Why do we hide our realities and fake life on social media?

We think we are brands Actually we are not at least not most of us. We are living in a society that’s promote the personal brand which contradicts with who we really are. You see if you can base your so called brand into your actual living than that will be ok.

But if you have to put some ad on to fool strangers online then you are doing yourself a disservice cause you self sabotaging yourself claiming to be something you are not and that’s will take a toll on you ,the stress you will have will be linked to this fake life of yours . While you will be making money in real life hard work where you will drag mornings and complicated work politics .

You won’t see its not worth it to take that’s money and buy fancy phone and clothes to have more followers on social media especially when you don’t even have a talent or skill you are promoting just your looks or clothes you printed and try to sell it online. If you take time and do the math, see if you are losing or winning you will see whether to continue or stop making full of yourself.

Now I’m not totally bashing social media, but you need to study the platform you are using and if you happen to make money at least after 1-3 years then you might on to something. You need to understand if your online presence differ more than your reality, you might suffer online trawlers who call you scammer or fake model, and to girls social media might really be dangerous since you guys like to expose your body for the same reasons .

Now there’s a whole industry based on Twitter where woman monetize their nude content,I wouldn’t recommend this strategy of making a living to a person who reads our blog . Self love and sexiness cannot be contradicted and things you learn about body sexiness and woman power has nothing to do with exposing your body online .

The question you should ask yourself why am I doing this? If is needing money then get a job ,if you want a partner go out more and let go of this twerking stuff.

The hook ups are an industry but their risky because you might end up being a victim of human trafficking. And you might have a problem when you want to start a life of a motherhood and wife because past will reach out and try to ruin anything. For example I had to say no to one of my ex who asked for my private part picture since I had a aspiring music artist ,imagine having that’s out there when I make it eventually .

Social media make us miss the moment and our real background, a post that’s I saw once saying know your home situation and get out of instagram. Now say your house is falling can you take a picture in that’s? No you will be busy trying to fix it. This also apply to not enjoying a meal and get together since phones dictates the event ,if you can try with your friends and leave the phone’s and bring real camera you might experience this times better and the best memories are kept in our minds you don’t need a phone to do that’s.

How you deal with problems? I use to have a habit of posting everything even things I delete after I get back to my senses. Now I invest time and reread what’s I post and how it may diminish the person I may be attacking and maybe I cannot take back. The maturity will be when you really remove your life from social media , what’s I normally do now I go on face book and post links of my music and this blogs rather than engage in funny topics that are there and  harmful language .

The social peer pressure we are getting is too much event the funeral are way expensive because some of this humble events are now recorded and people find wearing all black cool ,while the family is mourning. The goal of this article today, if for you to separate your life from social media even though like the future is going there, but it’s not look for other value out of it. The only thing you can try online is selling and really make money there if not there is no point, even positive quotes has lost it meaning because its comes from the book you might never read because you read posts.

Thanks I hope I have opened your eyes a bit today, becareful the most dangerous thing on social media is bad influences and repetition the habits of logging in and out and in and out every second. People swear there and others try to act like their smart, while others copy and paste jokes, don’t fall for it. LnM , please like our page on face book as ULwaz No Makhula.