Why being efficient can literally save your life

The days of our lives are when we are living, no matter what are we are doing but we are surviving and hoping for the next day and so on and so on. Now imagine on your days you get your work on time, your schedule on time or even earlier

The parkerson law

The law states that’s your income rises to meets your expenses, same applies to time you busy rises to meet the equivalent time you have on the day. This Law can be forced it hand to work for you by simply stop procrastinating or delaying tasks and when you do those tasks avoid distractions or schedule distractions as well for example don’t go one hour head down on the project but rather split it in 15 minutes then 5 minutes breaks.

This idea may seems like less efficient but trust me it is ,on the other hand if you are a creative person you can simply decide not to get out of your zone until you have finished your verse or your painting or that’s line of code.

Question may be what’s if I work with people ,say you work at SARS taxation government institution for example ,what I saw from an old woman there who I really found she was really efficient  was no small talk and she was literally running to the printing machine to get papers and letting me sign.

When it’s comes to the money there are lot of strategies but it’s easy to start them the moment you found yourself having money e.g. you got a new job set up a stop order that’s will take portion of the money automatically, I did that’s when I got my first high paying job and by the time I got retrenched I had 250 000 in my account. So be efficient in both your financial life and productivity.

Downside to effectiveness of efficiency

Anything has positive and negatives, left and right, disadvantage and advantages, hot and cold your job is to find what works well for which situation is. In studying when trying to do the assignment needed end of the month on the next day you got it ,results becomes amazing but if you do it under pressure on the last minute depending on the type of person you are other’s give terrible results other strive on it.

Don’t run the risk of not getting the work done, I once thought I gave my best when I work under pressure but I ended up studying in a taxi and rarely get a grip of what’s I learnt and as a results fail the tests.

Tomorrow I’m going for a job interview it’s a no brainer that’s I have to be there on time but if inefficient is my habit I can suffer those consequences so I need to get myself on the right track and prep for the big day. It’s not just being there on time but think about the effective respond to questions and when I’m given the chance to ask questions I should have smart questions.

Another problem when trying to be early you lose batch of time when nothing happens to cause latency ,for example I have an interview at 8:00 and I arrive there at 6:30 its crucial how I spend this time cause that’s still a moment of my life being recorded and accounted for. I may have a small talk with others who are waiting for the same thing or read a book on job interview but be careful of not causing myself unnecessary anxiety and so on.

Saving your life part

As I explain in the intro life is made out of seconds and minutes once you finish a task of an hour within 45 minutes you give yourself a 15 minute break to do what you is ever like and that’s true living.

On other hand if say you on a negotiation meeting and your company or you are an independent sales man and you know the sooner you close you get your fat commission or split the difference and hurry to your vacation with your family ,here the sooner the better is the mantra but rule of thumb never allow time to put you under pressure on negotiation but if you have got your number you have to option bargain hard or hurry to the vacation one may lengthen the talks while the other may lengthen the vacation it your choice but when factoring time closing is a good option.

This automatically and temporally save your life from working to actually living , here is the big one as an example how fast can you work in order for you to retire early? It’s can be office work or physical work they both take toll on your physical and mental health so the difference is irrelevant at this point, working fast is not an answer but working hard and smart is see working on you after hours is more important in your life because it will give you ideas on how you can retire early.

On other hand working hard and getting promotions is a great bet but your goal is to increase your income ,take over time but make time for your family either prioritize family and get used to that don’t run away hiding behind your work find balance.

Be efficient on your family thus you will see that’s your job matter but once you retire what’s you will retire for, families become dysfunctional because we don’t know what’s happening in our homes and parents are respected because their the bread winners but children don’t know the values in this home or principles and being efficient in that’s area will reduce corporal punishment and have kids open to you.

I will pounder on this point because it’s important, your health getting things done reduce stress level two rather write your tasks on paper and snooze them if they keep showing up while they’re still not urgent than having pile of tasks in your head.

Me my head have all the room in the world important are written on my phone and I get reminded all the time ,my goals are on my paper I check them when I get bored and sometimes see that’s I need new goals cause I have already crushed those without realizing it.

Parento principle 80/20 rule

You are not what’s people expect of you ,you are like water you can change form to the present positive or negative situation you find yourself in. This lesson is found on 48 Laws of power by Robert Green, be flexible but the above principle applies to every aspect of life.

Our lives 80% of them are spent at work and 20% on our lives. The question is do you like the ratio or you wish to change it, some of us find meaning to our jobs and we are completely ok others well you know. 80% of your income goes to 20% of the things meaning you have one thing that’s waste most of your money and it’s not spread equally and my advice on that’s is to be efficient on your money have those 20% be assets which are things that’s pay you money back. 80% of your time is spent on social media and where your attention goes that’s where your life and money go.

Your car is too old needs constant repair after bills be aware of it ,car is important when it’s comes to people who moves around a lot and their business depends on it other than that’s it can be a real money waster unless you value every minutes of your life but still drive according to the speed limit.

Decisions and lack of concentration

Life is hard, and it’s has a lot of challenges would you rather spend time moving from one thing to another never mastering anything or focus and make what’s you chose your life. I have been approaching life and realized that’s you don’t need to be master of anything in life to be successful except master of people.

Mastering a certain one skill get your mind fixed on that’s one thing while if you delegate and pay talented people you can have a better life the problem with this you need to know what’s you are doing because this people will also rely on you, be credible and influential although this type of person needs to be like a jerk sometimes to get things done so be it ,you cannot be always soft if dealing with people. You only need to balance this behavior and family is not good in this environment unless they can easily adapt and really don’t take offense.

The time it’s take you to make decision on something is the different between winning and failing, there are times to think and if until the due date comes and you haven’t make up your mind you need to exercise your decision muscle and take risks and face the music, pivot and all cause not making a decision is a terrible decision. Bonus

The game is social

I have a tendency of not liking losing but I still have a bad habit of not weighing the situation before getting in. While you are trying to get things done on time you might rub other people the wrong way in that’s case don’t leave scares on your way to success and other’s will try to stop you on your way because it’s how things are done around here and you can potentially lose your place in that’s place.

Play it cool while you try to not lose efficiency on your own work, on the group work finish your potion on time or even single handedly get things done if the pack isn’t putting the work. This apply to even school work ,I experienced this when I was studying with my own money its became clear that’s if I don’t drive this people we are going to lose marks and when I was wrong at some point I had to pay people who came their bus fee if I didn’t make it.

On the other hand I was just one person stopping the whole project and i’m not bragging here but if I was there and the other person was absent the project would’ve continue and the absent guy suffer the consequences. In short make up for your missteps. We  have came to this part of the blog ,where I have to love you and leave you I wish to get someone who can narrate this for me on YouTube and get this type of information out there. LnM (ULwaz NO Makhula) that’s us on social media. Thank you for spending the time FOLLOW US for such grooming content.

Who is more valuable family or friends?

This might look like a question but most people fail to make this distinction in their lives that’s why we are showing the crucial differences today and how we have found to work best when making life decisions that’s involves this people in our lives.

God has bless me with both friend and family also have friends that’s doesn’t come close to my best friend who has become my adopted brother who we run this blog with. So let’s see if there are no lessons to be taken on this subject.

