Patience and urgency in life is important you need to find balance

Success TV on YouTube say’s they don’t see young people in a hurry to better their lives and I tend to agree. As we grow up we not taught to have missions in life, we know about goals but we are taught as collaret to jobs, buying cars and houses and getting married although those are important they have less to do with your long term livelihood. Today we going to make examples on how life movement should be treated and I will make with myself and please take what’s I say with grain of salt and if you agree to what’s I say the moment I say it then that’s will means its resonate with you and you are making a realization which is my goal.

  1. Don’t rush big decisions and big things

For a young person could be quitting school because of repeating a class ,as much as most of the school information is not necessary in real world but dropping out of high school can create a bad habit of not sticking through tough times in life.

Adult could be getting married after 6 months in a relationship or because you have a baby with that’s person, lot of considerations needed before acting to that’s fairytale and if you already compromising some part of your life for this person the question will be, can you keep up with this behavior after you are married or its going to make your life harder?

Financial decision’s like financing a car, is not a small one but other’s do it because of the secure job they think they have the problem with that’s kind of payment is your ability to save enough or be flexible with your money this can also means at least buy a 2nd car that’s will do the work take you from point A to point B.

  • Patience to me is

Wait for month end busy to dissipate before I make quick stress less shopping, it’s also mean’s not having commitments that’s keep me in a route to the point that’s I cannot leave my present environment. It’s also means till I afford the luxury watch I want don’t open an account for it. Patience mean don’t settling for a job that’s doesn’t impact my life compare to other options I might have this doesn’t not means fooling yourself though ,if the work you can do is gardening so be it , for as long not wanting a job that’s require profession and you want to wing it. Or fake it till you make it, you will get fired the moment you get in, unless it’s a growing company and its trains its own people.

Its means not looking for highs of life in wrong places, endure the boring parts of your life. I don’t know if it’s just me but relationships and any kind of hang out end up in some spending and compromising you don’t want to find yourself in that’s position while you are trying to build a habit of saving. What’s I have done is I have created my own environment in my bedroom is a studio since I’m into music and because I have access to the internet I started this blog so no matter how bored I am I find something productive to do. To avoid missing people who don’t miss you get to do something or really value your 9-5 and make the most out of it.

Be aware of yourself ,don’t let things happen to you all the time ,make things happen for you sometimes and most of the time ,be in charge of your actions and think before reacting to what’s comes next. It’s always has been important to be in a love relationship in my life but how it’s happen, it’s always a matter of chance either I react to a stranger’s smile or entertain inbox on my social media and those have not work well for me so far and I have started to embrace to be single because then things I stress remain few and less about company I keep but money I keep and progress I’m making in things that’s I spend my time doing. I know getting a partner is something that’s I will deal with but the reason they fail for now ,I’m still figuring myself and my life purpose and this contradicts with my recent beliefs and my partners don’t help.

  • Urgency to me is

Quick to act on the right things , starting a business is a lifelong commitment don’t rush to execute but be in a hurry to start and get going and really spend time studying your industry and people who are your customers and worker’s and be paranoid but control it. Decide quick  and do ,delaying things is a bad habit but as I said above you can consider hanging out with friends or read a book .but if the option is read a book or hit a gym then no consideration necessary find a way to do both. It’s been said you need to reward yourself to motivate yourself , I will say there is no reward in life like achieving your goal and realizing it those moments in life that’s I rare and other people won’t experience them in their lifetime.

What’s fun to you? Maybe I’m talking like a businessman or abnormal person but I am very ordinary and me too I have to figure a lot in life. But since I am a musician I have been to clubs and parties as a performer and people seems to be having fun while really open to mingle and get a one night stand, since I don’t drink it’s the strategy I had hard time understanding buy a booze for a stranger with a hope that’s she will agree to come with you at your place and hit it off that’s night.

For a sober person I always take number’s and fails to follow up, but guys have cars and can really get this habit going.

