Subjects that’s are not “well ‘talked about,

It’s going to be hard taking time looking at this but you might guess that’s I will talk about tax or whatever but you will be surprised because it seems so basic but most man, woman boy and girl experience it. I wish I was a statistic guy and a research individual but I’m not ,I use experience and facts that’s we all know or maybe dismissed but now is a great time to realize this before it’s too late.

Male and female sexual thinking in general sense

This is not addressed anywhere not in early schooling or middle schooling and unless it’s a concentrated cause universities don’t teach it. Apart from your own brain thinking about these things you might wonder why this is important to me.

Well here is an example a mind of a male thinks about lot of things during the day but once a woman comes across his face his mind get distracted a bit or throughout the day ,especially if a woman is wearing clothes that’s shows most of her sexy parts of the body.

In our today’s society the dress codes are not a matter of a subject but they should, another example how you dress your teenage girl is a different between her becoming a victim of rape or her equal age boys touching her or your daughter being seen otherwise and respected. It will be a great habit for a mom to teach a child not to revile her body and as in church they say your body is a temple of the lord.

We know that’s member’s of family your uncles aunts and older siblings touches little girls and boys and end up abusing the kids sexually but we don’t know how long they endure the temptations leading to those moments.

I’m not giving anyone a way out for me as a uncle I have a responsibility to control my mind and feelings or not recommended but a better option self help and get rid of a steam than hurt another girl or a child and turn to a monster.

The way woman dress in the beach ,well we all out there having a good time we shouldn’t make a big deal out of it right? Wrong, just tell me what do should men do? But for now self control and men love their partners enough not to consider the booty they saw.

There were a video couple of girls raping a guy, and it’s reached the right people and law took care of it. For man that’s was a horrible gangbang towards a woman but for a man this guy was stupid not to take advantage of that’s moment right? Again wrong this male asked for a protection on the video there was none ,and all the sexual transmitted disease after math was going to be his problem ,leave that’s not say his belief if he is a religious person physiologically he is going insane and can potentially kill himself if he doesn’t get help.

Back to men guys we are far from being saints but our sh*t is out there and maybe the law will get hard on us and its should but I want to talk to you in the individual sense ,the need to prove a point should not be an option to you especially if its mean beating your loved one. Here is another example if you are a grown up and you find yourself fighting with your mother having a serious conversation do you resort to beating her up? No, why not? Isn’t that’s you know how valuable your mother is to you ,she groomed you as a baby fed you and say now she’s a reason you lost your job but you still find a way to forgive her.

Your girlfriend is not your mother or your wife is not your bloodline but maybe you have kids together and its easy for me to say cause im not there yet, but since she is your mother of your kid’s would you put booze aside and think of the wellbeing of the children and the wellbeing of her and yourself after this is history after 10 years?

I know people here are not planning to do something bad, last week I beat a guy and I don’t carry any weapon he stole my t-shirts while it was on the line and I caught him by luck, the decision of hurting him came with some small consequences my hand had pains at night, I anticipated his move but he got scared and I built an enemy,there is no justification for what’s I did cause I would’ve reacted differently but human nature played it role.

My thinking went like this,at home there are only boys if someone does this take us for granted and treat us like girls ,I will teach him a lesson also realize if I don’t beat him since I caught him in the store the guys there won’t respect me at all and want to take chances with me so I was proving the point to everyone who was watching just don’t mess with me. Other than that’s I’m a nice guy.

Wize ft Sandile – Boom

Real Hip Hop will never die ,when we still recieve such bars in the time where new sound is overrated Wize decided to remind us how thia ish is done. In the world of singing and plastic rap Sandile came through and reaffirm thats hip hop lives on. Double U emphasized the fact thats he … Continue reading Wize ft Sandile – Boom

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How to really start a business

You may say people always talk about this one but I saw a post this week saying how to start a business while they meant how to register a company and look for funding. You see I find it’s hard to comments on such posts because the poster possibly don’t run any business and people who appreciate the free advice don’t consider that’s.

Now on the internet teaching people how to start a business is a business on itself and YouTube is that businessman revenue. I want to clarify my position here, I do have some kind of fundamental understanding of a business because I reach about it and I have things that’s pays me money every month but my advice might not work for you.

But I will share anyway the best way I have been doing it, first getting a job has been the most important part of my learning process and getting money to start whatever I want to start, but maybe you can find capital elsewhere but not all business needs capital from an idea you can make money, that’s is if you work hard and smart with your idea. Here was my idea to prove a point I had a second hand machine that’s someone gave me for free after helping him on building his blocks.

