Life with purpose is worth living

Today I I’m a position in my life, where I don’t have any qualifications that’s could help me get a reasonable paying job thus I’m not excited looking for a job. I did study radio production and finished it but I wasn’t planning to use that’s skill anytime soon, I did apply in the nearest radio station but no feedback and yet I know I will do this job as a hobby one day.

 The only way I have discovered meaning in my life is by continuous learning and self-education, financial education, and discipline and before I woke up I already learned something new but before I go into deep let me put this in point form so it will have a better context.

Have first source of income that’s doesn’t require your time.

Before telling the story above I did got a job as a welder and saved all the money to create one source of income and this doesn’t require great intellect only commitment to see it through.

I have set myself free from financial trap and now I’m busy learning and planning and drafting my future ,although its took me a while to have a written goals that’s I kept going back to but I always have important things in the back of my mind and eventually see them through. It hard to think or learn if your focus is on your 9-5, after it you don’t try to outgrow your yesterday self.

Once money is not your core problem then it’s coming to you every month or day, then you can start and plan your future of cause you can do it after work and sleep a bit late because the bills are already there maybe the child or two as well. What’s I will do on that’s case my kids will have to grow quickly so they can help me build their better future.

Be humble in a pursuit of your life purpose

My grandfather a successful business man is so humble and has humility to put himself in the shoes of the struggling people when he speaks and for that’s I respected him more.

For me I was a bit arrogant seeing my things working out while others were struggling to make ends meet ,but after couple of failures I realized life is unpredictable if I don’t strengthen my weapon (Mind) and mind my own business ,I might end up like people who are struggling and all of my hustle will be history.

I have received a better explanation from YouTube on success TV that’s being successful is not having millions in a bank, although that’s can be important to other people it doesn’t means that’s what important to you as well. If you have passion like music you know your life purpose is around to one day performs for thousands of people and have your song on radio around the world.

If you just got married you also know your next important life purpose is having kids and take care of one another. If you want to have money and experience different kinds of things in life you might want to start a business and endure what’s to come or study to get a lucrative job.

 Here is what’s I have realized if I was not in some place someday and got introduced to a certain thing I will still be alive and oblivious of, but here is another catch there are a lot of things you should treat it that’s way even if they have been presented to you, especially if you have figured out your life purpose you can tell they don’t align then dismiss them.

Everyone knows the world is noisy and Corona made it worse before this pandemic I was oblivious of what’s was happening in the world because it had nothing to do with my long term or short term goals and that’s not being not humble or curious about what’s happening in the world “No” but because I’m still focusing on my money and how to get more of it and I cannot let news’s or daily 30 minutes show distract me. With my leisure time I study learns and listens to productive stuff.

Waking up and happiness will be linked to your life purpose

Other people have got used to waking up early because of the habit their jobs give them although they have to snooze an alarm once or twice, the day you wake up consistently fired up to do something is the days you would’ve realized your life meaning.

This doesn’t mean it won’t get hard but if you can endure hardship on that’s a thing and come to the other side better than you will have a life worth living. You may be a boss of a company that’s won’t mean you will always be nice to your workers, it’s part of your job to be mean and do all the pep talk but apart from that’s you shouldn’t be a hard head outside of that environment.

For example is never a perfect idea to work for your family member because you take discipline talk to heart and you may need special treatment which is not called for, unless he was there in the beginning and you understand one another traits.

It’s take me a serious move for me to loosen up or enjoy a milestone because I have been through so much even in the love department I don’t get too excited too early no one is perfect and small thing usually rub people the wrong way. And sometimes a person get into bed with you for different interior motives and by the time you find that’s you get blown in a heart and loose all the momentum, this applies in business with our partners changing a direction after a year or 5 years after.

In short part of your happiness should rely purely on you not anybody else, not even your child because we may try to saw a good seed to them but we don’t really know how they will turn out.

If the title is good, the content is probably is too

It’s true we judge a book by its cover, and we judge people that’s way too. But I want to add to you reading this, in most cases there are reasons people look the way they do and if you can get to the bottom of that you can find the whole thinking of someone.

This also mean find the person looks, dress and smell good on the outside, what about the place he lives in? Does he or she reads  ,if not where does he get his ideas about life and the most important thing do you want to be acquaintance with this person?

I’m 29 years old now and I don’t feel that’s age and I cannot associate it with my 23 years old me ,except the way my mind has grown from past 3 years I have started investing on myself by learning ,here is where I’m going with this I still have friends I met while I was in high school and they are not growing that much ,some do but the important values I appreciate in a person are not there and we are slowly diverging and I cannot stop this process no matter how much I like them since we are losing common ground hanging out is a bad call and I’m making sure for now I’m not encouraging the connection again since other’s are changing for the worse and they know it.

