How to protect yourself from bad habits

This advice is not something you don’t know I’m here to reinforce it. I have realize I no longer post as often since I started writing during the lockdown where I had all the time in the world so if you are seeing this from your email you are the reason I’m writing. You believed in my ideas and this habit of writing was one of the strategies to help myself avoid void and end up doing bad habits.

Do something if you have free time
I use to think my job was important but not worth it but up until I lost it and realized it better to work than not. Free time and having nothing to do on a day may lead you to doing negative things that’s doesn’t show itself as negative.

Here is a example the lunch at work is 30 minutes and you finish eating at 45 now the next 15 minutes either goes to ill debates or smoking.

Ever notice at work there is no much motivation around what’s ya’ll doing only paycheck is; imagine talking about your goals during lunch or how your work has changed your life?

That’s worth doing during your free time than gossiping or talking about TV series. The above statement is an example of small batch of free time, what’s about those who doesn’t work at all? For those who I happen to be one of them as of writing this blog what can you do to avoid doing ill?

Disclaimer I may be a little privilege and have a source of income every month on passive income ,passive income means after I receive the money I have nothing much to do which lead me to having this free time.

Now getting back to the point ,the something you can constantly doing is applying and looking for a job or trying different businesses like selling something on the street for starters while having a bigger picture on how you can spend your time.

Depending on where you live there are hard physical jobs and other handyman jobs you can take rather than sitting on a tuck shop and watch the sun take time from you.

Build habits that’s will propel you forward invest your time wisely and take your time choosing the right vehicles don’t be drifted by air and join and schemes that’s won’t last.

Listen to educational content and stay away from television
Your breakthrough in life will come from something you heard or saw and if you get your inspiration from television I doubt there’s something there for you to get you out of your predicament situation.

When you start the personal development route you will learn life contradictions and more and how hooked you may be, I think that’s where you will need to control your intake of this information with a grain of salt.
This might not resonate to you but keep reading as I have a great point at number 4. The summary of this second point is do the boring worth a while things rather than temporally entertaining things that’s won’t matter in your future.

Read books hard as it is but it’s doable on other hand hit a gym and try balancing these things.

When socializing be conscious on what’s you are talking about when you are talking to people and clearly distance yourself from friends that’s lead you to bad habits like drinking and maybe chase girls and unproductive debates about government and celebrities.

Help people
This is my strategy but I’m conscious on who imp helping but I suggest to you do this in real life not on social media that’s way it will be effective.

So last year when I reached what’s its seems to be my rock bottom ,I started helping my rich grandfather who doesn’t stay with me with one of his businesses without expecting anything on the other hand my aunt was building her house close by and I was the obvious choice for helping.

And last month my grandpa borrowed me 40k to get back in business and also my aunt trust me with her finances thus I can use that’s money and replace it every time.

You may not see who you can help but trust me there is a person who need something to get done, all you have to be is be trustworthy and be efficient and always speak the truth in good and bad times.

This may look like motivation and so on but it’s apply in every aspect of a person’s who value success.

I also know there are times where a person who is in great position and make business deals and have to give municipality side drink money, that’s not the case here that’s the corruption on the politicians end and business people are forced to align with this act, I’m sure there are bad business people as well but you don’t want to begin your journey of having a habit of paying bribes to get things done.

What’s causes bad habit
We cannot protect ourselves from something we don’t know how we find ourselves in. Although I said bad habit in the sub-title but I mean any habit for that’s matter but we are trying to fight the bad ones here.

Reading the atomic habit book they say habits are cause by certain cues meaning we do this which lead us to doing the next thing.

You went to buy bread in the morning and remember you have to buy cigarette as well.

The other way is the environment I am an example every time when I’m in my bedroom I crave pop corn because I associate it with the computer screen and anything I think of watching.

And to fight this negative habit’s we must remove the things that’s cause the cues ,like changing a shop and be vigilant most of all of this remove TV or the type of content that’s cause me to want pop corn.
With time on your hand find other tasks to do instead of those causing you to do the bad deeds.