There are 3 type of friends , Friends for (Reason ,Season and for a Life)

This is self explanatory but as we know the elaboration open our 6th sense and we then connect the dots better. So comparing friends with family is a huge understatement we tend to value the blood thicker than water myth ,yet is true and we don’t choose our families while we choose friends.

The question is in this 3 type of friends which one is yours? If it’s for a reason get that’s over with and move on with your life and don’t hold on too much to that’s friend because what’s ever reason you are together will end someday.

The friend of a season can be good and bad if they love you if you are rich then run when you struggle then that’s a seasonal friend , others love you when you are poor like them when you better yourself they leave you.

And more type of friends so choose wisely for me a friend should always be there in good and bad ,rich and poor ,your family and his can also be close because of what’s you have .

Family over everything

I tend to agree with this one from the get go why because family can be your downfall in life or uplift so having them in their place can do you good.

The best think to realise is there are two type of family ,present one and future one if you still live with your mother and father sister brother and grandma then that’s your present family.

But if you are married and you have your own wife or husband and your kids then that’s future family ,what’s ever culture you build within this family will determine the better life experience you will have or life of grudges and hate you will have to endure .

Either way you can consider your family opinions in your life journey but it’s not family over everything ,but because they love you and emotionally attached they can be a great sheild from harm and hardship but some of that’s is necessary for you to build a thick skin for you ,in business and life in general.

People outside your immediate family have unbiased opinion and life lessons that’s can change your life for the better ,so question everything and every norm and old myths that’s blocks your path. Leaving your family is the first thing to test you and help you navigate life.

How many friends should a person have

This shouldn’t be a thing , why because nobody can keep up with a lot of friends let alone one with our busy morden lives but let’s say you have 10 friends which one is more valuable than other?.

For us friendship is like love relationship you need one or two more than that’s it’s all crumble down , for example one of your friends see you as a best friend while you see him or her as a regular friend ,then friction will start showing.

The best thing is to have equal friends and then one best friend because commitments comes with accountability and responsibilities. Facebook friends are not your friend are people you may know , same as Twitter and so on.

The more you build superficial freindships with no substance the more chances you will be used by other people and leave you holding the empty bag , build networks instead, business net ,social community net , book club net and so on positive stuff and please don’t hang with criminals and losse girls because that’s what’s yourl become.

You are the average of five people you spend your time with

Would you choose to spend time with 4 millionaires and you being the fifth or spend time with your 4 kids and you being the fifth.

Although this saying on my title can be contradictory its point is the more time with certain people you get to have their traits and habits as well as their beliefs.

With that’s said having a blog like this as a friend could be a huge leap forward into a cycle of your surroundings ,because you don’t necessary need physical friends to create a psychological cycle that’s with be the average of your thoughts we can be your mentor from far.

Now one friend add to your averages ,then your closest family members second and third your online mentors and positive vibes forth being your love partner and lastly its you and your decisions.

To summarize all this you are your worse enemy what’s ever you decide to take out of this blog is on you to implement it.

People treat you the way you treat yourself and them

See if you show people by action that’s you can be trusted and you keep your word people will reciprocate that’s.

Be a cruk , manipulate lie and cheat chances are karma will play it role so to have a family liveable with you need to be a brother ,mother ,father and kid that’s listen and put himself in other people’s shoes have humility and audacity when putting a point across like acting what’s you preach.

Same to maintaining a friendship for us ,you should be in business with your friend so the money you will make you can enjoy better together lol ,on a serious note you learn your friend best when you see his life skills and how he put out fires and that’s happens well in hustle.

I hope you found me friendly today fam , my goal is to turn this posts to a YouTube voice over videos and if you can pull that’s off 0840196532 whatsapp me.

And later on in life turn it into a book if you can get my right to collect all the posts ever made to chapters and adit it for a better good read . LnM (ULwaz No Makhula) that’s where you like us and follow this blog to get more interesting content #Spliff_Entertainment

What’s do you do when you have free time and no money?

I know this first hand but not that’s I didn’t have money or has too much free time in my hand but because I do have money and have a choice towards how I am going to spend my time.

Money has nothing to do with how I spend my time unless I make it so, now what’s can you learn from the use of my time and money because at the end of the day I find myself having enough of both while other people suffer to be still or buy a cup of coffee when the month end has pass.

I don’t want to portray a wrong picture of I’m the best and more efficient person when it’s comes to time usage but I want you to consider my justifications.

Where the person’s time and money go ,that’s what’s he values more

The above statement is true but other people don’t have money to invest in things they like and have time but don’t know how to use it and it’s doesn’t matter to them when their commuting they don’t even ask themselves questions like what’s are we doing?.

Why are we sitting around sharing jokes and smoking a blunt or are we celebrating anything since we are sipping Hennessey? If you are one of this people and other who spends their day watching TV series, you need to start and consider the time passing and not coming back your aging and your skills that might need improvement and the fact that’s your parents are aging and you might lose them and the habits that’s are not profitable in your life will make your life worse.

The question will be what do you might be doing with so much free time? First of all you must discipline yourself to start investing in yourself learning and reading this article is the first step moving forward, books, audio books, Videos about selling and negotiations, business, real estate and more biographies of people who are living the life you aspire to live.

Avoid being comfortable while you are broke and have no duties

Don’t accept your present awful living conditions unless you own rental rooms and you make money every month like me then you can use your time thinking deep thoughts and find a better way to use your money and time.

The reason I write this blogs is because blocks of time I have needs something to fill it with and for me that’s not shopping because I earn money without working for it any more. The problem with earning money without working is you feel a need to spend it instead of investing and saving and I’m trying to avoid that’s trap.

 I need more better things to do with my time I am not where I want to be financially and I doubt I will ever be ,target follows the other and my eyes are wide open for opportunities to buy land and rooms. I cannot let’s small wins lead me to comfort that is because after lockdown staying indoor doing god knows what’s some of us may have already be hooked in not doing anything worth a while and this is a wakeup call avoid that’s trap.

Don’t hang with wishers, hopers, excuse makers and substance users

There are people who spend their time because they have it on something that doesn’t make any difference in their lives YouTube’s, Podcasters and Bloggers guilty as charged this doesn’t build a substance business for you when there are a lot of plays involved and the lack of control in your end and most importantly the entry barrier makes you become a dot in a sea of dots and you don’t want to spend time in such thing earlier on.

In real life I prefer hanging around with people who will give me money although I have things that’s I do that’s takes money as well. So other people will come into your life and want your help or use your skills for their vision that you cannot see and the goals they don’t want to pay for and I no longer accept to be the part of that, unless I’m payed now upfront.

The subtitle clearly emphasize what’s not to do with your free time and above I don’t want you to fool yourself like I did 10 years ago, hobby took 10 years of my life and people who were on board are now gone and I won’t let them back in and even now I still push this career but on a personal level so I won’t blame anyone if I take a hit.

Work on having money and the time problem will be solved automatically

I just heard something interesting in the book I’m listening to studying a course and getting a job will help you stabilize the dragon in the room. With that’s said you should be aware that’s this strategy is fine but you need to make something work on the side in case something wrong may happen in your profession.

