Why most people don’t care about money yet they think they care

This is a fascinating realization and I might be guilty a bit but most people don’t care about money yet it is so important. You also think you do care about money but the fact is you don’t care, if you love money you would not do things to impress other people with it but you will keep it and impress yourself following social proof is natural but to embrace the important of money you should fight against that’s urge of keeping up with the Jones.

They think money is for spending

Maybe you one of those people who thinks money is for paying bills and buying same food every month well let me burst your bubble money has many functions and bribing is one of them but I don’t mean negative stuff like that’s. Money has a function of making you well off meaning you can become to the point where money is not the reason you wake up in the morning to work for but wake up to spend it wisely and have fun with your life.

Secondly money can make you generous and give to those who has been really been dealt a bad hand not those who have anything functioning in their body yet can’t apply it well. Thirdly money can solve money problems even those that’s doesn’t seems like money problems and on the other hand money can be the problem for you if you are obsessed with it yet can’t handle it.

They have wrong beliefs about money

To be honest I know most of this beliefs but I never consider them or associate them with money I thought it’s something people say’s for no reason. But things you just say have a meaning and if somehow your mind process it you can end up having a negative view of that’s thing.

For example people say money is a root of all evil, which is not true you see how you act with other people money and cutting corners with it says more about you than the money itself. Money is a simple paper which exemplify trade between two people wanting to exchange something ,when your mind tell you to go steal money or keep change and cook books you don’t necessarily want money but you want what’s money can do buy a car a dress and so on.

Penny save is penny earned having that’s back of your mind limit your thinking to only make penny returns on your investment if you think you care about money you shouldn’t think like most people. Dismiss this kind of beliefs and create your own and think big numbers cause it true you attract what’s you think about .Rich people are greedy or selfish is a terrible mindset because its pushes you away from the only people who cares about money who can also teach you about money but if you resent them well you will get the same feedback.

You need to work hard to make money

If you believe this you may care more about your work than money since every month you don’t save as much as you suppose to. Your work ethic is good but that’s shouldn’t be your long term strategy about money cause if so you will never have more than enough and when by luck you do you won’t have time to enjoy it because the source require your attension.

The concept of multiple streams of income comes from this and that is why you don’t need multiple jobs but multiple assets that are pay you every month or every week or every day even every hour without you working physically or mentally for that’s matter except counting your money and tighten the books.

See if you truly love money like I do you don’t entirely leave things to people especially those concerning money you need some level of paranoid until the person you hired has repeatedly proved him/herself then you can trust those people with your family and your life in to a huge extent that’s a family lawyer or your head of security depending on your type of lifestyle Key pay this people well and don’t assume he’s an accountant he will steal some don’t create that’s room.

You think poor people are lazy or can’t think

I’m also quick to judge but in my experience wealthy people realize that’s not all people who are broke made themselves that’s way. They know about circumstances beyond their management and they know that’s we are not equal and slowly but surely I sympathize like this now as well.

In order for you to see how people are suffering because of a lack of tools and resources and even food make yourself a habit of leaving a tip when you buy or eat somewhere and see people who works in places where they earn minimum wage get excited.

All his/her salary covers number of people back at home and for you to say the person is working why should I give him a tip ,says more about you then the person trying to feed his family with minimum wage. Of cause other’s can be lazy and lack effort but those people are the most creative people and put them in the right place they will fasten the job because they want to chill but yet they need and value money.

This goes back to the topic of the day physical lazy people may suspect that’s why should I work hard for money that’s where smart work comes in. Every path towards money has a bit of it challenges you must endure if you really care.

They don’t have assets but have degrees

If you have a lucrative job that’s pays well doesn’t mean you care about money. If you live on that work and buy fancy cars and you have a big house and family you are not focusing on money but focusing on those things.

If your savings and investment is more than your take home you still an average person with a huge paycheck and I’m not trying to diminish your success you are a successful midlle class and that’s a good life but your kids have nothing after you gone and money cannot change a person who is not sophisticated about money.

Teach your children about money if you care about it and learn this financial education yourself, asset’s are things that’s pay you money every month not the ones that’s deduct your account every month those are liability and the bank won’t help you become rich but they can safety keep your money and take their fees for that’s.

So if you think you are rich because you have a lot of money in the bank thinks again you are rich in a sense but that’s just liquidity to help you have a buying power but your net worth shouldn’t be fixed in one place. Why because if that’s one place suffer some unforeseen consequences? Yea you will be out of the game and money tends to get bored and flow to people who can use it so save and invest some.

Thank you money lovers we are together in this ,money has nothing to do with your happiness but it can elevate it so don’t sleep on that it important. Keep bettering yourself and you won’t regret it for disclaimer I learnt this lessons for successful people who don’t consider themselves financials expects so am I take my advice’s with a grain of salt.

But I meant no harm here and nothing I’m selling but let’s follow each other and build powerful relationship LNM (uLwaz No Makhula) on social media.

Practice good relationship with other people

With the world moving to automation people with have more time in their hands and the company we keep will matter more than ever, that’s why today we look at ways to practice good relationship with other people. It’s may be a family member a stranger or a colleague what’s ever it is you will learn something here and possibly some of it it’s just reinforcement of what’s you already know.

Do your parts in maintaining the relationship you value

I am a passionate learner and I try paying attention to a lot of things in my life and at the age I’m at I value relationships although its looks like it’s a spare of a moment thing and other people may think I’m on their case, that’s not the case at all I just value them knowing It or not.

