WHEN LIFE SEEMS LESS EXCITING

When life seems less exciting

Welcome to another blog, we not mostly about answers here but to make awareness to you that’s you are not alone in your daily challenges and question’s you find yourself asking. What’s I came to this world for or what my purpose in life we have tried to broaden your horizon in the past and we want to assure you, you not the first one to experience stagnant life or some pause all we can say enjoy it while it lasts life is still going to be busy for all of us. You might argue it’s been 10 years and I will tell you the moment you get busy 10 years will feel like you took a 1-week break in life.

It’s might be you still don’t know what’s you want in life.

The only way to know what you want to be in life is to take your learning serious learn about many things as possible then keep downsizing it to master. You also might be listen to people telling you what’s you good at and what you should be ,they might mean well but taking that’s literally can affect the whole trajectory of your life.

 For starters in high school we get chances to go to conferences once when we are in our last grade and had to make the important decision of our life in one setting with inefficient information and using our weak gut feeling about a course and few years later you are stuck in a job you studied for 3 years and you don’t see a way to back out and it hit you my life isn’t exciting. If you are a parent it can be a good Idea to help your child and expose him/her in many industries before time to choose it will be easy or cultivate their natural talents.

You see as of writing this article my life doesn’t seem to be exciting but yet everything Is going well ,for me that’s when I worry more cause I know hardship is on its way but at some point this line of thinking of mine should change. But most interesting someone offered me a simple job of doing what’s I don’t find challenging doing and that’s marketing on social media and the little he’s going to pay me will be a bonus, what’s left for me is to improve this aspect of this hobby the payment and that’s means I should be more valuable and then excitement can be possible.

WHEN LIFE SEEMS LESS EXCITING
this how life is suppose to be

You might not be serving enough

You see as of my learning ,I came to understand that’s to live a fulfilling life the only thing you should do is to serve others but for me it’s got calculated in the need of funds I serve people with money with less expectation.

 In the need of help of learning I serve people with skills I need and see what’s happen and in the relationship cultivation I serve my friends and family and see if happiness is not maintained. I started reading a new book called crucial conversation and this book will help me a lot dealing with everyday people and immediate family.

Reading and watching YouTube videos has really come handy in changing my life and I can’t wait to afford more books that’s are not found in public domain ,or say I do afford but still need to take that’s action to make it a routine to buy a book. Deep down I see myself teaching a lot of people life lessons and business ones that’s serving me well in life.

Yesterday I asked my boy  whose 18 that’s if I crave something and I know I shouldn’t buy or eat it and I have money ,what’s should I do? He’s answer was simple don’t buy it or deny it and act do nothing. I find it interesting his answer is right and I have saw him practice this every time so he could buy something big he really wants’ others may be buying fries and nice food and he will save his money for a phone or a pants he has a determination and self-discipline that can push him a long way in life.

But the problem he is growing and his reasoning will keep changing especially when he will realize that the next paycheck is coming and he can slice a bit ,I hope that won’t happen. But in the name of serving when he has a family of his own to serve the challenge he might face keeping up with his great style of personal finance.

Having empty day’s

The real reason I’m writing today’s article is because of what’s I’m experiencing of having unscheduled days and I’m grateful for that’s cause I’m open to try different things or have a window to go back to my high paying job. Although I’m not thrilled going back to work but its part of a bigger plan.

 Although empty day’s doesn’t excite me its gives me the most thing everyone needs a challenge and creativity to do something with our lives , I wouldn’t recommend that’s you spend your life doing a house choirs as a strategy to live life and mostly that can be annoying but okay to other people is having someone telling you what’s to do with your life maybe a spouse a parent or teacher that’s regret you can never take back to the advice you took the advice and that means you are responsible for the way your life is when their dead.

Say you 40 years old now I’m sure you had a clear idea of what’s you wanted to become when you were 6/10 years old, of cause you were a child but you tuber wasn’t one of them and what’s ever you are doing now was still one of them but logic and reality sets in and here you are. To have your life get a spark what’s would you change and what’s stopping you.

What’s do you want?

Its may sum up to one question what’s do I want, material things car and house now that’s you have them what’s next? You pay them for the rest of your life. For me eyes opened the day I lost the job I had for 3 years and my priority got straight and car wasn’t one of them although I was planning to buy one the preceding year.

Car is important but we don’t have shortage of transport so if I’m not using it for business then I’m losing money on it. Your wants and needs has a subtle line of difference so you need to pay attention, in the process don’t sell your soul in trying to binge and being a consumer freak.

For me I want to succeed in music but this one might change it’s a gift hobby turned business but lot of plays involved and if things doesn’t get in line quickly I might have to focus to what’s makes a huge difference in my bottom line. I don’t encourage quitting or giving up but I can always come back to this love of my life but for now stakes are high I need serious focus.

Maybe you have lost trust in people

You are paranoid, for a business person that’s ok but what’s your reason? I grew up and still live in a hood people are generally good and few are bad and settings differ so you need to trust some people to have a shot of living well.

I have gave trust to my best friend and its might be in me to be paranoid but for my friend I think hard before of suspecting him of any interior motives he might have when he speaks or ask he’s been real to me as artists and as friends. I think we all need to give away trust and hope for the best no one is perfect but give some people benefits of a doubt.

 I was listening to 50 cent audio book when he said he lost his manager Chris and ever since it’s hard for him to trust anyone like he trusted Chris .We as human species betray one another in many way’s but one must move past that’s betrayal and build relationships with other and trust wholeheartedly .

Your wife (although I’m not yet married) cheated you don’t trust woman anymore, learn and move past that thought like animals they may face danger by the river but they forget about it immediately once they feel safe, we are different species we learn from this events but sometimes we should act like animals and be oblivious of the negative past to open a room for new people in our lives.

I don’t know which excitement you anticipated when you saw the title , but partying and going out balling wasn’t the case music video’s has that’s for you. That’s kind of fun doesn’t last that why it’s pieces of 3 minutes on mtv but long term life enjoyment needs other lessons and other things to be embraced.

Thank you for visiting us, don’t forget to follow us and don’t miss such insights. LnM, like the page on your left if you find value here is not even a matter of a thought a sure way action.

Life with purpose is worth living

Today I I’m a position in my life, where I don’t have any qualifications that’s could help me get a reasonable paying job thus I’m not excited looking for a job. I did study radio production and finished it but I wasn’t planning to use that’s skill anytime soon, I did apply in the nearest radio station but no feedback and yet I know I will do this job as a hobby one day.

 The only way I have discovered meaning in my life is by continuous learning and self-education, financial education, and discipline and before I woke up I already learned something new but before I go into deep let me put this in point form so it will have a better context.

Have first source of income that’s doesn’t require your time.

Before telling the story above I did got a job as a welder and saved all the money to create one source of income and this doesn’t require great intellect only commitment to see it through.

