Awareness about your life and world at large

Welcome to LnM, we tend to write subjects of our own and avoid catchy topics because we might not do justice. Today’s topic about Self-awareness and your surroundings cannot be far from significance, that’s why we thoughts it could be a good idea to talk about this and really take a moment for yourself to embrace it.

Make it, your life mission to seize a moment

Missing a point, missing your mark and really not having a north star is really other people’s reality but please make sure to not be yours reading this. Do the math, calculate your moves ahead of time like they do in chess and when you hit your target celebrate and be aware that’s is happening and seize that’s tiny moment.

When I was growing up, I didn’t know there were so much possibilities in the world and how really successful people spend their days. Then one day I found myself excited, I was buying my 1st property and paying for my girlfriend damages for impregnating her. In short I was manifesting the person I always claim to be, business minded and responsible but that’s not what’s got me excited. What’s got me happy was looking how far has I come in life and still manage to reach those goals.

Back to you looking at your achievements, do they still resonate with you today? Were they worth it or what’s everybody expect you to do? Do you impact your experiences or you don’t plan your days? It’s important to ask yourselves this questions because they will show you if you are living or just hustling towards your dearth date.

If you not sure what’s happening around you and within you ,or look at your emotions from outside looking in you will have a problem of not knowing how to deal with those circumstances. For example the feeling you feel after an argument, and how you handle that’s situation is a different between a person who act out of anger and a person who act out of thoughts and bigger picture.

Be aware of things beyond your control and those within it

The natural disaster is out of your control, beating yourself for the damage it has done is something you should do less and get back to pick up pieces and put your life back together. Today I was talking to a guy, who we meet mostly for music related stuff and when he was leaving we started talking general stuff. Being the person that’s I am I gave him a chance to speak and I had to dismiss most of the things he say’s but not arguing but for showing him my perspective.

The pandemic is out of my control as an average person and how ever its affect the world or SA economy that’s not my primary concern which was my answer to what’s we were talking about. My primary concern it’swhat’s I can control, my personal finances and my lifestyle, he got me and we changed the subject.

So you too guard your mind from talking about things that’s don’t connect much to you in a community level , I think the reason why people spend a lot of time talk about corruption and the lot of money that’s is borrowed by our government it’s because they don’t have their own money to worry about. If you are one of those, you need to do a self-check all the news and things that’s try to come to you as important analyses them and look at them as they are, things that’s won’t matter in 6 months.

But if you start cultivating good relationships now and maintain them with right people in the same 6 months you will be ahead in life. If you start saving your money for a certain investment at the end of the year you will have something to be proud of except your bonus.

A song worth checking out but is zulu languege

Find a way to hold yourself accountable

This Blogs are just that’s ,at some point you reading them you will want to know me better and I would like to reveal more of me and my friend but we owe it to you to be way successful 1st then take a full stand behind our teachings ,so this is our way of holding ourselves accountable.

What’s will be your way? How will you build a self-discipline and do the hard things in your life to put yourself to the position to win? There are things that’s people do that’s looks easy but are actually hard, and there are those that’s are easy but looks hard for e.g. working for a boss who will give you daily tasks is much easier than what’s your boss does managing and trying to scale the company and looking a job for you in the process while making sure you do it.

A person working on assembly line is doing an easy repetitive job, compare to a person sitting in a computer working his mind off trying to balance a company account or preparing a presentation for the board. So in all of that I encourage you to find that’s challenging work or build it for yourself after work so your life will have a meaning than being on a cruise control and having things easy. Why this is important, easy things don’t require much discipline and you can do them even in the last minute and no extra effort necessary and if what’s you do is that’s way ,then you won’t have anything to hold yourself accountable in. Your mistakes are taken by your supervisor, who has to deal with a manager and you can be reckless knowing that’s the decision to get you out of the door is that’s hard.

The goal of this is not for you to resent your present job ,but be aware you can do better in your life ,for those who’ve been selling in the streets you might be making decent money but you have to improve your vision and don’t settle .keep learning and apply what’s you learn and if you scared leave someone else in your spot while you try to do better.

Happiness is a buy product of living life accordingly

Happiness is a serious subject and you need to study it, so you won’t conflict it with other subjects like having money or being riply fit and so on. Although that’s is important but into an individual level there is enlightenment that’s most people hardly reach ,and we or I’m not also there yet but I tend to understand something the more I learn the less paranoid I become.

To you that’s can be ,the more I spend time with my family ,the more I get to know they better and thus be able to associate with them. Family is something’s that’s has an automatic effect ,you don’t choose it yet when you have it ,you don’t necessary wish to be with other family .You can envy what’s they have but you know deep down my home is way warmer .

I have been set to be aware of work ,family ,health ,finance and people to make my life happy , meaning if I got all of that’s right I won’t have a happiness problem of Couse stress now and again but knowing how to deal with people will reduce it.

