everything in it but one breakthroughs is enough ,one idea or insight
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  • From how to invest in real estate by Brandon tenor

This book is supposed to be focused on acquiring houses and all different types of real estates although they end up doing that’s but my breakthroughs came from the behavior lessons they teach first and good financial habits to become a great investor.

My first realisation was 80% percent of your income goes to 20% of expenses every month you need to figure what’s those is and try to consciously direct your funds ,cause at this moment they control you and you cannot take a bank loan without first learning to think critically and logical about your money rather than only relying on your feelings and social pressures.

We all know this is a pareto principle that’s was found by George Pareto in 1952 which states 80% of our efforts lead to 20% of our results and 20% of our efforts leads to 80% of our results the only thing we need to figure out is which 20% is more effective.

This application to all life happenings ,but what’s I found intriguing here was that’s I already knew about the principle but because the examples weren’t made about money I didn’t connect the dots up until this book did.

From crucial conversation*

This is a great book im still reading it too many lessons im going to get , already took something. This book is a research of years which has some human behaviour in it and encourage the necessary skills that’s builds emotional intelligence ,about 3 authors turned consultants wrote this one.

What’s I got we as people when we are in serious conversations with important people in our lives may be boss ,spouse ,parents and so on we tend to be in two modes of trying to solve the differences fight or flight mode ,winning or losing ,making him look bad and cover my ego and so on.

The authors state before talking back out of anger first ask yourself 3 questions 1. What’s do you want 2. What’s my motives especially that’s drives my blood to rush in the first place & 3. Can’t I have the same out come or third solution without making a noise out of ut.

They argue that’s there’s always a third option that’s we are blind to because our emotions and inability to think through our responses blinds us. Mastering this skills is a choice between having a successful meeting and be the only one standing up for the group and not annoy the boss in the process ,is putting in law’s in their place the moment you get merried and still retain their love for your new family. There’s a lot in this book and already something keeps sleeping through my mind.

The cash flow quadrant by Robert Kiyosaki and rich dad team

We all should know Robert Kiyosaki while taking his lessons with a grain of salt he’s all over the internet but this book he didn’t write alone there is a professional business people involved even from real estate but as of writing this the points I want to make seems to keep going back and forth.

With that’s said it’s important to take some notes when reading or listening to a book. This one taught me that’s there are 4 type of quadrants in Life ” E-employee ,S-Self-employed ,B-Business , I-Investor” and they all operate differently in life and their thoughts process and their lifestyle differ a lot and they encourage if people want financial freedom they should focus on B & I .

And made point like if you are an employee E ,you can finance a house for 15-30 years and call it an asset but what’s you don’t know is that’s it’s whose asset yours or a bank ,you got it right a bank because it’s pays the bank money from your salary every month and to you it’s a liability because it’s takes your money.

While if you are in B can make a profit from other people’s efforts from the system you have set up to buy a house in cash while it’s didn’t come as your burden .

You have to read this book because it’s easy to understand while the title make it look like a tough business book ,they touch on taxis as well that’s B- business pay less taxes because of their financial savvy and can always use the money that’s supposed to go to taxes to grow their businesses while S-self employed pay higher taxes then anyone because they don’t create jobs like B and make huge difference in a community and E pays taxes even before they recieve their paychecks from their bosses so already they don’t have control of their finances and lastly I -investing makes money with money and other finance vehicles like stocks ,real estate and mutual funds this one can pay less tax because other investments has high risks and high returns and there are average investors and sophisticated ones like mr Warren Buffet you should also beware of ponzi schemes and get rich quick in I ,.

Unscripted and Fastlane millionaire by Mj Demarco

This are 2 books by the same author you can skip millionaire fastlane if you are in a rush to riches and need tools now because unscripted touches most important aspect of millionaire fastlane.

MJ found his major success in tech space after being in real estate and firstly being a limousine driver here he ended up being a computer programmer making a program that’s made 100 thousands every month till its evaluation lead to millions of acquisitions and made MJ a multimillion and he retired at 30.

