Subjects that’s are not “well ‘talked about,

It’s going to be hard taking time looking at this but you might guess that’s I will talk about tax or whatever but you will be surprised because it seems so basic but most man, woman boy and girl experience it. I wish I was a statistic guy and a research individual but I’m not ,I use experience and facts that’s we all know or maybe dismissed but now is a great time to realize this before it’s too late.

Male and female sexual thinking in general sense

This is not addressed anywhere not in early schooling or middle schooling and unless it’s a concentrated cause universities don’t teach it. Apart from your own brain thinking about these things you might wonder why this is important to me.

Well here is an example a mind of a male thinks about lot of things during the day but once a woman comes across his face his mind get distracted a bit or throughout the day ,especially if a woman is wearing clothes that’s shows most of her sexy parts of the body.

In our today’s society the dress codes are not a matter of a subject but they should, another example how you dress your teenage girl is a different between her becoming a victim of rape or her equal age boys touching her or your daughter being seen otherwise and respected. It will be a great habit for a mom to teach a child not to revile her body and as in church they say your body is a temple of the lord.

We know that’s member’s of family your uncles aunts and older siblings touches little girls and boys and end up abusing the kids sexually but we don’t know how long they endure the temptations leading to those moments.

I’m not giving anyone a way out for me as a uncle I have a responsibility to control my mind and feelings or not recommended but a better option self help and get rid of a steam than hurt another girl or a child and turn to a monster.

The way woman dress in the beach ,well we all out there having a good time we shouldn’t make a big deal out of it right? Wrong, just tell me what do should men do? But for now self control and men love their partners enough not to consider the booty they saw.

There were a video couple of girls raping a guy, and it’s reached the right people and law took care of it. For man that’s was a horrible gangbang towards a woman but for a man this guy was stupid not to take advantage of that’s moment right? Again wrong this male asked for a protection on the video there was none ,and all the sexual transmitted disease after math was going to be his problem ,leave that’s not say his belief if he is a religious person physiologically he is going insane and can potentially kill himself if he doesn’t get help.

Back to men guys we are far from being saints but our sh*t is out there and maybe the law will get hard on us and its should but I want to talk to you in the individual sense ,the need to prove a point should not be an option to you especially if its mean beating your loved one. Here is another example if you are a grown up and you find yourself fighting with your mother having a serious conversation do you resort to beating her up? No, why not? Isn’t that’s you know how valuable your mother is to you ,she groomed you as a baby fed you and say now she’s a reason you lost your job but you still find a way to forgive her.

Your girlfriend is not your mother or your wife is not your bloodline but maybe you have kids together and its easy for me to say cause im not there yet, but since she is your mother of your kid’s would you put booze aside and think of the wellbeing of the children and the wellbeing of her and yourself after this is history after 10 years?

I know people here are not planning to do something bad, last week I beat a guy and I don’t carry any weapon he stole my t-shirts while it was on the line and I caught him by luck, the decision of hurting him came with some small consequences my hand had pains at night, I anticipated his move but he got scared and I built an enemy,there is no justification for what’s I did cause I would’ve reacted differently but human nature played it role.

My thinking went like this,at home there are only boys if someone does this take us for granted and treat us like girls ,I will teach him a lesson also realize if I don’t beat him since I caught him in the store the guys there won’t respect me at all and want to take chances with me so I was proving the point to everyone who was watching just don’t mess with me. Other than that’s I’m a nice guy.

Wize ft Sandile – Boom

Real Hip Hop will never die ,when we still recieve such bars in the time where new sound is overrated Wize decided to remind us how thia ish is done. In the world of singing and plastic rap Sandile came through and reaffirm thats hip hop lives on. Double U emphasized the fact thats he … Continue reading Wize ft Sandile – Boom

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How to really start a business

You may say people always talk about this one but I saw a post this week saying how to start a business while they meant how to register a company and look for funding. You see I find it’s hard to comments on such posts because the poster possibly don’t run any business and people who appreciate the free advice don’t consider that’s.

Now on the internet teaching people how to start a business is a business on itself and YouTube is that businessman revenue. I want to clarify my position here, I do have some kind of fundamental understanding of a business because I reach about it and I have things that’s pays me money every month but my advice might not work for you.

