This might look like a question but most people fail to make this distinction in their lives that’s why we are showing the crucial differences today and how we have found to work best when making life decisions that’s involves this people in our lives.
God has bless me with both friend and family also have friends that’s doesn’t come close to my best friend who has become my adopted brother who we run this blog with. So let’s see if there are no lessons to be taken on this subject.
There are 3 type of friends , Friends for (Reason ,Season and for a Life)
This is self explanatory but as we know the elaboration open our 6th sense and we then connect the dots better. So comparing friends with family is a huge understatement we tend to value the blood thicker than water myth ,yet is true and we don’t choose our families while we choose friends.
The question is in this 3 type of friends which one is yours? If it’s for a reason get that’s over with and move on with your life and don’t hold on too much to that’s friend because what’s ever reason you are together will end someday.
The friend of a season can be good and bad if they love you if you are rich then run when you struggle then that’s a seasonal friend , others love you when you are poor like them when you better yourself they leave you.
And more type of friends so choose wisely for me a friend should always be there in good and bad ,rich and poor ,your family and his can also be close because of what’s you have .
Family over everything
I tend to agree with this one from the get go why because family can be your downfall in life or uplift so having them in their place can do you good.
The best think to realise is there are two type of family ,present one and future one if you still live with your mother and father sister brother and grandma then that’s your present family.
But if you are married and you have your own wife or husband and your kids then that’s future family ,what’s ever culture you build within this family will determine the better life experience you will have or life of grudges and hate you will have to endure .
Either way you can consider your family opinions in your life journey but it’s not family over everything ,but because they love you and emotionally attached they can be a great sheild from harm and hardship but some of that’s is necessary for you to build a thick skin for you ,in business and life in general.
People outside your immediate family have unbiased opinion and life lessons that’s can change your life for the better ,so question everything and every norm and old myths that’s blocks your path. Leaving your family is the first thing to test you and help you navigate life.
How many friends should a person have
This shouldn’t be a thing , why because nobody can keep up with a lot of friends let alone one with our busy morden lives but let’s say you have 10 friends which one is more valuable than other?.
For us friendship is like love relationship you need one or two more than that’s it’s all crumble down , for example one of your friends see you as a best friend while you see him or her as a regular friend ,then friction will start showing.
The best thing is to have equal friends and then one best friend because commitments comes with accountability and responsibilities. Facebook friends are not your friend are people you may know , same as Twitter and so on.
The more you build superficial freindships with no substance the more chances you will be used by other people and leave you holding the empty bag , build networks instead, business net ,social community net , book club net and so on positive stuff and please don’t hang with criminals and losse girls because that’s what’s yourl become.
You are the average of five people you spend your time with
Would you choose to spend time with 4 millionaires and you being the fifth or spend time with your 4 kids and you being the fifth.
Although this saying on my title can be contradictory its point is the more time with certain people you get to have their traits and habits as well as their beliefs.
With that’s said having a blog like this as a friend could be a huge leap forward into a cycle of your surroundings ,because you don’t necessary need physical friends to create a psychological cycle that’s with be the average of your thoughts we can be your mentor from far.
Now one friend add to your averages ,then your closest family members second and third your online mentors and positive vibes forth being your love partner and lastly its you and your decisions.
To summarize all this you are your worse enemy what’s ever you decide to take out of this blog is on you to implement it.
People treat you the way you treat yourself and them
See if you show people by action that’s you can be trusted and you keep your word people will reciprocate that’s.
Be a cruk , manipulate lie and cheat chances are karma will play it role so to have a family liveable with you need to be a brother ,mother ,father and kid that’s listen and put himself in other people’s shoes have humility and audacity when putting a point across like acting what’s you preach.
Same to maintaining a friendship for us ,you should be in business with your friend so the money you will make you can enjoy better together lol ,on a serious note you learn your friend best when you see his life skills and how he put out fires and that’s happens well in hustle.
I hope you found me friendly today fam , my goal is to turn this posts to a YouTube voice over videos and if you can pull that’s off 0840196532 whatsapp me.
And later on in life turn it into a book if you can get my right to collect all the posts ever made to chapters and adit it for a better good read . LnM (ULwaz No Makhula) that’s where you like us and follow this blog to get more interesting content #Spliff_Entertainment