Maybe you have a habit of cheating to your partner and it not something you have got grip off .You may need to work towards solving that’s bad habit like putting your babe on the profile display when you try to take the number of a side chick and you will remember the oath you did to yourself of not cheating.

Bad habit of forgetting people’s names, simply repeat it in your mind the moment they tell you rather miss few lines of what’s they say and ask them again then forgetting their names.

See your life meaningful
Maybe your life is straight forward and that’s not such a bad thing, but since you have people you admire in life the question is why can’t you be the one admired by others as well?

The meaning can be simply having talented kids who sees you as their manager or investor or try to partner with youth who are doing what’s you wished you have become and become a motivator and patch in the back for them and when they realize their goals you will be a important person in their lives and a role model to any one in that’s niche.

This point is simply to say find meaning of your existence other’s say a purpose ,and your life will be aligned and the bad habits will run away e.g. you are a soccer coach and you say no smoking in your team that’s obviously stop you from doing it as well.

You start a business and don’t think a business as a traditional thing of opening a stand outside and wait for people to come and buy, learn the internet and open a website thus your mind will be open to more things.

But if you will do it in the physical world the habit of sleeping in and opening your shop late may take you out before you even begun those bad habits are bad in business and at work.

Prove a point in a positive way, tell your friends you won’t get absent this year and bat on it or you won’t be late. This bat will motivate you and have you never snoozing your watch.

Without mentioning social media and internet habits I would haven’t be relevant so becareful on how much time you spent there because real life will be waiting for you ,check the cues that’s lead you to picking up a phone and dodge your work and put your livelihood in line.

Before I lost my job I wasdon’t already threatened by my boss that’s if I don’t stop using a phone im gone ,it’s was very hard stopping but I had to don’t find yourself in that’s terrible situation.

Thank you if you have read this far and you see other subject below don’t hesitate this information is worth binging. LnM (ULwaz No Makhula) follow us everywhere. I hope I will stop my bad habit of not writing more often.

Practice good relationship with other people

With the world moving to automation people with have more time in their hands and the company we keep will matter more than ever, that’s why today we look at ways to practice good relationship with other people. It’s may be a family member a stranger or a colleague what’s ever it is you will learn something here and possibly some of it it’s just reinforcement of what’s you already know.

Do your parts in maintaining the relationship you value

I am a passionate learner and I try paying attention to a lot of things in my life and at the age I’m at I value relationships although its looks like it’s a spare of a moment thing and other people may think I’m on their case, that’s not the case at all I just value them knowing It or not.

I had an honor of buying my grandpa a birthday present this week last year I failed to do that’s because he had a huge party and I realized my gift won’t matter that’s much but this year no one was paying attention and me myself I pay attention to the fact that he values his birthday when he turned 69 years old and told me no one remembered his birthday and I felt bad and made a commitment to do something in his birthday since he is the elder male in the family and I’m lucky to be close to him since he became so successful in his lifetime.

This story is to make a point that’s the relationships you cultivates grows and fraction is bound to happen but how you come back from that’s makes the whole difference, this also means when you in an argument with an important person in your life or anyone for that’s matter you should think through your words carefully because they may last longer than your sorry.

My goal with this blogs is simple to have likeminded people following me and helping one another go through life with awareness and don’t be sidelined by our work and daily choirs ,blogs are small and straight to the point which makes it a great way to learn.

Avoid having people you bully

Although nature didn’t create us equally and we different in many ways from gender to age , geographical location and mental states its important that’s no one gets bullied as we grow we will lose people but our bad actions shouldn’t be the cause and the main problem you will do this in front of people that’s matter to you and they will change the view of you.

This point will tied close to your own people’s skills ,personally I consider myself bad with the opposite gender thus although I’m looking for a way to improve but I still try not to push it ,Those kind of relations I build them from the foundation of chemistry and if there’s none then I don’t approach that’s party. On the other hand if it’s strictly business or work I’m good working with them if it’s a working environment situation but on my own businesses I still find it hard to collaborate with them.