I have set myself free from financial trap and now I’m busy learning and planning and drafting my future ,although its took me a while to have a written goals that’s I kept going back to but I always have important things in the back of my mind and eventually see them through. It hard to think or learn if your focus is on your 9-5, after it you don’t try to outgrow your yesterday self.

Once money is not your core problem then it’s coming to you every month or day, then you can start and plan your future of cause you can do it after work and sleep a bit late because the bills are already there maybe the child or two as well. What’s I will do on that’s case my kids will have to grow quickly so they can help me build their better future.

Be humble in a pursuit of your life purpose

My grandfather a successful business man is so humble and has humility to put himself in the shoes of the struggling people when he speaks and for that’s I respected him more.

For me I was a bit arrogant seeing my things working out while others were struggling to make ends meet ,but after couple of failures I realized life is unpredictable if I don’t strengthen my weapon (Mind) and mind my own business ,I might end up like people who are struggling and all of my hustle will be history.

I have received a better explanation from YouTube on success TV that’s being successful is not having millions in a bank, although that’s can be important to other people it doesn’t means that’s what important to you as well. If you have passion like music you know your life purpose is around to one day performs for thousands of people and have your song on radio around the world.

If you just got married you also know your next important life purpose is having kids and take care of one another. If you want to have money and experience different kinds of things in life you might want to start a business and endure what’s to come or study to get a lucrative job.

 Here is what’s I have realized if I was not in some place someday and got introduced to a certain thing I will still be alive and oblivious of, but here is another catch there are a lot of things you should treat it that’s way even if they have been presented to you, especially if you have figured out your life purpose you can tell they don’t align then dismiss them.

Everyone knows the world is noisy and Corona made it worse before this pandemic I was oblivious of what’s was happening in the world because it had nothing to do with my long term or short term goals and that’s not being not humble or curious about what’s happening in the world “No” but because I’m still focusing on my money and how to get more of it and I cannot let news’s or daily 30 minutes show distract me. With my leisure time I study learns and listens to productive stuff.

Waking up and happiness will be linked to your life purpose

Other people have got used to waking up early because of the habit their jobs give them although they have to snooze an alarm once or twice, the day you wake up consistently fired up to do something is the days you would’ve realized your life meaning.

This doesn’t mean it won’t get hard but if you can endure hardship on that’s a thing and come to the other side better than you will have a life worth living. You may be a boss of a company that’s won’t mean you will always be nice to your workers, it’s part of your job to be mean and do all the pep talk but apart from that’s you shouldn’t be a hard head outside of that environment.

For example is never a perfect idea to work for your family member because you take discipline talk to heart and you may need special treatment which is not called for, unless he was there in the beginning and you understand one another traits.

It’s take me a serious move for me to loosen up or enjoy a milestone because I have been through so much even in the love department I don’t get too excited too early no one is perfect and small thing usually rub people the wrong way. And sometimes a person get into bed with you for different interior motives and by the time you find that’s you get blown in a heart and loose all the momentum, this applies in business with our partners changing a direction after a year or 5 years after.

In short part of your happiness should rely purely on you not anybody else, not even your child because we may try to saw a good seed to them but we don’t really know how they will turn out.

If the title is good, the content is probably is too

It’s true we judge a book by its cover, and we judge people that’s way too. But I want to add to you reading this, in most cases there are reasons people look the way they do and if you can get to the bottom of that you can find the whole thinking of someone.

This also mean find the person looks, dress and smell good on the outside, what about the place he lives in? Does he or she reads  ,if not where does he get his ideas about life and the most important thing do you want to be acquaintance with this person?

I’m 29 years old now and I don’t feel that’s age and I cannot associate it with my 23 years old me ,except the way my mind has grown from past 3 years I have started investing on myself by learning ,here is where I’m going with this I still have friends I met while I was in high school and they are not growing that much ,some do but the important values I appreciate in a person are not there and we are slowly diverging and I cannot stop this process no matter how much I like them since we are losing common ground hanging out is a bad call and I’m making sure for now I’m not encouraging the connection again since other’s are changing for the worse and they know it.

Contrarily to the subtitle some people work hard on their out appearance than the necessary tools they possess in their heads so be careful, others are fake and sometimes I feel like fact when I’m around big fishes but I know I’m dedicated because if Jim Rohn could come now and ask me to show him my financial goals,I will pass that’s test or ask for my schedule or ask to spend a day with me I will not get a total but I won’t be a total disaster either.

What’s makes your life worth living

I have imposed my beliefs in you and you have bought it into a certain extend and thank I’m honored to influence you where ever you are, would you do me an honor to return a favor. Comment below and let me learn about your philosophies and see if I can’t grow from them.

Right now is the anxiety for me, I really don’t know what’s next I have variables I can control and some I can’t so not knowing what’s next makes my life interesting cause this month I received 40k and a girlfriend last month if I said I knew this things will happen I would have been lying but for this to happen I had to position myself, go out and make small talk and present my case and I don’t do this for a living it’s just what’s happened.

For most people anxiety is a bad thing because they focus more on the negative bad things that’s might happen next ,I challenge you to anticipate that’s less and get on with your business expecting bigger and better returns. Writing this blogs is something I do because I have a lot of time in my hands and that’s really nice,I have things that’s I need to do but they’re not that demanding or actually my responsibility ,I do feel some kind of guilt when I work below my potential but still I will never know my full one I have to start where I am and move up.

The paranoia and always being aware and the new ability I have to talk sense, you wouldn’t believe this but I once found myself failing to talk well with people or filter myself my thought then usually comes out as they are and my friends told me and I kept getting better and have learnt to keep my mouth shut not in a awkward way but listen more.

In closing I’m no longer scared of people this was a serious realization that’s stopped many people from pursuing their life purposes, how did I do it I simply kept learning and reading a book and got confident that every time I’m around people I probably know something they don’t know which is important so there is no reason to be scared of anyone, a doctor, nurse, police, lawyer or anyone in a position of power I tend to be cool with them and actually be curious about their profession and then we will get the ball rolling.

Thank you for spending time with me today, if last year this time I knew I will be writing and sharing information I‘ll probably picture myself doing this but it’s started from an article for ULwaz No Makhula music artists and the YouTube channels I follow the most kept saying they started on Blogs and actually recommended it and it got clear since I have a background in writing scripts for radio why can’t I build a powerful community that can benefit from my insights and knowledge as well as life experience. Here we are now part of us and follow us to not miss anything we do here, YouTube is possible in the near future and you don’t want to miss that’s too.

What’s do you do when you mean well & people think you have interior motives?

Maybe you have been through this and today’s article is not meant to give you an answer but ask for it. On the other hand I want to create an awareness that’s you are not alone, people have been backstabbed couple of times and they don’t trust anyone anymore even people they shouldn’t worry about and automatically push them away.

Why other people can’t accept love?

Love relationship and bonding with family is a hard one in our culture ,we see other races doing well in being united and really embrace the love for one another but I believe in our black community even your own blood when you show them love they think you up to something.