The first thing I like about Mj view of the world is unlike most people and the accepted beliefs in our society today he crushes them and from psychological perspective he tries to frees our minds for believing man made dogmas that’s ends up having our lives set up in a certain way.

Like monday to Friday and chill on the weekend for him everyday is the same no boring lazy monday and a crazy weekend ,all is in his control and balance hence he encourage like cashflow quadrant creating system that’s frees our time to do what’s ever we want and when ever we want and not having a boss telling us what’s to wear or which time to go.

In order to achieve this self discipline is vital ,understand the industry you want to generate income from its must have this 4 qualities ,1. Entry barrier – it’s should be a hard market to get into thus less unnecessary competition and wanna bees. 2. Control – if your business run through Facebook for example you are in risk of being out of business if facebook changes it’s algorithms ,that’s why Mj has his own website with like minded people and traffic that’s make him money. 3. Time – What’s you do you should do it once and be able to leave it and maintain it without it requires you to be there everytime ,internet based businesses most are like this now uber and more you buy a car someone else drives it and gives you money.

He hates the businesses that’s rely on too much people because of HR involvement and people have a way of making things complicated but yet encourage business a also a great tool to financial freedom. And Forth is Scale – What’s you set up should be able to scale and make millions because it’s reach millions or it should have a magnitude one sale can be a million e.g royce royce or Ferrari etc.

This is MJ last stand to the worlds ignorance of money because he say a person seeking a financial freedom needs to first have a

difference beliefs about money , and see money as equivalent of value he produces and provides and encourage people to be producers rather than consumers more. This is amazing books the value in them cannot be matched I will really recommend you take the time to read them.

Lastly I want to recommend different books for different reasons

I have a lot of books that’s im reading and have read and I feel like not doing justice if I list the last one rather I will give you names and titles :*Sa tue- The art of War this book taught me that’s ,if you say you going to do something do it or people won’t respect you and you will loose credibility and seem weak

* 48 Laws of power by Robert Green , I read this book as audio book and one of my earliest books it’s easy to understand but at the time I couldn’t apply it to my life but today its a different story.

*25 Laws of doing the impossible by Patrick Bed David ,I saw this guy on YouTube having a valuetainment channel and kept following him until he recommend his book since he was teaching about entrepreneurship he is such an inspiration and he made me see life and business differently.

* DR money guide by Dave Ramsey this book taught me a lot of things about money budgeting ,babysteps saving and most importantly negotiations and my mindset about failure and money.

* African Midwives I forgot the author is the first book In my life in 2017-18 this book literary changed my life and open up me to the world of reading ,its author is a mother it’s taught me more about life and helped me to be able to understand people and be open to then not judge them before I know them , also taught me to know the god role in my life I have been always been a religious person but because that’s what’s we did at home other than that’s I was still a normal person than this book tolds me let’s go and let god.


*How to win friends and influence people by Dell Carnegie ,I have never read a book twice but I owe it to this one its not a manipulative book its a skill everyone should have in order to live with other people productive and effective.

*Think and grow rich by Napoleon Hill this is a famous book it’s too big but I read it in my eary days and its was so fascinating , the thought are what’s make us or break us .

*Rich Dad poor dad by Robert kiyosaki * I read it earlier too and everyone has to its a no brainer the book is famous for a reason. *How to win in a sport of business Mark cuban it’s self explanatory but this billionaire is not doing numbers here he simply tells us how he made it starting from bottom up without loans and stuff , he says you only have to be right once to win big so failure is a normal thing here.

*Hustle Hard hustle smart by 50 cent this one showed me a lot of common things we have challenges with as people like our families are so close to our hearts they can be our downfall as well. *Elon must biography by Ashely vans , the inventor and business man elon must of this era who is still making big things taking us to space and building nice cars a must read.