Last week since I’m involved in a music industry as a producer and an artist I needed a lady to do a photo shoot with and manage to get two unlucky I needed one so I had to stop the other lady.

 The lady took long to confirm and understandably I was just a stranger referred by a friend but it’s took some days to get an answer but that wasn’t the main issue, what’s happened next is, the lady that’s confirmed cancelled on me so I had to go back to the one I stopped two of them friends and to my surprise they rejected me and made a unrelated reason for not helping me.

They said you rejected us while you were the one needing people and they continue saying the world doesn’t revolves around us as artists, I was supposed to be considerate and think of them as their students they have classes so it a no.

 I thanked them and postponed the shoot and the issue here is that’s they might have had a point but they said more than necessary and if you disagree please comment below. So this another form of bullying we get from our fellow human beings and I have been on the watch on such behavior and my music company doesn’t have female artists and luckily no one has ever want to and I’m not looking.

Know your weakness when it’s comes to relations

The above is a conscious awareness of me and limitations, for 50 cent is his family he’s good at almost everything he does but terrible with keeping it’s cool with his family by certain extent and he’s aware and working on it. What about you maybe we men come across too violent or you find it hard to influence other people near you thus failing to build mutual respect with other people.

There is the book I’m reading crucial conversation is a perfect book you need to conquer your weaknesses, be alert to what’s beliefs your surroundings had installed in you to hate certain people in my culture is a normal thing for mother’s to fight the battles of their exes with a kid and the kid end up hating father maybe the father made things worse by pulling back maintenance support to the little child who has nothing to do with your fights.

 At this point I understood that’s as parents we should not prevent children’s from seeing our fights so they will learn from them and make the decision either they adopt the bad behavior or they tell themselves that’s they will never treat their partner like this or on the bright side if you start thinking of dodging the kids to the bedroom conclude not having this fight at all.

 I’m writing from other people’s experiences because I’m not yet married or anything like that’s but I have been once in a room with parents fighting and my kid shouldn’t go through the fear I did when that’s happens.

Be honest and tell the truth all the time and face the consequences

Truth always has consequences and for me it’s the route I had always took and repercussion dealt with ,It not an easy thing and you have to endure a lot of stress towards revealing a truth of what’s might happen. Face to face with other people around is a better place because is closing behind closed doors the reaction may be uncontrollable.

This apply to your work in Toyota they encourage a worker coming forward after doing a defect in a car in an assembly line other than hiding a defect with a potentially of killing the whole family on the freeway.

 Ever since I have started businesses none have had success that’s I can say this was a milestone reached it’s a lost after another although something I can live with but the regret of not trying would be much worse in my later life and this blog is a product of starting something and keep pushing and be true to myself that’s I don’t know when I will succeed here.

Have a heart ,know what’s the world needs to know and what’s not about your life for example you wouldn’t tell the world that’s you have a bad habit of masturbating if you did there must be a huge chance you don’t take yourself seriously and no one will ever do. I know my example is not a comfortable one but my point will also be family matters and dark side of it should be kept a family matters not face book.

Raise your standards and show how you want to be treated

When people attack you try to keep a low profile and don’t rise to their anger and that’s on its own will make them realize you don’t entertain noise you just want solutions and understanding.

 The standards reflects of the quality friends you keep and family treats you the way you present your goals and beliefs personally I don’t believe in what’s my elders believe in and thus they know how to treat me in certain situations. Respect is important and really thinks of other people when you go through certain big decisions because it will affect them one way or another.

You may drink but if you act like a drunk you will be treated as such, you may be a church goer but be sidelined by your bad deeds trust me the bad deeds will out shine your church going habits. Life is not black and white and I’m not saying I’m 100% right in all the bold statements I make but if you want to make good relationships you must be a reflection of what you is want. If you found some valuable insight on today’s piece let us know ,thanks for taking the time and drop your own advice if you are a blogger below on the comments and tell me how can I improve my weaknesses that’s that’s I mentioned above. This is LnM (ULwaz No Makhula) on all social media.