Contrarily to the subtitle some people work hard on their out appearance than the necessary tools they possess in their heads so be careful, others are fake and sometimes I feel like fact when I’m around big fishes but I know I’m dedicated because if Jim Rohn could come now and ask me to show him my financial goals,I will pass that’s test or ask for my schedule or ask to spend a day with me I will not get a total but I won’t be a total disaster either.

What’s makes your life worth living

I have imposed my beliefs in you and you have bought it into a certain extend and thank I’m honored to influence you where ever you are, would you do me an honor to return a favor. Comment below and let me learn about your philosophies and see if I can’t grow from them.

Right now is the anxiety for me, I really don’t know what’s next I have variables I can control and some I can’t so not knowing what’s next makes my life interesting cause this month I received 40k and a girlfriend last month if I said I knew this things will happen I would have been lying but for this to happen I had to position myself, go out and make small talk and present my case and I don’t do this for a living it’s just what’s happened.

For most people anxiety is a bad thing because they focus more on the negative bad things that’s might happen next ,I challenge you to anticipate that’s less and get on with your business expecting bigger and better returns. Writing this blogs is something I do because I have a lot of time in my hands and that’s really nice,I have things that’s I need to do but they’re not that demanding or actually my responsibility ,I do feel some kind of guilt when I work below my potential but still I will never know my full one I have to start where I am and move up.

The paranoia and always being aware and the new ability I have to talk sense, you wouldn’t believe this but I once found myself failing to talk well with people or filter myself my thought then usually comes out as they are and my friends told me and I kept getting better and have learnt to keep my mouth shut not in a awkward way but listen more.

In closing I’m no longer scared of people this was a serious realization that’s stopped many people from pursuing their life purposes, how did I do it I simply kept learning and reading a book and got confident that every time I’m around people I probably know something they don’t know which is important so there is no reason to be scared of anyone, a doctor, nurse, police, lawyer or anyone in a position of power I tend to be cool with them and actually be curious about their profession and then we will get the ball rolling.

Thank you for spending time with me today, if last year this time I knew I will be writing and sharing information I‘ll probably picture myself doing this but it’s started from an article for ULwaz No Makhula music artists and the YouTube channels I follow the most kept saying they started on Blogs and actually recommended it and it got clear since I have a background in writing scripts for radio why can’t I build a powerful community that can benefit from my insights and knowledge as well as life experience. Here we are now part of us and follow us to not miss anything we do here, YouTube is possible in the near future and you don’t want to miss that’s too.

Awareness about your life and world at large

Welcome to LnM, we tend to write subjects of our own and avoid catchy topics because we might not do justice. Today’s topic about Self-awareness and your surroundings cannot be far from significance, that’s why we thoughts it could be a good idea to talk about this and really take a moment for yourself to embrace it.

Make it, your life mission to seize a moment

Missing a point, missing your mark and really not having a north star is really other people’s reality but please make sure to not be yours reading this. Do the math, calculate your moves ahead of time like they do in chess and when you hit your target celebrate and be aware that’s is happening and seize that’s tiny moment.

When I was growing up, I didn’t know there were so much possibilities in the world and how really successful people spend their days. Then one day I found myself excited, I was buying my 1st property and paying for my girlfriend damages for impregnating her. In short I was manifesting the person I always claim to be, business minded and responsible but that’s not what’s got me excited. What’s got me happy was looking how far has I come in life and still manage to reach those goals.

Back to you looking at your achievements, do they still resonate with you today? Were they worth it or what’s everybody expect you to do? Do you impact your experiences or you don’t plan your days? It’s important to ask yourselves this questions because they will show you if you are living or just hustling towards your dearth date.

If you not sure what’s happening around you and within you ,or look at your emotions from outside looking in you will have a problem of not knowing how to deal with those circumstances. For example the feeling you feel after an argument, and how you handle that’s situation is a different between a person who act out of anger and a person who act out of thoughts and bigger picture.

Be aware of things beyond your control and those within it

The natural disaster is out of your control, beating yourself for the damage it has done is something you should do less and get back to pick up pieces and put your life back together. Today I was talking to a guy, who we meet mostly for music related stuff and when he was leaving we started talking general stuff. Being the person that’s I am I gave him a chance to speak and I had to dismiss most of the things he say’s but not arguing but for showing him my perspective.

