Life with purpose is worth living

Today I I’m a position in my life, where I don’t have any qualifications that’s could help me get a reasonable paying job thus I’m not excited looking for a job. I did study radio production and finished it but I wasn’t planning to use that’s skill anytime soon, I did apply in the nearest radio station but no feedback and yet I know I will do this job as a hobby one day.

 The only way I have discovered meaning in my life is by continuous learning and self-education, financial education, and discipline and before I woke up I already learned something new but before I go into deep let me put this in point form so it will have a better context.

Have first source of income that’s doesn’t require your time.

Before telling the story above I did got a job as a welder and saved all the money to create one source of income and this doesn’t require great intellect only commitment to see it through.

I have set myself free from financial trap and now I’m busy learning and planning and drafting my future ,although its took me a while to have a written goals that’s I kept going back to but I always have important things in the back of my mind and eventually see them through. It hard to think or learn if your focus is on your 9-5, after it you don’t try to outgrow your yesterday self.

Once money is not your core problem then it’s coming to you every month or day, then you can start and plan your future of cause you can do it after work and sleep a bit late because the bills are already there maybe the child or two as well. What’s I will do on that’s case my kids will have to grow quickly so they can help me build their better future.

Be humble in a pursuit of your life purpose

My grandfather a successful business man is so humble and has humility to put himself in the shoes of the struggling people when he speaks and for that’s I respected him more.

For me I was a bit arrogant seeing my things working out while others were struggling to make ends meet ,but after couple of failures I realized life is unpredictable if I don’t strengthen my weapon (Mind) and mind my own business ,I might end up like people who are struggling and all of my hustle will be history.

I have received a better explanation from YouTube on success TV that’s being successful is not having millions in a bank, although that’s can be important to other people it doesn’t means that’s what important to you as well. If you have passion like music you know your life purpose is around to one day performs for thousands of people and have your song on radio around the world.

If you just got married you also know your next important life purpose is having kids and take care of one another. If you want to have money and experience different kinds of things in life you might want to start a business and endure what’s to come or study to get a lucrative job.

 Here is what’s I have realized if I was not in some place someday and got introduced to a certain thing I will still be alive and oblivious of, but here is another catch there are a lot of things you should treat it that’s way even if they have been presented to you, especially if you have figured out your life purpose you can tell they don’t align then dismiss them.

Everyone knows the world is noisy and Corona made it worse before this pandemic I was oblivious of what’s was happening in the world because it had nothing to do with my long term or short term goals and that’s not being not humble or curious about what’s happening in the world “No” but because I’m still focusing on my money and how to get more of it and I cannot let news’s or daily 30 minutes show distract me. With my leisure time I study learns and listens to productive stuff.

Waking up and happiness will be linked to your life purpose

Other people have got used to waking up early because of the habit their jobs give them although they have to snooze an alarm once or twice, the day you wake up consistently fired up to do something is the days you would’ve realized your life meaning.

This doesn’t mean it won’t get hard but if you can endure hardship on that’s a thing and come to the other side better than you will have a life worth living. You may be a boss of a company that’s won’t mean you will always be nice to your workers, it’s part of your job to be mean and do all the pep talk but apart from that’s you shouldn’t be a hard head outside of that environment.

For example is never a perfect idea to work for your family member because you take discipline talk to heart and you may need special treatment which is not called for, unless he was there in the beginning and you understand one another traits.

It’s take me a serious move for me to loosen up or enjoy a milestone because I have been through so much even in the love department I don’t get too excited too early no one is perfect and small thing usually rub people the wrong way. And sometimes a person get into bed with you for different interior motives and by the time you find that’s you get blown in a heart and loose all the momentum, this applies in business with our partners changing a direction after a year or 5 years after.

In short part of your happiness should rely purely on you not anybody else, not even your child because we may try to saw a good seed to them but we don’t really know how they will turn out.

If the title is good, the content is probably is too

It’s true we judge a book by its cover, and we judge people that’s way too. But I want to add to you reading this, in most cases there are reasons people look the way they do and if you can get to the bottom of that you can find the whole thinking of someone.

This also mean find the person looks, dress and smell good on the outside, what about the place he lives in? Does he or she reads  ,if not where does he get his ideas about life and the most important thing do you want to be acquaintance with this person?

I’m 29 years old now and I don’t feel that’s age and I cannot associate it with my 23 years old me ,except the way my mind has grown from past 3 years I have started investing on myself by learning ,here is where I’m going with this I still have friends I met while I was in high school and they are not growing that much ,some do but the important values I appreciate in a person are not there and we are slowly diverging and I cannot stop this process no matter how much I like them since we are losing common ground hanging out is a bad call and I’m making sure for now I’m not encouraging the connection again since other’s are changing for the worse and they know it.

Contrarily to the subtitle some people work hard on their out appearance than the necessary tools they possess in their heads so be careful, others are fake and sometimes I feel like fact when I’m around big fishes but I know I’m dedicated because if Jim Rohn could come now and ask me to show him my financial goals,I will pass that’s test or ask for my schedule or ask to spend a day with me I will not get a total but I won’t be a total disaster either.

What’s makes your life worth living

I have imposed my beliefs in you and you have bought it into a certain extend and thank I’m honored to influence you where ever you are, would you do me an honor to return a favor. Comment below and let me learn about your philosophies and see if I can’t grow from them.

Right now is the anxiety for me, I really don’t know what’s next I have variables I can control and some I can’t so not knowing what’s next makes my life interesting cause this month I received 40k and a girlfriend last month if I said I knew this things will happen I would have been lying but for this to happen I had to position myself, go out and make small talk and present my case and I don’t do this for a living it’s just what’s happened.

For most people anxiety is a bad thing because they focus more on the negative bad things that’s might happen next ,I challenge you to anticipate that’s less and get on with your business expecting bigger and better returns. Writing this blogs is something I do because I have a lot of time in my hands and that’s really nice,I have things that’s I need to do but they’re not that demanding or actually my responsibility ,I do feel some kind of guilt when I work below my potential but still I will never know my full one I have to start where I am and move up.

The paranoia and always being aware and the new ability I have to talk sense, you wouldn’t believe this but I once found myself failing to talk well with people or filter myself my thought then usually comes out as they are and my friends told me and I kept getting better and have learnt to keep my mouth shut not in a awkward way but listen more.

In closing I’m no longer scared of people this was a serious realization that’s stopped many people from pursuing their life purposes, how did I do it I simply kept learning and reading a book and got confident that every time I’m around people I probably know something they don’t know which is important so there is no reason to be scared of anyone, a doctor, nurse, police, lawyer or anyone in a position of power I tend to be cool with them and actually be curious about their profession and then we will get the ball rolling.