5 Reason’s why new love relationships fails

Hi welcome back to LnM, and to this juicy attractive title. This might help some other’s will dismiss it and continue with their old ways that’s doesn’t work. Some of the tips I share here are quoted in Alux.com YouTube video “What’s woman look for in a man , and vice versa” So if you get sometime go watch that’s it’s going to open your mind .Also Valuetainment on the topic , how to marry and who to marry. But due to demographics situations may differ so for me in South Africa I will be able to really touch on all the reasons why relationship fails that’s happens here in Africa.

  1. Because we don’t study from people who has successful relationships

Failing to study about this, as individuals makes us put our new partners in a hard situation. In everything you do, you need its working mindset that’s can be finance, parenting, work and so on .for you to differ from the rest you must teach yourself.

The council about relationship, shouldn’t come from your player friend, unless you want to be a player as well. And personally I have met ladies and try to date them and show them my intentions earlier because I don’t want to play and waste my time.

For a moment they understand and for some reason’s its seems like all that’s effort is a wrong move and it’s overwhelm them but until I find someone who will get what’s I’m saying I won’t anybody’s time as well as mine. You don’t get it, I politely let you go before we do something we both regrets. Failure to get advice from people who has been dating for 6 months to a year or 3 years, is a sure sign that’s you both will wing it until your relationship dies an early dearth. Then when you are ready to get married, see a pastor or anyone who has been married for a long time.

2. Because we don’t understand what’s love is

I want to be clear,I’m not saying what’s will happen in your new relationship that’s purely up to you and your partner. I’m mentioning the obvious trends that’s usually make relationships fail, other fail before they even begun and I have that’s experience firsthand. Because I am a continua’s learner I tend to know about life then my partner’s and to be honest I have my negative flaws as well but I’m working on them.

Getting back to the point ,not knowing what’s love is , I think is the number 1 problem young and old people who just started dating have. Maybe you have a different way to define love but I will make an example we will all understand. At home my mother has never once said, she loves me but I know she do then the question be how would you know your partner loves you with him/her uttering those words? The answer of real love is there. Love is a verb and verb is a doing word.


My understanding of love is you show it by doing things a lover do to the people they love. If you tell me you love me and leave me like that’s, you don’t really love me. I know others are thinking sex or being with a person in person this will differ to a gender but ladies are not impressed by sex only or mostly they want affection according to the reverend I was listening to yesterday, show them love and bond with them. Then us guys we do love making love, respect and for me personally a simple consideration on your day and how you go about things but I will expand later.

3. We date a person for wrong reason’s

I think anyone reading this subtitle can relate,it can be quite challenging having the kind of woman in our society who values material things but that’s can be a reality that’s should inspire us as man to better ourselves. On the other hand things attracts weak girls so, we shouldn’t take it to heart all of the above can make a relationship fail.

 Dating for convenience is an existential suicide because what’s ever made you fall in love will always be a reminder for one another for example I found him unemployed and I was there for him till he got a job, so he can’t leave me. 1st of all if that’s was your reason to date him in the first place then that’s was a wrong reason because now you make it’s like you won a jackpot.


To us guys as well dating a person because , she can cook ,clean and wash while we chilling at a sofa is a terrible strategy that’s was used by other great grand ancestors. Today a woman who respects you and self-sufficient who you guys meets half way is a 21st century kind of woman you should aim for.

Dating someone because you lonely is also a bad move be rational a bit when getting in a relationship although feelings will take place but acting on them all the time is counterintuitive. By my standards I approached based on chemistry but I cannot always act on that’s because its might happen even if I’m in a happy relationship. Like today its happened but I couldn’t act maybe it was fear as well or place we were at but you get the point.

4 We don’t know what’s makes a good partner

It’s hard to measure a person’s mindset but that’s all there is in a good partner the way he / she thinks and looks at things. Way of talking, dealing with problems some people don’t talk or work through thing they let them pile up until someone can’t handle it anymore. Issues needs attention a good partner don’t lets things slide at the same time let you boyfriend or girlfriend have a life without you.

