Welcome to another blog, we not mostly about answers here but to make awareness to you that’s you are not alone in your daily challenges and question’s you find yourself asking. What’s I came to this world for or what my purpose in life we have tried to broaden your horizon in the past and we want to assure you, you not the first one to experience stagnant life or some pause all we can say enjoy it while it lasts life is still going to be busy for all of us. You might argue it’s been 10 years and I will tell you the moment you get busy 10 years will feel like you took a 1-week break in life.
It’s might be you still don’t know what’s you want in life.
The only way to know what you want to be in life is to take your learning serious learn about many things as possible then keep downsizing it to master. You also might be listen to people telling you what’s you good at and what you should be ,they might mean well but taking that’s literally can affect the whole trajectory of your life.
For starters in high school we get chances to go to conferences once when we are in our last grade and had to make the important decision of our life in one setting with inefficient information and using our weak gut feeling about a course and few years later you are stuck in a job you studied for 3 years and you don’t see a way to back out and it hit you my life isn’t exciting. If you are a parent it can be a good Idea to help your child and expose him/her in many industries before time to choose it will be easy or cultivate their natural talents.
You see as of writing this article my life doesn’t seem to be exciting but yet everything Is going well ,for me that’s when I worry more cause I know hardship is on its way but at some point this line of thinking of mine should change. But most interesting someone offered me a simple job of doing what’s I don’t find challenging doing and that’s marketing on social media and the little he’s going to pay me will be a bonus, what’s left for me is to improve this aspect of this hobby the payment and that’s means I should be more valuable and then excitement can be possible.
You might not be serving enough
You see as of my learning ,I came to understand that’s to live a fulfilling life the only thing you should do is to serve others but for me it’s got calculated in the need of funds I serve people with money with less expectation.
In the need of help of learning I serve people with skills I need and see what’s happen and in the relationship cultivation I serve my friends and family and see if happiness is not maintained. I started reading a new book called crucial conversation and this book will help me a lot dealing with everyday people and immediate family.
Reading and watching YouTube videos has really come handy in changing my life and I can’t wait to afford more books that’s are not found in public domain ,or say I do afford but still need to take that’s action to make it a routine to buy a book. Deep down I see myself teaching a lot of people life lessons and business ones that’s serving me well in life.
Yesterday I asked my boy whose 18 that’s if I crave something and I know I shouldn’t buy or eat it and I have money ,what’s should I do? He’s answer was simple don’t buy it or deny it and act do nothing. I find it interesting his answer is right and I have saw him practice this every time so he could buy something big he really wants’ others may be buying fries and nice food and he will save his money for a phone or a pants he has a determination and self-discipline that can push him a long way in life.
But the problem he is growing and his reasoning will keep changing especially when he will realize that the next paycheck is coming and he can slice a bit ,I hope that won’t happen. But in the name of serving when he has a family of his own to serve the challenge he might face keeping up with his great style of personal finance.
Having empty day’s
The real reason I’m writing today’s article is because of what’s I’m experiencing of having unscheduled days and I’m grateful for that’s cause I’m open to try different things or have a window to go back to my high paying job. Although I’m not thrilled going back to work but its part of a bigger plan.
Although empty day’s doesn’t excite me its gives me the most thing everyone needs a challenge and creativity to do something with our lives , I wouldn’t recommend that’s you spend your life doing a house choirs as a strategy to live life and mostly that can be annoying but okay to other people is having someone telling you what’s to do with your life maybe a spouse a parent or teacher that’s regret you can never take back to the advice you took the advice and that means you are responsible for the way your life is when their dead.
Say you 40 years old now I’m sure you had a clear idea of what’s you wanted to become when you were 6/10 years old, of cause you were a child but you tuber wasn’t one of them and what’s ever you are doing now was still one of them but logic and reality sets in and here you are. To have your life get a spark what’s would you change and what’s stopping you.
What’s do you want?
Its may sum up to one question what’s do I want, material things car and house now that’s you have them what’s next? You pay them for the rest of your life. For me eyes opened the day I lost the job I had for 3 years and my priority got straight and car wasn’t one of them although I was planning to buy one the preceding year.
Car is important but we don’t have shortage of transport so if I’m not using it for business then I’m losing money on it. Your wants and needs has a subtle line of difference so you need to pay attention, in the process don’t sell your soul in trying to binge and being a consumer freak.
For me I want to succeed in music but this one might change it’s a gift hobby turned business but lot of plays involved and if things doesn’t get in line quickly I might have to focus to what’s makes a huge difference in my bottom line. I don’t encourage quitting or giving up but I can always come back to this love of my life but for now stakes are high I need serious focus.
Maybe you have lost trust in people
You are paranoid, for a business person that’s ok but what’s your reason? I grew up and still live in a hood people are generally good and few are bad and settings differ so you need to trust some people to have a shot of living well.
I have gave trust to my best friend and its might be in me to be paranoid but for my friend I think hard before of suspecting him of any interior motives he might have when he speaks or ask he’s been real to me as artists and as friends. I think we all need to give away trust and hope for the best no one is perfect but give some people benefits of a doubt.
I was listening to 50 cent audio book when he said he lost his manager Chris and ever since it’s hard for him to trust anyone like he trusted Chris .We as human species betray one another in many way’s but one must move past that’s betrayal and build relationships with other and trust wholeheartedly .
Your wife (although I’m not yet married) cheated you don’t trust woman anymore, learn and move past that thought like animals they may face danger by the river but they forget about it immediately once they feel safe, we are different species we learn from this events but sometimes we should act like animals and be oblivious of the negative past to open a room for new people in our lives.
I don’t know which excitement you anticipated when you saw the title , but partying and going out balling wasn’t the case music video’s has that’s for you. That’s kind of fun doesn’t last that why it’s pieces of 3 minutes on mtv but long term life enjoyment needs other lessons and other things to be embraced.
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