Thank you for spending time with me today, if last year this time I knew I will be writing and sharing information I‘ll probably picture myself doing this but it’s started from an article for ULwaz No Makhula music artists and the YouTube channels I follow the most kept saying they started on Blogs and actually recommended it and it got clear since I have a background in writing scripts for radio why can’t I build a powerful community that can benefit from my insights and knowledge as well as life experience. Here we are now part of us and follow us to not miss anything we do here, YouTube is possible in the near future and you don’t want to miss that’s too.

What’s do you do when you mean well & people think you have interior motives?

Maybe you have been through this and today’s article is not meant to give you an answer but ask for it. On the other hand I want to create an awareness that’s you are not alone, people have been backstabbed couple of times and they don’t trust anyone anymore even people they shouldn’t worry about and automatically push them away.

Why other people can’t accept love?

Love relationship and bonding with family is a hard one in our culture ,we see other races doing well in being united and really embrace the love for one another but I believe in our black community even your own blood when you show them love they think you up to something.

Today I have some kind of headache because I felt being sidelined I really tried to be the best version of myself and try to kindle some family relationship, but I saw that’s my effort is not welcomed I didn’t need to be told I felt it or say my intuition revealed everything to me that’s I was already told but I’m not complaining. My question will be why would this family thinks the worst of me while I’m trying to be myself and practice the bonding that’s will matter in a long run?

What’s will happen to the future bloodline that’s I will create? Should I accept the fact that’s there are member’s of family that’s this kids should not entertain spending time with? I don’t know this is pure love but I’m sure I will have to protect my kids from all the experience I’m having.

The main problem is it’s hard to tell what’s happening am I deceived or it a real thing? I won’t declare my conclusion here but maybe you have gone through the similar thing please comment and let’s talk about it.

Why people who suppose to trust you doubt you?

Its might look like when you are in a company of other people without their other half you are ok and can really be cool and be welcomed or say that’s person is welcome to your place but when you goes to his there is some tension.

Why some other people are really bad with hosting people especially those who are married and treat people so differently from one another and why they expect you to know how to act in their company apart from being yourself? This is questions I’m concerned about and maybe my wife will put me on this awkward position someday but till then this is abnormal for me. I want to make a serious disclaimer other couple are very welcoming and really great hosts, when I visit people I don’t necessary look for this things they just show up and I am a very nice person I know myself so what’s I will suggest is don’t talk too much behind the visitor back, instead tell that’s person directly how things are done around your home and what they need to do after eating or when waking up then having a straight face now and then.

Good gesture and present not well received

Have you ever try to give someone a hug or a present and they act weird like maybe who are you to touch them or what’s do you want in return since you are giving them a gift.

 I have learnt a real lesson some people can really find a way to repay your debt that’s you did out of kindness but you don’t need to know eventually why the good deed other people do for you.

There is more upside into helping people then downside but other always resist help because they have been corned before by corn artists ,but that’s hardly a family member so why a person closer to you sometimes don’t want your help?

This may be wrongly interpreted thinking we deserve help from our families that’s not wrong too but in between there is love shown through helping one another and opening opportunities for one another and so on so the load won’t be on one or two people supporting a family.

 Body Language talk 1000s words and the trick with this is people realize the gesture after you had an important conversation and they are now alone thinking what’s this person meant and why she/he look like this when talking about this?

Why people can’t speak their real feelings and make the other person aware

This might sound like I’m talking about a boy plans and thinks of approaching a girl but end up being scared and not do it but that’s not the case. I’m sure human nature disagrees with the subtitle but people pretend other people because they are scared what’s they might become or thinks they might need them in the future or what? Maybe you have an answer interact with me.

Personally, there are lots of people I don’t like but they’re not close to me so it doesn’t matter anyway, but imagine opening up to someone and set them free, how would that work? I think it’s worth a try or maybe say it in the most polite way possible.

Subjects that’s are not “well ‘talked about,

It’s going to be hard taking time looking at this but you might guess that’s I will talk about tax or whatever but you will be surprised because it seems so basic but most man, woman boy and girl experience it. I wish I was a statistic guy and a research individual but I’m not ,I use experience and facts that’s we all know or maybe dismissed but now is a great time to realize this before it’s too late.

Male and female sexual thinking in general sense

This is not addressed anywhere not in early schooling or middle schooling and unless it’s a concentrated cause universities don’t teach it. Apart from your own brain thinking about these things you might wonder why this is important to me.

Well here is an example a mind of a male thinks about lot of things during the day but once a woman comes across his face his mind get distracted a bit or throughout the day ,especially if a woman is wearing clothes that’s shows most of her sexy parts of the body.

In our today’s society the dress codes are not a matter of a subject but they should, another example how you dress your teenage girl is a different between her becoming a victim of rape or her equal age boys touching her or your daughter being seen otherwise and respected. It will be a great habit for a mom to teach a child not to revile her body and as in church they say your body is a temple of the lord.

We know that’s member’s of family your uncles aunts and older siblings touches little girls and boys and end up abusing the kids sexually but we don’t know how long they endure the temptations leading to those moments.

I’m not giving anyone a way out for me as a uncle I have a responsibility to control my mind and feelings or not recommended but a better option self help and get rid of a steam than hurt another girl or a child and turn to a monster.

The way woman dress in the beach ,well we all out there having a good time we shouldn’t make a big deal out of it right? Wrong, just tell me what do should men do? But for now self control and men love their partners enough not to consider the booty they saw.

There were a video couple of girls raping a guy, and it’s reached the right people and law took care of it. For man that’s was a horrible gangbang towards a woman but for a man this guy was stupid not to take advantage of that’s moment right? Again wrong this male asked for a protection on the video there was none ,and all the sexual transmitted disease after math was going to be his problem ,leave that’s not say his belief if he is a religious person physiologically he is going insane and can potentially kill himself if he doesn’t get help.

Back to men guys we are far from being saints but our sh*t is out there and maybe the law will get hard on us and its should but I want to talk to you in the individual sense ,the need to prove a point should not be an option to you especially if its mean beating your loved one. Here is another example if you are a grown up and you find yourself fighting with your mother having a serious conversation do you resort to beating her up? No, why not? Isn’t that’s you know how valuable your mother is to you ,she groomed you as a baby fed you and say now she’s a reason you lost your job but you still find a way to forgive her.

Your girlfriend is not your mother or your wife is not your bloodline but maybe you have kids together and its easy for me to say cause im not there yet, but since she is your mother of your kid’s would you put booze aside and think of the wellbeing of the children and the wellbeing of her and yourself after this is history after 10 years?

I know people here are not planning to do something bad, last week I beat a guy and I don’t carry any weapon he stole my t-shirts while it was on the line and I caught him by luck, the decision of hurting him came with some small consequences my hand had pains at night, I anticipated his move but he got scared and I built an enemy,there is no justification for what’s I did cause I would’ve reacted differently but human nature played it role.

