Who is more valuable family or friends?

This might look like a question but most people fail to make this distinction in their lives that’s why we are showing the crucial differences today and how we have found to work best when making life decisions that’s involves this people in our lives.

God has bless me with both friend and family also have friends that’s doesn’t come close to my best friend who has become my adopted brother who we run this blog with. So let’s see if there are no lessons to be taken on this subject.

There are 3 type of friends , Friends for (Reason ,Season and for a Life)

This is self explanatory but as we know the elaboration open our 6th sense and we then connect the dots better. So comparing friends with family is a huge understatement we tend to value the blood thicker than water myth ,yet is true and we don’t choose our families while we choose friends.

The question is in this 3 type of friends which one is yours? If it’s for a reason get that’s over with and move on with your life and don’t hold on too much to that’s friend because what’s ever reason you are together will end someday.

The friend of a season can be good and bad if they love you if you are rich then run when you struggle then that’s a seasonal friend , others love you when you are poor like them when you better yourself they leave you.

And more type of friends so choose wisely for me a friend should always be there in good and bad ,rich and poor ,your family and his can also be close because of what’s you have .

Family over everything

I tend to agree with this one from the get go why because family can be your downfall in life or uplift so having them in their place can do you good.

The best think to realise is there are two type of family ,present one and future one if you still live with your mother and father sister brother and grandma then that’s your present family.

But if you are married and you have your own wife or husband and your kids then that’s future family ,what’s ever culture you build within this family will determine the better life experience you will have or life of grudges and hate you will have to endure .

Either way you can consider your family opinions in your life journey but it’s not family over everything ,but because they love you and emotionally attached they can be a great sheild from harm and hardship but some of that’s is necessary for you to build a thick skin for you ,in business and life in general.

People outside your immediate family have unbiased opinion and life lessons that’s can change your life for the better ,so question everything and every norm and old myths that’s blocks your path. Leaving your family is the first thing to test you and help you navigate life.

How many friends should a person have

This shouldn’t be a thing , why because nobody can keep up with a lot of friends let alone one with our busy morden lives but let’s say you have 10 friends which one is more valuable than other?.

For us friendship is like love relationship you need one or two more than that’s it’s all crumble down , for example one of your friends see you as a best friend while you see him or her as a regular friend ,then friction will start showing.

The best thing is to have equal friends and then one best friend because commitments comes with accountability and responsibilities. Facebook friends are not your friend are people you may know , same as Twitter and so on.

The more you build superficial freindships with no substance the more chances you will be used by other people and leave you holding the empty bag , build networks instead, business net ,social community net , book club net and so on positive stuff and please don’t hang with criminals and losse girls because that’s what’s yourl become.

You are the average of five people you spend your time with

Would you choose to spend time with 4 millionaires and you being the fifth or spend time with your 4 kids and you being the fifth.

Although this saying on my title can be contradictory its point is the more time with certain people you get to have their traits and habits as well as their beliefs.

With that’s said having a blog like this as a friend could be a huge leap forward into a cycle of your surroundings ,because you don’t necessary need physical friends to create a psychological cycle that’s with be the average of your thoughts we can be your mentor from far.

Now one friend add to your averages ,then your closest family members second and third your online mentors and positive vibes forth being your love partner and lastly its you and your decisions.

To summarize all this you are your worse enemy what’s ever you decide to take out of this blog is on you to implement it.

People treat you the way you treat yourself and them

See if you show people by action that’s you can be trusted and you keep your word people will reciprocate that’s.

Be a cruk , manipulate lie and cheat chances are karma will play it role so to have a family liveable with you need to be a brother ,mother ,father and kid that’s listen and put himself in other people’s shoes have humility and audacity when putting a point across like acting what’s you preach.

Same to maintaining a friendship for us ,you should be in business with your friend so the money you will make you can enjoy better together lol ,on a serious note you learn your friend best when you see his life skills and how he put out fires and that’s happens well in hustle.

I hope you found me friendly today fam , my goal is to turn this posts to a YouTube voice over videos and if you can pull that’s off 0840196532 whatsapp me.

And later on in life turn it into a book if you can get my right to collect all the posts ever made to chapters and adit it for a better good read . LnM (ULwaz No Makhula) that’s where you like us and follow this blog to get more interesting content #Spliff_Entertainment

Can you associate value with your industry?

Especially, after this pandemic called Covid 19.