Then I had the idea, what’s if there are people out there that are needs blocks who already have a concrete floor and they want to save money and don’t buy bricks at the hardware and want to build them themselves. I putted out 50 cent each poster around my place which written I make blocks R1 each you buy material we build them for you and my phone number.

Then I was in business with a friend and he left since it was hard but we did get paid and if we didn’t stop we would have viable business now, I was already in R1,30 and making a nice profit and manage to hire one guy. This is even before I think of registering a business, no loan or funding just making it happen. You might have MBA degree in business and you have a better definition on how to start a business you can comment below, I’m just saying this subject is not taught well enough because people who teach want to lead people to conferences and make money out of them.

If you want me to make money why charge me the little I have instead of encouraging me to put it in my business? Be careful buying causes and products online, I might make them in the future but trusting me now will make it easy for you to count on me, if I do I will rather get paid from a business profit not you.

Power of the internet

This point supports the previous article check it out, internet is powerful yet very shinny and destructive don’t build your life around it but at least build your business or company around it. This means you get people to push what are needs to be pushed there and get back your life into a certain extent, do it as well but being too religious about it will cost you two most precious things time and money.

The branding side of things,I have realized what’s is branding ,branding is what’s people associate with your name or company here is an example to get you in the right path here is brand in a nutshell coca cola red and white ,smiling people and a 55ml bottle that’s branding seeing this all over its easy for me to associate with a cold drink. What are you doing online without the features explained above?

Your color your fonts and your message ,for an average consumer internet is a second home but let not be you have a life that’s is not based on what’s people said on face book ,twitter or anywhere build your own identity and brand yourself in real life and supply real products that’s you believe in and uses yourself.

Here is the recommended power of internet and there still you should not overindulge, that’s personal development articles like this and Google good information as well as YouTube how to videos and downloading books and go offline and read them less novels more biographies of successful people and personal development books and business books even if you won’t be in business philosophies will help your life.

Imposter syndrome and social proof

This one is not for general public is for you, if you have read so far thank you now here is the meaning of the subtitle, you will read the above things and conclude that’s you can’t do it and doubt yourself that’s imposter syndrome and you don’t want to have that’s disease cause you will never amount to anything if you do. You can change your life , you can control your feelings and anger ,you can take charge of what’s your girl or boy wears ,read ,eat and do while they are still under your supervision and you can stop a bad habit ,by not talking about it ,thinking about it or hanging around it or dismiss it while it’s in front of you.

Don’t copy especially things that’s you don’t understand why people do them, don’t follow the crowd and be your own man or woman and live your life differently all of that’s just a social proof, if most people do it be the exception and that’s way your whole life will. Value your time and other people’s time ,I know some people don’t like me because I hardly commit into anything ,if I do I ask for money if I’m free that’s my problem don’t add stuff and your silly dreams on me.

I love and respect people and I get wrong sometimes but trust me all of the above is worth it. In closing I want to tell you the painful experience I’ve been experiencing lately and its will pass , a girl I met on twitter showed interest and we talked for a while and we ended up dating and then all of the sudden she dropped me without a word ,I might have said things as well but she’s straight up rude right now and here is my lesson in this painful as it is  ,for me is one of those experiences that’s makes me want to be so successful in life that’s I will wonder why this moment of might life was such a big deal anyway. I love and respect woman but that’s one I feel sorry for her.

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Self control is very important here is why

This topic should be encouraged and be talked about more often, the reason I’m touching this is because growing up we should be able to control our impulses and deliberate on things. I don’t know how long I can push this subject so please help me out and comment as well.

You can avoid doing things that’s will cause you serious problem

If you are in a love relationship you can avoid, falling for other person by disciplining yourself to avoid any signs of chemistry between you and stranger’s. This is work and you should not take it lightly and your friends should respect your ways, but take charge of that’s situation and move away from that’s influence.

Rape is a buy product of lack of self control that’s why you should be of sound mind when you make decisions and actions. But don’t get this confused life is risky and you should be willing to take those risks that are needed to be taken to reach positive heights of life. But unnecessary risks of sleeping with a girl while she is saying no are a big mistake.