My thinking went like this,at home there are only boys if someone does this take us for granted and treat us like girls ,I will teach him a lesson also realize if I don’t beat him since I caught him in the store the guys there won’t respect me at all and want to take chances with me so I was proving the point to everyone who was watching just don’t mess with me. Other than that’s I’m a nice guy.

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How to really start a business

You may say people always talk about this one but I saw a post this week saying how to start a business while they meant how to register a company and look for funding. You see I find it’s hard to comments on such posts because the poster possibly don’t run any business and people who appreciate the free advice don’t consider that’s.

Now on the internet teaching people how to start a business is a business on itself and YouTube is that businessman revenue. I want to clarify my position here, I do have some kind of fundamental understanding of a business because I reach about it and I have things that’s pays me money every month but my advice might not work for you.

But I will share anyway the best way I have been doing it, first getting a job has been the most important part of my learning process and getting money to start whatever I want to start, but maybe you can find capital elsewhere but not all business needs capital from an idea you can make money, that’s is if you work hard and smart with your idea. Here was my idea to prove a point I had a second hand machine that’s someone gave me for free after helping him on building his blocks.

Then I had the idea, what’s if there are people out there that are needs blocks who already have a concrete floor and they want to save money and don’t buy bricks at the hardware and want to build them themselves. I putted out 50 cent each poster around my place which written I make blocks R1 each you buy material we build them for you and my phone number.

Then I was in business with a friend and he left since it was hard but we did get paid and if we didn’t stop we would have viable business now, I was already in R1,30 and making a nice profit and manage to hire one guy. This is even before I think of registering a business, no loan or funding just making it happen. You might have MBA degree in business and you have a better definition on how to start a business you can comment below, I’m just saying this subject is not taught well enough because people who teach want to lead people to conferences and make money out of them.

If you want me to make money why charge me the little I have instead of encouraging me to put it in my business? Be careful buying causes and products online, I might make them in the future but trusting me now will make it easy for you to count on me, if I do I will rather get paid from a business profit not you.

Power of the internet

This point supports the previous article check it out, internet is powerful yet very shinny and destructive don’t build your life around it but at least build your business or company around it. This means you get people to push what are needs to be pushed there and get back your life into a certain extent, do it as well but being too religious about it will cost you two most precious things time and money.

The branding side of things,I have realized what’s is branding ,branding is what’s people associate with your name or company here is an example to get you in the right path here is brand in a nutshell coca cola red and white ,smiling people and a 55ml bottle that’s branding seeing this all over its easy for me to associate with a cold drink. What are you doing online without the features explained above?

Your color your fonts and your message ,for an average consumer internet is a second home but let not be you have a life that’s is not based on what’s people said on face book ,twitter or anywhere build your own identity and brand yourself in real life and supply real products that’s you believe in and uses yourself.

Here is the recommended power of internet and there still you should not overindulge, that’s personal development articles like this and Google good information as well as YouTube how to videos and downloading books and go offline and read them less novels more biographies of successful people and personal development books and business books even if you won’t be in business philosophies will help your life.

Imposter syndrome and social proof

This one is not for general public is for you, if you have read so far thank you now here is the meaning of the subtitle, you will read the above things and conclude that’s you can’t do it and doubt yourself that’s imposter syndrome and you don’t want to have that’s disease cause you will never amount to anything if you do. You can change your life , you can control your feelings and anger ,you can take charge of what’s your girl or boy wears ,read ,eat and do while they are still under your supervision and you can stop a bad habit ,by not talking about it ,thinking about it or hanging around it or dismiss it while it’s in front of you.

Don’t copy especially things that’s you don’t understand why people do them, don’t follow the crowd and be your own man or woman and live your life differently all of that’s just a social proof, if most people do it be the exception and that’s way your whole life will. Value your time and other people’s time ,I know some people don’t like me because I hardly commit into anything ,if I do I ask for money if I’m free that’s my problem don’t add stuff and your silly dreams on me.

I love and respect people and I get wrong sometimes but trust me all of the above is worth it. In closing I want to tell you the painful experience I’ve been experiencing lately and its will pass , a girl I met on twitter showed interest and we talked for a while and we ended up dating and then all of the sudden she dropped me without a word ,I might have said things as well but she’s straight up rude right now and here is my lesson in this painful as it is  ,for me is one of those experiences that’s makes me want to be so successful in life that’s I will wonder why this moment of might life was such a big deal anyway. I love and respect woman but that’s one I feel sorry for her.

Thanks again for joining us LnM, still growing and learning as well ULwaz No Makhula please like the page on your left and follow this blog and read more.


To get yourself out of poverty and mediocre, help other people

You might think you lack a job in your life ,or you don’t seem to have an intrinsic value. I can encourage you that’s you are not alone im like that’s I cannot point exactly what’s im good at and when I wake up in the morning sometimes I don’t have a day planned out. So I want to give you tips to make yourself valuable and have rare skills that’s doesn’t require any schooling.

 Be a people’s person

Try to be an extrovert and break the ice in places and start a conversation ,you see its not easy I believe I am an introvert by nature but because I am a continuous learner I studied books like How to influence friends & win people and now I got an edge. Grant Cardone always says everything you need a human has it, you just need to find a way to get it. See don’t mistake that’s statement for selfishness, actually do the service without much expectation and the rule of reciprocal will take it place. For me at home they know I’m good with money ,to be honest I’m not I just know how to lay a story for every cent spent and I know how to cover my loose hands where I really was careless. Here is your job serve more than once a person you are helping may not be paying u anything or your worth but it only a matter of time before you get referral and that’s when the other people will ask you how much you do so and so for.

 be honest, trustworthy, be open minded and tell your unpleasant if it comes to it.

People may be your gateway to your predicament and the same time they might use your situation and exploit you…  As desperate as you are, try to be a straight up person. I once saw a guy who helped a lot in our community, he would complain valid points to strangers about all the people he was helping and you can tell this causes stress and hate for this people but because they gave him something he kept it inside. I want to be honest I have been a victim of this as well ,I would do a number of work and the person I’m working for while I’m away hide some of the work so he/she could pay less. In times like this device a plan either count as u work or time their pay day and act accordingly because some money you don’t get .The other guy I was talking about he ended up being untrustworthy ,at night he will come and steal chickens for the people he work for. And even eggs, so this might also mean to people who rely to other people for their day to day please do right by them.

 Talk less, listen more .Help more and expect anything.

If this is not your professional work, don’t have much expectation, earlier on your goal should be to build relationships and see them prosper and if people don’t call you anymore don’t be mean about it. I remember I once worked as a garden boy for the first time in my life and I can still do it today. It was a flat with 12 tenants by then I already had different philosophies in my head and they contradict as well. So other people I will be good to them especially if their good to me, while others who don’t respect me I will be mean to them. I made my position clear I know my job description please don’t bother me ,but they all got patient with me and I grew to be able to help everyone expect one person who I hope I would’ve came around. There were different type of races there others try to protect me while others try to misuse me, but I found balance and I want you to find that’s within your community and organization.