Things that’s keep this successful people in their own right and mediocre to not go up and live comfortably or live ambitious purposeful living is they don’t count the financial and healthy cost of this lifestyle and they can’t maintain certain status with wasted (drunk) moments in their live. So you mustn’t aspire to succeed because you want to party hard that’s really the opposite of what’s you will be suppose to accomplish but that’s your homework.

  • Balance

For things that’s related to your long term goal, in the short term you must do them no question asked but how urgent may differ to what difference it can make now as well. That’s means don’t allude you into progress by doing things that’s won’t matter at all now and in future.

Change is important if you are trying to figure yourself in life, my beliefs change a lot because I read book and listen to them as well and many of my realizations happen during this times because sometimes I have been using the wrong strategy for a while the moment I see it doesn’t work then I change not drastically but slowly adjust and see how things go.

This happens because books contradicts sometimes and that’s where the reader come in to decide cause the key to self learning is not looking for solutions but tools to solve the challenges of life and business, if what’s you read claims to have a secrete to make a million chances its will lie to you or show you the techniques but still you won’t make that’s immediately after you have finished the book.  

The quicker you get the result the riskier it is, rush to finish line but don’t want quick result because the illusion of having a business while having a job is a big mistake. Grow your business to the point that’s you are not needed in it but don’t build slowly to the point that’s you are stuck in being an employed person in your business. What’s I have strived and approach I have used to get my business running is I save money from where ever I get it until it enough for me to start something to also hire a person that’s will replace me while I figure other things out.

  • Don’t mistake urgency for a hobby and patience for laziness.

You can be quick to go to a sport field and play soccer with a hope that’s one day you will be a superstar but we both know that’s might be love and passion pushing you not direction and sacrifice and desire to be in top of your game so be careful like me if I find doing music easy and full myself to putting the work with there is little to no progress.

Don’t say I’m being patient while being lazy of doing what’s you suppose to do, maybe I’m repeating what’s you already know and guilty of my that’s not my goal to put you a victim, my goal is to get you going if you may act now on what’s you suppose to do and thank me later then my goal will be reached.

We can summarize the whole article by don’t rush to buy, rush to sell. Don’t rush to chill rush to work. Don’t rush to commitment keep flexibility .Be the opposite of the masses. I want to close by saying do the work and have a standard for yourself and life can be in a hurry but I will suggest you get moments to deliberate that’s way you can have breakthroughs in your life. Thinking is not acting to thoughts but is to listen to your mind and decide and note of fascinating and important things your mind suggests.

Thanks for paying us a visit, as I always say I may say things without considering your position in life and you might be reading and saying it’s because I don’t know. That’s true and my humility lies with you but as long as you grow yourself now and again you have a chance to find a way out to your adversity. I agree I don’t know your environment, your level of schooling and your life baggage but imagine if you are no longer in this world ,what’s will really matter? How will you be missed? LnM be part of this blog and grow with us, follow us as ULwaz No Makhula.

5 sign’s that’s you need to work towards getting out of your present environment if you want a better life

Surely by now you know behind every article, there is inspiration and in most of the time solution seems to be the one thing money but to let you in on a secret after money there are things you should be already working on, while you are broke or they will set you back when you make it and they remain your bad habits.

One of those bad habit is to follow the lead of your parents and grow your family in a same unsafe place you grew up in. You know your area and I want to share our 5humble realizations about type of conditions we feel it’s not healthy for a person to grow up under.

Crime rate

Crime is an obvious one but in some areas this is not much of an issue as compare to other townships and neighborhoods. Work towards avoiding living the rest of your life watching your back too much. Move to a place where people are decent and infrastructure is well taken of and don’t sweat the rates they will be worth it.

As LnM reader where ever you go, try to become above average in that’s area in your standards. Look at what’s they call middle class and don’t fall for it move beyond what’s gratifies people in that’s new area.

On the point of crime ,I think everyone in a community should participate in fighting of crime and to the place we are suggesting you aim to live in has a security on top of your personal security so you should want to stay on that’s place .