Working is very important, and nothing seems to beat it. During lockdown I got a gf in Twitter because somehow I’m still browsing then the moment ,she got back to her real life ,which I assume is work and maybe other things she didn’t tell me about ,I lost her clearly that’s wasn’t my girlfriend yet and I was so naïve to open up so quickly ,she might have been overwhelmed by my straight forwardness but that’s moment hurt me and I’m still dealing with it and I’m aware of my misstep’s , I saw some of the red flags of why our relationship might not work but dismissed it. So from that life experience of mine please be careful of looking for happiness in places that’s don’t have any track record of that’s. And pay attention to the details.

Know yourself

Know what’s rub you off the wrong way and try to avoid it by any mean , For me being committed early to relationships hurt me and I really need to work on that’s. Know what’s lift your spirit up and seek it but not leaving important things seeking this feeling. Know your strengths and weaknesses and improve and bet more on what you already finds easy if it has a better rewards in your life.

This piece is mainly about self and unless you in a right place you cannot deal with the world around you. And if you are not special in any way you cannot be different from people around you then that’s the weakness unless people around you are successful and depending to your definition of success, if your nearest surrounding has all you want in terms of character, material things and more then you doing somewhat well in your life because those people won’t let you in their cycle if you don’t have what’s its takes to be like them some day. 

Other thing know that’s there is no highest level keep pushing the bar higher and take other people advices with a grain of salt including this ones and make the decisions you can be able to live with.

5 points, Why it’s important to keep track of how you spend your day

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As of writing this, I recently does what I have always does after sometime, deleting contacts on my phone that’s no longer useful. I am a music producer and lot of things within music which sometimes needs audience on Social media but when removing contact’s linked with my whatsapp I realized that’s my whatsapp is liability every morning I have a new message from people asking for something to me .a song , a free beat or an advice about music which lead to me opening thing blog ,instead of people consuming my time one by one ,I rather dedicate time and write articles and there is a book by ULwaz No Makhula on Amazon called Music Insider that’s has all the contact’s you will need as a musician. With all that’s said I recommend a book called Deep Work on this topic , without waste of time let’s get to today’s topic.

Life is made out of minites and seconds , the time you misuse is giving your life away.

Mark Twain

1. So that’s you will live life worth living

If you can pay attention, to what’s you do the moment you wake up to the time you sleep, you will see where your life is going. I want us to be realistic here say you have a car and what’s you do is helping people and at the end of the day you have nothing to show for it do you think that’s is good living? Or say you wake up wash your face and go straight to hang out in the store with other guys is that’s worth doing? If you are attacked by this and you wish to respond be my guest but I doubt we will find a common ground. The goal of this articles is to open your eyes and have some cause you living for as going to work year after year is much better but if it’s not backed by a bigger cause you might be drifting through life and you will die to oblivious even to the most people in your life and I will suggest you avoid that’s by all mean. If you are an artist going to record every day and do beats non-stop can be exciting and really time consuming but when all said and done does it help the well living of your bottom line?


The watch shouldn’t exceed your hourly pay though

2.To see if you not spending most of your day in daily choirs and your life is static, not improving.

For a person who is serious about life, my goal is to escape all the menial tasks at home and hire a person to those for me. Others can afford to do this but yet they know if someone do their dishes and clean their house will open a gab in their schedule and they don’t want to face that’s ,while others think it’s the kids job and not to be awkward kids needs to learn this things cause they are basic  in life ,cooking and all but the hard things should be what’s we instill to ourselves and our kids ,that’s reading books of personal development and biographies of great successful people as well as focus on our relationships ,that’s if you are married have time for your spouse intentionally and get out of the noise of daily tasks that’s surely will be worthwhile. Learn and teach about money which is really a challenging subject and a unique thing to deal with but if you can master that’s part all will seems to be running smooth. And your time alone focus on something, it may be hobby or something you feel may make a difference in your community or world. I know you may said let me see what’s this guy says and your life doesn’t go this lines and maybe you already have a worker but I’m sure somewhere you need to clean up and get your life in order.


3. So your will know that’s if you die today, you gave it your best.

As human beings all the worried that’s we have dearth seems to come on top, yet we seems to forget about it when we look at our priorities. I have some business where I have customers and I know more about what’s going on in the service I’m providing then then do from previous experience, because they don’t know some minor challenges is a huge issue with them so you too, you can say but during my day I’m serving people and they complain and all of that’s, the complaints may be valid but you know what’s you need to fix now or 1st that’s even if you die now your family can inherit viable business. So with all the above analogies take action that’s once done will open many possibilities for you , for me was watching certain channels on YouTube they really change my life and I would know who I am if I didn’t stubble on those ,then those channels introduced me to books and book 10x everything as I saw books are hard and you need to develop the habit in order to read and understand them , I took the route of audiobooks ,I still read books cause is the number one way to acquire information and since audiobooks are passive you can miss most important things.