Treat everyone like your future in-laws.

Can you do this? I learn this at my first high paying job at Toyota .if you don’t understand the colors of helmet what’s they represent from General Manager to a team member you’ll find yourself disrespecting your bosses boss. So what’s I did I learnt the company structure but still respect people like they were going to be promoted the following day .  The in-laws example is assuming the mother you meet in a taxi is going to be your mother in law one day, now imagine disrespecting that’s person. Obviously we are not built the same and people presentation shows what’s kind of respect they need, all you need to do is not be a arrogant person make room for people. I have a tendency of asking people, what’s skill do you have or what’s you good at because I know I can’t do much but I can pay for it. So now what’s if you were to show me your dark side? Chances we can’t get to that’s question.

Also help yourself in a process.

See you can help people and make money but you being the common denominator in all this, the question will be how are you helping yourself with this money? Maybe you are hurting yourself by consuming alcohol or you get paid by drugs .or maybe you have your own silly craving thatisn’t harmful yet it isn’t doing you any good. So help yourself getting out of those things ,it will be hard because those will be your vices and most of us have them and serious people don’t like people who work under substances .if you going to constantly ask for a cigarette while working that’s bad .

Thanks you being curious I might have left a lot of valuable information, and you might know better examples please comment and follow this blog to never miss a insightful article again. And the day I receive a message saying you’ve changed my life, I will have my life impacted as well in a way you cannot imagine. LnM (Ulwaznomakhula) like our page on your left and follow us in all social Medias #Spliff Entertainment Pty Ltd

Don’t let temporal situations trick you to making permanent decision

Hi LnM fam we are happy to have you join us today, ever since I realized that’s I don’t remember much from school but I know almost many things about new lessons I have involved myself in and applied it to my life successfully, I have dedicated myself to share all those insight because like me, someone might have a light bulb turned on and have breakthroughs and make his/ her life worth it. Today we looking at the mistake we make on doing things that’s last all our lives without giving them a consideration when we make them.

  1. Tricking yourself to stealing

I once found myself earlier this year working with someone with a lot of money and because I have already install my personal development in my life , I saw  I was tempted to steal and those I was working with encourage me to do this because  we were going to earn less later anyway. I’m not trying to be a hero here but I knew if I did that’s and steal this will lead to a bad habit of taking with less effort rather I should create the more valuable and money paying thing myself than stealing from bosses. This is more important because it tackle the side of us that’s is called loyalty and integrity ,you see if you have a track record of stealing you can never be putted in a position to look after inventory ,stock or money thus you might not get a job at all. This is great example because moment habit would’ve come with me throughout my life. But the main reason for me to start with this one is because its touches our morality and ethics and if those are broken and we cannot be trusted then we can never strive & prosper in this world

2.Your childhood is not a time to make reckless decisions.

When you are a teenager you might think you know how life work but if you are reading this you are lucky because I will tell you the truth “you don’t know anything about life”. Today we went to see our music mate who we grew up with ,who just lost his mom ,he is about to discover more things about life ,like running a household and more that’s parents usually take care of. Being a teenager is a temporal thing but being a adult last longer unless you kept acting like a kid even then. My advice to teenager or anyone with parents right now, try to teach yourself about life and personal development or at least listen to your parents when they tell you don’t do certain things. Tattoo is something we draw when we are young even in places that’s your spouse wouldn’t be proud of ,don’t fool yourself either saying you won’t get married cause that’s being naïve ,you may not want that but you want a love partner so tattoo is not a good idea ,no matter where it is ,it may cost you jobs and other business opportunities because other people value their surroundings. Unprotected sex with total stranger, maybe after some booze you feel like getting some be careful the abortions and babies left in people’s door and without parents is the outcome of people who make decisions out of certain mood don’t be one of them

3. Failure is not fatal and success is not the end

Giving up is normal outcome from failure or being tired ,but as this subtitle says failure is not dearth is just a small setback that is helping you to do correction as well as success doesn’t mean you can now settle down and enjoy the fruits . Both of this simply means be sad and learn and try again or be happy and unwind a bit and get back to it by setting up another target. The trick you can harm yourself with is having a windfall and taking it and spending it all before realizing that’s might force you to go back and look for the job ,while starting a business is not a must because you have found yourself in a positive financial position ,just keep living below your means and enjoy it for the long as it last. Giving up means never attacking your goal one more time and that’s not a way to do it ,just rest when you are tired and come back strong .Get all the motivation you might need because is all over the internet and the other motivation should be within you. As we speak I happen to be a great example right now ,it’s very cold where I am since its winter and I’m sitting in my computer writing for you and I don’t have any heater or air conditioning I just took a blanket and rap myself up 

4.If you are angry wait 48hrs before responding to what’s made you angry

A person who hold a grudge and act on it after a week ,depending on what’s you did to him he didn’t have a week he was in hell you can’t hold on anger for so long unless you revive it every time you see that’s person who did you wrong. I’ve been done wrong several times and if I always try to get revenge on those, I might have had many enemies right now and because I love business I know one day I will make enemies that’s I know and be able to live with but for now I have saw we don’t want revenge we want to prove a point when other’s do us wrong. That’s mentality means we putted ourselves in a position to get scammed or insulted and we want to show others this behavior is not acceptable to us, so you hurt the other person. What if you let it go? You’ll say what people will say, I’m scared of him? The catch if you are not taking revenge for your own justice then doesn’t do it at all because people won’t give you the respond you want and you will be one in jail or anywhere this anger might lead you.

5. Look to the future or better make the most of the moment without regret

The first part may be me, every move I make is directed to the future I don’t know but all I know it will be way better than my present because of my present actions. You may be the YOLO slogan kind of person, so I won’t be a person who gives a absolute advice do something now that’s you won’t regret later ,meaning if having fun now is what’s you want go for it but don’t wish you did something else ,your only live once must not affect your tomorrow situations  ,drink a rent money then tomorrow deal with a landlord . Stay online all the time instead of reading books and bypass the other people mistakes, then you’ll have to repeat the same shit and waste your life. The only thing life needs is balance you can enjoy now and future by drinking moderately, read on a schedules, gym and work this means be more disciplined than ever.

6. Value serious relationships you have and don’t be too eager to initiate new ones

Changing groups won’t work well on your mindset; you will be all over the place since many influences will hit you and your subconscious mind. Changing friends and partners may cause you to expect certain traits to people because of your past experiences, maintain the relationships you have after school and make them work and be worth a while. Forsaking a friend while still having common goal is not a sound move ,or having grudges within the family and not talk for years is bad because it’s the only sentiment relationship you have on earth ,it’s your bloodline and that’s will never change.