Emotional abuse is a huge tool that’s people use to manipulate people ,for a woman it’s a powerful to a partner to make him do what’s she wants’ and don’t mistake this for influence ,influence is made naturally and gain both parties emotional manipulation is one sided gain and its always backfire so if you are a lady using this negative techniques to get things done in your relationship control yourself earlier before you find yourself in a bad position of losing a good man because of your wrong deeds , you might not cheat or anything tangible but games of mind and always suspending and playing the detective type can be a problem in a long term relationship.

You can be good with money

We live in a money world and its takes a discipline and self controlled person to manage it properly and for me this is the skill I’m trying to master by all means to the point that’s at home I am a treasurer and for years I have been trustworthy and kept the books well all left is to multiply it. If you can think through your purchase and really factor the money going out and how much time to get it, you will be in your good control to buy needed things than wants, you will seek assets more than liabilities and as you grow and maybe become a business person in your life you will buy liabilities with the business tax money cause you will be controlling every aspects of your money life.

It’s a normal thing to hear people say live below your means, what’s I should emphasize to you is that’s doable and you can try it. Instead of spending your whole paycheck, spend at least 60% and save 40% this will be a good test of your self control and the strength of keep going and your ability to control your emotions and eager to buy stuff you don’t need and you will be able to stick to the budget.

Here is the example from myself, I earn 5000 a month and straight up R1200 goes to the savings, then R500 goes to my family as support as I still live at home and what’s left goes back to the business and I’m usually left with nothing or less than R300. But as people we are not the same other’s have cars and drink alcohol and have all sort of things but control means simplifying your life you should try to do that’s by all means and avoid having habits like drinking mess with your live below my means plan.

You can control your emotions

By keeping calm when you are angry doesn’t means you don’t know how to act on it and make noise like other people do. But that’s level of self control you have or you need if you blast when you mad at someone. The breath in and out technique or moving away from the individual trying to test you can work and keep you out of jail and doing something you can regret.

If we can let our emotion get over us people will be showing streams of tears everyday but somehow we have mastered that’s part as we grow but still deep down we hurt. So what’s do you do when unfortunate thing happens to you? Well firstly I can say let the process of sleepless night and thinking over and over take place then move yourself from that’s situation especially if your body is still intact.

As days goes healing will take place but don’t give in to giving up and blame and so on just have a view of who I wanted this to happen to except me? Or what’s this lesson has for me and so on ,yet you are hurting and you’ve lost and schemed by that’s life and if you expect the good only in its you won’t do anything meaningful in life and you don’t want to be in that’s position.

You will have courage and confidence in yourself

You see in closing having a cell phone free at home that’s no call might mess with your other half is a real peace of mind. The courage part is knowing that’s you can handle everything coming your way because you are aware and mindful of everything that’s happening around you. For me my weakness is really feel if a lady embarrass me or rejection in general but I have grown to deal with it cause I’ve been applying the sales man skills, the courage to approach still in that’s state of expecting anything and knowing I can handle my embarrassment is what’s has kept me going, in both selling and approaching.

Moving on untouched territory needs focus and really a player mindset, so say for the 1st time you are buying a big purchase say a car what’s will you do? here what’s I will do because its minimizes risks, I will go with my uncle who has bought two cars and tell him to help me with most things except negotiations because that’s part should be mine and I will be paying unless he is a better negotiator, the courage here is knowing that’s you not good at anything and get help.

It will be a general skill that’s will do you good

I have a tendency of telling people I know that’s I read books so the knowledge I usually share has a reference, I hardly have my own opinions my this information I read has turn out to be mine because I use it and its doing wonder’s for me and I happen to have a positive attitude and high self esteem and you can put me with anyone we can connect.

I wasn’t always like this it started in 2018 January when I follow certain channels in YouTube and its introduced me to business and books ,and last week in YouTube I found the contracting videos that’s is against too much personal development and there and there I had to try and balance the whole thing and avoid scammers and fake gurus , while realizing that’s they may be fake guru but if you believe in their information and apply it  its works and books may do the work so I won’t stop but balance real life and studying and doing .

Back to the subtitle the  general skill is ability to engage with people ,introvert is not a good character traits you might miss opportunities and if you are an open person and end up hanging with everyone who will do you no good then you will have a problem. If you control yourself you will know when to speak and know when to shut up , know the timing and really avoid what’s I use to do with ladies ,I wasn’t considerate if a girl disappear the whole day on the phone I’m starting to suspect ,so instead I should’ve gave those ladies the benefit of the doubt and let them live their lives and come back to me when they miss me to the point that the relationship is that’s serious.

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