Today I have some kind of headache because I felt being sidelined I really tried to be the best version of myself and try to kindle some family relationship, but I saw that’s my effort is not welcomed I didn’t need to be told I felt it or say my intuition revealed everything to me that’s I was already told but I’m not complaining. My question will be why would this family thinks the worst of me while I’m trying to be myself and practice the bonding that’s will matter in a long run?

What’s will happen to the future bloodline that’s I will create? Should I accept the fact that’s there are member’s of family that’s this kids should not entertain spending time with? I don’t know this is pure love but I’m sure I will have to protect my kids from all the experience I’m having.

The main problem is it’s hard to tell what’s happening am I deceived or it a real thing? I won’t declare my conclusion here but maybe you have gone through the similar thing please comment and let’s talk about it.

Why people who suppose to trust you doubt you?

Its might look like when you are in a company of other people without their other half you are ok and can really be cool and be welcomed or say that’s person is welcome to your place but when you goes to his there is some tension.

Why some other people are really bad with hosting people especially those who are married and treat people so differently from one another and why they expect you to know how to act in their company apart from being yourself? This is questions I’m concerned about and maybe my wife will put me on this awkward position someday but till then this is abnormal for me. I want to make a serious disclaimer other couple are very welcoming and really great hosts, when I visit people I don’t necessary look for this things they just show up and I am a very nice person I know myself so what’s I will suggest is don’t talk too much behind the visitor back, instead tell that’s person directly how things are done around your home and what they need to do after eating or when waking up then having a straight face now and then.

Good gesture and present not well received

Have you ever try to give someone a hug or a present and they act weird like maybe who are you to touch them or what’s do you want in return since you are giving them a gift.

 I have learnt a real lesson some people can really find a way to repay your debt that’s you did out of kindness but you don’t need to know eventually why the good deed other people do for you.

There is more upside into helping people then downside but other always resist help because they have been corned before by corn artists ,but that’s hardly a family member so why a person closer to you sometimes don’t want your help?

This may be wrongly interpreted thinking we deserve help from our families that’s not wrong too but in between there is love shown through helping one another and opening opportunities for one another and so on so the load won’t be on one or two people supporting a family.

 Body Language talk 1000s words and the trick with this is people realize the gesture after you had an important conversation and they are now alone thinking what’s this person meant and why she/he look like this when talking about this?

Why people can’t speak their real feelings and make the other person aware

This might sound like I’m talking about a boy plans and thinks of approaching a girl but end up being scared and not do it but that’s not the case. I’m sure human nature disagrees with the subtitle but people pretend other people because they are scared what’s they might become or thinks they might need them in the future or what? Maybe you have an answer interact with me.

Personally, there are lots of people I don’t like but they’re not close to me so it doesn’t matter anyway, but imagine opening up to someone and set them free, how would that work? I think it’s worth a try or maybe say it in the most polite way possible.

Why do we hide our realities and fake life on social media?

We think we are brands Actually we are not at least not most of us. We are living in a society that’s promote the personal brand which contradicts with who we really are. You see if you can base your so called brand into your actual living than that will be ok.

But if you have to put some ad on to fool strangers online then you are doing yourself a disservice cause you self sabotaging yourself claiming to be something you are not and that’s will take a toll on you ,the stress you will have will be linked to this fake life of yours . While you will be making money in real life hard work where you will drag mornings and complicated work politics .

You won’t see its not worth it to take that’s money and buy fancy phone and clothes to have more followers on social media especially when you don’t even have a talent or skill you are promoting just your looks or clothes you printed and try to sell it online. If you take time and do the math, see if you are losing or winning you will see whether to continue or stop making full of yourself.

Now I’m not totally bashing social media, but you need to study the platform you are using and if you happen to make money at least after 1-3 years then you might on to something. You need to understand if your online presence differ more than your reality, you might suffer online trawlers who call you scammer or fake model, and to girls social media might really be dangerous since you guys like to expose your body for the same reasons .

Now there’s a whole industry based on Twitter where woman monetize their nude content,I wouldn’t recommend this strategy of making a living to a person who reads our blog . Self love and sexiness cannot be contradicted and things you learn about body sexiness and woman power has nothing to do with exposing your body online .

The question you should ask yourself why am I doing this? If is needing money then get a job ,if you want a partner go out more and let go of this twerking stuff.

The hook ups are an industry but their risky because you might end up being a victim of human trafficking. And you might have a problem when you want to start a life of a motherhood and wife because past will reach out and try to ruin anything. For example I had to say no to one of my ex who asked for my private part picture since I had a aspiring music artist ,imagine having that’s out there when I make it eventually .

Social media make us miss the moment and our real background, a post that’s I saw once saying know your home situation and get out of instagram. Now say your house is falling can you take a picture in that’s? No you will be busy trying to fix it. This also apply to not enjoying a meal and get together since phones dictates the event ,if you can try with your friends and leave the phone’s and bring real camera you might experience this times better and the best memories are kept in our minds you don’t need a phone to do that’s.

How you deal with problems? I use to have a habit of posting everything even things I delete after I get back to my senses. Now I invest time and reread what’s I post and how it may diminish the person I may be attacking and maybe I cannot take back. The maturity will be when you really remove your life from social media , what’s I normally do now I go on face book and post links of my music and this blogs rather than engage in funny topics that are there and  harmful language .

The social peer pressure we are getting is too much event the funeral are way expensive because some of this humble events are now recorded and people find wearing all black cool ,while the family is mourning. The goal of this article today, if for you to separate your life from social media even though like the future is going there, but it’s not look for other value out of it. The only thing you can try online is selling and really make money there if not there is no point, even positive quotes has lost it meaning because its comes from the book you might never read because you read posts.

Thanks I hope I have opened your eyes a bit today, becareful the most dangerous thing on social media is bad influences and repetition the habits of logging in and out and in and out every second. People swear there and others try to act like their smart, while others copy and paste jokes, don’t fall for it. LnM , please like our page on face book as ULwaz No Makhula.

Why self discipline is so hard

Today’s article is inspired by my own procrastination ,its Friday today and my post is late by 3hrs .There is no excuses for not delivering in time it’s all based on the lack of myself discipline ,because I’m going through this right now I can easily see the challenges causing it.

  1. Laziness and excuse artists

Hard important things are not easy to do, the easy things to do you do them without thinking and the things that’s you have habit of doing comes easy. But new one’s like writing this blogs earlier on its easy and exciting but as I keep going enthusiasm get low and the only thing that’s can keep me of float is myself discipline.

Being lazy is common drag and waste time doing shinny things or things that’s won’t have any results. I have had time today to be in a place of physical work and its easy to see things that’s will make a huge impact there but one guy was busy cutting corners in a serious job you need to discipline yourself to avoid doing too much housekeeping and less productive work cause your supervisor will notice you and make sure you are the 1st to go when times are hard.

Excuses are the killer of self discipline that’s why they are negatively affective, if you don’t do something important and have a reason why you don’t do it then you are safe. But in reality you will be legging behind and excuses never shows up when it’s time to show some productivity and time keeps spinning.

