Hi LnM fam we are happy to have you join us today, ever since I realized that’s I don’t remember much from school but I know almost many things about new lessons I have involved myself in and applied it to my life successfully, I have dedicated myself to share all those insight because like me, someone might have a light bulb turned on and have breakthroughs and make his/ her life worth it. Today we looking at the mistake we make on doing things that’s last all our lives without giving them a consideration when we make them.
- Tricking yourself to stealing
I once found myself earlier this year working with someone with a lot of money and because I have already install my personal development in my life , I saw I was tempted to steal and those I was working with encourage me to do this because we were going to earn less later anyway. I’m not trying to be a hero here but I knew if I did that’s and steal this will lead to a bad habit of taking with less effort rather I should create the more valuable and money paying thing myself than stealing from bosses. This is more important because it tackle the side of us that’s is called loyalty and integrity ,you see if you have a track record of stealing you can never be putted in a position to look after inventory ,stock or money thus you might not get a job at all. This is great example because moment habit would’ve come with me throughout my life. But the main reason for me to start with this one is because its touches our morality and ethics and if those are broken and we cannot be trusted then we can never strive & prosper in this world
2.Your childhood is not a time to make reckless decisions.
When you are a teenager you might think you know how life work but if you are reading this you are lucky because I will tell you the truth “you don’t know anything about life”. Today we went to see our music mate who we grew up with ,who just lost his mom ,he is about to discover more things about life ,like running a household and more that’s parents usually take care of. Being a teenager is a temporal thing but being a adult last longer unless you kept acting like a kid even then. My advice to teenager or anyone with parents right now, try to teach yourself about life and personal development or at least listen to your parents when they tell you don’t do certain things. Tattoo is something we draw when we are young even in places that’s your spouse wouldn’t be proud of ,don’t fool yourself either saying you won’t get married cause that’s being naïve ,you may not want that but you want a love partner so tattoo is not a good idea ,no matter where it is ,it may cost you jobs and other business opportunities because other people value their surroundings. Unprotected sex with total stranger, maybe after some booze you feel like getting some be careful the abortions and babies left in people’s door and without parents is the outcome of people who make decisions out of certain mood don’t be one of them
3. Failure is not fatal and success is not the end
Giving up is normal outcome from failure or being tired ,but as this subtitle says failure is not dearth is just a small setback that is helping you to do correction as well as success doesn’t mean you can now settle down and enjoy the fruits . Both of this simply means be sad and learn and try again or be happy and unwind a bit and get back to it by setting up another target. The trick you can harm yourself with is having a windfall and taking it and spending it all before realizing that’s might force you to go back and look for the job ,while starting a business is not a must because you have found yourself in a positive financial position ,just keep living below your means and enjoy it for the long as it last. Giving up means never attacking your goal one more time and that’s not a way to do it ,just rest when you are tired and come back strong .Get all the motivation you might need because is all over the internet and the other motivation should be within you. As we speak I happen to be a great example right now ,it’s very cold where I am since its winter and I’m sitting in my computer writing for you and I don’t have any heater or air conditioning I just took a blanket and rap myself up
4.If you are angry wait 48hrs before responding to what’s made you angry
A person who hold a grudge and act on it after a week ,depending on what’s you did to him he didn’t have a week he was in hell you can’t hold on anger for so long unless you revive it every time you see that’s person who did you wrong. I’ve been done wrong several times and if I always try to get revenge on those, I might have had many enemies right now and because I love business I know one day I will make enemies that’s I know and be able to live with but for now I have saw we don’t want revenge we want to prove a point when other’s do us wrong. That’s mentality means we putted ourselves in a position to get scammed or insulted and we want to show others this behavior is not acceptable to us, so you hurt the other person. What if you let it go? You’ll say what people will say, I’m scared of him? The catch if you are not taking revenge for your own justice then doesn’t do it at all because people won’t give you the respond you want and you will be one in jail or anywhere this anger might lead you.
5. Look to the future or better make the most of the moment without regret
The first part may be me, every move I make is directed to the future I don’t know but all I know it will be way better than my present because of my present actions. You may be the YOLO slogan kind of person, so I won’t be a person who gives a absolute advice do something now that’s you won’t regret later ,meaning if having fun now is what’s you want go for it but don’t wish you did something else ,your only live once must not affect your tomorrow situations ,drink a rent money then tomorrow deal with a landlord . Stay online all the time instead of reading books and bypass the other people mistakes, then you’ll have to repeat the same shit and waste your life. The only thing life needs is balance you can enjoy now and future by drinking moderately, read on a schedules, gym and work this means be more disciplined than ever.
6. Value serious relationships you have and don’t be too eager to initiate new ones
Changing groups won’t work well on your mindset; you will be all over the place since many influences will hit you and your subconscious mind. Changing friends and partners may cause you to expect certain traits to people because of your past experiences, maintain the relationships you have after school and make them work and be worth a while. Forsaking a friend while still having common goal is not a sound move ,or having grudges within the family and not talk for years is bad because it’s the only sentiment relationship you have on earth ,it’s your bloodline and that’s will never change.
Be angry with them, if they hold you back keep the distance but don’t cut them off totally that’s will be making a permanent decision out of short term thing. And unmaintained relationships don’t show fruits so make sure you make use of your time with your loved ones.
I’m sure there is more that’s we find ourselves in and at the end of the day, find our dreams and vision dead at the end and even find ourselves lonely at times ,I hope the list above you can share to people you think they can find value. Please follow this blog and comment as well ,I would love to hear other people speak here thanks .LnM like our page on the left.