But I will share anyway the best way I have been doing it, first getting a job has been the most important part of my learning process and getting money to start whatever I want to start, but maybe you can find capital elsewhere but not all business needs capital from an idea you can make money, that’s is if you work hard and smart with your idea. Here was my idea to prove a point I had a second hand machine that’s someone gave me for free after helping him on building his blocks.

Then I had the idea, what’s if there are people out there that are needs blocks who already have a concrete floor and they want to save money and don’t buy bricks at the hardware and want to build them themselves. I putted out 50 cent each poster around my place which written I make blocks R1 each you buy material we build them for you and my phone number.

Then I was in business with a friend and he left since it was hard but we did get paid and if we didn’t stop we would have viable business now, I was already in R1,30 and making a nice profit and manage to hire one guy. This is even before I think of registering a business, no loan or funding just making it happen. You might have MBA degree in business and you have a better definition on how to start a business you can comment below, I’m just saying this subject is not taught well enough because people who teach want to lead people to conferences and make money out of them.

If you want me to make money why charge me the little I have instead of encouraging me to put it in my business? Be careful buying causes and products online, I might make them in the future but trusting me now will make it easy for you to count on me, if I do I will rather get paid from a business profit not you.

Power of the internet

This point supports the previous article check it out, internet is powerful yet very shinny and destructive don’t build your life around it but at least build your business or company around it. This means you get people to push what are needs to be pushed there and get back your life into a certain extent, do it as well but being too religious about it will cost you two most precious things time and money.

The branding side of things,I have realized what’s is branding ,branding is what’s people associate with your name or company here is an example to get you in the right path here is brand in a nutshell coca cola red and white ,smiling people and a 55ml bottle that’s branding seeing this all over its easy for me to associate with a cold drink. What are you doing online without the features explained above?

Your color your fonts and your message ,for an average consumer internet is a second home but let not be you have a life that’s is not based on what’s people said on face book ,twitter or anywhere build your own identity and brand yourself in real life and supply real products that’s you believe in and uses yourself.

Here is the recommended power of internet and there still you should not overindulge, that’s personal development articles like this and Google good information as well as YouTube how to videos and downloading books and go offline and read them less novels more biographies of successful people and personal development books and business books even if you won’t be in business philosophies will help your life.

Imposter syndrome and social proof

This one is not for general public is for you, if you have read so far thank you now here is the meaning of the subtitle, you will read the above things and conclude that’s you can’t do it and doubt yourself that’s imposter syndrome and you don’t want to have that’s disease cause you will never amount to anything if you do. You can change your life , you can control your feelings and anger ,you can take charge of what’s your girl or boy wears ,read ,eat and do while they are still under your supervision and you can stop a bad habit ,by not talking about it ,thinking about it or hanging around it or dismiss it while it’s in front of you.

Don’t copy especially things that’s you don’t understand why people do them, don’t follow the crowd and be your own man or woman and live your life differently all of that’s just a social proof, if most people do it be the exception and that’s way your whole life will. Value your time and other people’s time ,I know some people don’t like me because I hardly commit into anything ,if I do I ask for money if I’m free that’s my problem don’t add stuff and your silly dreams on me.

I love and respect people and I get wrong sometimes but trust me all of the above is worth it. In closing I want to tell you the painful experience I’ve been experiencing lately and its will pass , a girl I met on twitter showed interest and we talked for a while and we ended up dating and then all of the sudden she dropped me without a word ,I might have said things as well but she’s straight up rude right now and here is my lesson in this painful as it is  ,for me is one of those experiences that’s makes me want to be so successful in life that’s I will wonder why this moment of might life was such a big deal anyway. I love and respect woman but that’s one I feel sorry for her.

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Why Social Media is a striving business and what’s does this mean to you

See the reason’s why you can do it ,not why you can’t

Clearly we as human race we have become a products of internet companies like Facebook and twitter and this is not going to change anytime soon. Because this applications are addictive and build with a help of professionals who have degrees in human nature has got us hooked. Building a business based on this platform is a real risk although worth taking but in a long run you not in control of your business future if this social Medias change their algorithms so you are at their mercy. I experienced this personally while pushing my music links on Facebook and they constantly block my posts thinking I am a spam or just stopping me on my tracks because when I do it organic they don’t get anything except me driving their audience to the websites where I put my music and they don’t want that’s.