So what’s you need to do every time you find a reason to do something, just do it or do nothing and see what’s will happen. Here is an example you have a task that’s you need to do and you are craving TV series rather than choosing the latter ,decide to do nothing if you get bored do the important task then after that’s it will open the window after you have finished it to actually enjoy the series.

2. Its require endurance and a goodwill

Watching a TV series produced by 50 cent called For Life, the starring shows a serious courage from being a convict to becoming a lawyer since he was arrested for the thing he didn’t do. He endured and disciplined himself to read hard law books and  started appealing to court and helping other inmates like him ,while he is trying to get the files of his own case and people behind this scandal haven’t give up and they suppress all his efforts but he doesn’t give up.

That’s discipline on steroids maybe there are no consequences of not doing what you supposes to do but trust me there are always those underneath but maybe it’s not like the above story where all odds seems to be against you.

Life on its own is hard add something that’s you suppose to do everyday then its way harder. Employers have to constantly motivate their workers to love and see value in their work and after few year add a little drip but worker still finds reason’s to strike and do all sorts of inefficiency they can get its end up being a habit that’s people needs pep talk and the problem starts when a person try to start his or her own business and have to motivate himself and his worker’s.

So self discipline is hard but the reason for that’s is we don’t know that there is such thing, our why’s are lame the strong one’s are through nature like having a kid now imagine hustling for your child and focusing on bettering his life and end up forgetting about yours and not knowing how your child will turn out is a real mystery that’s why the discipline should come from within and your north star be your better self.

3. Its needs giving up the good stuff

Delaying gratification is a normal thing for people who are successful and those who are going to be .It’s hard to not eat your favorite food so you can stay on shape, it’s hard to save more than 10% so you can achieve your financial goals earlier, it’s hard to maintain the relationship schedule to make your love life work on your busy life but that’s what’s you need to do to get all of the above right.

Person who is going to make it in what’s ever he or she is doing avoids distractions, also avoids shinny things and trends and most importantly don’t try to impress other people they know what’s their doing is more important to their lives than a friend opinion.

Showing up is what’s its takes to start going in a right direction, the physical work I’m talking about since I work for myself I have a tendency of showing up whenever I like but I do what’s I can when I get there, I can try to do more and wake up early but I believe in effectiveness and lie to myself that’s I’m using the 80/20 rule. I know I can come early and leave late and fool around all the time or just come at 10 and work hard for 3 hours then leave until I reach my target.

4. No one or few people practice it.

Worker’s constantly come late at work be different, at church no one likes to start a song be different, in class no one likes to give the teacher the answer be different, no one wants to play midfielder take that’s position and master it. In most cases you can be the opposite of what’s most people are doing and do what’s they hate and win in life that’s all it takes.

Don’t be scared of other people actually build a system for yourself to not be scared of people ,my uncle is better at this I know him he was a cop and people became his friends. He’s famous and can get along with anyone his discipline to master that’s skill and ability to make a small talk has became handy in his own life, he was an investigator and people were open to him a shared what’s they knew, maybe you may argue that’s he learnt this at police academy but I may respond the discipline to apply those tools is what’s important.

I learn the people’s skill by practicing it and once I move away from people for the long period of time I found myself beginning to be an introvert which is not a good trait for person who is ambitious like me.

5. The audience  put some pressure

I will start by saying show people you’re positive traits as soon as you can, you hard working ethics and more. Show that’s side of you so it won’t be like you are changing all of the sudden, or you will have spectator’s that’s won’t do you any good.

The remarks and gossips and who said what’s about you ,why you are working so hard and so on try to be in a space where this is not too much. You need it to guide you but if it all you get then you are bound to be stopped in your tracks. People you need are those who are engaged like you in something this are winner’s .ever since I started something most business people has gave me courage and great influence and positivity.

One said you charging too low ,other said I see you one day having a million rand and that’s really caught me off guard but it’s meant a lot and I’m positive I will get there and I’m working towards it so hard and the understanding I have is there are conventional ways of doing things and there are really business savvy ways all hard work but require self discipline.

Thanks for catching up with us, LnM we are nothing without you keep grooming yourself and win. I don’t consider myself a motivation talker or something like that’s .i am a practical person and sometimes when I give an advice people don’t take it because its requires self discipline like the other day my little brother who stays with my father said he wants’ 4k so he can trade  but he don’t have it.

I told him to save and skip his birthday celebration this year and on December forget about new clothes because all this require discipline he came back and suggested what’s if he sells his laptop?

I figure I don’t have to answer that it’s what’s app and nothing he can see anyway. So if you ask a person an advice be sure you really needs it and respect that person enough to argue and tell why this advice won’t work for you than going to look for another crazy plan and present it to him/ her. If you knew what’s you were going to do why bother other people?

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How to properly make use of your mind

The first title of today’s topic was why you should have a bigger cause in life, but that’s might not get the point right. Mind is the only driving factor in your life and if you can pay attention to it, you can manipulate it to your own ways, rather than allowing emotions dictates your decisions. Now without waste of time I will explain in point form ,but before I start make sure you follow this blog so you won’t miss any information that’s might impact you positively.

Learn to connect the dots with your mind by looking and listening

I have discover a skill of making sense of many things from watching a TV series ,or reading a book and so on ,and I can only do this with my mind . Maybe you have done this before without knowing its valuable human skill so I will make you an example.

If you watch a Tyler Perry movie and a woman have an affair and break a heart of a honest husband, and later on the story shows the wife being sexually abused by her father. But Tyler doesn’t explain that’s the wife has more sexually eagerness than his husband and doesn’t show much the affect of working long hours and don’t give your partner enough attention and lastly for a wife to not open up to his husband in every aspect of their relationship then as I’m watching I get all those lessons .

If you don’t pay attention and can’t connect the dots, you will miss the point of a important lesson in your life.

Listen, Look and try to remember things when you are in a situation. Personally I have made missteps in life and still do even today .But fighting with my mind and trying to do the right thing all the time is not easy but to be a great and a good person you need to overcome the bad thoughts.

See as males some of us find ourselves in rock bottom and in that’s state we can make the most terrible things if we don’t learn to be mindful of our minds for example seeing a little girl and think you can take advantage of her, the uncles at home who has hard life and smoke and all this stuff, they need purpose in life and need help because once they become stuck they are potential problems in a society.

The aunts that’s you can find being soliloquy have a negative potential of destroying peoples marriages they are not crazy but the society is sidelining them and they are lost in their minds as well no one seems to care but if we can as a community try to revive one another spirits and constantly motivate one another we can solve the cases we hear on TV and radio.

Teach your mind that’s working is part of life

Never for a minute think life is worth it without working, even bosses work and much harder than their employees. So if you are a fan of or blog know we are working every time we release a new piece.

The only correction we can make in the concept of working, working is not only hard labor ,but most important side of working is working through using your mind ,it can be calculation ,strategizing ,write ,read and publish ,plan and hold effective meetings , negotiate  and so on that’s really work and from all this you can see this is all mind work.

