Mshizzi (4051) close it down with a steez putting it all to together for that’s repeat. We hope we will hear more of such tunes from proclaimed Kasi Rappers since we hear versatility on Swing trap beat. S/O to Dtox as one of the engineers giving us quality.
It’s going to be hard taking time looking at this but you might guess that’s I will talk about tax or whatever but you will be surprised because it seems so basic but most man, woman boy and girl experience it. I wish I was a statistic guy and a research individual but I’m not ,I use experience and facts that’s we all know or maybe dismissed but now is a great time to realize this before it’s too late.
Male and female sexual thinking in general sense
This is not addressed anywhere not in early schooling or middle schooling and unless it’s a concentrated cause universities don’t teach it. Apart from your own brain thinking about these things you might wonder why this is important to me.
Well here is an example a mind of a male thinks about lot of things during the day but once a woman comes across his face his mind get distracted a bit or throughout the day ,especially if a woman is wearing clothes that’s shows most of her sexy parts of the body.
In our today’s society the dress codes are not a matter of a subject but they should, another example how you dress your teenage girl is a different between her becoming a victim of rape or her equal age boys touching her or your daughter being seen otherwise and respected. It will be a great habit for a mom to teach a child not to revile her body and as in church they say your body is a temple of the lord.
We know that’s member’s of family your uncles aunts and older siblings touches little girls and boys and end up abusing the kids sexually but we don’t know how long they endure the temptations leading to those moments.
I’m not giving anyone a way out for me as a uncle I have a responsibility to control my mind and feelings or not recommended but a better option self help and get rid of a steam than hurt another girl or a child and turn to a monster.
The way woman dress in the beach ,well we all out there having a good time we shouldn’t make a big deal out of it right? Wrong, just tell me what do should men do? But for now self control and men love their partners enough not to consider the booty they saw.
There were a video couple of girls raping a guy, and it’s reached the right people and law took care of it. For man that’s was a horrible gangbang towards a woman but for a man this guy was stupid not to take advantage of that’s moment right? Again wrong this male asked for a protection on the video there was none ,and all the sexual transmitted disease after math was going to be his problem ,leave that’s not say his belief if he is a religious person physiologically he is going insane and can potentially kill himself if he doesn’t get help.
Back to men guys we are far from being saints but our sh*t is out there and maybe the law will get hard on us and its should but I want to talk to you in the individual sense ,the need to prove a point should not be an option to you especially if its mean beating your loved one. Here is another example if you are a grown up and you find yourself fighting with your mother having a serious conversation do you resort to beating her up? No, why not? Isn’t that’s you know how valuable your mother is to you ,she groomed you as a baby fed you and say now she’s a reason you lost your job but you still find a way to forgive her.
Your girlfriend is not your mother or your wife is not your bloodline but maybe you have kids together and its easy for me to say cause im not there yet, but since she is your mother of your kid’s would you put booze aside and think of the wellbeing of the children and the wellbeing of her and yourself after this is history after 10 years?
I know people here are not planning to do something bad, last week I beat a guy and I don’t carry any weapon he stole my t-shirts while it was on the line and I caught him by luck, the decision of hurting him came with some small consequences my hand had pains at night, I anticipated his move but he got scared and I built an enemy,there is no justification for what’s I did cause I would’ve reacted differently but human nature played it role.
My thinking went like this,at home there are only boys if someone does this take us for granted and treat us like girls ,I will teach him a lesson also realize if I don’t beat him since I caught him in the store the guys there won’t respect me at all and want to take chances with me so I was proving the point to everyone who was watching just don’t mess with me. Other than that’s I’m a nice guy.
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You may say people always talk about this one but I saw a post this week saying how to start a business while they meant how to register a company and look for funding. You see I find it’s hard to comments on such posts because the poster possibly don’t run any business and people who appreciate the free advice don’t consider that’s.
Now on the internet teaching people how to start a business is a business on itself and YouTube is that businessman revenue. I want to clarify my position here, I do have some kind of fundamental understanding of a business because I reach about it and I have things that’s pays me money every month but my advice might not work for you.
But I will share anyway the best way I have been doing it, first getting a job has been the most important part of my learning process and getting money to start whatever I want to start, but maybe you can find capital elsewhere but not all business needs capital from an idea you can make money, that’s is if you work hard and smart with your idea. Here was my idea to prove a point I had a second hand machine that’s someone gave me for free after helping him on building his blocks.