Starting a business might be the better option in this case you have time to do it and mouth to ask people to help you with anything you might need and start small so you won’t need a capital and then grow. Find something important in a society and do it and slowly remove yourself from the day to day and strategize to grow what you have started. Look online Google for offline businesses you can start today.

Don’t be a social media junkie

Face book is free and I always try to spend less time there until someone recently asked me to use the platform and he will pay me now we talking. If you can find a way to get paid more than a data you use to use social media, I can recommend you keep going because you are free anyway. Twitter and instagram and even whatsapp they will elude you to think you are having fun or serious conversation while you are not doing anything so separate yourself from this bad habits.

I’m famous for being relevant online and knowing how to push music although I have tone down a bit because I cannot connect the money dots well and try doing something else.  You might think you always online because you are a brand or collaborator and people will ask for your face to their content, that fine but the question is do your effort equivalent to the returns?

Or most importantly do you do more, if so then you keep doing that the problem is your business rely on you which is a bad deal for a business person if that’s what you call yourself. I know industries like music rely on having a strong brand to get paying gigs but when it’s all said than done we need to double check if the returns isn’t so small for the hard work we put or lastly we not doing this just feed our egos.

It’s that’s a time of the day where I have to love you and leave you, I hope I have made myself realize something with today’s article because that was also my goal now bonus goal is to have you follow this blog below because we make sense to you when we speak. LnM (ULwaz No Makhula) follows us on all socials thank you.

WHEN LIFE SEEMS LESS EXCITING

When life seems less exciting

Welcome to another blog, we not mostly about answers here but to make awareness to you that’s you are not alone in your daily challenges and question’s you find yourself asking. What’s I came to this world for or what my purpose in life we have tried to broaden your horizon in the past and we want to assure you, you not the first one to experience stagnant life or some pause all we can say enjoy it while it lasts life is still going to be busy for all of us. You might argue it’s been 10 years and I will tell you the moment you get busy 10 years will feel like you took a 1-week break in life.

It’s might be you still don’t know what’s you want in life.

The only way to know what you want to be in life is to take your learning serious learn about many things as possible then keep downsizing it to master. You also might be listen to people telling you what’s you good at and what you should be ,they might mean well but taking that’s literally can affect the whole trajectory of your life.

 For starters in high school we get chances to go to conferences once when we are in our last grade and had to make the important decision of our life in one setting with inefficient information and using our weak gut feeling about a course and few years later you are stuck in a job you studied for 3 years and you don’t see a way to back out and it hit you my life isn’t exciting. If you are a parent it can be a good Idea to help your child and expose him/her in many industries before time to choose it will be easy or cultivate their natural talents.

You see as of writing this article my life doesn’t seem to be exciting but yet everything Is going well ,for me that’s when I worry more cause I know hardship is on its way but at some point this line of thinking of mine should change. But most interesting someone offered me a simple job of doing what’s I don’t find challenging doing and that’s marketing on social media and the little he’s going to pay me will be a bonus, what’s left for me is to improve this aspect of this hobby the payment and that’s means I should be more valuable and then excitement can be possible.

WHEN LIFE SEEMS LESS EXCITING
this how life is suppose to be

You might not be serving enough

You see as of my learning ,I came to understand that’s to live a fulfilling life the only thing you should do is to serve others but for me it’s got calculated in the need of funds I serve people with money with less expectation.

 In the need of help of learning I serve people with skills I need and see what’s happen and in the relationship cultivation I serve my friends and family and see if happiness is not maintained. I started reading a new book called crucial conversation and this book will help me a lot dealing with everyday people and immediate family.

Reading and watching YouTube videos has really come handy in changing my life and I can’t wait to afford more books that’s are not found in public domain ,or say I do afford but still need to take that’s action to make it a routine to buy a book. Deep down I see myself teaching a lot of people life lessons and business ones that’s serving me well in life.

Yesterday I asked my boy  whose 18 that’s if I crave something and I know I shouldn’t buy or eat it and I have money ,what’s should I do? He’s answer was simple don’t buy it or deny it and act do nothing. I find it interesting his answer is right and I have saw him practice this every time so he could buy something big he really wants’ others may be buying fries and nice food and he will save his money for a phone or a pants he has a determination and self-discipline that can push him a long way in life.

But the problem he is growing and his reasoning will keep changing especially when he will realize that the next paycheck is coming and he can slice a bit ,I hope that won’t happen. But in the name of serving when he has a family of his own to serve the challenge he might face keeping up with his great style of personal finance.

Having empty day’s

The real reason I’m writing today’s article is because of what’s I’m experiencing of having unscheduled days and I’m grateful for that’s cause I’m open to try different things or have a window to go back to my high paying job. Although I’m not thrilled going back to work but its part of a bigger plan.

 Although empty day’s doesn’t excite me its gives me the most thing everyone needs a challenge and creativity to do something with our lives , I wouldn’t recommend that’s you spend your life doing a house choirs as a strategy to live life and mostly that can be annoying but okay to other people is having someone telling you what’s to do with your life maybe a spouse a parent or teacher that’s regret you can never take back to the advice you took the advice and that means you are responsible for the way your life is when their dead.

Say you 40 years old now I’m sure you had a clear idea of what’s you wanted to become when you were 6/10 years old, of cause you were a child but you tuber wasn’t one of them and what’s ever you are doing now was still one of them but logic and reality sets in and here you are. To have your life get a spark what’s would you change and what’s stopping you.

What’s do you want?

Its may sum up to one question what’s do I want, material things car and house now that’s you have them what’s next? You pay them for the rest of your life. For me eyes opened the day I lost the job I had for 3 years and my priority got straight and car wasn’t one of them although I was planning to buy one the preceding year.

Car is important but we don’t have shortage of transport so if I’m not using it for business then I’m losing money on it. Your wants and needs has a subtle line of difference so you need to pay attention, in the process don’t sell your soul in trying to binge and being a consumer freak.

For me I want to succeed in music but this one might change it’s a gift hobby turned business but lot of plays involved and if things doesn’t get in line quickly I might have to focus to what’s makes a huge difference in my bottom line. I don’t encourage quitting or giving up but I can always come back to this love of my life but for now stakes are high I need serious focus.

Maybe you have lost trust in people

You are paranoid, for a business person that’s ok but what’s your reason? I grew up and still live in a hood people are generally good and few are bad and settings differ so you need to trust some people to have a shot of living well.

I have gave trust to my best friend and its might be in me to be paranoid but for my friend I think hard before of suspecting him of any interior motives he might have when he speaks or ask he’s been real to me as artists and as friends. I think we all need to give away trust and hope for the best no one is perfect but give some people benefits of a doubt.

 I was listening to 50 cent audio book when he said he lost his manager Chris and ever since it’s hard for him to trust anyone like he trusted Chris .We as human species betray one another in many way’s but one must move past that’s betrayal and build relationships with other and trust wholeheartedly .

Your wife (although I’m not yet married) cheated you don’t trust woman anymore, learn and move past that thought like animals they may face danger by the river but they forget about it immediately once they feel safe, we are different species we learn from this events but sometimes we should act like animals and be oblivious of the negative past to open a room for new people in our lives.