*Ford biography , Hendry Ford whose a founder of a ford motor company worth millions to day ,his story is word listening to or reading. *Man search for a meaning by Dr Franklin , who was in 3 concentration camps and suffer the nazi oppression during the wars back theb a must read or listening he argues there’s always a meaning behind things that’s happens in our lives good or bad.

*Sepians by Yuvol noah harari , this is history of mankind where we come from till today how we have evolved and build this kind of society we are living in today , I haven’t read a book called homo dues which the author is said to be talking about the future ,a both must read in your lifetime.


*Negotiations without splitting a difference by Chris Voss ,best book on negotiations from a FBI hostage negotiator fun to read and quite humorous.

*Influence the psychology by Rorbet * I might not remember author surname but online you will find this book and others , this one touches our humanly born with triggers in our systems brains to comply and give in or not give in to situation ,reading this book will save you from a lot of psychological trick that’s can be played at you, from buying things you don’t like or need to not being easily manipulated .

The list is endless but im sure I have gave you the great start this mixture will do you good in your life , Novels I will recommend in their own blogs and possibly tv series that’s are educational Thanks for taking the time and reading such a long blog. LnM (ULwaz No Makhula) follow us every where .

Who is more valuable family or friends?

This might look like a question but most people fail to make this distinction in their lives that’s why we are showing the crucial differences today and how we have found to work best when making life decisions that’s involves this people in our lives.

God has bless me with both friend and family also have friends that’s doesn’t come close to my best friend who has become my adopted brother who we run this blog with. So let’s see if there are no lessons to be taken on this subject.

There are 3 type of friends , Friends for (Reason ,Season and for a Life)

This is self explanatory but as we know the elaboration open our 6th sense and we then connect the dots better. So comparing friends with family is a huge understatement we tend to value the blood thicker than water myth ,yet is true and we don’t choose our families while we choose friends.

The question is in this 3 type of friends which one is yours? If it’s for a reason get that’s over with and move on with your life and don’t hold on too much to that’s friend because what’s ever reason you are together will end someday.

The friend of a season can be good and bad if they love you if you are rich then run when you struggle then that’s a seasonal friend , others love you when you are poor like them when you better yourself they leave you.

And more type of friends so choose wisely for me a friend should always be there in good and bad ,rich and poor ,your family and his can also be close because of what’s you have .

Family over everything

I tend to agree with this one from the get go why because family can be your downfall in life or uplift so having them in their place can do you good.

The best think to realise is there are two type of family ,present one and future one if you still live with your mother and father sister brother and grandma then that’s your present family.

But if you are married and you have your own wife or husband and your kids then that’s future family ,what’s ever culture you build within this family will determine the better life experience you will have or life of grudges and hate you will have to endure .

Either way you can consider your family opinions in your life journey but it’s not family over everything ,but because they love you and emotionally attached they can be a great sheild from harm and hardship but some of that’s is necessary for you to build a thick skin for you ,in business and life in general.

People outside your immediate family have unbiased opinion and life lessons that’s can change your life for the better ,so question everything and every norm and old myths that’s blocks your path. Leaving your family is the first thing to test you and help you navigate life.

How many friends should a person have

This shouldn’t be a thing , why because nobody can keep up with a lot of friends let alone one with our busy morden lives but let’s say you have 10 friends which one is more valuable than other?.

For us friendship is like love relationship you need one or two more than that’s it’s all crumble down , for example one of your friends see you as a best friend while you see him or her as a regular friend ,then friction will start showing.

The best thing is to have equal friends and then one best friend because commitments comes with accountability and responsibilities. Facebook friends are not your friend are people you may know , same as Twitter and so on.

The more you build superficial freindships with no substance the more chances you will be used by other people and leave you holding the empty bag , build networks instead, business net ,social community net , book club net and so on positive stuff and please don’t hang with criminals and losse girls because that’s what’s yourl become.

You are the average of five people you spend your time with

Would you choose to spend time with 4 millionaires and you being the fifth or spend time with your 4 kids and you being the fifth.

Although this saying on my title can be contradictory its point is the more time with certain people you get to have their traits and habits as well as their beliefs.