This was a wakeup call for most people, its was especially for me seeing businesses loses billions and million’s in a matter of weeks and months. Lockdown was necessary and this can be a conspiracy theory or whatever the fact remains this showed how your business or industry fragile is. I always try to make things simple and bring it back to an individual level and most people seem to not this concept, when I ask them so what this means is for you? Others will say people will lose jobs, and then I correct them and say I said you. But let expand what im is trying to say.

  1. What’s does this means to your child?

We may agree that’s this will never happen again during our lifetime but this virus left clues and lesson’s your job as a parent is to read between the lines and encourage your kids to choose right industry as a career choice not just for viruses but also the technological advancement and the real things that’s will always have intrinsic value like agriculture, Shelter, Health, finance to mention the few. These industries are linked with other industries where should you suggest your kid go not saying your decision will be final but if you are paying the fees you can have a great influence and for a good cause

2. What’s was your wakeup call

This point is to remind you that’s you thought as a solution during our numbing boring lockdown is still is, don’t give up on it. Breakthroughs come in the times of hardship if you were not busy hooked on social media you had enough me time to do introspection. Again what’s does this means to you? Does it means you still going to recommend teaching to your minellium kid who is still at high school as a viable career while technology is coming so hard on that’s industry? Or send him to do something that’s will always be relevant to human survival. We know about passion’s and hobbies you may not afford to send a kid to college or he may want to do something totally unnecessary or that’s doesn’t have intrinsic value like music or sport this will only work depending on the type of parent you are. Forcing a kid to do something that’s she is not passionate about may be a huge misstep me for example I always loved music and by now I’m good at it but parental advices and working 9-5 really delayed my progress I haven’t gave up because I already have some accomplishments and I’m about to go hard and realize my dream. So the realization that’s music might not matter at some point in my life made me want to invest everything I have once and for all right now ,I’m not going to be a musician for the rest of my life but I am planning to start a business at some point. So check your wakeup call and don’t take it for granted

3. If you can be removed in your position at work would it matter?

We take jobs for monetary purposes and for a while that’s works fine but it’s shouldn’t be a norm .being worried about is it this’s I came to do in this world is a big question you should ask yourself now and again. Secondly if a robot were to be putted in my place where would I go? The trap we get ourselves into we start working with needs and we manage to cover them but then all of a sudden you create wants also known as luxuries and when you have those you cannot move forward in life .Now if you lose your source of income then fake life you have created suffer. No does what’s you do matter? Are you hard to replace? Do you have qualities most people don’t have because that’s what will make what you do valuable if you and your taste into it no matter how lame what’s you do. But still consider looking at the industries we mentioned above

4. Your industry may be your skill.

Other people have number of skills; the problem with this is you have to use these skills to make money meaning work. Here we will suggests you looking to industries that’s will free your time or the ones you are passionate about and end up not feeling like work. As we speak I never consider writing this blogs work that’s why im in bed now writing and I will always do this throughout my life. I cannot say I love writing but sharing value is what’s I love and building audience on like.  One thing you should take on today’s topic is that’s you need balance in life ,between what’s you can endure and what’s you can’t but if you feel deep down you don’t love or really not enjoy your life because of your job you might consider having a exit plan. I know there will be other factors like providing your family and the pressure they will put on you. That’s where you should stand your ground and get yourself out of rat race

5. Is your industry crowded and have result ceiling?

You are a you tuber, blogger or building audiences on social media and building pages or you on twitter you promote cause you are an influence. The challenge with social media its easy to see the shine and juice others post and miss the work behind,I heard a guy said there is a lady with 30k followers and she charges R1500 to promote your product ,but since he ended up not interested she followed and ask for a collabo since this guy brand was pushing as well. You see the strategy is good but there is uncertainty involved and this lady had to come back, there is ceiling if you only big in one space not to mention if the brand you pushing don’t make sales out of your audience. The pages on face book may mean well but you may not know how to balance your time in this places you can miss where you are strong. The data you use and all the clothing and pics and quality content you put up cost money you not alone options are there so how can you differentiate yourself or this platform will keep striving because of wanna bees.

When you start a business or work you have big hopes and plans , you don’t start a corner shop with a aim to remain there or work without climbing a ladder. But if there are many corner shops already the competition will be tight so you may need to outwork ,outsmart and take more risks to reach your initial vision. Same at work you need to prove yourself that’s you deserve the position more but if everyone already have required qualification then you might need to be more than a qualified person. There are no much of empty industries but there are those important that’s people don’t pay attention to so that’s where I encourage for you to look and research.

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