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Because we can advertise on them

Google is an incredible tool , YouTube too ,Vk Facebook and twitter and not to mention Messaging apps like What’s app , Telegram , viper and many more the problem is we get distracted every moment we try to focus in an important things in life and under deliver compare to our potential. The more we stay online the more ads are portrayed in front of us by companies and our favorite’scelebrities and thus effect our spending decision.

The problem with this is when we get on social media we normally want to socialize and have fun and engage with people we know and don’t know. Others come to seek dates and if we wanted to buy something we would’ve gone to Alabama or amazon apps but as human being marketing makes us realize things we might want but not actually need.

Early this morning I was on twitter and I saw a guy posting a car and that’s wasn’t even an ad but seeing comments and how he got attention makes me think of having a car myself so of Couse this platforms will strive even if they bring the worst in us, envious and jealousy .The goal of this article is for us to reduce social media usage and realize it’s not a just time costs it’s also a bad habit if it doesn’t affect your bottom line positively.

It’s a risky bet

Marketing is now starting to be seen like a social media job but that’s cannot be far from the truth. But marketing and distribution are independent industry apart from what’s is happening in the internet it’s just another feature. So trying to be a DYI and promote everything you are doing on the internet is not effective especially on social media.

The outside world is still a good marketing platform also depending on your product and service. Other thing is when you try to do an internet based business you may lack a skill of a sales person which is also required here ,the handling of objections ,follow ups and closing your clients and disadvantages here people have all the time to look at your offer objectively or logically unless what’s you are serving is a need or essential like food and transport which have its own apps now and you don’t need to be in social networks to get it.

As you promote your business in this platforms ,you making this platforms more profitable and that’s is fine if you do it intentionally like boosting your ad or page other than drifting on groups and being blocked now and again.

You are a product to social media

Social media has lost its value as it did when we started using it back in 2009 and new ones like Tiktok you should be careful getting hooked on them the usage is expensive because its requires video and audio data. We are no longer getting the endorphins we use to get and like aluxer confirms it’s now just a bad habit we have and we might need to crush it once and for all and get back to our old ways more and socialize better apart from pandemics messing with us.

Realizing you are being volunteer used by this companies should be a wakeup call and check where you are lacking because of it and see actions that’s you take because of it. This messes with your phycology and its influences how you deal with people because you do things that’s you wouldn’t do in person unless you are a socio path.

Spread of information and wrong myths

Covid 19 has to have trusted sources of information from the bunch because people were saying whatever about this pandemic and really lying to one another. Social media has become some source of information. The Qoura and Pinterest as well as Tumbler is strictly for interesting information and adding LinkedIn offers jobs and talk about business and important skills like sales and so on.

But this platforms hasn’t made our lives easier the only thing I see are premiums to be in a certain position or bombarded by a lot of information that’s doesn’t collate to the real world and in disorganized manner we end up reading books online without us being aware and reading things that’s doesn’t impact our lives at all. If you could start reading a book with the time you spend online you can have a breakthrough in a certain place in your life or listen to an audiobook.

Myth and beliefs are being spread here and we end up reading peoples mindset as well, because when people type something becomes the reflection of who we think they are. We don’t think the post is calculated or represent something else ,that’s why other people have fake accounts and attack other people and others have alter egos and spend their days promoting that’s and wonder why they don’t reach their goals and forget they spend most of their mental effort on being something they’re not .

If you are in that’s trap you can do something about it. Meditate on this article and try to ground yourself in internet usage and really come back to the real world. You will find yourself being productive and thus see the ROT (return on time) and eventually ROI (return on investment)

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Its means you need a gateway times from social media and engage in a real world

I was listening to Ready Player one audio book which I enjoy , it’s a gick tech guy acting in a future 2041 where the AI is a thing and its shows the amplified life of social media where people will spend their lives as parallel people having an online avatar which is a representation of yourself .

who has money and most of things that’s ordinary person can have but the difference online life will be a game but like social media now ads will still be a part of a culture and well as influencers and brand ambassadors will be there. With that’s said its means being online by then will also be lucrative because points people will be getting online could be converted to real life like bitcon.

You could be rich online as an avatar and be poor in a real world. So this means for this generation we may embrace part of internet and its perks but we need to be weary of everything around it. Position yourself on social media to be not a narcissist that’s won’t help you in anyway and try to live a life with a meaning and teach your kids basics and you going to leave them in a different world but the principles won’t change and values you would’vetaught them will be everything.