Then I had the idea, what’s if there are people out there that are needs blocks who already have a concrete floor and they want to save money and don’t buy bricks at the hardware and want to build them themselves. I putted out 50 cent each poster around my place which written I make blocks R1 each you buy material we build them for you and my phone number.
Then I was in business with a friend and he left since it was hard but we did get paid and if we didn’t stop we would have viable business now, I was already in R1,30 and making a nice profit and manage to hire one guy. This is even before I think of registering a business, no loan or funding just making it happen. You might have MBA degree in business and you have a better definition on how to start a business you can comment below, I’m just saying this subject is not taught well enough because people who teach want to lead people to conferences and make money out of them.
If you want me to make money why charge me the little I have instead of encouraging me to put it in my business? Be careful buying causes and products online, I might make them in the future but trusting me now will make it easy for you to count on me, if I do I will rather get paid from a business profit not you.
Power of the internet
This point supports the previous article check it out, internet is powerful yet very shinny and destructive don’t build your life around it but at least build your business or company around it. This means you get people to push what are needs to be pushed there and get back your life into a certain extent, do it as well but being too religious about it will cost you two most precious things time and money.
The branding side of things,I have realized what’s is branding ,branding is what’s people associate with your name or company here is an example to get you in the right path here is brand in a nutshell coca cola red and white ,smiling people and a 55ml bottle that’s branding seeing this all over its easy for me to associate with a cold drink. What are you doing online without the features explained above?
Your color your fonts and your message ,for an average consumer internet is a second home but let not be you have a life that’s is not based on what’s people said on face book ,twitter or anywhere build your own identity and brand yourself in real life and supply real products that’s you believe in and uses yourself.
Here is the recommended power of internet and there still you should not overindulge, that’s personal development articles like this and Google good information as well as YouTube how to videos and downloading books and go offline and read them less novels more biographies of successful people and personal development books and business books even if you won’t be in business philosophies will help your life.
Imposter syndrome and social proof
This one is not for general public is for you, if you have read so far thank you now here is the meaning of the subtitle, you will read the above things and conclude that’s you can’t do it and doubt yourself that’s imposter syndrome and you don’t want to have that’s disease cause you will never amount to anything if you do. You can change your life , you can control your feelings and anger ,you can take charge of what’s your girl or boy wears ,read ,eat and do while they are still under your supervision and you can stop a bad habit ,by not talking about it ,thinking about it or hanging around it or dismiss it while it’s in front of you.
Don’t copy especially things that’s you don’t understand why people do them, don’t follow the crowd and be your own man or woman and live your life differently all of that’s just a social proof, if most people do it be the exception and that’s way your whole life will. Value your time and other people’s time ,I know some people don’t like me because I hardly commit into anything ,if I do I ask for money if I’m free that’s my problem don’t add stuff and your silly dreams on me.
I love and respect people and I get wrong sometimes but trust me all of the above is worth it. In closing I want to tell you the painful experience I’ve been experiencing lately and its will pass , a girl I met on twitter showed interest and we talked for a while and we ended up dating and then all of the sudden she dropped me without a word ,I might have said things as well but she’s straight up rude right now and here is my lesson in this painful as it is ,for me is one of those experiences that’s makes me want to be so successful in life that’s I will wonder why this moment of might life was such a big deal anyway. I love and respect woman but that’s one I feel sorry for her.
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The thoughts you cultivate and the action’s you take with your time are most that’s matter(green links will lead you to related topics)
That’s all said than done, so I have to elaborate based on my lifestyle and people I have observed around the world the positive influencers and more. Success is different thing to different people like happiness we translate it differently but for this audience I want us to focus on success of having money being liquid and investing as well as ability to do what’s matter with your life and find meaning in it and maybe really enjoy it.
What’s you think about most of the time.
Other like me years ago we don’t consider what’s exactly consume our minds, but I can assure you what’s consume our minds are what’s we read, watch and listen to and most importantly what’s we do. So to position you to success with little effort is to change the above things that are goes to your awareness and mind.
Dtox the producer who taught me the most about music was the one I listen to most of my 20s, I visited his studio and hang out even if there was nothing I needed, id go and chill because he is a little bit older than me everything he said as a friend was true and I didn’t argue at all.