Be angry with them, if they hold you back keep the distance but don’t cut them off totally that’s will be making a permanent decision out of short term thing. And unmaintained relationships don’t show fruits so make sure you make use of your time with your loved ones.

I’m sure there is more that’s we find ourselves in and at the end of the day, find our dreams and vision dead at the end and even find ourselves lonely at times ,I hope the list above you can share to people you think they can find value. Please follow this blog and comment as well ,I would love to hear other people speak here thanks .LnM like our page on the left.

Never take your 9-5 job for granted

In a self help society we living in, there is a huge resentment in jobs and people preaching self employment and being your own boss. But today I want to share a light of this trap, unless you work towards something bigger than where you are then you shouldn’t not hate your job, even if you have big dreams job will help you achieve them quicker and keep a bit of security. I want to add don’t let your consumerism habit keep you in a job that’s you hate not because you need it, but because you want to pay for your lifestyle not necessitates. 

  1. The easy way to get a better job is to have a job in a first place

This job will offer you experience and skill and some sort of mastery on what’s you will be doing everyday. and Taking that’s lightly and be deceived by gurus who ask you to take risk and leave your job ,you can always do that’s but make it a calculated move ,have already have a demanding business and reasonable income before taking that’s leap and have the ability to leave below your means.

Leaving the job you have right now might make it hard for you to get another job so be careful making this move as the subtitle say ,people refer the jobs to other people who are at the workplace ,meaning the reference only comes from the fact that’s this working people wants to improve their work standards not leave it completely to fairytale of running a business. In this blog we emphasize entrepreneurship but we also understand it’s not for everyone.

  • Job is not only a hard work to make a living or being in an office all day but it everything you do.

Here is a wakeup call, your job offers you the route with a reasonable stress unlike what’s your boss handles everyday .The job will make things happen for you, the only thing I can suggest is not treating your 9-5 as a way of life but while working try to escape the need to work by building something aside that’s will end up making equal money with what’s your present boss pay you.

 Here you should make research and invest on something that’s won’t make you lose money, if you can do this you have a chance of becoming a business person. For example building a rental rooms and take a rent every month if you can keep that’s up using your own income in three years you can make serious money just avoid improving your lifestyle when this happens because it will cost you your progress and you will be stuck at your job and not appreciate your new job of being a landlord.

Actors, musicians, Youtubers and other influencers are also working and not working is also working because you cannot go through a day without doing anything. So our 29yrs advice is make looking for a job a new job and also try to be creative and start your own job without being hired and try to grow and get out of the dip quickly.

  • A job is a ticket to your dream life or your plateau

I don’t factor much how much you are making because what’s you are making you agreed to at the time you started working it was good enough and you created wants that’s ended up making it like is small. The best way to raise your level of living is starting by increasing your income, so if you don’t know how to increase your income then increasing your stuff will leave you broke and miserable in the money side of things.

Success TV says don’t treat your pay slip or wage as a fruit of your labor but a ticket to your desired life , meaning don’t take your earnings and eat it all ,invest most and live on some. The lives of people becomes absolute because their philosophies about life has became absolute and if you already thinking like that’s you should start and be open to new ideas from people who are doing better than you in life .

 If you want to learn and improve your marriage learns from people who have been married longer than you and seems to be happy and same apply to finances. Because reaching a plateau is when you are in your high paying job and think you have made it in life, because you have a car, wife, kid and house.

That’s not true life is still going to throw problems in your life and you should be ready a wife can leave you and take your stuff if you don’t have prenuptial agreement or a kid may have a problem ,so as you master your work life and relationships also master the mindset and your environment.

  • To make the most out of your job use cash and avoid premiums

This is not a professional financial advice is the advice that I used, don’t use the money you don’t have to impress people that’s don’t care about you, even if they care its won’t matter when you work to pay debts for the most of your life. Enjoy the income as it come and budget if you can and try to have more money left over at the end of the month.

Look at your budget and look at the things you can eliminate and see things that’s no one will die if you don’t have them, new shoes, new clothes, new TV and so on and use those funds and double them in a form of selling something and adding profit or creating a cash flow recurring rental that’s when people will be paying premium to you rather than you paying premium to them.

  • Work is not a verb is a management system

For the country to strive its needs more producers than consumers, consumerism cause obesity and other problems while production cause great economy for everyone. Now as AI and AR is about to change the way we work ,working physically hard is slowly getting irrelevant and this goes back to the reason of working in the first place ,its was a management system what’s adults will be doing when kids are at school?

They will be at work and what do kids will be doing while parents will be at work they will be in school learning how to work and all the unnecessary things school teaches. This has became a system the countries are governed but this doesn’t mean so much work is necessary. Agriculture is necessary work as well as doctors and lawyers and some other important industries.

But the most striving business which is a transport business as for luxury cars which are what’s people work for in our days its what’s makes people get stuck in a system ,instead of getting a car that’s will do the work taking you from point A to point B ,we also want to show off to our social society and that’s make our jobs a verb something we have to do instead of trying to get out of the system by making money work for me ,while I explore my other talents and passions.

So as of today topic don’t resent work if it doesn’t fulfill your needs, look at your expenditure, what’s you do with that’s money because work shouldn’t fulfill you if it does that’s a big up for you, unless it’s your passion or you find meaning in what’s you are doing and the environment and you wouldn’t choose anything else but if you complain of being stuck, you are stuck in a system better yourself and get out.

Well here we are to the end of today’s topic and we hope its find someone who needs it .And from now onwards you will start seeing your work as not the end of the world if it is, then it’s the world you love living in. If you have accepted your situation and live to pay bills consider the possibility of not being able to support what’s ever you are supporting with your income?

Thanks for taking the time we can go forever just appreciate and be grateful of your job but don’t think you cannot do well than that’s but if you already living a simple happy life don’t complicate it ,keep that’s emergency fund and security for your family.

It’s important to take risks when you are young

Life is easy when going according to a plan is and the way parents expects. But at some point you will realize as you grow up that’s you didn’t win in a sport you were passionate about , you didn’t start that’s business ,you didn’t become a music super star ,the question will remain how did I end up here? Or is this life I was hustling for? Life may be good but the void within and what’s ifs of your life dreams.

  1. To some day realize our dreams

I’m proud of my friend Makhula as he once said music is his passion and his life dream. The reason this is important from him is, from the look of things he has everything a successful person might need but he is being realistic about not reaching his childhood fantasy of being a music superstar one day and as a friend I suppose his vision because I’m in the same boat with him and for me it’s all I have right now and the only thing that’s should work because side hustles doesn’t fulfill me not even close but music has a potential of making me happy and strive for more.

  • Because parents are still there to pick up the pieces.

Don’t be scared of what’s people will say, in most cases people has their own worries and you don’t matter that’s much until you make it matter. So take chances and use your money as investment rather than fruits of your present labor. If you take this risks you are writing your own story that’s its will be a great biography one day.

