It’s ok to be confused

Pay attention is the two words I use the most here, I have found myself lost and don’t know which direction I should take in life. We hope by reading this you might have had this experience the key is notifying it. For us it happens when we about to get money, when we have to choose tasks and so on and even choosing the right path in life. Before I waste my points on the intro let’s get down to it.

Being confused is natural state of being

Other people can read you when you are struggling with something especially family members your mom or your spouse. Confusion is really important because the moment they see this they try to find a way to help you, it’s may appear like a stress sometimes but that’s not always the case.

Sometimes you may be talking to someone or trying to get some insight from him/her and he will say I see that’s you are confused calm down I will show you the other way to do this. The mistakes learner’s do at school is hiding their confusion and its grows with them and end up missing a lot in life, in summary use your facial expression and avoid saying you understood something if you didn’t.

Insanity is doing something over and over again and expecting a different results

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You are not crazy

Being mentally ill is something else and the fact that’s you ill its means you might get cured or not, but don’t recover from this state and think you were just confused. I don’t know if its safe to share this here but I was once mentally ill the one they call crazy and it’s a fascinating experience the kind of strength I had ,endurance and social power was amazing and on top of that’s mind recorded all the terrible things I was doing to the point that’s I remember everything today.

After this thanks to my family for managing to keep me in check and never gave up on me, As I was saying after this I went to a process where I was confused switching from mental illness to being find about a month or so waking up in the morning and sitting in a sitting room all they and eventually I got back to my senses and engage to the society better ,letting myself wonder saved money we didn’t have to see mental doctors and counseling.

Contradictions, choices and your will power

Mind sometimes play’s tricks on us

If you like reading books and watching personal development like me, you will know people teaches the same thing in different ways and actually attack one another in a process. So for an average person it’s ok during that’s time to stand back and adjust and analyze the whole thing ,the big mistake I think I can make cause I am in that’s situation right now is now weighing it and compare and balance the way I approach things.

Meaning I should look at advantage of learning this information and its disadvantage .For me the advantage is that’s my mind is growing and I might be getting ahead intellectually but disadvantage is while I’m learning with no finish line ,in real life I may be struggling financially because I’m lacking action and I feel like I’m doing something just because I’m reading and watching the video’s .

The choice part after this realization is its either I stop learning and say to myself I had enough at school and start grinding and working for result or I try to be disciplined and balance the both. Will is actually doing what’s I told myself that’s I will do. I failed to deliberate when I had two option keep the new average paying but permanent job or quite and go back to my old high paying job where they had ditched me when the market was down with a hope that’s they will register me this time around.

I chose the latter but I don’t complain because my brother took my place but now I’m home waiting for the lockdown to end again I didn’t have a problem with income that’s why this choice wasn’t hard for me .but for the other person you need to really consider your capabilities before taking such choice and any choice for that’s matter.

The best antidote for confusion is thoroughly research and consideration

If you can deal with stress, you can easily deal with perplexity,if you never know when you are confused or not and when you are stuck or lack answers you are not perusing anything interesting in life no offense .You need answer’s and if you have all the answers you are a normal person and it’s not the place you want to find yourself in ,I want to quote my mother right now but let’s leave the good stuff for later.

Here is the question, what’s do you do if you have a huge decision to make? Like making a marriage proposal, choosing a place to live and so on. I doubt you look at the houses in that’s place and conclude with well the houses are nice probably there is no high crime rate there or we have been together for a year or two lets me just propose.

Most of us don’t go deep enough maybe relationships and marriage is different and there is always that’s could go wrong along the way but that’s shouldn’t stop you. But houses you need to know the house taxes, and see stores conveniences and more that’s why you will need to take your time. I learnt this earlier and the hard way and I want you to not repeat the same mistake.

The one’s who have will have more and those who have not ,what’s they have will be taken and be given to those who have.

Mathew

Money causes the most confusion

So here is the fun part about my mom today we were selling our old fridge and because we are selling to her friend we sold it cheap. When they asked me how much we should sell it for I didn’t want to get involved because they wouldn’t listen anyway.

When I complained that’s the price was too low, she asked a question that’s I doubt she even thought about loll, “What’s you going to do with money”? I’m sure I failed to filter myself but they dismissed my insulting answer, which was ok mom you don’t know what’s to do with the money but with my share I know .We not rich at home and most people have 9-5 except me for now , so the question by mom was out of the question.

Lacking the understanding of the importance of money and aligning with month end and working as well as paycheck is some what’s a misstep most people make. The money people work for is the same money other’s got for free or looks like they get for free. If a grandmother get her R2000 pension and you get the same money at your work why you keep collating money with work.

To get my point across and clear you don’t have to work the rest of your life to survive but you need to work or do something to keep yourself sane and have a purpose in life. If the x you solving for is money then work for a period of time and figure a way to invest on something that’s won’t require all your time like work. But working is a great thing if you find a meaning in it.

As of writing this article money is still a challenge for me because its requires my will power to go to the right direction and understanding that’s people wants it in any way they can with less effort sometimes. The research and decision about applies to money as well research when the money will be more effective in your financial life minus your livelihood than do it.