Informal settlement

You might be lucky living in an informal settlement but able to open this article ,it’s your lucky day knowing that’s your home and building you living in is not built proper should be a red flag to you. You need a home address where a package can be delivered on your doorstep if you ordered online.

I want you to picture your future living in places like Mhlanga or LA Lucia and when you manage to achieve that’s goal ,strive to never go back to an informal settlement. Seeing 10 shacks get burnt by a candle same time and leaving people stranded and needing government intervention, you should get out of that’s situation .

How? 1stly start downloading books and read about any topic that’s might help you get out of your predicament, use a dictionary and be positive about life. Think big and act towards that’s.

Community take laws to their hands

If where you live like where I live people don’t work with law enforcement and they end up being heartless against criminals and kill them painfully maybe by burning them or cutting them into pieces then you need like me to work towards getting out of there.

Its not apartheid era now ,although police may not do incredible work at times but killing is never a great answer in dealing with situations and letting that’s slide in our spirits should tell how damaged we are as a community. Today I saw a guy who was being beaten and it’s not the 1sttime, he is a criminal and while he crave for a drug called Wonga he steals people’s stuff and I have a brother like that’s as well and we have once or twice bailed him out in situations where he was to get killed, because once they steal they don’t bring back your things for them they still to the anti-snitch code and lie till dearth.

But still I’m talking to you and myself can’t we find a way to move out of this places where all this incidents happen? I say we can and this are signs that’s we should, it’s doesn’t work well with me seeing people killing people guilty or not, its shows as a society we are not united enough to create programs to help the perpetrators and to build security in our communities.

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Schools, Retail Stores, and government services are far from you

If things are not in your convenience that’s will make your life hard and if you have a car you will work for gas. This is the pure sign that’s you need to relocate, At Inanda you need to take a taxi in order to deposit money and this is affecting me personally, and saving money has become an actual process because of this.

Malls, Wi-Fi and government institutions should be near you and not like what’s is happening here, having a home affairs that’s cannot print an ID for you. I won’t blame government and in this blog we never blame circumstances we figure out ways defeat those odds.

You will hear this several time here, there are things you should do to show how much you value your time and one of those is moving away from a location which makes your life a process instead of a simple day to day living. I hate cue and I’m sure most people do but what’s are you going to do about it?

That’s your homework, things are not rocket science life changing information is not found in degree’s but on people who has figure things out and has share those with the world .I want to encourage you to check all other subjects in this blog and have a better view of life. We started focusing on music artists but we realize people like us needs to realize what we has.

Your environment is a liability not an asset

50 cent said in his book, look around people you meet, are they depositing in your life or they withdrawing? And he made it clear there should a balance e.g. other people can realize that’s you are depositing in their lives and really point it out and want to do that’s in return now that’s a company you want to keep.

Same to liabilities and assets if people around you never talk anything of substance other than news on tv and general knowledge those people are not assets and they cannot introduce you into a new thing or information or open doors for you. Assets are things that’s puts money in your pockets and liabilities take money out of your pocket refer to rich dad poor dad by Robert kiyosaki book for more.

Trees, river’s and land is not the environment we referring to here but people and man-made things essentials around that we are talking about. If you cannot make money in anyway where you live or laws take it from you then relocation is a must.

If you can’t find a great life partner and a trustworthy friend in your area go out there and meets better people and I can try to tell you to be aware of social media as your option it’s not too bad but its misses the chemistry part and really facial and body language..

Thanks for taking the time to see what you is can learn, I want to say, you may not understand well my style of writing and have some suggestion please follow us and address this with us, so we can improve. LnM on social media you can get us as ULwaz No Makhula.

There will be a question of affordability in today’s topic and we understand that’s very well but since there’s one life  we are creating awareness that’s there are people who has manage to achieve so can you. Put excuses aside and try to work yourself out of your situation.

The house you living in can be located in a better suburb meaning the idea of selling and really take radical action can be your best shot. Remember if you scared its natural, if you not then the step you want to take is not hard enough.

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