I don’t know which excitement you anticipated when you saw the title , but partying and going out balling wasn’t the case music video’s has that’s for you. That’s kind of fun doesn’t last that why it’s pieces of 3 minutes on mtv but long term life enjoyment needs other lessons and other things to be embraced.

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Patience and urgency in life is important you need to find balance

Success TV on YouTube say’s they don’t see young people in a hurry to better their lives and I tend to agree. As we grow up we not taught to have missions in life, we know about goals but we are taught as collaret to jobs, buying cars and houses and getting married although those are important they have less to do with your long term livelihood. Today we going to make examples on how life movement should be treated and I will make with myself and please take what’s I say with grain of salt and if you agree to what’s I say the moment I say it then that’s will means its resonate with you and you are making a realization which is my goal.

  1. Don’t rush big decisions and big things

For a young person could be quitting school because of repeating a class ,as much as most of the school information is not necessary in real world but dropping out of high school can create a bad habit of not sticking through tough times in life.

Adult could be getting married after 6 months in a relationship or because you have a baby with that’s person, lot of considerations needed before acting to that’s fairytale and if you already compromising some part of your life for this person the question will be, can you keep up with this behavior after you are married or its going to make your life harder?

Financial decision’s like financing a car, is not a small one but other’s do it because of the secure job they think they have the problem with that’s kind of payment is your ability to save enough or be flexible with your money this can also means at least buy a 2nd car that’s will do the work take you from point A to point B.

  • Patience to me is

Wait for month end busy to dissipate before I make quick stress less shopping, it’s also mean’s not having commitments that’s keep me in a route to the point that’s I cannot leave my present environment. It’s also means till I afford the luxury watch I want don’t open an account for it. Patience mean don’t settling for a job that’s doesn’t impact my life compare to other options I might have this doesn’t not means fooling yourself though ,if the work you can do is gardening so be it , for as long not wanting a job that’s require profession and you want to wing it. Or fake it till you make it, you will get fired the moment you get in, unless it’s a growing company and its trains its own people.

Its means not looking for highs of life in wrong places, endure the boring parts of your life. I don’t know if it’s just me but relationships and any kind of hang out end up in some spending and compromising you don’t want to find yourself in that’s position while you are trying to build a habit of saving. What’s I have done is I have created my own environment in my bedroom is a studio since I’m into music and because I have access to the internet I started this blog so no matter how bored I am I find something productive to do. To avoid missing people who don’t miss you get to do something or really value your 9-5 and make the most out of it.

Be aware of yourself ,don’t let things happen to you all the time ,make things happen for you sometimes and most of the time ,be in charge of your actions and think before reacting to what’s comes next. It’s always has been important to be in a love relationship in my life but how it’s happen, it’s always a matter of chance either I react to a stranger’s smile or entertain inbox on my social media and those have not work well for me so far and I have started to embrace to be single because then things I stress remain few and less about company I keep but money I keep and progress I’m making in things that’s I spend my time doing. I know getting a partner is something that’s I will deal with but the reason they fail for now ,I’m still figuring myself and my life purpose and this contradicts with my recent beliefs and my partners don’t help.

  • Urgency to me is

Quick to act on the right things , starting a business is a lifelong commitment don’t rush to execute but be in a hurry to start and get going and really spend time studying your industry and people who are your customers and worker’s and be paranoid but control it. Decide quick  and do ,delaying things is a bad habit but as I said above you can consider hanging out with friends or read a book .but if the option is read a book or hit a gym then no consideration necessary find a way to do both. It’s been said you need to reward yourself to motivate yourself , I will say there is no reward in life like achieving your goal and realizing it those moments in life that’s I rare and other people won’t experience them in their lifetime.

What’s fun to you? Maybe I’m talking like a businessman or abnormal person but I am very ordinary and me too I have to figure a lot in life. But since I am a musician I have been to clubs and parties as a performer and people seems to be having fun while really open to mingle and get a one night stand, since I don’t drink it’s the strategy I had hard time understanding buy a booze for a stranger with a hope that’s she will agree to come with you at your place and hit it off that’s night.

For a sober person I always take number’s and fails to follow up, but guys have cars and can really get this habit going.

Things that’s keep this successful people in their own right and mediocre to not go up and live comfortably or live ambitious purposeful living is they don’t count the financial and healthy cost of this lifestyle and they can’t maintain certain status with wasted (drunk) moments in their live. So you mustn’t aspire to succeed because you want to party hard that’s really the opposite of what’s you will be suppose to accomplish but that’s your homework.

  • Balance

For things that’s related to your long term goal, in the short term you must do them no question asked but how urgent may differ to what difference it can make now as well. That’s means don’t allude you into progress by doing things that’s won’t matter at all now and in future.

Change is important if you are trying to figure yourself in life, my beliefs change a lot because I read book and listen to them as well and many of my realizations happen during this times because sometimes I have been using the wrong strategy for a while the moment I see it doesn’t work then I change not drastically but slowly adjust and see how things go.

This happens because books contradicts sometimes and that’s where the reader come in to decide cause the key to self learning is not looking for solutions but tools to solve the challenges of life and business, if what’s you read claims to have a secrete to make a million chances its will lie to you or show you the techniques but still you won’t make that’s immediately after you have finished the book.  

The quicker you get the result the riskier it is, rush to finish line but don’t want quick result because the illusion of having a business while having a job is a big mistake. Grow your business to the point that’s you are not needed in it but don’t build slowly to the point that’s you are stuck in being an employed person in your business. What’s I have strived and approach I have used to get my business running is I save money from where ever I get it until it enough for me to start something to also hire a person that’s will replace me while I figure other things out.

  • Don’t mistake urgency for a hobby and patience for laziness.

You can be quick to go to a sport field and play soccer with a hope that’s one day you will be a superstar but we both know that’s might be love and passion pushing you not direction and sacrifice and desire to be in top of your game so be careful like me if I find doing music easy and full myself to putting the work with there is little to no progress.

Don’t say I’m being patient while being lazy of doing what’s you suppose to do, maybe I’m repeating what’s you already know and guilty of my that’s not my goal to put you a victim, my goal is to get you going if you may act now on what’s you suppose to do and thank me later then my goal will be reached.

We can summarize the whole article by don’t rush to buy, rush to sell. Don’t rush to chill rush to work. Don’t rush to commitment keep flexibility .Be the opposite of the masses. I want to close by saying do the work and have a standard for yourself and life can be in a hurry but I will suggest you get moments to deliberate that’s way you can have breakthroughs in your life. Thinking is not acting to thoughts but is to listen to your mind and decide and note of fascinating and important things your mind suggests.

Thanks for paying us a visit, as I always say I may say things without considering your position in life and you might be reading and saying it’s because I don’t know. That’s true and my humility lies with you but as long as you grow yourself now and again you have a chance to find a way out to your adversity. I agree I don’t know your environment, your level of schooling and your life baggage but imagine if you are no longer in this world ,what’s will really matter? How will you be missed? LnM be part of this blog and grow with us, follow us as ULwaz No Makhula.