With that’s said having a blog like this as a friend could be a huge leap forward into a cycle of your surroundings ,because you don’t necessary need physical friends to create a psychological cycle that’s with be the average of your thoughts we can be your mentor from far.

Now one friend add to your averages ,then your closest family members second and third your online mentors and positive vibes forth being your love partner and lastly its you and your decisions.

To summarize all this you are your worse enemy what’s ever you decide to take out of this blog is on you to implement it.

People treat you the way you treat yourself and them

See if you show people by action that’s you can be trusted and you keep your word people will reciprocate that’s.

Be a cruk , manipulate lie and cheat chances are karma will play it role so to have a family liveable with you need to be a brother ,mother ,father and kid that’s listen and put himself in other people’s shoes have humility and audacity when putting a point across like acting what’s you preach.

Same to maintaining a friendship for us ,you should be in business with your friend so the money you will make you can enjoy better together lol ,on a serious note you learn your friend best when you see his life skills and how he put out fires and that’s happens well in hustle.

I hope you found me friendly today fam , my goal is to turn this posts to a YouTube voice over videos and if you can pull that’s off 0840196532 whatsapp me.

And later on in life turn it into a book if you can get my right to collect all the posts ever made to chapters and adit it for a better good read . LnM (ULwaz No Makhula) that’s where you like us and follow this blog to get more interesting content #Spliff_Entertainment

How do you go through the middle of the month

I would like to apologize to you who have subscribe and follow this blog called LnM. To be honest I have been lazy lately to write but on other hand I have been dealing with a stress of a middle of a month and acquisitions of a new old house as a real estate for me.

Back to the question of the day ,how do we spend the day’s within the month before we receive our salaries ,pensions , dividends ,profits and more that’s got us going for few days and back to daily doze of dread.

Im at work
Most people are at their jobs ,and thus miss huge chuck of other reality of their lives not saying working is bad actually is a must when you ask me.

Other run their businesses while others are self employed while others earn passive income with less work.

I know most people will they at the latter ,but I assure you as of now you not doing anything that’s you don’t want to do the only challenge you might be having is channelling you money to things that’s will relief you from depending on a job only.

You wake up everyday and do repetitive tasks ,you have studied and mastered your craft but the routine is killing your soul and you are seeking meaning in your life.

I want you to calm down you not alone in this purpose venture ,even the people who are seem to have their life planned out and fun we all find ourselves questioning our existence in this blog we encourage self learning reading books ,try something by Dr Franklin Man search for meaning and really see how fortunate you are to be in the position you are.

I sit around and do nothing
Nothing might be daily choirs in the house then later cook for a family ,for me that’s not nothing remember the housewives that’s all they do after taking care of kids who are at school.

But we are in a Morden age and everyone is aspiring for high paying job or a career of some sort or running their own businesses. I will ask you the question that’s should set a stand for this point “WHATS STOPPING YOU”?

Today I had a realisation that’s I let’s one of my goal sleep this year because I got scared but I really crushed the other by simply believing and by law of attraction.

Use law of attraction and pay attention when nature plays it part e.g say you want a car and all of a sudden without realizing it you get a promotion at work , the mistake you can make is starting by renovating your house or get married and don’t do what’s attracted the promotion in the first place.

Than doing nothing take pen and paper and write down your goals ,for me this year maybe it’s a coincidence but I did write my goals and kept checking them and updating them and saw some results that’s amazed me ,

the point with all this is you don’t need a job to start writing your smart goals and you rarely need money once you have money those are no longer goals are plans.
I hang with friends and gossip and smoke blunt all days.

This goes to young one’s I had to assume that’s you talk politics and pop culture that’s isn’t serving you in any way just pure waste of time. It’s lockdown and you’ve been layed off a bit and they gonna rehire you soon.

Clearly it’s a wake up call I know you’ve been dreaming of having some free time here you go what’s you doing now? I know ,I know you have ran out of funds but that’s not the case here .