To you it’s also mean’s stop checking social proof and being narcissist and a pure consumer

Avoid looking what’s everybody is doing and cultivate your own ways ,because if something is done by everyone its means it’s easy and most of the time not worth it now and in the long run and that’s social proof and I have talked about it in another article.

Your pride lead you to want to splurge on social media and show people you don’t know how good you are doing. Sometimes this may come from a place of void and incompleteness from your accomplishment and want unnecessary attention and social media can offer that’s. Think before you do, make that’s your mantra I don’t know how many posts I didn’t post because I started by thinking how what’s I want to say is going to make sense to other person.

I know a friend who quite Facebook and for him it was a good move because he was a pure consumer, he realized he wasn’t like other people and didn’t like to brag about himself or comment so he was just consuming every unnecessary data that’s came across his feed, so he decided to stop.

Other go online to laugh and have fun and others are browsing and other seek sexual content whatever your reasons do it intentionally and don t be a consumer because its might not be a valuable way to spend your time unless you have joined the right motivational groups or aligned with your real life industry.

Thanks for reading todays article and I want to say, this are big companies and they can sue me for attacking them but disclaimer is in place this view are mine and not in attack to this companies but as a user it’s how I feel and somehow complaining because I have been blocked because I was pushing my music while other’s posts dangerous sexual content and get away with it.

I may sound like bragging and being a naysayer I’m just sharing to my followers that’s we can have a better life even if we are not attached to social media.

Why average people think alike and why you should avoid it

The purpose of this Blog and its articles, it’s to help the readers become the better version of themselves. Thanks god we started this as ULwaz No Makhula, although I’m not making god a pedestal it’s just a metaphor no offence. So according to this title normal people thinks and acts the same way and you should get out of that’s trap. So in this piece I will explain what’s I mean in point form and I want to be blunt with you I rarely do research on this topics, mostly it’s my observations and the way I look at the world around me. This content is good for you if you are a professional ordinary person or ordinary, ordinary person .Our goal here is to help you guys become way well.


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  1. They see the same business opportunities

The reason this article exist it’s because of this point only, but bear with me on other points as well because bonuses are usually life altering. The fact that’s us normal people cannot look ahead in the future is a misstep on its own ,we are lagging behind on this and we need to pick ourselves and start figuring what’s exactly might happen in the future in terms of the world of business. That’s way we will act accordingly. The only way to do this is through reading books about things that’s are still seems like myths and impossible to happen like artificial intelligence as well as Space travel ,Flying cars and so on. So that’s when those things manifests we will be in top of our game and be ahead to seize those opportunities.

Now today here in South Africa Level 4 Lockdown, open a new business that’s seemed to be dormant before, selling the face masks. The problem is people didn’t anticipate this moment. Mast were important from the beginning of this virus, but no one thought it’s would last for so long until it’s a mandatory thing for the whole country. Then the government announced and the doors flood open, and everyone in the city was trying to capitalize on this same thing.

I would like to appreciate the effort though from people in my country for taking that’s move and manage to compete with pharmacies on price. Earlier on myself I could but R40 mask it was too expensive, now it’s just a commodity I can get it for R10. Now this goes back to appreciating people to be creative and sew this, with that’s said most of the industries needs to be disrupted by a average person like you so the prices won’t sky rock, because you won’t only see the opportunity, but also the need to make everyday person to get that’s item, but leave it to big companies its will turn to a scarce and something for rich people only. On this point I can go forever if you can take anything here take the fact that’s you can start something from the scratch and make people realize they needed it and eventually its will become a need and you won’t have a hard time selling.

2. Social proof and you should be aware of it and avoid it

So I studies a book called influencing phycology which deals which knowing how people thinks and how you can influence them to comply in your needs. One of them is Social proof, as people if we see other people doing something, it’s easy for us to do it as well without really think about it logically. I will make two examples on this , one is Comedians from KwaMashu who were making a joke at Workshop Durban , they joined the cue one by one , and the last person came and ask ,what’s it’s this cue for?

 And the guy at the end answered, I saw them standing and I stood as well, instead of that’s guy leaving he continue the cycle, that’s was social proof at steroids. By this point you should avoid thinking like most people, question the norm, I disagree that’s life is to the internet and money will be made there, but my friend has a great conviction about that’s.