That’s way I positioned myself to be a great music producer but it was not that’s easy I was luckily to have avoided his not good habits and without knowing it I only took what’s matter and leaved the ones that’s didn’t make sense to me. You might not be so lucky and friends feed you everything that’s you don’t have time to surf.
The most effective way I might be forgetting as influencing your mind is what you say ,when you talk to people the beliefs you share shows what’s goes on in your mind and the more you say it the more you reinforce it to your life ,no matter if it good or bad
2. What’s actions you automatically take (Habits)
Thoughts are things and that’s cannot be far from the truth, but other thoughts are nothing until you act on them those are the like of ideas, wishes, hopes and desires all of this requires a will to act on it and manifest it. It’s always recommended you do things everyday to transform them to habits and do them without thinking. But if all you do is think and chill then nothing will matter.
My example is I started music out of passion but I ended up needing to push myself to make beats and write songs and then later I ended up doing this effortlessly ,now this writing is hard sometimes but I have to keep doing it so I will go through dip and plateau and come out the other habit side.
If you’re automatic action is smoking and drinking then you will be stuck on those bad habits. If you change roads to your direction every time, you will miss the chance to be in one position where success will find you mastering.
3. Your beliefs and usage of your income
There is a saying that’s says to see what’s other person value look at where he spends his time and money. For now let’s focus on money, today I learnt or have something reinforced to me that’s formula ISS (invest, Save and Spend) this is a way to position yourself for financial success.
Lot to consider about the above statement like saying you are investing while maybe you are gambling or saying this is worth your time while it’s just a hobby it won’t have returns necessary for you to be able to invest.
Choose one thing and stick to it as your investment, when times get hard look at it objectively not emotionally and see where the problem is and try again and again.
Losing money is part of a business so as making it ,but if you don’t have a business or investments losing money might means being careless with it or you like to spend more than saving and investing so success is not possible in that’s case you got to change.
4.The app’s you use
In this day and age the writings should go with times and we cannot avoid the fact that’s other people spend more time on app’s than anything they do in their lives. Whatsapp ,Face book ,Twitter ,Reedit ,LinkedIn ,Google ,YouTube ,Qoura ,Vlc & other media players , games , websites ,Word press, pdf books and many more.
For parents this can work well in your favor by controlling game usage in your house you can use it as a reward to your kids after they have done something positive within the day, that’s be reading a personal development book, watching a how to video and actually seeing your kid acting on an idea maybe that’s might mean no games at all just pure fun in work and talent.
There are apps that’s are really good for your productivity ,like the to-do list app and screen time recorder to keep tap of how many hours you are using on your phone.
There is nothing wrong with using a phone but for me and other people alike there should be positive returns as money or value added into our lives. You might say you are a trader and you use a trader app all the time but if you cannot separate it from your real life than there must be a problem.
Same as saying you are pushing on face book maybe your brand but you are busy destructed and find yourself engage in people’s posts that’s has nothing to do with why you are there.
5. Morning rituals
This message of morning tasks has come to me in different ways. Do your beds first thing every day so you will create habit out of it, take a bath too or read a chapter or so before getting out of bed of a biography or a good book. Wake up at the same time every day.
All this are good advices I also have found that’s having the tasks being planed the night before is more effective and your day has a 60%- 90% to being successful so I also write things I need to do maybe one thing in details and in the morning before my mind give me reason’s not to do the task I move so fast and get it done.
This might be hard for most people who over think things and that’s okay I have aspects of my life where taking things slow is better like the process of buying a big purchase like a house or a car or anything that’s require thousands of cash I try to show concern but yet not rush about it.
But when it comes to doing those tasks get them out of my way I move fast unless if I’m making a point to other party whoever it may be. I don’t give in to procrastination here is why you shouldn’t as well when a planning a task there are unforeseen consequences that’s may lead you to finishing the task the following day and if you already delayed the process of starting then this task will end up taking 3 days, where first day you busy wasting time thinking about it and second day starting it and be stopped because of a materiel shortage or anything and third day where you finish the job.
Today I learnt that’s what’s you start with you do well, this really made sense to me because look at today’s article it’s the first thing I did and I’m sure there is a lot of value in it. Now imagine I wrote this later in a day the results may have been not so good but you wouldn’t notice.