Why we drag doing and what’s we can do about it

 As human beings we have tendency of planning too much which may lead to not getting things done. But there are techniques we can develop to propel us into action. For me this subject is very hard one because I can put off writing this articles till I’m forced to write because there are no more to post and I already have an audience that’s I don’t want to lose. But what’s about you who have to do things without accountability? We will see how we can find inspiration and why we aren’t eager to do these tasks anyway.

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Fear of failure

This one come home to me since I have overcame a lot of things that’s I have thought I have failed at and one of them was my business where my property was flooded by water in 2018 with people inside. After this I stepped away a bit because this really messed with me emotionally and I thought it was an end of that’s phase of my life. Now looking at this objectively helped me to be no longer emotional attached to this business because it’s a business after all not my baby and challenges are bound to happen. So I let people back and listen to my mother’s advice, now we up and running and using an income to save for unforeseen circumstances.

You may be in a similar simple situation or more than mine, you job is to get back at it and try to solve and do that’s wok you’ve been delaying.

Because its seems hard or annoying

For about this subject read David Schwab’s thinking big book. Even easy things like dishes we can put off doing them but the simple strategy is the moment everyone is done eating, don’t wait for it to pile up just stand up and do it without thinking about it.

Email sending, phone call its will keep destructing your thoughts and fill your head space if you don’t do it soon enough so get on it. What’s I normally do which seems like a super power now is use my to do list app to write down things I need to do .and its my go to place when I think of doing something so I could write it down. It’s also the same place I run to if I need to do something or prepare the next day tasks. But most importantly if I can do it immediately I do it and free myself from it.

Because we are scared and not sure if we can pull it off

Some to do’s have results and we may need to face them head on with their consequences. Some are like starting a business it’s easy to have an idea or even writing it down but the problem starts when you need to start taking action and implementing your idea. In other cases you simply need to get rid of your phone and get down working.

Leave your friends, move to a quiet place but whatever it is you need to do that’s to get things done. Like the saying, if you think you can you can but if you think you can’t you can’t, it’s all in your mind there will be no progress if your negative mind overpowers your positive mind.

If the negative mind shows you all the reason’s you can’t and you believe all that’s scary outcome and dismiss the possibilities of the positive side of your mind, you can never reach anything of substance in your life and problems will always get the most of you. That’s why you shouldn’t let fear scare you. Because fear shows only the bad sides of the possible outcome and dismisses the triumphs ahead.

We like comfort and hate things that’s inconveniences us

The comfort we enjoy right now is the enemy we wish we would’ve fought when we realize later in life. The TV games and the series, hangouts and chilling in social media and really hustling backwards it’s our downfall as a new society. We want to be happy and hip as culture embrace celebrities and today we all wants’ that’s.

Because of that’s realization I decided to start writing and create awareness in this blog maybe you might feel and see the wrong reasons we use internet for .What’s youth talks about on Twitter is really painful and kills the dreams of many and I will share one day the tweets that’s broke my heart and really thoughts of how our community is dying because its promote such behavior.

On the other side KZN Lockdown Cypha and other movements that’s has came out of social media are really showing a great opportunities for artists in to using the platforms and thrive the only sit down needed is how this artists can be compensated for their efforts so it’s not all bad,it’s also depends to what’s you focus on as a individual .So rather than boycotting online and binge watch TV set times to enjoy this and maybe be a content creator and monetize on your fun.

Our life doesn’t depend on it

I thought people work jobs because its pay’s bills but It was clear to everyone as human beings we need something to do in general and what’s we do end up creating an identity for us which can be good or bad. If your life depended on your job you wouldn’t challenge your boss if he breaks health and safety laws because he might’s fire you. But what’s if you do most of the things as if your life depends on it? Of because you can priorities accordingly but just tell yourself if I don’t this I might die as an attitude.

Seek inspiration , for me I rarely write this articles out of my own thoughts but it’s always connecting what’s I’ve read online in real life experience or conversation that’s need to be broken down and analyzed and possibly get perspective that’s can guide our lives that’s how I get idea’s of this blog.

Or I open a word and stare at it until something comes up because brain never stops. Since writing is not talking I have saw the time I spend inside the house has got me disconnected to people and actually feel the tension presenting myself in front of people ,so I will act like my life depends on it to bridge that’s gap in my life personally and professionally . So you too as a reader pay more attention to yourself when you are with yourself and more on other’s when you are with them and try to not talk about other people too much afterwards.

This is it for today I hope you learnt a lot of things and you will be impacted LnM we are out. Follow us on social media for more articles like this @Ulwaznomakhula

5 sign’s that’s you need to work towards getting out of your present environment if you want a better life

Surely by now you know behind every article, there is inspiration and in most of the time solution seems to be the one thing money but to let you in on a secret after money there are things you should be already working on, while you are broke or they will set you back when you make it and they remain your bad habits.

One of those bad habit is to follow the lead of your parents and grow your family in a same unsafe place you grew up in. You know your area and I want to share our 5humble realizations about type of conditions we feel it’s not healthy for a person to grow up under.

Crime rate

Crime is an obvious one but in some areas this is not much of an issue as compare to other townships and neighborhoods. Work towards avoiding living the rest of your life watching your back too much. Move to a place where people are decent and infrastructure is well taken of and don’t sweat the rates they will be worth it.

As LnM reader where ever you go, try to become above average in that’s area in your standards. Look at what’s they call middle class and don’t fall for it move beyond what’s gratifies people in that’s new area.

On the point of crime ,I think everyone in a community should participate in fighting of crime and to the place we are suggesting you aim to live in has a security on top of your personal security so you should want to stay on that’s place .

Informal settlement

You might be lucky living in an informal settlement but able to open this article ,it’s your lucky day knowing that’s your home and building you living in is not built proper should be a red flag to you. You need a home address where a package can be delivered on your doorstep if you ordered online.

I want you to picture your future living in places like Mhlanga or LA Lucia and when you manage to achieve that’s goal ,strive to never go back to an informal settlement. Seeing 10 shacks get burnt by a candle same time and leaving people stranded and needing government intervention, you should get out of that’s situation .

How? 1stly start downloading books and read about any topic that’s might help you get out of your predicament, use a dictionary and be positive about life. Think big and act towards that’s.

Community take laws to their hands

If where you live like where I live people don’t work with law enforcement and they end up being heartless against criminals and kill them painfully maybe by burning them or cutting them into pieces then you need like me to work towards getting out of there.

Its not apartheid era now ,although police may not do incredible work at times but killing is never a great answer in dealing with situations and letting that’s slide in our spirits should tell how damaged we are as a community. Today I saw a guy who was being beaten and it’s not the 1sttime, he is a criminal and while he crave for a drug called Wonga he steals people’s stuff and I have a brother like that’s as well and we have once or twice bailed him out in situations where he was to get killed, because once they steal they don’t bring back your things for them they still to the anti-snitch code and lie till dearth.

But still I’m talking to you and myself can’t we find a way to move out of this places where all this incidents happen? I say we can and this are signs that’s we should, it’s doesn’t work well with me seeing people killing people guilty or not, its shows as a society we are not united enough to create programs to help the perpetrators and to build security in our communities.