You don’t have to tag along all the time. Trust and be trusted and don’t do doggy things be upfront all the time and think through your words first especially if you cannot delete the message immediately on whatsapp like other partners do. I have made a rule once I have send a whatsapp I won’t delete it, I rather refrain myself because we are left curious and assume after the person has done that’s. Important person to your life should do that’s.

5. Some are not dating but just browsing

Browsing is a first step to finding a right partner and I want to indicate a mistake I have done and learn later was looking a partner just like me. I want to tell you there’s none , so reading all this just bear in mind the perfect some boys you picture won’t be yours and for a good reasons. You won’t be compatible from a person who has once dated his crush they turn out to be people after all and they have everyday problems and can stress you like every partner you meet. So bear your partner uniqueness and work with it.

Back to the point, rather be single and try to figure yourself out. If you was a problem in a previous relationship, chances you will be the same in the next one so change. I have saw people who started by being players and want to settle down, while cheating to their fiancés, it’s never ends well.


If someone is my fiancé she has a right to take any measures to make our relationship work ,so if she put spy on me say a neighbor girl ,that’s ok because that’s girl should produce a proof if not then it’s a word against hers ,but what’s if that’s is done and you are clean? That’s what’s you should aim for as a man or a woman but what’s if that’s person does the spying thing out of insecurities that’s maybe he/she is the one who is cheating? I want to encourage you don’t worry about it, this things has a funny way of showing up try to leave your life stress freely.

Because if the relationship is old or new there is always that’s what’s if, I want you to drop that’s baggage right now and set your mind free. Cause the stress will eat you alive. If your partner is still wine taste while you there and don’t seem to get better ,call it quit or do what’s will be best for you. Don’t look what’s you might be leaving behind, if it was yours you was not going to fight for it.

6. Because other’s are still hold on to old relationship’s

Usually making examples about myself, can make things clear for other. My longest relationship was 3years and you don’t just get over that’s overnight. That’s why as a person being single sometimes is not a curse but not for way too long. As you dealing with old wounds and so on, then later decide if you have healed to let someone new in your relationship.

I will suggest what’s was suggested to me and made sense , in relationship or business there are things we can never do as individuals and we cannot to it to other’s and you don’t want them to be done to you. They call it 3 non-negotiable .1st day you meet your partner he/she must know if you do this it’s over no questions asked. So maybe you want to leave me and you don’t know how to tell me, cool do one of this things.

You may know this from your previous partner or from other people. Say cheating, drinking alcohol for example. Mine was and still is alcohol, because it’s easy to lose all kinds of virtues once you go that’s path. Maybe other can handle themselves after few drinks but I still don’t recommend it in my relationships, even in friendships this is not good because your friend can change a bit at this point.


You might still be in contact with your ex because of a kid, this might still be a problem in your new relationship .So one of the guy I know simply gave the new potential wife that’s role to deal with his ex for the kid sake and its working well. They don’t meet or talk at all. So figure out your own system so you will not be forced to be hold on to the past.

Has come to an end of today’s insights ,sharing my views doesn’t means you have all tools now to deal with your relationship keep learning from others as well and the most important thing you can have in a relationship is humility and listening skill. Pay attention to things your partner repeats to you, I don’t like this and that’s. And the point is should’ve added is friends influence , once you start a relationship I can recommend not taking advices from friends especially singles ones ,or those who seems to fail to keep a relationship going. Why is that’s they have the most influence on you, I saw a woman’s who cheated and she was about to get married we may never know the whole story but friend is there.

This blog is based on good working friendship by ULwaz No Makhula , friendship is good and it’s important for other people but if you haven’t built that’s brotherhood/ sisterhood friendship really try not to consider their advices. If I’m not in a relationship it’s hard for me to give advices, but I can sympathize with my friend and try to put him/ her on the line by words if I can. Thanks for reading , I would like to hear your views and points you might add below , I want to learn from you as well.