For this information to work in your life you need to find your own truth in it. Oppose all you like I’m not a super Google kind of person I have flaws as well I’m just sharing my realizations and what’s had work best for me and the lesson’s I have found worth sharing.
Be so smart that’s you read the BS in this article and dismiss it ,my goal is to have you hooked in our content that’s its changes your life to the point that’s you recommend us to some of your friends instead of trying to explain all of this to them. It’s better to lead a cow to drink water then holding it head with that’s said we are not cow’s we are people thanks for spending time with us.
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This was a wakeup call for most people, its was especially for me seeing businesses loses billions and million’s in a matter of weeks and months. Lockdown was necessary and this can be a conspiracy theory or whatever the fact remains this showed how your business or industry fragile is. I always try to make things simple and bring it back to an individual level and most people seem to not this concept, when I ask them so what this means is for you? Others will say people will lose jobs, and then I correct them and say I said you. But let expand what im is trying to say.
What’s does this means to your child?
We may agree that’s this will never happen again during our lifetime but this virus left clues and lesson’s your job as a parent is to read between the lines and encourage your kids to choose right industry as a career choice not just for viruses but also the technological advancement and the real things that’s will always have intrinsic value like agriculture, Shelter, Health, finance to mention the few. These industries are linked with other industries where should you suggest your kid go not saying your decision will be final but if you are paying the fees you can have a great influence and for a good cause
2. What’s was your wakeup call
This point is to remind you that’s you thought as a solution during our numbing boring lockdown is still is, don’t give up on it. Breakthroughs come in the times of hardship if you were not busy hooked on social media you had enough me time to do introspection. Again what’s does this means to you? Does it means you still going to recommend teaching to your minellium kid who is still at high school as a viable career while technology is coming so hard on that’s industry? Or send him to do something that’s will always be relevant to human survival. We know about passion’s and hobbies you may not afford to send a kid to college or he may want to do something totally unnecessary or that’s doesn’t have intrinsic value like music or sport this will only work depending on the type of parent you are. Forcing a kid to do something that’s she is not passionate about may be a huge misstep me for example I always loved music and by now I’m good at it but parental advices and working 9-5 really delayed my progress I haven’t gave up because I already have some accomplishments and I’m about to go hard and realize my dream. So the realization that’s music might not matter at some point in my life made me want to invest everything I have once and for all right now ,I’m not going to be a musician for the rest of my life but I am planning to start a business at some point. So check your wakeup call and don’t take it for granted
3. If you can be removed in your position at work would it matter?
We take jobs for monetary purposes and for a while that’s works fine but it’s shouldn’t be a norm .being worried about is it this’s I came to do in this world is a big question you should ask yourself now and again. Secondly if a robot were to be putted in my place where would I go? The trap we get ourselves into we start working with needs and we manage to cover them but then all of a sudden you create wants also known as luxuries and when you have those you cannot move forward in life .Now if you lose your source of income then fake life you have created suffer. No does what’s you do matter? Are you hard to replace? Do you have qualities most people don’t have because that’s what will make what you do valuable if you and your taste into it no matter how lame what’s you do. But still consider looking at the industries we mentioned above
4. Your industry may be your skill.
Other people have number of skills; the problem with this is you have to use these skills to make money meaning work. Here we will suggests you looking to industries that’s will free your time or the ones you are passionate about and end up not feeling like work. As we speak I never consider writing this blogs work that’s why im in bed now writing and I will always do this throughout my life. I cannot say I love writing but sharing value is what’s I love and building audience on like. One thing you should take on today’s topic is that’s you need balance in life ,between what’s you can endure and what’s you can’t but if you feel deep down you don’t love or really not enjoy your life because of your job you might consider having a exit plan. I know there will be other factors like providing your family and the pressure they will put on you. That’s where you should stand your ground and get yourself out of rat race
5. Is your industry crowded and have result ceiling?
You are a you tuber, blogger or building audiences on social media and building pages or you on twitter you promote cause you are an influence. The challenge with social media its easy to see the shine and juice others post and miss the work behind,I heard a guy said there is a lady with 30k followers and she charges R1500 to promote your product ,but since he ended up not interested she followed and ask for a collabo since this guy brand was pushing as well. You see the strategy is good but there is uncertainty involved and this lady had to come back, there is ceiling if you only big in one space not to mention if the brand you pushing don’t make sales out of your audience. The pages on face book may mean well but you may not know how to balance your time in this places you can miss where you are strong. The data you use and all the clothing and pics and quality content you put up cost money you not alone options are there so how can you differentiate yourself or this platform will keep striving because of wanna bees.