But picking heavy stuff and doing hard repetitive work is also fine but don’t be stuck in that’s while working, in order for you to not be complacent you should work towards something big or what you are passionate about.You cannot escape working, because having a dull day is also work and personally I happen to have those days because I can push so much as well, then sit back and reflect. The decisions you make are part of work and not taking decision is work you don’t want to do.

Feed your mind

This is no brainer if you’ve been here before , you know we are advocate of learning and reading books , I found myself loving to learn more than average person and its has became a habit to me. Then one day I watched a video on my favorite channel on YouTube called success TV, they said if you are passionate about learning you will never succeed, because you are learning for entertainment rather than learn to apply things in your life or business.

Chances are I don’t even have a business and now I have became a motivational speaker because of my learning without any track of success. The point is learn to grow and apply lesson’s in your life try to be a different person every year, personally I have learnt and unlearnt things that’s were not working for me. So it’s also important to pick and choose don’t live your life by the book make your own choices from authors two sense.

Meditation

I won’t talk much on this subject, I find it hard for now but I have used it and found myself having a nice sleep. Meditating is a way to look at your thoughts from another person’s sand point and don’t act into them while trying to quiet them with mantra technique ,which is repeating one or two words over and over e.g. I AM or Your name act until you get to a peaceful state. Get the advice of Buda on this subject and other’s this is basic for me.

This also means controlling your emotions meaning controlling your thoughts, think before you answer and at least take 48hr before acting on your anger.

Control your consumption and your surrounding

At home they know I don’t watch TV and it’s something I committed myself to doing after hearing that’s successful people don’t have time for it. Now the content I watch that’s a TV program is really a recommendation that’s has education in it other than that’s I’m not interested.

My mom has a tendency to call me when I pass by when there is a crappie thing on TV and she knows I cannot stand that’s and after this realization , I started to understand my own subconscious mind ,if something is not going well in my  business I don’t sleep well . If I have a serious fight with a family member it’s hard for me to sleep well, don’t to mention love relationship really mess with me.

So I have develop to deal with situations and not get into deep to soon and started to watch something else before I sleep so my subconscious mind will record that’s unimportant thing than I can sleep well.

Listening to Mr. Robert Green talking about human nature ,he talks about being truthful about yourself and also realize that’s everyone in life is an actor and as a person you should be the best actor for your role. Have a self control and so on, and realize that the life game is social and people are important part of puzzle so get along with people.

I have lost couple of gf’s because I was too transparent and too honest and girls don’t like that’s and that my own view. Now I will be working on my old approach of being a regular guy, because if I get serious too soon they can’t handle it. In closing be aware of the type of person you are and give the respect people deserve that’s you will like given to you.

Well if I was in a conference and you were listening and taking notes, I would’ve stopped you from taking notes because I feel people they practice what they usually practices in lecture classes and worse they won’t revise this ones.

I would suggest listen to my talk then when you get to the office or home write down what’s you remember and that’s what’s you will use in your life ,the lesson you resonated with.

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Why we drag doing and what’s we can do about it

 As human beings we have tendency of planning too much which may lead to not getting things done. But there are techniques we can develop to propel us into action. For me this subject is very hard one because I can put off writing this articles till I’m forced to write because there are no more to post and I already have an audience that’s I don’t want to lose. But what’s about you who have to do things without accountability? We will see how we can find inspiration and why we aren’t eager to do these tasks anyway.

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Fear of failure

This one come home to me since I have overcame a lot of things that’s I have thought I have failed at and one of them was my business where my property was flooded by water in 2018 with people inside. After this I stepped away a bit because this really messed with me emotionally and I thought it was an end of that’s phase of my life. Now looking at this objectively helped me to be no longer emotional attached to this business because it’s a business after all not my baby and challenges are bound to happen. So I let people back and listen to my mother’s advice, now we up and running and using an income to save for unforeseen circumstances.

You may be in a similar simple situation or more than mine, you job is to get back at it and try to solve and do that’s wok you’ve been delaying.

Because its seems hard or annoying

For about this subject read David Schwab’s thinking big book. Even easy things like dishes we can put off doing them but the simple strategy is the moment everyone is done eating, don’t wait for it to pile up just stand up and do it without thinking about it.

Email sending, phone call its will keep destructing your thoughts and fill your head space if you don’t do it soon enough so get on it. What’s I normally do which seems like a super power now is use my to do list app to write down things I need to do .and its my go to place when I think of doing something so I could write it down. It’s also the same place I run to if I need to do something or prepare the next day tasks. But most importantly if I can do it immediately I do it and free myself from it.

Because we are scared and not sure if we can pull it off

Some to do’s have results and we may need to face them head on with their consequences. Some are like starting a business it’s easy to have an idea or even writing it down but the problem starts when you need to start taking action and implementing your idea. In other cases you simply need to get rid of your phone and get down working.

Leave your friends, move to a quiet place but whatever it is you need to do that’s to get things done. Like the saying, if you think you can you can but if you think you can’t you can’t, it’s all in your mind there will be no progress if your negative mind overpowers your positive mind.

If the negative mind shows you all the reason’s you can’t and you believe all that’s scary outcome and dismiss the possibilities of the positive side of your mind, you can never reach anything of substance in your life and problems will always get the most of you. That’s why you shouldn’t let fear scare you. Because fear shows only the bad sides of the possible outcome and dismisses the triumphs ahead.

We like comfort and hate things that’s inconveniences us

The comfort we enjoy right now is the enemy we wish we would’ve fought when we realize later in life. The TV games and the series, hangouts and chilling in social media and really hustling backwards it’s our downfall as a new society. We want to be happy and hip as culture embrace celebrities and today we all wants’ that’s.

Because of that’s realization I decided to start writing and create awareness in this blog maybe you might feel and see the wrong reasons we use internet for .What’s youth talks about on Twitter is really painful and kills the dreams of many and I will share one day the tweets that’s broke my heart and really thoughts of how our community is dying because its promote such behavior.

On the other side KZN Lockdown Cypha and other movements that’s has came out of social media are really showing a great opportunities for artists in to using the platforms and thrive the only sit down needed is how this artists can be compensated for their efforts so it’s not all bad,it’s also depends to what’s you focus on as a individual .So rather than boycotting online and binge watch TV set times to enjoy this and maybe be a content creator and monetize on your fun.

Our life doesn’t depend on it

I thought people work jobs because its pay’s bills but It was clear to everyone as human beings we need something to do in general and what’s we do end up creating an identity for us which can be good or bad. If your life depended on your job you wouldn’t challenge your boss if he breaks health and safety laws because he might’s fire you. But what’s if you do most of the things as if your life depends on it? Of because you can priorities accordingly but just tell yourself if I don’t this I might die as an attitude.

Seek inspiration , for me I rarely write this articles out of my own thoughts but it’s always connecting what’s I’ve read online in real life experience or conversation that’s need to be broken down and analyzed and possibly get perspective that’s can guide our lives that’s how I get idea’s of this blog.

