Sitting here listening to the game song, the way this guy understands his surroundings and background you better believe he is taking responsibility of his life, he’s from Campton and that’s a rough neighborhood and in his song his making its clear that’s he will do everything to protect his one life, he can kill to protect his family and himself cause he knows he has one life. Maybe your situation is different but there’s no better time to remind one another that’s we have one life and I want to contradict the saying we YOLO , this article is not about that’s but bear with me ,thanks for coming back ,if it’s your first time we call this series of articles LnM ,they’re inspired by a music group called ULwaz No Makhula so check them out ,it was meant to talk about music related topics only but we realized many people were reading and artists were living wild ,so we needed something to get everyone on perspective and take life seriously.
1. Ask yourself why you are really in this world.
You may already figure out that’s ,you are a musician or whatever you are passionate about but still feel empty after the song is done ,maybe you have another calling have you ever consider that’s? Maybe you already have a stable job that’s really support your family but was what’s that’s you were made for? Maybe you are doing something that’s seems to be changing people’s lives but are the reasons behind your deeds honest? I will be honest with you I wish to see this blog pay me someday and that’s ethically right from a moral stand point and maybe you in a position of power to donate to me to help me focus and improve this website but I hope I can help myself before you do because I want to take charge.
2. What’s stopping you?
See as of today I was talking to my mother about relationships stuff and being open about it, will help me when the time come for me to leave its won’t be a struggle. My point is things that’s may be stopping you in your tracks you don’t know how to create anticipation for anyone who has influence in your life ,so talk some of your wishes and dreams so when they come true ,they won’t be took by surprise or they will try to stop you. So what’s stopping you to do certain things that’s you know will change the trajectory of your life? It may be your thoughts and belief about the thing you want to do, so awareness is important if it does cross your mind pay attention to that’s negative reasoning, like for example thinking investing is hard or people are like this or there is someone running a system you cannot be rich, most of those thoughts are not real so do your research you will see most people has done it so don’t let your mick play tricks on you.
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3. Take & Own that’s responsibility
As I grow I have learnt to respect elders more than I use to when I was a kid, its either we talk as adults or someone between us is acting childish. I learnt on a book called millionaire fast lane that’s taking a responsibility and not doing a follow up of fixing what’s you said to ,you were really not responsible , being responsible comes with accountability to avoid repeating that’s deed. So If you lost your phone last week and this week you put your phone in a table in a bar while sipping alcohol, you are still on your old ways. Be responsible for good things that’s happens around you as well as bad ones and fix them, See am guilty lately not practicing what’s I preach and if I don’t wake up and keep it real I won’t be reliable to myself, my eating is terrible and it’s going to reflect in my body, I can say it’s my home or anything but it’s mostly me.
4. Take charge of everything that’s you allow your mind it make you do
What’s is happening in our outside world is reflection of what’s is happening in our minds, you may not be aware but there is something called subconscious mind and its does most of the hard work to manifest things you always think about. Because you not deliberate in your thought , you ask for a job even in your praying cause you not clear of what’s exactly you want to do ,you end up doing miserable job ,which has even has a little salary. Day dream at least that’s way better than wishing, because when you wish you don’t calculate how you going to get there, day dreaming at least has images of your aspirations.
Fights your mind when its ask you to do bad things, that’s will harm your health or wellbeing and so on. You may not will all this fights but at least the progress will be there. Stay with people who will inject positive and actionable thoughts not wishers but people with some progress in their lives. Guard what’s goes to your mind and dismiss things that’s don’t align with your new beliefs. Now it’s a Lockdown that’s is happening for the first time in our life time this situation is forcing me to stay at home with my family ,liking it or not and it’s good to a certain extent but our mindset clash everyday but they see I’m trying to better myself so they let it slide ,with that’s said be a force to be reckon with and have your mind solid strong ,sure working on mine to me stronger and be able to deal with itself cause right now lot of battles I’m failing to win but as John Maxwell say I will fail forward. I have one habit that’s I once tried to fight and people gurus spread a myth that’s says in 21 days you can kill your habit or create a new one ,I dismally failed to get rid of something because after those days I started over so my new strategy is being quitting things and trying to not do them totally , because that’s the goal anyway.
5. Don’t fear being different in a good way
If you understand your new philosophy and what’s it can do for you, why don’t you stick to it? Backlash is a sure thing but embrace that’s difference .Dave Ramsey usually say normal is bad, be abnormal to win in life. The good thing is people are normally scared to confront a different person about his/her behavior’s that’s why I always get away with mines and if you give a shot the advices I share life will begin to be easy. What’s I have realized is people know people who is going to be successful in life but still they find it hard to associate themselves with. It was a compliment what’s my mother said about the way I am. So I have a tendency to just talk and without much of a substance of my deepbelieves, so I tell my mom friend that’s I’m going to be rich and that’s what’s I want and my mom said I am going to be, because people who become rich don’t look after themselves much like you earlier on and they wear rags and so on because they simply priorities money. She was about right but she cannot tell my siblings to replicate what’sI’m doing because it’s just me and my mindset and difference that’s I embrace.
Thanks for reading , I may have brag a bit but I cannot get my point across without me being an example and of cause my weaknesses are important so you can hold me accountable if I don’t improve as well .I’m bound to improve cause we holding each other accountable. I want to make an oath of keeping this blog alive for as long I live because its could be helpful to other generations Thank you.
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