5 Questions artists should ask themselves while hustling

Hi Welcome to another insightful episode of LnM , ULwaz No Makhula we might not both talk in some episodes but rest assure we approve together everything that we share to improve your music life and reinforce it to ourselves as well. Now What’s questions an artist should ask him/ herself in the road to success in music ,its depends on where you are already and your aspirations .Mostly we focus on beginners in this channel because we still growing as well .And we realized that what’s helped us get where we are today were questions we asked ourselves and others and applied the answers we got ,so today we want to give you some questions as well that will be valuable to your journey .The only thanks we need is your subscription to this channel as well as pressing a notification bell if you already did we appreciate it. Now here is Curiosity.

  • 1 Why am I attending this event?

We may have mentioned that we don’t perform for free in previous episodes but sometimes we show up in events unexpectedly why that is. A. to network with people in general ULwaz go out to music conferences and I know some other artists do that watch this videos and we happy you on the right path, but do you network? You need to get some contacts and actually follow up on those and do that feature or a beat for that artist learn from how he conducts his music and do what’s he does .Example I went to the street chillers by Dude at Voco Lounge town and Met Shon G as Dj Swing after years of wishing to work with this guy there he was and at this point we were both on the line up so he had to pay attention and worse part I played for him ,I offered him a beat and he gave me his number later on we talked I gave my best beat. Months later we had a Shine On Features Musiholiq Biggest song in Kzn and SA .Dude didn’t pay me the lineup was sick but back then I wasn’t working with Makhula that when we decided to stop attending shows that doesn’t help us. So before justifying your reason to waste your hard earned cash to go to a show ask yourself why. Maybe you have no one to meet and you not going to perform personally its either I’m a VIP or forget it but most importantly I earn for my time and talent.

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  • 2 Why am I recording this song?

This point can hurt me as I am always selling beats but I don’t encourage artists to record songs that they don’t know how they going to get to people ,links doesn’t work anymore people have their sites they visit to download music and it’s very sad to say but even on the internet there are gate keepers now. I need to correct myself if  I say contradicting things on some other video I said internet has made the playing ground flat for everyone and there are no gate keepers well I meant that but what’s I’m saying now ,Websites like Fakaza has they’re system to see hot artists to put on as well as other major free music marketing platforms. so every artist need to get above the water   first then every time they release it will be like magic and ULwaz No Makhula has done it so keep watching our videos as we will share how we did it if we have not shared already. Getting back to the point ,are you recording this song to have something new you want to perform or the old song is fine , maybe you got a dope beat now you feel like jumping on it? Our advice if you not going to put everything aside just to push this song don’t record it ,push the existing one ,Pushing a song can take a minimum of 3 months to a year and do that as well when you are mainstream .Other artists are terrible business people they release a new song while they still have a hot song that they can capitalize with don’t be like that.

  • 3 Who should I look up too?

LnM should be your 1st option ,I don’t know how big this channel will grow but for business purposes I can openly leave my what’s app number 0840196532 .I can still manage to talk to a lot of people so greet me and get to the point then we will be fine. Look up to us and look up to other major artists preferably those who runs their own companies  like Rick Ross , 50 cent and many more .why this guys because they know ins and out of their business even if they have a team. Also signed artists like Beast from Afrotainment that guy was going to make it either way by how he worked there was no stopping him. He worked smarts and the guy did something that we can all replicate if you know you going to offend me on what’s app just don’t say anything and don’t respond on a status, Beast for me is that guy you know when we all hustling wanting some info to big artists and got their number by luck and we don’t even have manners and approach as an artist the best way to answer that is dismissing it. Unless you see you have a moment. Look up to business people why, your song is a product and never take it for granted just because you don’t know how to market and distribute this questions require you to take action so even right now you can close this video and go to watch an interview of an artist or business person you admire and as we know now Jayz is everyone favorite ill suggest you go back to old videos though not now because you will get lost.

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  • 4 Do we share as same vision with my team?