My wishes has shifted a bit lately apart from making it in music, what’s will happen after that’s matter more and I will use my fame to change the world and get the recognition from channels like Alux.com because their the part of the struggle I’m in they help my journey easy because of their lesson’s not just them, success TV and Valuetainment as well as grant cardone.

I know others are seemed to be building some cult movement but what’s I have found is the information works and people who complain are those who hurry or invest poorly in their programmers. I have saw a ROT since it’s only the investment I have ever had and if I could take a program it’s would be just a thank you to this people.

Back to the point, I fail its ok my mom is here or dad, the only problem with this is their influence of love trying to protect you from pains of failure so be careful and don’t let their words derail you. Keep trying and do what’s ever ethically right to get back on your feet and make your hustle work.

  • Don’t think small ,and don’t hustle for a living

What’s I have done with my life is to balance my financial life , I don’t have any commitment that’s needs premium every month ,that’s way I only have money to save and bills to pay and cash to take more risks. Now I have a new strategy I save for bigger risk since things works with money I have never been a person of luxury and money spender. At home I try by all means to cover necessity nothing more or less ,so the day I changed and started to think differently  I had already bought Premium TV for my home but the following year me wasn’t going to do that but at home their managing to pay for it  , I don’t because I don’t watch it. And I know I shouldn’t think of myself only and other people are not like me  ,but for my nephews the only thing I’m trying to do is being a positive influence.

Back to the subtitle apologies for being all over the place, Thinking small also have to do with starting a business without learning first at least a bit that why we have me too businesses that’s really might not make a huge impact. Other’s go out in the street and sell and end up fixed there as a job because money get loose and more stuff is being bought. I

n the morning I was reading unscripted by Mj Demarco, he says he once notice a beam with stuff that’s was about to be taken by janitors, Bicycle, boxes, clothes and so on. He say someday way back someone open a wallet and bought this things and today their valueless. My point is you don’t need anything that’s you think you need, you want those things and any excuse to buy them they doesn’t align to the person you want to become. I am a perfect example if you can come to my room now the only stuff I have make me money it’s a music studio and I invest songs with it and there is a desk and a bed nothing more.

Your level of thinking collate with your standards in life, standards in this context is not big labels you wear but the value that’s comes to you if you do a service or sell a product. If you think highly of yourself you will charge that’s much for the things that represents you. So think big and act as such work more and like grant 10x your work ethic ,so you will minimize the number of years you will work that’s way unless it makes meaning to you.

  • Be in the position of having nothing to lose.

This blog site talk more to entrepreneurs than average people, but if you follow us you can also benefits from the mindset shared here. Say you have a job and a payed off house and car and a small business running without you would you tolerate you boss mistreating you?  I think no cause you have a backup plan and you have nothing to lose. That’s how you actually have to set up your life to have nothing to lose ,be self reliance and slowly moving from your parent’s old way of doing things unless they have proved to be a great role models who made it in business and life and were a example of warm home. As you involve yourself in many things you mind with experience hardships and things to endure give it rest enough to face another day , learn mediation also learn to enjoy your own company.

  • Risks not worth taking as a young person

This article might be wrongly interpreted so let’s put our position clear. Don’t take risk of starting alcohol and drugs or smoking. Don’t take a risk of trying to be a Casanova or a player that’s won’t be worth it. One girlfriend is fine and then you should do that to improve your people’s skills and protect yourself from the risk of having a child earlier in your life because that will limit your risk taking.

Don’t take advantage of other people in a bad way add value and take what yours. Don’t risk joining gangs or becoming a thug or dating old people for money.

If you find yourself in jail please choose the right mindset to hang with ,you can be a fool and attend church in there but do yourself a favour and not become one of the number’s member and try to prove something and try to replicate that life when you are out in a outside life its won’t do you any good. People who can open doors for you will keep their distance and community will be watching you and be a suspect for crimes around.

Thanks for taking the time and reading , maybe your kid can benefit here it’s a good time for this kinds of lesson’s because sometimes as parents we hardly talk about this stuff cause of our daily busyness of trying to put food in the table. LnM please follow us and like our page as ULwaz No Makhula

Patience and urgency in life is important you need to find balance

Success TV on YouTube say’s they don’t see young people in a hurry to better their lives and I tend to agree. As we grow up we not taught to have missions in life, we know about goals but we are taught as collaret to jobs, buying cars and houses and getting married although those are important they have less to do with your long term livelihood. Today we going to make examples on how life movement should be treated and I will make with myself and please take what’s I say with grain of salt and if you agree to what’s I say the moment I say it then that’s will means its resonate with you and you are making a realization which is my goal.

  1. Don’t rush big decisions and big things

For a young person could be quitting school because of repeating a class ,as much as most of the school information is not necessary in real world but dropping out of high school can create a bad habit of not sticking through tough times in life.

Adult could be getting married after 6 months in a relationship or because you have a baby with that’s person, lot of considerations needed before acting to that’s fairytale and if you already compromising some part of your life for this person the question will be, can you keep up with this behavior after you are married or its going to make your life harder?

Financial decision’s like financing a car, is not a small one but other’s do it because of the secure job they think they have the problem with that’s kind of payment is your ability to save enough or be flexible with your money this can also means at least buy a 2nd car that’s will do the work take you from point A to point B.

  • Patience to me is

Wait for month end busy to dissipate before I make quick stress less shopping, it’s also mean’s not having commitments that’s keep me in a route to the point that’s I cannot leave my present environment. It’s also means till I afford the luxury watch I want don’t open an account for it. Patience mean don’t settling for a job that’s doesn’t impact my life compare to other options I might have this doesn’t not means fooling yourself though ,if the work you can do is gardening so be it , for as long not wanting a job that’s require profession and you want to wing it. Or fake it till you make it, you will get fired the moment you get in, unless it’s a growing company and its trains its own people.

Its means not looking for highs of life in wrong places, endure the boring parts of your life. I don’t know if it’s just me but relationships and any kind of hang out end up in some spending and compromising you don’t want to find yourself in that’s position while you are trying to build a habit of saving. What’s I have done is I have created my own environment in my bedroom is a studio since I’m into music and because I have access to the internet I started this blog so no matter how bored I am I find something productive to do. To avoid missing people who don’t miss you get to do something or really value your 9-5 and make the most out of it.

Be aware of yourself ,don’t let things happen to you all the time ,make things happen for you sometimes and most of the time ,be in charge of your actions and think before reacting to what’s comes next. It’s always has been important to be in a love relationship in my life but how it’s happen, it’s always a matter of chance either I react to a stranger’s smile or entertain inbox on my social media and those have not work well for me so far and I have started to embrace to be single because then things I stress remain few and less about company I keep but money I keep and progress I’m making in things that’s I spend my time doing. I know getting a partner is something that’s I will deal with but the reason they fail for now ,I’m still figuring myself and my life purpose and this contradicts with my recent beliefs and my partners don’t help.