 I think money has been made here already, is there potential for more of Couse, but not like before. There are industries out of here that’s will never their intrinsic value , like agriculture and transport and there are more like manufacturing stuff .So instead of all of us coming here and taking those chances , we have a better chance at dealing with energy problem and revolutionize the world. Water seems to be the problem and you can see this is taken lightly but other companies overseas are going to capitalize on it. We are surrounded by water but maybe we can figure out a way to manipulate that’s see water into a drinkable liquid ,this assumption is not coming from a science background but like you and me I’m sure that’s thought has crossed your mind. The question is why there are no efforts towards that’s .Bills are no good trust me, they limit our potential with money, If government can encourage experiments like it’s did on technology, math’s and science.

3. We all think someone has already took an initiative to fix the community problem

If as a community we are minding our businesses all the time, and dismiss what we can does as society. Only pandemics will make us realize we need each other. In my township we all assume someone has called municipality to fix electricity. Now let’s look at it this way, how quick would the problem be fixed if 10 homes call one after another? Don’t you think it will be a matter of minutes?

Fixing a road, you can do it and don’t expect praise and let it be a bonus. I heard the stories that’s high achievers and high earning people has a different way of viewing things ,Average people asks why e.g. Motsepe isn’t fixing the road from the place he grew up in or where he lives? And the response from the public figure, by staying in that’s area they add value. I agree with that’s and really supports,, now can’t you add your own value but doing something about that’s road as well ?

This is the better way to look at it as well, the famous guy earns millions and pay more tax, then average person so he has played his part already.

4. They don’t understand the discipline concept and most of them thinks it’s something else.

When I was an average person, I thought discipline is respect. I don’t know why and that’s took time to get out of my head. In a simple short made definition. Discipline for me is doing something hard for a long whole without losing enthusiasm , for example reading ,gym ,learning a certain course , writing a book , being a certain professional . All those things needs discipline. Running a YouTube channel, blog or a Facebook page, I’m not say having those things and no content no I mean really use them every day. The only thing average people do well is their jobs because its pays their bills and they’re quick to settle on a position and stop growing. Unlike the C.E.O or boss of that’s company who learn something new every day.

So I encourage you to start doing something that’s will move you self-discipline forward and really boost your brain muscle. Don’t come across a term many times and not knowing its meaning like I use to , Don’t not understand people way of thinking , that’s will help you know yourself more. As I’m writing this I pay more attention into my mind,it’s always want me to make decisions and I always need to choose the good one 80% of the time or you will never see this articles if I let the wrong side of my brain take over, the problem its will always be there, all I have to do is beat it, 90% of the time.

It’s not easy,it’s hard but that’s life and there are a lot of things that’s I still need to overcome once I do, I will come back and brag, so that’s why I need to deal with them as soon as I can. So I challenge you to comment below with things you have overcame in your life. I want to stress something here while I’m in this point, don’t be strong in one angle of your life try to balance everything. I see people who are fit but they’re broke ,they don’t take care of their money habits , you need to work on that’s as well . Others are rich and their relationships crumble and others are social media junkies like I use to still am a bit, but I’m slowly moving away cause I know what’s I want with my life

5. Because they have excuses and blame to protect themselves with

There’s a little boy here at home called Mnqobi , he has excuses and blame others for almost anything .So this is a great skill of selling  ,he sells us wrong things thought he is a good manipulator and I will try to play my part to teach him responsibility and accountability. See I believe my grandmother and my mother groomed us well because now me and my brother we are able to admit to things and deal with consequences.

 This got to me when I was young as a boy I was scared of belt hitting from my parents. They sometimes forgive you if you speak the truth, rarely they hit you, that’s way along the way I knew truth can set you free. So making excuses to avoid tasks or want those responsibilities is bad, kid or not it’s worse if you are an adult and you don’t take your loses like a man or a woman.

I can call it a crime, if you always, get away with your mistakes by attributing them to being other people’s deeds or they gave you wrong information or if they told me to wait. Once we all take responsibilities for our actions and inactions we will be better of. Because the day you realize that’s you are in this life alone, you will know that’s really your life is yours. You can die alongside with 10 people in a car accident but a person that’s will still matter the most to you is?

Well I was getting ready to get to bed when I started this article ,but because I don’t have any schedule ,once its hit me ,I get down to it. And I need average of 5 aticles per week to last the following week. No last minutes here so I hope you got something out of this.