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Schools, Retail Stores, and government services are far from you

If things are not in your convenience that’s will make your life hard and if you have a car you will work for gas. This is the pure sign that’s you need to relocate, At Inanda you need to take a taxi in order to deposit money and this is affecting me personally, and saving money has become an actual process because of this.

Malls, Wi-Fi and government institutions should be near you and not like what’s is happening here, having a home affairs that’s cannot print an ID for you. I won’t blame government and in this blog we never blame circumstances we figure out ways defeat those odds.

You will hear this several time here, there are things you should do to show how much you value your time and one of those is moving away from a location which makes your life a process instead of a simple day to day living. I hate cue and I’m sure most people do but what’s are you going to do about it?

That’s your homework, things are not rocket science life changing information is not found in degree’s but on people who has figure things out and has share those with the world .I want to encourage you to check all other subjects in this blog and have a better view of life. We started focusing on music artists but we realize people like us needs to realize what we has.

Your environment is a liability not an asset

50 cent said in his book, look around people you meet, are they depositing in your life or they withdrawing? And he made it clear there should a balance e.g. other people can realize that’s you are depositing in their lives and really point it out and want to do that’s in return now that’s a company you want to keep.

Same to liabilities and assets if people around you never talk anything of substance other than news on tv and general knowledge those people are not assets and they cannot introduce you into a new thing or information or open doors for you. Assets are things that’s puts money in your pockets and liabilities take money out of your pocket refer to rich dad poor dad by Robert kiyosaki book for more.

Trees, river’s and land is not the environment we referring to here but people and man-made things essentials around that we are talking about. If you cannot make money in anyway where you live or laws take it from you then relocation is a must.

If you can’t find a great life partner and a trustworthy friend in your area go out there and meets better people and I can try to tell you to be aware of social media as your option it’s not too bad but its misses the chemistry part and really facial and body language..

Thanks for taking the time to see what you is can learn, I want to say, you may not understand well my style of writing and have some suggestion please follow us and address this with us, so we can improve. LnM on social media you can get us as ULwaz No Makhula.

There will be a question of affordability in today’s topic and we understand that’s very well but since there’s one life  we are creating awareness that’s there are people who has manage to achieve so can you. Put excuses aside and try to work yourself out of your situation.

The house you living in can be located in a better suburb meaning the idea of selling and really take radical action can be your best shot. Remember if you scared its natural, if you not then the step you want to take is not hard enough.

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Awareness about your life and world at large

Welcome to LnM, we tend to write subjects of our own and avoid catchy topics because we might not do justice. Today’s topic about Self-awareness and your surroundings cannot be far from significance, that’s why we thoughts it could be a good idea to talk about this and really take a moment for yourself to embrace it.

Make it, your life mission to seize a moment

Missing a point, missing your mark and really not having a north star is really other people’s reality but please make sure to not be yours reading this. Do the math, calculate your moves ahead of time like they do in chess and when you hit your target celebrate and be aware that’s is happening and seize that’s tiny moment.

When I was growing up, I didn’t know there were so much possibilities in the world and how really successful people spend their days. Then one day I found myself excited, I was buying my 1st property and paying for my girlfriend damages for impregnating her. In short I was manifesting the person I always claim to be, business minded and responsible but that’s not what’s got me excited. What’s got me happy was looking how far has I come in life and still manage to reach those goals.

Back to you looking at your achievements, do they still resonate with you today? Were they worth it or what’s everybody expect you to do? Do you impact your experiences or you don’t plan your days? It’s important to ask yourselves this questions because they will show you if you are living or just hustling towards your dearth date.

If you not sure what’s happening around you and within you ,or look at your emotions from outside looking in you will have a problem of not knowing how to deal with those circumstances. For example the feeling you feel after an argument, and how you handle that’s situation is a different between a person who act out of anger and a person who act out of thoughts and bigger picture.

Be aware of things beyond your control and those within it

The natural disaster is out of your control, beating yourself for the damage it has done is something you should do less and get back to pick up pieces and put your life back together. Today I was talking to a guy, who we meet mostly for music related stuff and when he was leaving we started talking general stuff. Being the person that’s I am I gave him a chance to speak and I had to dismiss most of the things he say’s but not arguing but for showing him my perspective.

The pandemic is out of my control as an average person and how ever its affect the world or SA economy that’s not my primary concern which was my answer to what’s we were talking about. My primary concern it’swhat’s I can control, my personal finances and my lifestyle, he got me and we changed the subject.

So you too guard your mind from talking about things that’s don’t connect much to you in a community level , I think the reason why people spend a lot of time talk about corruption and the lot of money that’s is borrowed by our government it’s because they don’t have their own money to worry about. If you are one of those, you need to do a self-check all the news and things that’s try to come to you as important analyses them and look at them as they are, things that’s won’t matter in 6 months.

But if you start cultivating good relationships now and maintain them with right people in the same 6 months you will be ahead in life. If you start saving your money for a certain investment at the end of the year you will have something to be proud of except your bonus.

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Find a way to hold yourself accountable

This Blogs are just that’s ,at some point you reading them you will want to know me better and I would like to reveal more of me and my friend but we owe it to you to be way successful 1st then take a full stand behind our teachings ,so this is our way of holding ourselves accountable.

What’s will be your way? How will you build a self-discipline and do the hard things in your life to put yourself to the position to win? There are things that’s people do that’s looks easy but are actually hard, and there are those that’s are easy but looks hard for e.g. working for a boss who will give you daily tasks is much easier than what’s your boss does managing and trying to scale the company and looking a job for you in the process while making sure you do it.

A person working on assembly line is doing an easy repetitive job, compare to a person sitting in a computer working his mind off trying to balance a company account or preparing a presentation for the board. So in all of that I encourage you to find that’s challenging work or build it for yourself after work so your life will have a meaning than being on a cruise control and having things easy. Why this is important, easy things don’t require much discipline and you can do them even in the last minute and no extra effort necessary and if what’s you do is that’s way ,then you won’t have anything to hold yourself accountable in. Your mistakes are taken by your supervisor, who has to deal with a manager and you can be reckless knowing that’s the decision to get you out of the door is that’s hard.

The goal of this is not for you to resent your present job ,but be aware you can do better in your life ,for those who’ve been selling in the streets you might be making decent money but you have to improve your vision and don’t settle .keep learning and apply what’s you learn and if you scared leave someone else in your spot while you try to do better.

Happiness is a buy product of living life accordingly

Happiness is a serious subject and you need to study it, so you won’t conflict it with other subjects like having money or being riply fit and so on. Although that’s is important but into an individual level there is enlightenment that’s most people hardly reach ,and we or I’m not also there yet but I tend to understand something the more I learn the less paranoid I become.

To you that’s can be ,the more I spend time with my family ,the more I get to know they better and thus be able to associate with them. Family is something’s that’s has an automatic effect ,you don’t choose it yet when you have it ,you don’t necessary wish to be with other family .You can envy what’s they have but you know deep down my home is way warmer .

I have been set to be aware of work ,family ,health ,finance and people to make my life happy , meaning if I got all of that’s right I won’t have a happiness problem of Couse stress now and again but knowing how to deal with people will reduce it.