I had an honor of buying my grandpa a birthday present this week last year I failed to do that’s because he had a huge party and I realized my gift won’t matter that’s much but this year no one was paying attention and me myself I pay attention to the fact that he values his birthday when he turned 69 years old and told me no one remembered his birthday and I felt bad and made a commitment to do something in his birthday since he is the elder male in the family and I’m lucky to be close to him since he became so successful in his lifetime.

This story is to make a point that’s the relationships you cultivates grows and fraction is bound to happen but how you come back from that’s makes the whole difference, this also means when you in an argument with an important person in your life or anyone for that’s matter you should think through your words carefully because they may last longer than your sorry.

My goal with this blogs is simple to have likeminded people following me and helping one another go through life with awareness and don’t be sidelined by our work and daily choirs ,blogs are small and straight to the point which makes it a great way to learn.

Avoid having people you bully

Although nature didn’t create us equally and we different in many ways from gender to age , geographical location and mental states its important that’s no one gets bullied as we grow we will lose people but our bad actions shouldn’t be the cause and the main problem you will do this in front of people that’s matter to you and they will change the view of you.

This point will tied close to your own people’s skills ,personally I consider myself bad with the opposite gender thus although I’m looking for a way to improve but I still try not to push it ,Those kind of relations I build them from the foundation of chemistry and if there’s none then I don’t approach that’s party. On the other hand if it’s strictly business or work I’m good working with them if it’s a working environment situation but on my own businesses I still find it hard to collaborate with them.

Last week since I’m involved in a music industry as a producer and an artist I needed a lady to do a photo shoot with and manage to get two unlucky I needed one so I had to stop the other lady.

 The lady took long to confirm and understandably I was just a stranger referred by a friend but it’s took some days to get an answer but that wasn’t the main issue, what’s happened next is, the lady that’s confirmed cancelled on me so I had to go back to the one I stopped two of them friends and to my surprise they rejected me and made a unrelated reason for not helping me.

They said you rejected us while you were the one needing people and they continue saying the world doesn’t revolves around us as artists, I was supposed to be considerate and think of them as their students they have classes so it a no.

 I thanked them and postponed the shoot and the issue here is that’s they might have had a point but they said more than necessary and if you disagree please comment below. So this another form of bullying we get from our fellow human beings and I have been on the watch on such behavior and my music company doesn’t have female artists and luckily no one has ever want to and I’m not looking.

Know your weakness when it’s comes to relations

The above is a conscious awareness of me and limitations, for 50 cent is his family he’s good at almost everything he does but terrible with keeping it’s cool with his family by certain extent and he’s aware and working on it. What about you maybe we men come across too violent or you find it hard to influence other people near you thus failing to build mutual respect with other people.

There is the book I’m reading crucial conversation is a perfect book you need to conquer your weaknesses, be alert to what’s beliefs your surroundings had installed in you to hate certain people in my culture is a normal thing for mother’s to fight the battles of their exes with a kid and the kid end up hating father maybe the father made things worse by pulling back maintenance support to the little child who has nothing to do with your fights.

 At this point I understood that’s as parents we should not prevent children’s from seeing our fights so they will learn from them and make the decision either they adopt the bad behavior or they tell themselves that’s they will never treat their partner like this or on the bright side if you start thinking of dodging the kids to the bedroom conclude not having this fight at all.

 I’m writing from other people’s experiences because I’m not yet married or anything like that’s but I have been once in a room with parents fighting and my kid shouldn’t go through the fear I did when that’s happens.

Be honest and tell the truth all the time and face the consequences

Truth always has consequences and for me it’s the route I had always took and repercussion dealt with ,It not an easy thing and you have to endure a lot of stress towards revealing a truth of what’s might happen. Face to face with other people around is a better place because is closing behind closed doors the reaction may be uncontrollable.

This apply to your work in Toyota they encourage a worker coming forward after doing a defect in a car in an assembly line other than hiding a defect with a potentially of killing the whole family on the freeway.

 Ever since I have started businesses none have had success that’s I can say this was a milestone reached it’s a lost after another although something I can live with but the regret of not trying would be much worse in my later life and this blog is a product of starting something and keep pushing and be true to myself that’s I don’t know when I will succeed here.

Have a heart ,know what’s the world needs to know and what’s not about your life for example you wouldn’t tell the world that’s you have a bad habit of masturbating if you did there must be a huge chance you don’t take yourself seriously and no one will ever do. I know my example is not a comfortable one but my point will also be family matters and dark side of it should be kept a family matters not face book.

Raise your standards and show how you want to be treated

When people attack you try to keep a low profile and don’t rise to their anger and that’s on its own will make them realize you don’t entertain noise you just want solutions and understanding.

 The standards reflects of the quality friends you keep and family treats you the way you present your goals and beliefs personally I don’t believe in what’s my elders believe in and thus they know how to treat me in certain situations. Respect is important and really thinks of other people when you go through certain big decisions because it will affect them one way or another.

You may drink but if you act like a drunk you will be treated as such, you may be a church goer but be sidelined by your bad deeds trust me the bad deeds will out shine your church going habits. Life is not black and white and I’m not saying I’m 100% right in all the bold statements I make but if you want to make good relationships you must be a reflection of what you is want. If you found some valuable insight on today’s piece let us know ,thanks for taking the time and drop your own advice if you are a blogger below on the comments and tell me how can I improve my weaknesses that’s that’s I mentioned above. This is LnM (ULwaz No Makhula) on all social media.