Or I open a word and stare at it until something comes up because brain never stops. Since writing is not talking I have saw the time I spend inside the house has got me disconnected to people and actually feel the tension presenting myself in front of people ,so I will act like my life depends on it to bridge that’s gap in my life personally and professionally . So you too as a reader pay more attention to yourself when you are with yourself and more on other’s when you are with them and try to not talk about other people too much afterwards.

This is it for today I hope you learnt a lot of things and you will be impacted LnM we are out. Follow us on social media for more articles like this @Ulwaznomakhula

Why Social Media is a striving business and what’s does this mean to you

See the reason’s why you can do it ,not why you can’t

Clearly we as human race we have become a products of internet companies like Facebook and twitter and this is not going to change anytime soon. Because this applications are addictive and build with a help of professionals who have degrees in human nature has got us hooked. Building a business based on this platform is a real risk although worth taking but in a long run you not in control of your business future if this social Medias change their algorithms so you are at their mercy. I experienced this personally while pushing my music links on Facebook and they constantly block my posts thinking I am a spam or just stopping me on my tracks because when I do it organic they don’t get anything except me driving their audience to the websites where I put my music and they don’t want that’s.

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Because we can advertise on them

Google is an incredible tool , YouTube too ,Vk Facebook and twitter and not to mention Messaging apps like What’s app , Telegram , viper and many more the problem is we get distracted every moment we try to focus in an important things in life and under deliver compare to our potential. The more we stay online the more ads are portrayed in front of us by companies and our favorite’scelebrities and thus effect our spending decision.

The problem with this is when we get on social media we normally want to socialize and have fun and engage with people we know and don’t know. Others come to seek dates and if we wanted to buy something we would’ve gone to Alabama or amazon apps but as human being marketing makes us realize things we might want but not actually need.

Early this morning I was on twitter and I saw a guy posting a car and that’s wasn’t even an ad but seeing comments and how he got attention makes me think of having a car myself so of Couse this platforms will strive even if they bring the worst in us, envious and jealousy .The goal of this article is for us to reduce social media usage and realize it’s not a just time costs it’s also a bad habit if it doesn’t affect your bottom line positively.

It’s a risky bet

Marketing is now starting to be seen like a social media job but that’s cannot be far from the truth. But marketing and distribution are independent industry apart from what’s is happening in the internet it’s just another feature. So trying to be a DYI and promote everything you are doing on the internet is not effective especially on social media.

The outside world is still a good marketing platform also depending on your product and service. Other thing is when you try to do an internet based business you may lack a skill of a sales person which is also required here ,the handling of objections ,follow ups and closing your clients and disadvantages here people have all the time to look at your offer objectively or logically unless what’s you are serving is a need or essential like food and transport which have its own apps now and you don’t need to be in social networks to get it.

As you promote your business in this platforms ,you making this platforms more profitable and that’s is fine if you do it intentionally like boosting your ad or page other than drifting on groups and being blocked now and again.

You are a product to social media

Social media has lost its value as it did when we started using it back in 2009 and new ones like Tiktok you should be careful getting hooked on them the usage is expensive because its requires video and audio data. We are no longer getting the endorphins we use to get and like aluxer confirms it’s now just a bad habit we have and we might need to crush it once and for all and get back to our old ways more and socialize better apart from pandemics messing with us.

Realizing you are being volunteer used by this companies should be a wakeup call and check where you are lacking because of it and see actions that’s you take because of it. This messes with your phycology and its influences how you deal with people because you do things that’s you wouldn’t do in person unless you are a socio path.

Spread of information and wrong myths

Covid 19 has to have trusted sources of information from the bunch because people were saying whatever about this pandemic and really lying to one another. Social media has become some source of information. The Qoura and Pinterest as well as Tumbler is strictly for interesting information and adding LinkedIn offers jobs and talk about business and important skills like sales and so on.

But this platforms hasn’t made our lives easier the only thing I see are premiums to be in a certain position or bombarded by a lot of information that’s doesn’t collate to the real world and in disorganized manner we end up reading books online without us being aware and reading things that’s doesn’t impact our lives at all. If you could start reading a book with the time you spend online you can have a breakthrough in a certain place in your life or listen to an audiobook.

Myth and beliefs are being spread here and we end up reading peoples mindset as well, because when people type something becomes the reflection of who we think they are. We don’t think the post is calculated or represent something else ,that’s why other people have fake accounts and attack other people and others have alter egos and spend their days promoting that’s and wonder why they don’t reach their goals and forget they spend most of their mental effort on being something they’re not .

If you are in that’s trap you can do something about it. Meditate on this article and try to ground yourself in internet usage and really come back to the real world. You will find yourself being productive and thus see the ROT (return on time) and eventually ROI (return on investment)

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Its means you need a gateway times from social media and engage in a real world

I was listening to Ready Player one audio book which I enjoy , it’s a gick tech guy acting in a future 2041 where the AI is a thing and its shows the amplified life of social media where people will spend their lives as parallel people having an online avatar which is a representation of yourself .

who has money and most of things that’s ordinary person can have but the difference online life will be a game but like social media now ads will still be a part of a culture and well as influencers and brand ambassadors will be there. With that’s said its means being online by then will also be lucrative because points people will be getting online could be converted to real life like bitcon.

You could be rich online as an avatar and be poor in a real world. So this means for this generation we may embrace part of internet and its perks but we need to be weary of everything around it. Position yourself on social media to be not a narcissist that’s won’t help you in anyway and try to live a life with a meaning and teach your kids basics and you going to leave them in a different world but the principles won’t change and values you would’vetaught them will be everything.

To you it’s also mean’s stop checking social proof and being narcissist and a pure consumer

Avoid looking what’s everybody is doing and cultivate your own ways ,because if something is done by everyone its means it’s easy and most of the time not worth it now and in the long run and that’s social proof and I have talked about it in another article.

Your pride lead you to want to splurge on social media and show people you don’t know how good you are doing. Sometimes this may come from a place of void and incompleteness from your accomplishment and want unnecessary attention and social media can offer that’s. Think before you do, make that’s your mantra I don’t know how many posts I didn’t post because I started by thinking how what’s I want to say is going to make sense to other person.

I know a friend who quite Facebook and for him it was a good move because he was a pure consumer, he realized he wasn’t like other people and didn’t like to brag about himself or comment so he was just consuming every unnecessary data that’s came across his feed, so he decided to stop.

Other go online to laugh and have fun and others are browsing and other seek sexual content whatever your reasons do it intentionally and don t be a consumer because its might not be a valuable way to spend your time unless you have joined the right motivational groups or aligned with your real life industry.

Thanks for reading todays article and I want to say, this are big companies and they can sue me for attacking them but disclaimer is in place this view are mine and not in attack to this companies but as a user it’s how I feel and somehow complaining because I have been blocked because I was pushing my music while other’s posts dangerous sexual content and get away with it.