The above choices are simply not worth it in a long run act like an adult and behave like there are kids relying on you for their well being ,start that’s now because the future will be exactly like that’s why don’t you get used to it?.

In the future I know I won’t be working for the sake of working I’ll be simply taking care of people and getting paid for that’s and im trying my best to learn them now and try different tactics to persuade them and get to benefit from our relationship ,win win situation not selfishness.

I remember people I use to spend time with had so much influence on me even though I was doing better than them in some aspect of life ,it was easy for me to take their advice and later regretted cause deep down I knew what’s I was supposed to do.

Im still good friends with some of this people but I have find a way to spend less time with them and my new friends are on internet on YouTube and Pdf books audio books and tv shows like shark tank take notes and look for the right people to follow and learn to better your life.

I day dream , play music and watch series

I am a fan of tv series ,I love them but luckily I have better recommendations than the most who watch the most trending one’s but less educational.

You see the channel I started watching called Alux on YouTube first said successful people don’t watch tv and later contradict themselves and suggested powerful one’s with life and money lessons which other people find boring and to be honest I had a hard time at the beginning as well but like a book reader it’s start hard and get easier the more you read .

Music can be bad when it’s come to time wasting ,I am a music producer and I go for months without listening to music because I get hooked really quick since I understand the dynamic of it.

I find a dope song and jam with it over and over and that’s important time wasted without bettering myself , don’t get me wrong it’s not all bad if you feel good sometimes blaze it and jam and enjoy the moment but don’t make it a strategic for your life .

Day dreamers ,im a wonder too that’s the only way I get breakthroughs in my life ,what has your day dreaming lead you?

The kinda day dream that’s doesn’t work is the one that is not calculated this week my other relative came and told me if he could have a million he can do so and so ,now you don’t want to think like that’s in your mind you show that’s you don’t have any idea how you can acquire such money.

You also show that’s you overvalue such money than what’s it can accomplish , I have never had 1000 000 but I once had 300 000 and seeing what’s that’s kind of money can do I manage to connect the dots leading to a million.

Others claim to have made such money in their lifetime but yet their not different from me and you ,why because they see it as fine art everytime they earn it monthly they don’t know it’s potential to set them free even from work they endure.

Let’s me close today’s article I hope you learnt something or too and I might sound like a stuck record tape saying common things over and over ,so I suggest you go back to other articles below and learn more .

This is LnM (ULwaz No Makhula) #Kush_igqom #Caleb #Magibela #NancyM #Ntomby #Learn #Grow

Kushi gqom is the next single for ulwaz no makhula

For the dual gqom group has cooked us a new storm of great music after the lockdown silence boys were busy. Within July we expect to hear a new smash hit by ULwaz No Makhula ft Caleb (who we heard from their last single called Vosho) , Magibela (angsaboni ) ,and new circle of ladies Ntomby who open the track and Nancy M who is a leading lady on the music video Angsaboni.

As you can see how this song is packed with talent we can’t wait for you to hear it Here is a teaser :

They call this one a breakthrough hit ,as we are starting to see a new content and image representing ULwaz No Makhula , and lately they have been sharing written content and different music in their website.

Kush’igqom will be a hands down we can all agree to that’s keep checking their facebook page.

What’s do you do when you have free time and no money?

I know this first hand but not that’s I didn’t have money or has too much free time in my hand but because I do have money and have a choice towards how I am going to spend my time.

Money has nothing to do with how I spend my time unless I make it so, now what’s can you learn from the use of my time and money because at the end of the day I find myself having enough of both while other people suffer to be still or buy a cup of coffee when the month end has pass.

I don’t want to portray a wrong picture of I’m the best and more efficient person when it’s comes to time usage but I want you to consider my justifications.

Where the person’s time and money go ,that’s what’s he values more

The above statement is true but other people don’t have money to invest in things they like and have time but don’t know how to use it and it’s doesn’t matter to them when their commuting they don’t even ask themselves questions like what’s are we doing?.