This is a hard question that will set you back for years and you need to figure it out quickly since we have mentioned it here .This is the no1 task after this video. You may be the lazy one and guilty one then use this as your advantage and change fast and become a better team player. So how do you figure out you are running with a great team? At LnM we experienced this and as a team we still sometimes  don’t see eye to eye this happens even in business and if that happen its means you are really working because if there’s no work there is no fights ,what’s will you be fighting about? Nothing, this doesn’t means you have lost a vision. See when you and your team are not in a same vision here what’s happens 1. They don’t contribute financially if they do its not on time ,it can be electricity in studio or petrol in a member’s car they just want to work for free  apart from that they don’t want to do things professionally ,you suggest song mastering they say its fine ,you suggest some beat maker no he is expensive ok that fine ,the free stuff that they know serious artist does like registering at Samro they don’t do it for years and we don’t know why and there and there you see to this people music is really a hobby and little few people who knows them they think they’re famous all that illusion get them stuck in one place. Disclaimer our friends might see this or hear it please don’t be offended it’s meant for lecture not personal attack to anyone.

  • 5 Am I good at this?

Self awareness is more important than what’s people say ,yabo this one applies to everyday life are you good at your 9-5 can you do better ,why do I not get promoted and so on and so on. Questions makes a huge difference .Like who am I do this music for? Age, Gender and Geographic. Now internet show people who follows your work everything about them and I know guys who has a lot of female fans even by looking in their comment section but somehow they don’t know how to leverage that .ULwaz No Makhula has both but Dj Swing is strictly males and at 1st this didn’t sit well with me then later I realized I have an audience that all that matters ,Biggie Smalls once said do music for the ladies and their man will take them to his concert and ask them to buy cdz for them as well .Now if I have the bread winner rapped in my hand than I’m way ahead just kidding loll .But hope you get my point for as long as you have followers you good to go. But if you terrible at what’s you think you are doing then you need to pivot .I know a guy who had a studio but wasn’t good at producing he’s now amazing photographer and make a living and travel the world  his company is Fire spark .

You know we give out few 5 points and they take more than five minutes and that means our experience so far is valuable now LnMs go out there and get the answers of this questions we just posed for you. Follow us on all social media as ULwaz No Makhula and suggest to us on the comments if we should be LnM in social medias as well and second your opinion we will consider it. Thank you for watching lets us give you the last point that should stick to your heard Bonus.

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  • 6 Should I stop doing music?

Maybe you are a Rapper / Dj / Beat Maker /Graphic designer /Producer /Photographer / Event organizer or Promoter anything music related. All I can say this is not a yes or no type of question. We all get to this point I want you to just anticipate it. I putted myself 10years run after 8 years of realizing I’ve been pushing music for so long and said by 2018 I’m stopping. Look now I was talking to myself disregarding my fans people who bought my t-shirts ,my other fellow artists and I even forgot that my father supported me and anyone has bought to the idea that I’m a musician and my artists understood but didn’t stop asking for beats loll .You see how I was so selfish well I didn’t see it that way because I had other things going on in my life and music came back to fill up a void that we all experience sometimes when we have nothing to do then turn my computer and make music even my girlfriend knew in fact that why she loved me in the 1st place loll now I’m going to stop this am I crazy. I had to rewire my thinking and try to make money out of my talent, hobby or career what’s ever you call it .its needed to add value in my life except entertaining my dopamine and ego .So Should I quite goes back to if I do then what’s is my purpose of living maybe you have other talents and maybe you have developed more love for your job and you see it replacing love for music or you realize you wasn’t good anyway which is the previous point. Ill add before we go ,fans are your customers if you do not serve one another I can say don’t prioritize them in your decision making ,as well as your family they will support you in what’s ever you will do they’re view is not rational is emotionally so do gauge with them as well. And lastly in general never listen to your heart when you take decisions always know heart has nothing to do with your feelings, it’s your mind and intuition and again do some calculations before deciding so you will be logical as well. Now you will ask how? E.g. numbers of hours you spend doing music since its doesn’t pay you do you consider that time a loss or maybe a investment then you can take appropriate action. Well this was a long one thanks for tuning in the next segment is as good if not better so thanks for watching the whole thing ,Goodbye.