Working is very important, and nothing seems to beat it. During lockdown I got a gf in Twitter because somehow I’m still browsing then the moment ,she got back to her real life ,which I assume is work and maybe other things she didn’t tell me about ,I lost her clearly that’s wasn’t my girlfriend yet and I was so naïve to open up so quickly ,she might have been overwhelmed by my straight forwardness but that’s moment hurt me and I’m still dealing with it and I’m aware of my misstep’s , I saw some of the red flags of why our relationship might not work but dismissed it. So from that life experience of mine please be careful of looking for happiness in places that’s don’t have any track record of that’s. And pay attention to the details.

Know yourself

Know what’s rub you off the wrong way and try to avoid it by any mean , For me being committed early to relationships hurt me and I really need to work on that’s. Know what’s lift your spirit up and seek it but not leaving important things seeking this feeling. Know your strengths and weaknesses and improve and bet more on what you already finds easy if it has a better rewards in your life.

This piece is mainly about self and unless you in a right place you cannot deal with the world around you. And if you are not special in any way you cannot be different from people around you then that’s the weakness unless people around you are successful and depending to your definition of success, if your nearest surrounding has all you want in terms of character, material things and more then you doing somewhat well in your life because those people won’t let you in their cycle if you don’t have what’s its takes to be like them some day. 

Other thing know that’s there is no highest level keep pushing the bar higher and take other people advices with a grain of salt including this ones and make the decisions you can be able to live with.

5 points, Why it’s important to keep track of how you spend your day

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As of writing this, I recently does what I have always does after sometime, deleting contacts on my phone that’s no longer useful. I am a music producer and lot of things within music which sometimes needs audience on Social media but when removing contact’s linked with my whatsapp I realized that’s my whatsapp is liability every morning I have a new message from people asking for something to me .a song , a free beat or an advice about music which lead to me opening thing blog ,instead of people consuming my time one by one ,I rather dedicate time and write articles and there is a book by ULwaz No Makhula on Amazon called Music Insider that’s has all the contact’s you will need as a musician. With all that’s said I recommend a book called Deep Work on this topic , without waste of time let’s get to today’s topic.

Life is made out of minites and seconds , the time you misuse is giving your life away.

Mark Twain

1. So that’s you will live life worth living

If you can pay attention, to what’s you do the moment you wake up to the time you sleep, you will see where your life is going. I want us to be realistic here say you have a car and what’s you do is helping people and at the end of the day you have nothing to show for it do you think that’s is good living? Or say you wake up wash your face and go straight to hang out in the store with other guys is that’s worth doing? If you are attacked by this and you wish to respond be my guest but I doubt we will find a common ground. The goal of this articles is to open your eyes and have some cause you living for as going to work year after year is much better but if it’s not backed by a bigger cause you might be drifting through life and you will die to oblivious even to the most people in your life and I will suggest you avoid that’s by all mean. If you are an artist going to record every day and do beats non-stop can be exciting and really time consuming but when all said and done does it help the well living of your bottom line?


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2.To see if you not spending most of your day in daily choirs and your life is static, not improving.

For a person who is serious about life, my goal is to escape all the menial tasks at home and hire a person to those for me. Others can afford to do this but yet they know if someone do their dishes and clean their house will open a gab in their schedule and they don’t want to face that’s ,while others think it’s the kids job and not to be awkward kids needs to learn this things cause they are basic  in life ,cooking and all but the hard things should be what’s we instill to ourselves and our kids ,that’s reading books of personal development and biographies of great successful people as well as focus on our relationships ,that’s if you are married have time for your spouse intentionally and get out of the noise of daily tasks that’s surely will be worthwhile. Learn and teach about money which is really a challenging subject and a unique thing to deal with but if you can master that’s part all will seems to be running smooth. And your time alone focus on something, it may be hobby or something you feel may make a difference in your community or world. I know you may said let me see what’s this guy says and your life doesn’t go this lines and maybe you already have a worker but I’m sure somewhere you need to clean up and get your life in order.


3. So your will know that’s if you die today, you gave it your best.

As human beings all the worried that’s we have dearth seems to come on top, yet we seems to forget about it when we look at our priorities. I have some business where I have customers and I know more about what’s going on in the service I’m providing then then do from previous experience, because they don’t know some minor challenges is a huge issue with them so you too, you can say but during my day I’m serving people and they complain and all of that’s, the complaints may be valid but you know what’s you need to fix now or 1st that’s even if you die now your family can inherit viable business. So with all the above analogies take action that’s once done will open many possibilities for you , for me was watching certain channels on YouTube they really change my life and I would know who I am if I didn’t stubble on those ,then those channels introduced me to books and book 10x everything as I saw books are hard and you need to develop the habit in order to read and understand them , I took the route of audiobooks ,I still read books cause is the number one way to acquire information and since audiobooks are passive you can miss most important things.


4 To be a better organized person.

So since I lost my job in 2017, its opened me to the other part of life that’s seemed real and tough which if I didn’t lose my work I would’ve thought life is easy and poor people are lazy, loosing that’s job I got another one eventually its didn’t pay as good but still I was arrogant bragging that’s how come people don’t get jobs I just got another one. See my uncle tried to explain to me the privileges I have but I couldn’t understand until I lost that’s job again and realized I wasn’t good at it. Humility grew on me and I started to feel for people who are not doing well in life as I was now a bit in their shoes ,luckily for me I got curious and learnt this new mindset I’m suggesting here, getting back to the point because of the knowledge I have acquired and habits I have instilled in myself the last to jobs I worked in not even once I was late ,why was that’s I became organized as I started to take my day seriously ,automatically I respected my boss ,I even got a job where I wasn’t supervised and that’s compelled me to perform way better so when they barge on me I was on track and it’s all work well for me till I decided to leave and if you don’t plan your life in daily dose  many distractions will come your way you might not write everything you need to do but the one thing that’s you must do every day should be in your head ,saying if every day I did this one hard thing that’s is out of my comfort zone than my day will be worth it ,this suggests even if you don’t know how you going to get paid from this ,doing it and knowing maybe that’s there is a market for it its what’s matters and do that’s for a long whole. We are human one day missed because of the emergency is fine but make up for that’s loss time.


Action ,thats will forever change the trajectory of your life

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5 So you will be efficient in your tasks

In my community nothing seems to be urgent, for youth and technology invading our lives its worse .ULwaz No Makhula which is me and my friend we saw a really powerful work habits combining our music brand together we amazed our fans doing what’s other artists do in a year in 3 months. So in December everyone was going crazy as usual, we had our little craziness but it was mostly work. We submitted our music video that’s we shot on November then we recorded 3 new songs and got helped choosing a single for January then on January we dropped a music video on TV channels and YouTube , February we dropped a single and march we boosted our page and reach 3000 followers and sometime releasing another new song. I know others know people who release more than that is but I will assure you it’s expensive to market music and everything within it, that’s why there are few main players in the game. We were efficient in our tasks, 1. Because we pushed one another and both want what’s best for the group 2. Because we want to be successful as soon as we can for me the beginning of the year all my chips were in the music table and lastly 3. We are clear about what’s we are doing.