Why are we sitting around sharing jokes and smoking a blunt or are we celebrating anything since we are sipping Hennessey? If you are one of this people and other who spends their day watching TV series, you need to start and consider the time passing and not coming back your aging and your skills that might need improvement and the fact that’s your parents are aging and you might lose them and the habits that’s are not profitable in your life will make your life worse.

The question will be what do you might be doing with so much free time? First of all you must discipline yourself to start investing in yourself learning and reading this article is the first step moving forward, books, audio books, Videos about selling and negotiations, business, real estate and more biographies of people who are living the life you aspire to live.

Avoid being comfortable while you are broke and have no duties

Don’t accept your present awful living conditions unless you own rental rooms and you make money every month like me then you can use your time thinking deep thoughts and find a better way to use your money and time.

The reason I write this blogs is because blocks of time I have needs something to fill it with and for me that’s not shopping because I earn money without working for it any more. The problem with earning money without working is you feel a need to spend it instead of investing and saving and I’m trying to avoid that’s trap.

 I need more better things to do with my time I am not where I want to be financially and I doubt I will ever be ,target follows the other and my eyes are wide open for opportunities to buy land and rooms. I cannot let’s small wins lead me to comfort that is because after lockdown staying indoor doing god knows what’s some of us may have already be hooked in not doing anything worth a while and this is a wakeup call avoid that’s trap.

Don’t hang with wishers, hopers, excuse makers and substance users

There are people who spend their time because they have it on something that doesn’t make any difference in their lives YouTube’s, Podcasters and Bloggers guilty as charged this doesn’t build a substance business for you when there are a lot of plays involved and the lack of control in your end and most importantly the entry barrier makes you become a dot in a sea of dots and you don’t want to spend time in such thing earlier on.

In real life I prefer hanging around with people who will give me money although I have things that’s I do that’s takes money as well. So other people will come into your life and want your help or use your skills for their vision that you cannot see and the goals they don’t want to pay for and I no longer accept to be the part of that, unless I’m payed now upfront.

The subtitle clearly emphasize what’s not to do with your free time and above I don’t want you to fool yourself like I did 10 years ago, hobby took 10 years of my life and people who were on board are now gone and I won’t let them back in and even now I still push this career but on a personal level so I won’t blame anyone if I take a hit.

Work on having money and the time problem will be solved automatically

I just heard something interesting in the book I’m listening to studying a course and getting a job will help you stabilize the dragon in the room. With that’s said you should be aware that’s this strategy is fine but you need to make something work on the side in case something wrong may happen in your profession.

Starting a business might be the better option in this case you have time to do it and mouth to ask people to help you with anything you might need and start small so you won’t need a capital and then grow. Find something important in a society and do it and slowly remove yourself from the day to day and strategize to grow what you have started. Look online Google for offline businesses you can start today.

Don’t be a social media junkie

Face book is free and I always try to spend less time there until someone recently asked me to use the platform and he will pay me now we talking. If you can find a way to get paid more than a data you use to use social media, I can recommend you keep going because you are free anyway. Twitter and instagram and even whatsapp they will elude you to think you are having fun or serious conversation while you are not doing anything so separate yourself from this bad habits.

I’m famous for being relevant online and knowing how to push music although I have tone down a bit because I cannot connect the money dots well and try doing something else.  You might think you always online because you are a brand or collaborator and people will ask for your face to their content, that fine but the question is do your effort equivalent to the returns?

Or most importantly do you do more, if so then you keep doing that the problem is your business rely on you which is a bad deal for a business person if that’s what you call yourself. I know industries like music rely on having a strong brand to get paying gigs but when it’s all said than done we need to double check if the returns isn’t so small for the hard work we put or lastly we not doing this just feed our egos.

It’s that’s a time of the day where I have to love you and leave you, I hope I have made myself realize something with today’s article because that was also my goal now bonus goal is to have you follow this blog below because we make sense to you when we speak. LnM (ULwaz No Makhula) follows us on all socials thank you.