The pandemic is out of my control as an average person and how ever its affect the world or SA economy that’s not my primary concern which was my answer to what’s we were talking about. My primary concern it’swhat’s I can control, my personal finances and my lifestyle, he got me and we changed the subject.

So you too guard your mind from talking about things that’s don’t connect much to you in a community level , I think the reason why people spend a lot of time talk about corruption and the lot of money that’s is borrowed by our government it’s because they don’t have their own money to worry about. If you are one of those, you need to do a self-check all the news and things that’s try to come to you as important analyses them and look at them as they are, things that’s won’t matter in 6 months.

But if you start cultivating good relationships now and maintain them with right people in the same 6 months you will be ahead in life. If you start saving your money for a certain investment at the end of the year you will have something to be proud of except your bonus.

A song worth checking out but is zulu languege

Find a way to hold yourself accountable

This Blogs are just that’s ,at some point you reading them you will want to know me better and I would like to reveal more of me and my friend but we owe it to you to be way successful 1st then take a full stand behind our teachings ,so this is our way of holding ourselves accountable.

What’s will be your way? How will you build a self-discipline and do the hard things in your life to put yourself to the position to win? There are things that’s people do that’s looks easy but are actually hard, and there are those that’s are easy but looks hard for e.g. working for a boss who will give you daily tasks is much easier than what’s your boss does managing and trying to scale the company and looking a job for you in the process while making sure you do it.

A person working on assembly line is doing an easy repetitive job, compare to a person sitting in a computer working his mind off trying to balance a company account or preparing a presentation for the board. So in all of that I encourage you to find that’s challenging work or build it for yourself after work so your life will have a meaning than being on a cruise control and having things easy. Why this is important, easy things don’t require much discipline and you can do them even in the last minute and no extra effort necessary and if what’s you do is that’s way ,then you won’t have anything to hold yourself accountable in. Your mistakes are taken by your supervisor, who has to deal with a manager and you can be reckless knowing that’s the decision to get you out of the door is that’s hard.

The goal of this is not for you to resent your present job ,but be aware you can do better in your life ,for those who’ve been selling in the streets you might be making decent money but you have to improve your vision and don’t settle .keep learning and apply what’s you learn and if you scared leave someone else in your spot while you try to do better.

Happiness is a buy product of living life accordingly

Happiness is a serious subject and you need to study it, so you won’t conflict it with other subjects like having money or being riply fit and so on. Although that’s is important but into an individual level there is enlightenment that’s most people hardly reach ,and we or I’m not also there yet but I tend to understand something the more I learn the less paranoid I become.

To you that’s can be ,the more I spend time with my family ,the more I get to know they better and thus be able to associate with them. Family is something’s that’s has an automatic effect ,you don’t choose it yet when you have it ,you don’t necessary wish to be with other family .You can envy what’s they have but you know deep down my home is way warmer .

I have been set to be aware of work ,family ,health ,finance and people to make my life happy , meaning if I got all of that’s right I won’t have a happiness problem of Couse stress now and again but knowing how to deal with people will reduce it.

Working is very important, and nothing seems to beat it. During lockdown I got a gf in Twitter because somehow I’m still browsing then the moment ,she got back to her real life ,which I assume is work and maybe other things she didn’t tell me about ,I lost her clearly that’s wasn’t my girlfriend yet and I was so naïve to open up so quickly ,she might have been overwhelmed by my straight forwardness but that’s moment hurt me and I’m still dealing with it and I’m aware of my misstep’s , I saw some of the red flags of why our relationship might not work but dismissed it. So from that life experience of mine please be careful of looking for happiness in places that’s don’t have any track record of that’s. And pay attention to the details.

Know yourself

Know what’s rub you off the wrong way and try to avoid it by any mean , For me being committed early to relationships hurt me and I really need to work on that’s. Know what’s lift your spirit up and seek it but not leaving important things seeking this feeling. Know your strengths and weaknesses and improve and bet more on what you already finds easy if it has a better rewards in your life.

This piece is mainly about self and unless you in a right place you cannot deal with the world around you. And if you are not special in any way you cannot be different from people around you then that’s the weakness unless people around you are successful and depending to your definition of success, if your nearest surrounding has all you want in terms of character, material things and more then you doing somewhat well in your life because those people won’t let you in their cycle if you don’t have what’s its takes to be like them some day. 

Other thing know that’s there is no highest level keep pushing the bar higher and take other people advices with a grain of salt including this ones and make the decisions you can be able to live with.