  • Urgency to me is

Quick to act on the right things , starting a business is a lifelong commitment don’t rush to execute but be in a hurry to start and get going and really spend time studying your industry and people who are your customers and worker’s and be paranoid but control it. Decide quick  and do ,delaying things is a bad habit but as I said above you can consider hanging out with friends or read a book .but if the option is read a book or hit a gym then no consideration necessary find a way to do both. It’s been said you need to reward yourself to motivate yourself , I will say there is no reward in life like achieving your goal and realizing it those moments in life that’s I rare and other people won’t experience them in their lifetime.

What’s fun to you? Maybe I’m talking like a businessman or abnormal person but I am very ordinary and me too I have to figure a lot in life. But since I am a musician I have been to clubs and parties as a performer and people seems to be having fun while really open to mingle and get a one night stand, since I don’t drink it’s the strategy I had hard time understanding buy a booze for a stranger with a hope that’s she will agree to come with you at your place and hit it off that’s night.

For a sober person I always take number’s and fails to follow up, but guys have cars and can really get this habit going.

Things that’s keep this successful people in their own right and mediocre to not go up and live comfortably or live ambitious purposeful living is they don’t count the financial and healthy cost of this lifestyle and they can’t maintain certain status with wasted (drunk) moments in their live. So you mustn’t aspire to succeed because you want to party hard that’s really the opposite of what’s you will be suppose to accomplish but that’s your homework.

  • Balance

For things that’s related to your long term goal, in the short term you must do them no question asked but how urgent may differ to what difference it can make now as well. That’s means don’t allude you into progress by doing things that’s won’t matter at all now and in future.

Change is important if you are trying to figure yourself in life, my beliefs change a lot because I read book and listen to them as well and many of my realizations happen during this times because sometimes I have been using the wrong strategy for a while the moment I see it doesn’t work then I change not drastically but slowly adjust and see how things go.

This happens because books contradicts sometimes and that’s where the reader come in to decide cause the key to self learning is not looking for solutions but tools to solve the challenges of life and business, if what’s you read claims to have a secrete to make a million chances its will lie to you or show you the techniques but still you won’t make that’s immediately after you have finished the book.  

The quicker you get the result the riskier it is, rush to finish line but don’t want quick result because the illusion of having a business while having a job is a big mistake. Grow your business to the point that’s you are not needed in it but don’t build slowly to the point that’s you are stuck in being an employed person in your business. What’s I have strived and approach I have used to get my business running is I save money from where ever I get it until it enough for me to start something to also hire a person that’s will replace me while I figure other things out.

  • Don’t mistake urgency for a hobby and patience for laziness.

You can be quick to go to a sport field and play soccer with a hope that’s one day you will be a superstar but we both know that’s might be love and passion pushing you not direction and sacrifice and desire to be in top of your game so be careful like me if I find doing music easy and full myself to putting the work with there is little to no progress.

Don’t say I’m being patient while being lazy of doing what’s you suppose to do, maybe I’m repeating what’s you already know and guilty of my that’s not my goal to put you a victim, my goal is to get you going if you may act now on what’s you suppose to do and thank me later then my goal will be reached.

We can summarize the whole article by don’t rush to buy, rush to sell. Don’t rush to chill rush to work. Don’t rush to commitment keep flexibility .Be the opposite of the masses. I want to close by saying do the work and have a standard for yourself and life can be in a hurry but I will suggest you get moments to deliberate that’s way you can have breakthroughs in your life. Thinking is not acting to thoughts but is to listen to your mind and decide and note of fascinating and important things your mind suggests.

Thanks for paying us a visit, as I always say I may say things without considering your position in life and you might be reading and saying it’s because I don’t know. That’s true and my humility lies with you but as long as you grow yourself now and again you have a chance to find a way out to your adversity. I agree I don’t know your environment, your level of schooling and your life baggage but imagine if you are no longer in this world ,what’s will really matter? How will you be missed? LnM be part of this blog and grow with us, follow us as ULwaz No Makhula.

Beverage you really need is water

I’m not a medical person or scientist I am a little above average person because I learn every day. I learned about water more after I read a tweet by Patrick Bed David since I follow this guy and his lessons on Valuetainment in YouTube, I find it easy to buy in, in his philosophies he put a list of drinks a person can consume and at the end put water as the number one recommended consumption and the fact that’s it’s free in many places buying it will be flexing but it’s ok for as long as its water. Now I will share in a simple language what do I experience since I have kept the commitment of drinking water only throughout this year and possibly for the rest of my life.

  1. I don’t get tired after a meal

I use to stay with my grandma and tea was a must after every meal no matter the weather and I thought it’s a norm ,at home we hardly buy a juice if we buy a cold drink we finish it immediately because we know it’s one of the rare occasion. But what’s happen after drinking all other stuff, I realize I hardly drank water back then and its important was not drilled in my subconscious then, so I will get tired after drinking a tea or cold drink. Worse are energy drinks I already know in the future they will be more like cigarettes because of its side effects the ingredients there are meant to mess with your normal body functioning and if you are the type that’s fuel yourself with energy drinks you will burn out and suffer diseases like kidney failure and more.

  • In movies when someone is overwhelmed is given water

The only thing you can learn immediately from watching TV is people are given water if they come stressed of perplexed about something or maybe too sick. But I assure you, make water your friend and you can give you that’s dose every time you are dealing with your own challenges of life. Water dilutes everything strong you might drink, so you can start there and reduce your sugar intake or alcohol. We are in a lockdown and still dealing with Covid 19 and alcohol is in the sanitize that’s kills this viruses, so alcohol as beverage is not good for anyone but as the lockdown persist and things are open people has gone back to their old ways but as you are reading this we hope you will have some realization and consider slowing down on booze.

  • Water is natural

No brainer point but its means a lot to get our minds at ease, we are natural beings and what’s makes human species strive is by functioning by nature. You know people who exercise a lot drink water mostly and eat green vegetables as their meals and less oil intake and foods like processed foods that’s has lost its nutritious value. Water makes you different in a good way, when you see people around you neglecting this tasteless juice you know you have found something they haven’t and possibly will never know. This goes back to the thing I mention a lot in this blog, avoid liking things that’s liked by the masses and things that’s seems shiny and fun. In my teachings here in LnM I always try to tell people that are take our advices with the grain of salt cause we might be wrong as well all we know if you find yourself agreeing with us in some other points, that’s means we are on to something.

  • You will realize that’s water is important although its free to other’s

When you hear that’s there is shortage of water, what’s come to your mind? That’s we are surrounded by water how can we lack it? The truth is sea water may be expensive to clean and worse I’m sure they haven’t yet figured a way to get that’s salt out.