Thanks you for visiting LnM we appreciate you taking the time, our goal is for you to be more self aware and see the world differently from other people without losing yourself in the process.

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How to make life worth it (Artists & as a Person)

Hi todays article is based on my life experience and knowledge I have acquired and I’m not trying to be absolute and controversial but having a view on life is the best state to be at because most people and musicians drifts through life without an awareness of what’s going on outside and within them in their minds and life. Others think life is hard or is how to be certain way and other spend their days sitting around the tuck shops and showing not eager to win at life and become something of themselves so today we wish to open your eyes at least by an inch and make you see you could be someone better not someone average and who is a normal rapper who will quite after getting a 9-5 job.


  • 1 Get out of a crowds and negative routines.

You might be a lady , you normally have girls together and say you enjoy life with other girls your age and drink alcohol and have a blast that’s good but is that’s aligned with your life goals and purpose?

We not trying to change anyone here but let’s do an experiment here if your birthday is so important then every year you have a massive loss in a form of investment in this day and if you don’t have cash that’s time you go to debt because this is a once in a year situation right? Wrong look you need to get out of the bubble and realize you aren’t getting any younger and start curving a purpose for yourself and invest on that’s and become the best version of yourself ,that’s may mean changing that’s circle of friends and those drinking habits. Because if there is 10 of you ,you guys do this 10 times or more per year and already behind by a mile compare to someone who reads books and watch great YouTube channels to help him/her sane. I recommend Channels like @ALUX.COM on YouTube and SUCCESSTV (with red and black logo and VALUETAINMENT for you to start on this path of success and make your life worth it.


  • 2 Don’t binge social media limit yourself in it?

Even if you market something on places like Facebook, twitter, instar, tiktok and more have it on a system and have a room for your sanity and loneliness where you can think and meditate or hit some pushups. Just condition yourself and I want to advice you something take the pain of boredom and experience it so where you get a chance to go out there and live life, work and so on you will grab it with both hands and be gratitude. Today I learn that’s Lockdown is happening for the second time and I’m writing this as a grateful person cause I’m in the zone and I’m using this time to help my fellow human kind like me in this noisy culture we living in. Key of this point don’t let your bad behavior get all over you without a fight , challenge them in short , challenge your mind and tell it what’s to do and not be told by it all the time. Take control of your life and start building yourself good habits. If you take this and try it, it’s going to be hard but don’t swear it. Just improve and create strategies to deal with your anxieties and times where you feel a bit depressed. Today Mphako’s Video played on Mtv Base and this positive thing made me realize through our talent and hobby we have inspired kids from my neighborhood because they saw it and talked about it, instead of a negative event of guys stealing cars or robbery which shows another side of life which is not good for society.

If you don’t learn from history , yourl be stuck in the past


  • 3 Be curious of how things come to be.

For me knowing I can always learn something new makes my life worth it, in some aspect of my life I might have to improve but knowledge acquiring I have become way better and I’m proud of that’s .If you can follow the channels I recommended on YouTube and try to avoid looking at topics that’s won’t help you and focus on those in line with how you can better yourself then your curiosity will be filled day by day. All I ask is for you to take action on actionable steps we suggest or reading this won’t help you .last channel I forgot is Grand cardone see you don’t have to take every advice they give but 1% will change your life and view of life .

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  • 4 Try all the things that’s has a potential to better your life.

I grow up knowing and thinking school is the only thing needed to better my life but now I know knowledge and how to do something is what’s will change my life. It’s doesn’t matter if I got it in college or online school for as long as I can do it I’m good to go. To my second point jobs in South Africa require some sort of diploma or degree to get employed and be in a position but that’s can be limiting to other things other people want to do with their lives, Books have more information than what universities offer but you need to be disciplined to be able to do it by yourself but you can try if you don’t have money to pay tuition fee just buy data and get busy download free pdfs and so on. I can’t wait to be rich to share this kind of information Couse that’s certain it’s going to happen and by then I might not have time to write like this .SO try to get things you want in many ways, we live in the world that’s is runned and operates with money meaning money of the important of things should be on top, to the point that’s you should be weary of someone asking you to do something for free.

  • 5 Having family as important as them not interfering to your personal life

Family has been portrayed as the most important aspect of life and I agree but I want to and that’s you should be able to survive if they all die at the same time and you luckily made it. I know this example is extreme but this point only means be your own person and try to have a conversation with your family to let you try doing things differently your own way for as long as it’s not killing people or anything that’s is not striving to better yourself. In the start of 2018 I decided to stop watching TV and payoff has been amazing because things I think about lately are really mind-blowing and they are aligned with my life purpose and cause ,I don’t think much about news and episodes playing on TV because they really not going to help me in anyway. I got a job and I had to live inside my work, so normal person would want to buy a TV the moment they arrive for me it was a blessing in disguise being there, I focused on my healthy eating because at home it’s hard the kind of food they cook is not good in a long run. There was no distractions from my reading and gym. Now I’m back home because I could use freedom and my brother needed the job more than I did and my secret is I still spend most of my time in my room and with my friends on whatsapp who happens to be number 1 customers of my beats and who visits my blog so I’m grateful.

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