I may sound like bragging and being a naysayer I’m just sharing to my followers that’s we can have a better life even if we are not attached to social media.

Why I hesitate taking R350 relief grant and won’t take food parcels

I was struggling coming up with something to write about and that’s natural for most of the bloggers and book writers and even musicians and movie producers. So I have started to find an inspiration but I will explain that’s later for now let’s look at why you should reconsider taking government handouts.

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We don’t need it

At home we not filthy rich and we are not poor either, and I don’t consider ourselves middle class as well. Maybe you too reading this know even if there is a temporary loss of income because of lockdown but I feel bad seeing our people almost everyone wanting this food parcel and R350 but same people after the lockdown will be drunk every weekend and this R350 won’t mean a thing. I get encouraged to take this money and it’s a free money but I don’t want to lie every effort I put trying to apply this money is another time I can be using focusing on my creative writing and other things that’s matters to me.

You don’t need this if you like our home and play stokvels ,that’s means we have food to put us through 6 months of lockdown but at home my mom wanted this food parcels and she knows I don’t appreciate this but out of respect I cannot do anything to oppose her. 

What’s its means for our community

I don’t want to lie, there are people who actually need help and some of us who are privilege to not have to be in those cues. Maybe one day life will show us flames to the point that’s we need to be assisted but for now that’s not the case. This means our community has not taken responsibilities of their own financial lifestyle and plan for 6 months ahead.

Two community should be giving their own before government intervention , but how can we reach that’s level if we still feel a need to take with people we consider poor ,that’s means we are also poor and personally it’s not what I would love to be label as so I’m not going to be part of the handout. I rather be in a conversation where how could I donate and help with my time and money. I’m not where I want to be financially but if our community can encourage giving this can automatically increase my level of hustle so I can have enough to give.

Our president in South Africa doesn’t give enough pep talk to his citizens , Maybe he does but no speech is trending from our previous presidents except Nelson Mandela meaning the country may work but is not motivated to change the overall situation. This might sound like winning and complaining and asking for unimportant thing in an office time but our country needs it .The point of this subtitle is if you take food parcels you not different from a hungry kid in Ethiopia ,not disrespect for those kids we should be aspiring to help them as we prosper.

It’s our right

I’m sure this is the main argument, but I’m sure we have a lot of things we need to reconsider in this country where as society we pour lot of money in. Our right in my own view should be used to empower young boys and girls who are trying to start businesses. Local leader as much as politically risky to be a hardworking leader ,councilor  or pastor you can be killed by people in the organization by trying to do write and using local government funds in a right way.

A leader should give his life to try to better the community he/ she is representing, I don’t know my counselor and I don’t use most of the services here because I really don’t know where to find them in 2019 I was a part of a riot and roadblock for needing road harms to reduce accidents and counselor came but he was powerless and told people he called someone from province department and that’s person came and promised us and we got what’s we wanted.

Having a leader that’s doesn’t have a power or resources was really mind blowing for me, and wonder what’s role did he play. But I’m not saying things that’s happens here at Inanda only I’m sure in your area you have your own experiences as well.

I don’t believe in riots and what’s ever community does violently  I believe in taking responsibility but the community is not empowered for that’s ,I may understand this individually but I still need to improve my brand to have a say and be impactful that’s my right.

So if you are reading this look at your right differently, the right to create the better version of yourself, to teach yourself important things that’s can help government and most importantly for you to be in a position of not wanting to be in cues for handouts and distress relief grants.

Free money is not worth it, unless you strategies for it

There is this country which is rich because they have oil and government pay its citizens and possibly no one is paying any taxis there. The problem with this country its obesity and lazy people it has, of cause they have a freedom the citizens but since they didn’t earn this money but given and once the oil loses value in the world or some kind of recession that’s country and its people will struggle and possible starvation. This people don’t have financial discipline.

For the world at large if a government is doing some incentive to help people during lockdown that’s ok. But this drip will stop in 6 months and can leave the reserve bank in an awkward position and tax will come back but bite us in the #ss. This is just a possible assumption and that’s can be wrong.

Strategic part is if you have some sort of business or property that’s you bought and now its feels like the money you get every month you didn’t work for then that strategy. If you look at it it’s not a free money, it’s a money made out of discipline which most of the people should learn so they won’t struggle if something happens to the 9-5 job.

We cannot all be business people or whatever but habits of good financial handling and concepts of delay gratification can be applicable to all. This is not a hidden information and I didn’t use English language because I’m smarter but because it’s a universal language.

We are being spoiled as a country and we will be weak

This is the time a country should unite and ego and pride put aside, a neighbor should be able to ask for a sugar and drink tea during this hard times. The fact that’s we cannot endure this times means we cannot handle well what’s next. Maybe its won’t happen in my life time but youth or kids may see other pandemic or our grandchildren’s will read about it and it should be putted in schools syllabus and change the past lessons that’s isn’t relevant.

If this wasn’t a red flag for a country to bet or consider on the internet for schooling and other sectors than we will be delaying progress as a country. Casualties will be there and we people now we will need to be more responsible with our action more than before. Bringing kids in this world and trusting government system to grow our kids ,should be taken back to us as parents or paying private schools because that’s will be an edge for every community in this country and every country reading this. Paying a private learning for your kid is still a responsibility for your end as a parent because getting that’s money is not easy and making sure that’s your kid is getting your money worth is still on you.

Don’t allow to get spoiled you are too old for that’s and the fact that’s life is hard. Take your L and accept that’s you didn’t anticipate this situation and try to better your kids to not be in a same situation not just through inheritance but through lesson’s about important things in life which can be summarized as Hard work, Smart work, good Financial habits and education, value of relationships and laws of nature, failure, adversity and more.

In closing this blog is going to add something in your life every time you visit it, that’s a promise so make a date with LnM. Thank you for your curiosity into why there are people out there who doesn’t like to be normal.

5 points, Why it’s important to keep track of how you spend your day

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As of writing this, I recently does what I have always does after sometime, deleting contacts on my phone that’s no longer useful. I am a music producer and lot of things within music which sometimes needs audience on Social media but when removing contact’s linked with my whatsapp I realized that’s my whatsapp is liability every morning I have a new message from people asking for something to me .a song , a free beat or an advice about music which lead to me opening thing blog ,instead of people consuming my time one by one ,I rather dedicate time and write articles and there is a book by ULwaz No Makhula on Amazon called Music Insider that’s has all the contact’s you will need as a musician. With all that’s said I recommend a book called Deep Work on this topic , without waste of time let’s get to today’s topic.

Life is made out of minites and seconds , the time you misuse is giving your life away.