4 To be a better organized person.

So since I lost my job in 2017, its opened me to the other part of life that’s seemed real and tough which if I didn’t lose my work I would’ve thought life is easy and poor people are lazy, loosing that’s job I got another one eventually its didn’t pay as good but still I was arrogant bragging that’s how come people don’t get jobs I just got another one. See my uncle tried to explain to me the privileges I have but I couldn’t understand until I lost that’s job again and realized I wasn’t good at it. Humility grew on me and I started to feel for people who are not doing well in life as I was now a bit in their shoes ,luckily for me I got curious and learnt this new mindset I’m suggesting here, getting back to the point because of the knowledge I have acquired and habits I have instilled in myself the last to jobs I worked in not even once I was late ,why was that’s I became organized as I started to take my day seriously ,automatically I respected my boss ,I even got a job where I wasn’t supervised and that’s compelled me to perform way better so when they barge on me I was on track and it’s all work well for me till I decided to leave and if you don’t plan your life in daily dose  many distractions will come your way you might not write everything you need to do but the one thing that’s you must do every day should be in your head ,saying if every day I did this one hard thing that’s is out of my comfort zone than my day will be worth it ,this suggests even if you don’t know how you going to get paid from this ,doing it and knowing maybe that’s there is a market for it its what’s matters and do that’s for a long whole. We are human one day missed because of the emergency is fine but make up for that’s loss time.


Action ,thats will forever change the trajectory of your life

Reach out to us for any life advice and music related information ,don’t give up ,don’t commit suicide ,don’t reply on your anger before contacting us , we will help you look things from a different angle

5 So you will be efficient in your tasks

In my community nothing seems to be urgent, for youth and technology invading our lives its worse .ULwaz No Makhula which is me and my friend we saw a really powerful work habits combining our music brand together we amazed our fans doing what’s other artists do in a year in 3 months. So in December everyone was going crazy as usual, we had our little craziness but it was mostly work. We submitted our music video that’s we shot on November then we recorded 3 new songs and got helped choosing a single for January then on January we dropped a music video on TV channels and YouTube , February we dropped a single and march we boosted our page and reach 3000 followers and sometime releasing another new song. I know others know people who release more than that is but I will assure you it’s expensive to market music and everything within it, that’s why there are few main players in the game. We were efficient in our tasks, 1. Because we pushed one another and both want what’s best for the group 2. Because we want to be successful as soon as we can for me the beginning of the year all my chips were in the music table and lastly 3. We are clear about what’s we are doing.

So you too, reschedule your day, week, month and so on if you working with someone we are people and ever changing don’t make huge decisions under a spark of a moment try by all means to be objective and lets situation pass and lastly what’s I will recommend the goal of having a partner in whatever you do is not for you to hold back what’s ever eating you inside as well as not bursting without thinking. You may ask to think about it or agree and if you feel you not ok with the decision reconsider but don’t put the whole building done because of a minor misunderstanding. And lastly don’t be a inefficient one in a team. Bonus point!!


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6. So that’s you will have a day that’s you are proud of

Do we average people have this kind of days? I doubt it, or rarely if it’s not my 9-5 that’s fulfill my day then I have a problem. Knowing that’s jobs are simply a economic transaction system I know is a way for me to get money are there other ways yes about 7 or more .But depending on your job or you are in a lockdown as we are now you can feel your job is a gateway drug to something meaningful that’s at least pay your bills. If not you drag to wake up in the morning and let alone doing the work ,I’m not a guru here I’m a 29years guy who  once experienced the day that’s he was proud of ,here it is at the age of 26 after I lost the job I was talking about above ,I simply took my provident fund and decided to build a rental rooms so during the construction I saw a shift in my life ,that’s I wish for you to experience as well in your life time ,its dint matter that’s I was losing money or investing but my Monday was exciting and I couldn’t wait to wake up and arrive at the site because what’s was going on there was mine and it has a potential to change my life forever knowing or not. Those day I ticked off a lot of things on my daily tasks it was amazing lots of good and bad and backstabbing and so forth but it was worth it , I grew with those experiences I was a boss for a moment in charge of a project without proper schooling about this I only knew what’s I wanted. I changed for the better there and what’s happened after changed me more I got encouraged to read more and its was a perfect time for me to change from the old 9-5 working me because I would’ve sided with my workers and nothing would’ve got done. I read books, I understood that’s if you in my position you need to have a way of doing things and mine was be nice but don’t tolerate sh*t and that’s way I manage to go far as I did and learned to cultivate a powerful relationship with my neighbors there whom at first I had my own wrong 30 second preconception about them, where you normally conclude a person character and attitude within 30 sec you met, the book I read called African midwives really helped me. It’s the 1st time I published something with so much of my personal life in it. You will be proud of your days if you really make them yourself and not anyone who comes to you and ask for whatever that’s doesn’t seems to help you but balance.