When you start a business or work you have big hopes and plans , you don’t start a corner shop with a aim to remain there or work without climbing a ladder. But if there are many corner shops already the competition will be tight so you may need to outwork ,outsmart and take more risks to reach your initial vision. Same at work you need to prove yourself that’s you deserve the position more but if everyone already have required qualification then you might need to be more than a qualified person. There are no much of empty industries but there are those important that’s people don’t pay attention to so that’s where I encourage for you to look and research.
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Today’s article is inspired by my own procrastination ,its Friday today and my post is late by 3hrs .There is no excuses for not delivering in time it’s all based on the lack of myself discipline ,because I’m going through this right now I can easily see the challenges causing it.
Laziness and excuse artists
Hard important things are not easy to do, the easy things to do you do them without thinking and the things that’s you have habit of doing comes easy. But new one’s like writing this blogs earlier on its easy and exciting but as I keep going enthusiasm get low and the only thing that’s can keep me of float is myself discipline.
Being lazy is common drag and waste time doing shinny things or things that’s won’t have any results. I have had time today to be in a place of physical work and its easy to see things that’s will make a huge impact there but one guy was busy cutting corners in a serious job you need to discipline yourself to avoid doing too much housekeeping and less productive work cause your supervisor will notice you and make sure you are the 1st to go when times are hard.
Excuses are the killer of self discipline that’s why they are negatively affective, if you don’t do something important and have a reason why you don’t do it then you are safe. But in reality you will be legging behind and excuses never shows up when it’s time to show some productivity and time keeps spinning.
So what’s you need to do every time you find a reason to do something, just do it or do nothing and see what’s will happen. Here is an example you have a task that’s you need to do and you are craving TV series rather than choosing the latter ,decide to do nothing if you get bored do the important task then after that’s it will open the window after you have finished it to actually enjoy the series.
2. Its require endurance and a goodwill
Watching a TV series produced by 50 cent called For Life, the starring shows a serious courage from being a convict to becoming a lawyer since he was arrested for the thing he didn’t do. He endured and disciplined himself to read hard law books and started appealing to court and helping other inmates like him ,while he is trying to get the files of his own case and people behind this scandal haven’t give up and they suppress all his efforts but he doesn’t give up.
That’s discipline on steroids maybe there are no consequences of not doing what you supposes to do but trust me there are always those underneath but maybe it’s not like the above story where all odds seems to be against you.
Life on its own is hard add something that’s you suppose to do everyday then its way harder. Employers have to constantly motivate their workers to love and see value in their work and after few year add a little drip but worker still finds reason’s to strike and do all sorts of inefficiency they can get its end up being a habit that’s people needs pep talk and the problem starts when a person try to start his or her own business and have to motivate himself and his worker’s.
So self discipline is hard but the reason for that’s is we don’t know that there is such thing, our why’s are lame the strong one’s are through nature like having a kid now imagine hustling for your child and focusing on bettering his life and end up forgetting about yours and not knowing how your child will turn out is a real mystery that’s why the discipline should come from within and your north star be your better self.
3. Its needs giving up the good stuff
Delaying gratification is a normal thing for people who are successful and those who are going to be .It’s hard to not eat your favorite food so you can stay on shape, it’s hard to save more than 10% so you can achieve your financial goals earlier, it’s hard to maintain the relationship schedule to make your love life work on your busy life but that’s what’s you need to do to get all of the above right.
Person who is going to make it in what’s ever he or she is doing avoids distractions, also avoids shinny things and trends and most importantly don’t try to impress other people they know what’s their doing is more important to their lives than a friend opinion.
Showing up is what’s its takes to start going in a right direction, the physical work I’m talking about since I work for myself I have a tendency of showing up whenever I like but I do what’s I can when I get there, I can try to do more and wake up early but I believe in effectiveness and lie to myself that’s I’m using the 80/20 rule. I know I can come early and leave late and fool around all the time or just come at 10 and work hard for 3 hours then leave until I reach my target.
