You might think you lack a job in your life ,or you don’t seem to have an intrinsic value. I can encourage you that’s you are not alone im like that’s I cannot point exactly what’s im good at and when I wake up in the morning sometimes I don’t have a day planned out. So I want to give you tips to make yourself valuable and have rare skills that’s doesn’t require any schooling.
Be a people’s person
Try to be an extrovert and break the ice in places and start a conversation ,you see its not easy I believe I am an introvert by nature but because I am a continuous learner I studied books like How to influence friends & win people and now I got an edge. Grant Cardone always says everything you need a human has it, you just need to find a way to get it. See don’t mistake that’s statement for selfishness, actually do the service without much expectation and the rule of reciprocal will take it place. For me at home they know I’m good with money ,to be honest I’m not I just know how to lay a story for every cent spent and I know how to cover my loose hands where I really was careless. Here is your job serve more than once a person you are helping may not be paying u anything or your worth but it only a matter of time before you get referral and that’s when the other people will ask you how much you do so and so for.
be honest, trustworthy, be open minded and tell your unpleasant if it comes to it.
People may be your gateway to your predicament and the same time they might use your situation and exploit you… As desperate as you are, try to be a straight up person. I once saw a guy who helped a lot in our community, he would complain valid points to strangers about all the people he was helping and you can tell this causes stress and hate for this people but because they gave him something he kept it inside. I want to be honest I have been a victim of this as well ,I would do a number of work and the person I’m working for while I’m away hide some of the work so he/she could pay less. In times like this device a plan either count as u work or time their pay day and act accordingly because some money you don’t get .The other guy I was talking about he ended up being untrustworthy ,at night he will come and steal chickens for the people he work for. And even eggs, so this might also mean to people who rely to other people for their day to day please do right by them.
Talk less, listen more .Help more and expect anything.
If this is not your professional work, don’t have much expectation, earlier on your goal should be to build relationships and see them prosper and if people don’t call you anymore don’t be mean about it. I remember I once worked as a garden boy for the first time in my life and I can still do it today. It was a flat with 12 tenants by then I already had different philosophies in my head and they contradict as well. So other people I will be good to them especially if their good to me, while others who don’t respect me I will be mean to them. I made my position clear I know my job description please don’t bother me ,but they all got patient with me and I grew to be able to help everyone expect one person who I hope I would’ve came around. There were different type of races there others try to protect me while others try to misuse me, but I found balance and I want you to find that’s within your community and organization.
Treat everyone like your future in-laws.
Can you do this? I learn this at my first high paying job at Toyota .if you don’t understand the colors of helmet what’s they represent from General Manager to a team member you’ll find yourself disrespecting your bosses boss. So what’s I did I learnt the company structure but still respect people like they were going to be promoted the following day . The in-laws example is assuming the mother you meet in a taxi is going to be your mother in law one day, now imagine disrespecting that’s person. Obviously we are not built the same and people presentation shows what’s kind of respect they need, all you need to do is not be a arrogant person make room for people. I have a tendency of asking people, what’s skill do you have or what’s you good at because I know I can’t do much but I can pay for it. So now what’s if you were to show me your dark side? Chances we can’t get to that’s question.
Also help yourself in a process.
See you can help people and make money but you being the common denominator in all this, the question will be how are you helping yourself with this money? Maybe you are hurting yourself by consuming alcohol or you get paid by drugs .or maybe you have your own silly craving thatisn’t harmful yet it isn’t doing you any good. So help yourself getting out of those things ,it will be hard because those will be your vices and most of us have them and serious people don’t like people who work under substances .if you going to constantly ask for a cigarette while working that’s bad .
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