Mark Twain

1. So that’s you will live life worth living

If you can pay attention, to what’s you do the moment you wake up to the time you sleep, you will see where your life is going. I want us to be realistic here say you have a car and what’s you do is helping people and at the end of the day you have nothing to show for it do you think that’s is good living? Or say you wake up wash your face and go straight to hang out in the store with other guys is that’s worth doing? If you are attacked by this and you wish to respond be my guest but I doubt we will find a common ground. The goal of this articles is to open your eyes and have some cause you living for as going to work year after year is much better but if it’s not backed by a bigger cause you might be drifting through life and you will die to oblivious even to the most people in your life and I will suggest you avoid that’s by all mean. If you are an artist going to record every day and do beats non-stop can be exciting and really time consuming but when all said and done does it help the well living of your bottom line?


The watch shouldn’t exceed your hourly pay though

2.To see if you not spending most of your day in daily choirs and your life is static, not improving.

For a person who is serious about life, my goal is to escape all the menial tasks at home and hire a person to those for me. Others can afford to do this but yet they know if someone do their dishes and clean their house will open a gab in their schedule and they don’t want to face that’s ,while others think it’s the kids job and not to be awkward kids needs to learn this things cause they are basic  in life ,cooking and all but the hard things should be what’s we instill to ourselves and our kids ,that’s reading books of personal development and biographies of great successful people as well as focus on our relationships ,that’s if you are married have time for your spouse intentionally and get out of the noise of daily tasks that’s surely will be worthwhile. Learn and teach about money which is really a challenging subject and a unique thing to deal with but if you can master that’s part all will seems to be running smooth. And your time alone focus on something, it may be hobby or something you feel may make a difference in your community or world. I know you may said let me see what’s this guy says and your life doesn’t go this lines and maybe you already have a worker but I’m sure somewhere you need to clean up and get your life in order.


3. So your will know that’s if you die today, you gave it your best.

As human beings all the worried that’s we have dearth seems to come on top, yet we seems to forget about it when we look at our priorities. I have some business where I have customers and I know more about what’s going on in the service I’m providing then then do from previous experience, because they don’t know some minor challenges is a huge issue with them so you too, you can say but during my day I’m serving people and they complain and all of that’s, the complaints may be valid but you know what’s you need to fix now or 1st that’s even if you die now your family can inherit viable business. So with all the above analogies take action that’s once done will open many possibilities for you , for me was watching certain channels on YouTube they really change my life and I would know who I am if I didn’t stubble on those ,then those channels introduced me to books and book 10x everything as I saw books are hard and you need to develop the habit in order to read and understand them , I took the route of audiobooks ,I still read books cause is the number one way to acquire information and since audiobooks are passive you can miss most important things.


4 To be a better organized person.

So since I lost my job in 2017, its opened me to the other part of life that’s seemed real and tough which if I didn’t lose my work I would’ve thought life is easy and poor people are lazy, loosing that’s job I got another one eventually its didn’t pay as good but still I was arrogant bragging that’s how come people don’t get jobs I just got another one. See my uncle tried to explain to me the privileges I have but I couldn’t understand until I lost that’s job again and realized I wasn’t good at it. Humility grew on me and I started to feel for people who are not doing well in life as I was now a bit in their shoes ,luckily for me I got curious and learnt this new mindset I’m suggesting here, getting back to the point because of the knowledge I have acquired and habits I have instilled in myself the last to jobs I worked in not even once I was late ,why was that’s I became organized as I started to take my day seriously ,automatically I respected my boss ,I even got a job where I wasn’t supervised and that’s compelled me to perform way better so when they barge on me I was on track and it’s all work well for me till I decided to leave and if you don’t plan your life in daily dose  many distractions will come your way you might not write everything you need to do but the one thing that’s you must do every day should be in your head ,saying if every day I did this one hard thing that’s is out of my comfort zone than my day will be worth it ,this suggests even if you don’t know how you going to get paid from this ,doing it and knowing maybe that’s there is a market for it its what’s matters and do that’s for a long whole. We are human one day missed because of the emergency is fine but make up for that’s loss time.


Action ,thats will forever change the trajectory of your life

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5 So you will be efficient in your tasks

In my community nothing seems to be urgent, for youth and technology invading our lives its worse .ULwaz No Makhula which is me and my friend we saw a really powerful work habits combining our music brand together we amazed our fans doing what’s other artists do in a year in 3 months. So in December everyone was going crazy as usual, we had our little craziness but it was mostly work. We submitted our music video that’s we shot on November then we recorded 3 new songs and got helped choosing a single for January then on January we dropped a music video on TV channels and YouTube , February we dropped a single and march we boosted our page and reach 3000 followers and sometime releasing another new song. I know others know people who release more than that is but I will assure you it’s expensive to market music and everything within it, that’s why there are few main players in the game. We were efficient in our tasks, 1. Because we pushed one another and both want what’s best for the group 2. Because we want to be successful as soon as we can for me the beginning of the year all my chips were in the music table and lastly 3. We are clear about what’s we are doing.

So you too, reschedule your day, week, month and so on if you working with someone we are people and ever changing don’t make huge decisions under a spark of a moment try by all means to be objective and lets situation pass and lastly what’s I will recommend the goal of having a partner in whatever you do is not for you to hold back what’s ever eating you inside as well as not bursting without thinking. You may ask to think about it or agree and if you feel you not ok with the decision reconsider but don’t put the whole building done because of a minor misunderstanding. And lastly don’t be a inefficient one in a team. Bonus point!!


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6. So that’s you will have a day that’s you are proud of

Do we average people have this kind of days? I doubt it, or rarely if it’s not my 9-5 that’s fulfill my day then I have a problem. Knowing that’s jobs are simply a economic transaction system I know is a way for me to get money are there other ways yes about 7 or more .But depending on your job or you are in a lockdown as we are now you can feel your job is a gateway drug to something meaningful that’s at least pay your bills. If not you drag to wake up in the morning and let alone doing the work ,I’m not a guru here I’m a 29years guy who  once experienced the day that’s he was proud of ,here it is at the age of 26 after I lost the job I was talking about above ,I simply took my provident fund and decided to build a rental rooms so during the construction I saw a shift in my life ,that’s I wish for you to experience as well in your life time ,its dint matter that’s I was losing money or investing but my Monday was exciting and I couldn’t wait to wake up and arrive at the site because what’s was going on there was mine and it has a potential to change my life forever knowing or not. Those day I ticked off a lot of things on my daily tasks it was amazing lots of good and bad and backstabbing and so forth but it was worth it , I grew with those experiences I was a boss for a moment in charge of a project without proper schooling about this I only knew what’s I wanted. I changed for the better there and what’s happened after changed me more I got encouraged to read more and its was a perfect time for me to change from the old 9-5 working me because I would’ve sided with my workers and nothing would’ve got done. I read books, I understood that’s if you in my position you need to have a way of doing things and mine was be nice but don’t tolerate sh*t and that’s way I manage to go far as I did and learned to cultivate a powerful relationship with my neighbors there whom at first I had my own wrong 30 second preconception about them, where you normally conclude a person character and attitude within 30 sec you met, the book I read called African midwives really helped me. It’s the 1st time I published something with so much of my personal life in it. You will be proud of your days if you really make them yourself and not anyone who comes to you and ask for whatever that’s doesn’t seems to help you but balance.