But I know the progress has been made where other companies change stream into consumable water and clearly at some point even a poor person will have to figure a way to buy clean water cause government may fail to keep up the free bees although free votes will go out after every 5 years.

I remember when I was young ,looking after my brother’s new born and the baby was crying non-stop ,he’s 18yrs now but back then I didn’t know what’s to do so as a naïve kid myself I gave a new born water .

By then I knew water was harmless rather it’s the only normal consumable for everyone in the world. On the other hand I remember giving the same little boy an apple instead of porridge, that was really naivety because this little thing doesn’t have teeth loll and I had to pull that’s out when he started crying.

  • 8 glasses of water a day is a myth

You see ways of teaching people’s stuff differ and the message ends up conflicted, I want to do you a better version of 8 glasses a day. Drink water after every meal that’s is already 3 times a day ,now what’s I do every time I put something in my mouth no matter what’s it is ,snacks ,biscuits or sweet I follow up with water now you see how quick you can reach 8 glasses a day. And don’t think you will need to pee a lot because you drink a lot of water, I find that’s peeing system doesn’t change much unless you have a medical problem. So don’t be frightened by the number of glasses because that’s number are not even close to the impact water will do in your life.

In closing now we are in winter where I am, and someone said you not going to drink tea while it is so cold? Maybe I’m too much of an experimentalist so I’m not asking you to go hard as I do, but start and fall and get up until you want nothing but water and people around you will understand. Thanks for joining us once more or for the 1st time we hope you will be sticking around we have a lot of life-changing articles here LnM. Follow us as well on all social media as ULwaz No Makhula.

How to properly make use of your mind

The first title of today’s topic was why you should have a bigger cause in life, but that’s might not get the point right. Mind is the only driving factor in your life and if you can pay attention to it, you can manipulate it to your own ways, rather than allowing emotions dictates your decisions. Now without waste of time I will explain in point form ,but before I start make sure you follow this blog so you won’t miss any information that’s might impact you positively.

Learn to connect the dots with your mind by looking and listening

I have discover a skill of making sense of many things from watching a TV series ,or reading a book and so on ,and I can only do this with my mind . Maybe you have done this before without knowing its valuable human skill so I will make you an example.

If you watch a Tyler Perry movie and a woman have an affair and break a heart of a honest husband, and later on the story shows the wife being sexually abused by her father. But Tyler doesn’t explain that’s the wife has more sexually eagerness than his husband and doesn’t show much the affect of working long hours and don’t give your partner enough attention and lastly for a wife to not open up to his husband in every aspect of their relationship then as I’m watching I get all those lessons .

If you don’t pay attention and can’t connect the dots, you will miss the point of a important lesson in your life.

Listen, Look and try to remember things when you are in a situation. Personally I have made missteps in life and still do even today .But fighting with my mind and trying to do the right thing all the time is not easy but to be a great and a good person you need to overcome the bad thoughts.

See as males some of us find ourselves in rock bottom and in that’s state we can make the most terrible things if we don’t learn to be mindful of our minds for example seeing a little girl and think you can take advantage of her, the uncles at home who has hard life and smoke and all this stuff, they need purpose in life and need help because once they become stuck they are potential problems in a society.

The aunts that’s you can find being soliloquy have a negative potential of destroying peoples marriages they are not crazy but the society is sidelining them and they are lost in their minds as well no one seems to care but if we can as a community try to revive one another spirits and constantly motivate one another we can solve the cases we hear on TV and radio.

Teach your mind that’s working is part of life

Never for a minute think life is worth it without working, even bosses work and much harder than their employees. So if you are a fan of or blog know we are working every time we release a new piece.

The only correction we can make in the concept of working, working is not only hard labor ,but most important side of working is working through using your mind ,it can be calculation ,strategizing ,write ,read and publish ,plan and hold effective meetings , negotiate  and so on that’s really work and from all this you can see this is all mind work.

But picking heavy stuff and doing hard repetitive work is also fine but don’t be stuck in that’s while working, in order for you to not be complacent you should work towards something big or what you are passionate about.You cannot escape working, because having a dull day is also work and personally I happen to have those days because I can push so much as well, then sit back and reflect. The decisions you make are part of work and not taking decision is work you don’t want to do.

Feed your mind

This is no brainer if you’ve been here before , you know we are advocate of learning and reading books , I found myself loving to learn more than average person and its has became a habit to me. Then one day I watched a video on my favorite channel on YouTube called success TV, they said if you are passionate about learning you will never succeed, because you are learning for entertainment rather than learn to apply things in your life or business.

Chances are I don’t even have a business and now I have became a motivational speaker because of my learning without any track of success. The point is learn to grow and apply lesson’s in your life try to be a different person every year, personally I have learnt and unlearnt things that’s were not working for me. So it’s also important to pick and choose don’t live your life by the book make your own choices from authors two sense.

Meditation

I won’t talk much on this subject, I find it hard for now but I have used it and found myself having a nice sleep. Meditating is a way to look at your thoughts from another person’s sand point and don’t act into them while trying to quiet them with mantra technique ,which is repeating one or two words over and over e.g. I AM or Your name act until you get to a peaceful state. Get the advice of Buda on this subject and other’s this is basic for me.

This also means controlling your emotions meaning controlling your thoughts, think before you answer and at least take 48hr before acting on your anger.

Control your consumption and your surrounding

At home they know I don’t watch TV and it’s something I committed myself to doing after hearing that’s successful people don’t have time for it. Now the content I watch that’s a TV program is really a recommendation that’s has education in it other than that’s I’m not interested.

My mom has a tendency to call me when I pass by when there is a crappie thing on TV and she knows I cannot stand that’s and after this realization , I started to understand my own subconscious mind ,if something is not going well in my  business I don’t sleep well . If I have a serious fight with a family member it’s hard for me to sleep well, don’t to mention love relationship really mess with me.

So I have develop to deal with situations and not get into deep to soon and started to watch something else before I sleep so my subconscious mind will record that’s unimportant thing than I can sleep well.

Listening to Mr. Robert Green talking about human nature ,he talks about being truthful about yourself and also realize that’s everyone in life is an actor and as a person you should be the best actor for your role. Have a self control and so on, and realize that the life game is social and people are important part of puzzle so get along with people.

I have lost couple of gf’s because I was too transparent and too honest and girls don’t like that’s and that my own view. Now I will be working on my old approach of being a regular guy, because if I get serious too soon they can’t handle it. In closing be aware of the type of person you are and give the respect people deserve that’s you will like given to you.

Well if I was in a conference and you were listening and taking notes, I would’ve stopped you from taking notes because I feel people they practice what they usually practices in lecture classes and worse they won’t revise this ones.

I would suggest listen to my talk then when you get to the office or home write down what’s you remember and that’s what’s you will use in your life ,the lesson you resonated with.

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