So you too, reschedule your day, week, month and so on if you working with someone we are people and ever changing don’t make huge decisions under a spark of a moment try by all means to be objective and lets situation pass and lastly what’s I will recommend the goal of having a partner in whatever you do is not for you to hold back what’s ever eating you inside as well as not bursting without thinking. You may ask to think about it or agree and if you feel you not ok with the decision reconsider but don’t put the whole building done because of a minor misunderstanding. And lastly don’t be a inefficient one in a team. Bonus point!!


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6. So that’s you will have a day that’s you are proud of

Do we average people have this kind of days? I doubt it, or rarely if it’s not my 9-5 that’s fulfill my day then I have a problem. Knowing that’s jobs are simply a economic transaction system I know is a way for me to get money are there other ways yes about 7 or more .But depending on your job or you are in a lockdown as we are now you can feel your job is a gateway drug to something meaningful that’s at least pay your bills. If not you drag to wake up in the morning and let alone doing the work ,I’m not a guru here I’m a 29years guy who  once experienced the day that’s he was proud of ,here it is at the age of 26 after I lost the job I was talking about above ,I simply took my provident fund and decided to build a rental rooms so during the construction I saw a shift in my life ,that’s I wish for you to experience as well in your life time ,its dint matter that’s I was losing money or investing but my Monday was exciting and I couldn’t wait to wake up and arrive at the site because what’s was going on there was mine and it has a potential to change my life forever knowing or not. Those day I ticked off a lot of things on my daily tasks it was amazing lots of good and bad and backstabbing and so forth but it was worth it , I grew with those experiences I was a boss for a moment in charge of a project without proper schooling about this I only knew what’s I wanted. I changed for the better there and what’s happened after changed me more I got encouraged to read more and its was a perfect time for me to change from the old 9-5 working me because I would’ve sided with my workers and nothing would’ve got done. I read books, I understood that’s if you in my position you need to have a way of doing things and mine was be nice but don’t tolerate sh*t and that’s way I manage to go far as I did and learned to cultivate a powerful relationship with my neighbors there whom at first I had my own wrong 30 second preconception about them, where you normally conclude a person character and attitude within 30 sec you met, the book I read called African midwives really helped me. It’s the 1st time I published something with so much of my personal life in it. You will be proud of your days if you really make them yourself and not anyone who comes to you and ask for whatever that’s doesn’t seems to help you but balance.

How to make life worth it (Artists & as a Person)

Hi todays article is based on my life experience and knowledge I have acquired and I’m not trying to be absolute and controversial but having a view on life is the best state to be at because most people and musicians drifts through life without an awareness of what’s going on outside and within them in their minds and life. Others think life is hard or is how to be certain way and other spend their days sitting around the tuck shops and showing not eager to win at life and become something of themselves so today we wish to open your eyes at least by an inch and make you see you could be someone better not someone average and who is a normal rapper who will quite after getting a 9-5 job.


  • 1 Get out of a crowds and negative routines.

You might be a lady , you normally have girls together and say you enjoy life with other girls your age and drink alcohol and have a blast that’s good but is that’s aligned with your life goals and purpose?

We not trying to change anyone here but let’s do an experiment here if your birthday is so important then every year you have a massive loss in a form of investment in this day and if you don’t have cash that’s time you go to debt because this is a once in a year situation right? Wrong look you need to get out of the bubble and realize you aren’t getting any younger and start curving a purpose for yourself and invest on that’s and become the best version of yourself ,that’s may mean changing that’s circle of friends and those drinking habits. Because if there is 10 of you ,you guys do this 10 times or more per year and already behind by a mile compare to someone who reads books and watch great YouTube channels to help him/her sane. I recommend Channels like @ALUX.COM on YouTube and SUCCESSTV (with red and black logo and VALUETAINMENT for you to start on this path of success and make your life worth it.


  • 2 Don’t binge social media limit yourself in it?

Even if you market something on places like Facebook, twitter, instar, tiktok and more have it on a system and have a room for your sanity and loneliness where you can think and meditate or hit some pushups. Just condition yourself and I want to advice you something take the pain of boredom and experience it so where you get a chance to go out there and live life, work and so on you will grab it with both hands and be gratitude. Today I learn that’s Lockdown is happening for the second time and I’m writing this as a grateful person cause I’m in the zone and I’m using this time to help my fellow human kind like me in this noisy culture we living in. Key of this point don’t let your bad behavior get all over you without a fight , challenge them in short , challenge your mind and tell it what’s to do and not be told by it all the time. Take control of your life and start building yourself good habits. If you take this and try it, it’s going to be hard but don’t swear it. Just improve and create strategies to deal with your anxieties and times where you feel a bit depressed. Today Mphako’s Video played on Mtv Base and this positive thing made me realize through our talent and hobby we have inspired kids from my neighborhood because they saw it and talked about it, instead of a negative event of guys stealing cars or robbery which shows another side of life which is not good for society.

If you don’t learn from history , yourl be stuck in the past


  • 3 Be curious of how things come to be.

For me knowing I can always learn something new makes my life worth it, in some aspect of my life I might have to improve but knowledge acquiring I have become way better and I’m proud of that’s .If you can follow the channels I recommended on YouTube and try to avoid looking at topics that’s won’t help you and focus on those in line with how you can better yourself then your curiosity will be filled day by day. All I ask is for you to take action on actionable steps we suggest or reading this won’t help you .last channel I forgot is Grand cardone see you don’t have to take every advice they give but 1% will change your life and view of life .

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  • 4 Try all the things that’s has a potential to better your life.

I grow up knowing and thinking school is the only thing needed to better my life but now I know knowledge and how to do something is what’s will change my life. It’s doesn’t matter if I got it in college or online school for as long as I can do it I’m good to go. To my second point jobs in South Africa require some sort of diploma or degree to get employed and be in a position but that’s can be limiting to other things other people want to do with their lives, Books have more information than what universities offer but you need to be disciplined to be able to do it by yourself but you can try if you don’t have money to pay tuition fee just buy data and get busy download free pdfs and so on. I can’t wait to be rich to share this kind of information Couse that’s certain it’s going to happen and by then I might not have time to write like this .SO try to get things you want in many ways, we live in the world that’s is runned and operates with money meaning money of the important of things should be on top, to the point that’s you should be weary of someone asking you to do something for free.

  • 5 Having family as important as them not interfering to your personal life

Family has been portrayed as the most important aspect of life and I agree but I want to and that’s you should be able to survive if they all die at the same time and you luckily made it. I know this example is extreme but this point only means be your own person and try to have a conversation with your family to let you try doing things differently your own way for as long as it’s not killing people or anything that’s is not striving to better yourself. In the start of 2018 I decided to stop watching TV and payoff has been amazing because things I think about lately are really mind-blowing and they are aligned with my life purpose and cause ,I don’t think much about news and episodes playing on TV because they really not going to help me in anyway. I got a job and I had to live inside my work, so normal person would want to buy a TV the moment they arrive for me it was a blessing in disguise being there, I focused on my healthy eating because at home it’s hard the kind of food they cook is not good in a long run. There was no distractions from my reading and gym. Now I’m back home because I could use freedom and my brother needed the job more than I did and my secret is I still spend most of my time in my room and with my friends on whatsapp who happens to be number 1 customers of my beats and who visits my blog so I’m grateful.

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