4. No one or few people practice it.
Worker’s constantly come late at work be different, at church no one likes to start a song be different, in class no one likes to give the teacher the answer be different, no one wants to play midfielder take that’s position and master it. In most cases you can be the opposite of what’s most people are doing and do what’s they hate and win in life that’s all it takes.
Don’t be scared of other people actually build a system for yourself to not be scared of people ,my uncle is better at this I know him he was a cop and people became his friends. He’s famous and can get along with anyone his discipline to master that’s skill and ability to make a small talk has became handy in his own life, he was an investigator and people were open to him a shared what’s they knew, maybe you may argue that’s he learnt this at police academy but I may respond the discipline to apply those tools is what’s important.
I learn the people’s skill by practicing it and once I move away from people for the long period of time I found myself beginning to be an introvert which is not a good trait for person who is ambitious like me.
5. The audience put some pressure
I will start by saying show people you’re positive traits as soon as you can, you hard working ethics and more. Show that’s side of you so it won’t be like you are changing all of the sudden, or you will have spectator’s that’s won’t do you any good.
The remarks and gossips and who said what’s about you ,why you are working so hard and so on try to be in a space where this is not too much. You need it to guide you but if it all you get then you are bound to be stopped in your tracks. People you need are those who are engaged like you in something this are winner’s .ever since I started something most business people has gave me courage and great influence and positivity.
One said you charging too low ,other said I see you one day having a million rand and that’s really caught me off guard but it’s meant a lot and I’m positive I will get there and I’m working towards it so hard and the understanding I have is there are conventional ways of doing things and there are really business savvy ways all hard work but require self discipline.
Thanks for catching up with us, LnM we are nothing without you keep grooming yourself and win. I don’t consider myself a motivation talker or something like that’s .i am a practical person and sometimes when I give an advice people don’t take it because its requires self discipline like the other day my little brother who stays with my father said he wants’ 4k so he can trade but he don’t have it.
I told him to save and skip his birthday celebration this year and on December forget about new clothes because all this require discipline he came back and suggested what’s if he sells his laptop?
I figure I don’t have to answer that it’s what’s app and nothing he can see anyway. So if you ask a person an advice be sure you really needs it and respect that person enough to argue and tell why this advice won’t work for you than going to look for another crazy plan and present it to him/ her. If you knew what’s you were going to do why bother other people?
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We are living in a noisy era and I can add it’s been like this for many centuries before this one but we can all agree that’s its getting worse. It’s important to get back to the surface and accepts times of boredom, it may seems like Lockdown was the worst thing that’s has happened in our lifetime but I assure you it’s the best thing, you can start looking at your life objectively.
If things are going smooth during times like this its means you on a right path but if you are hit a bit than that a wakeup call. From financial standpoint its clearly means diversifying your investment might be a smart move. Personally you can start practice things like meditations and gym and really incorporate those on your life. Learn mantra’s and all, this are tools to deal with boredom at a highest level and really pay attention to your thoughts.
void is a test of how much your skull thick is
What’s your life manstra? we all need one of those
You see this is not a public information, no one suggests this in their writings and YouTube videos. It’s all grind and hard work now, that’s ok and but I suggests you get in a zone to be at that’s work mode state so you can switch from your work life, home life and your own physic personal life that’s is at individual level. The phone might be the 1st thing you might need to control and really cut it usage during this time.
I have eliminated the noise on my phone and I constantly find myself bored every moment and then something amazing happen I only think the thoughts that will propel me forward in life. That’s might not happen to you because the content you consume with your busy time and people you hang with don’t put any good information to your mind , you might want to change that’s as well so you will have good ideas and breakthrough during this boredom time.
Having pen and paper always in your disposal can be really be helpful , and don’t think sleeping put you in a mode of doing nothing that’s not true ,your body and mind is always busy and create dreams and nightmare at night mess with your heartbeat a bit.
You will see you have a negative habits when you are bored
I experienced this, if you have extra cash at hand you hurt yourself with it, but if you have a strong will power and discipline you are able to choose apples over hot dog to buy and eat that’s moment. Same to boredom, access to porn or movies and internet entertainment can lead you to want to spend your time doing those things in your free time you set to do nothing. I suggest you fight this urges that’s drives you to want to relax this way. I repeat hit pushups and go hard and couple of sets, play a self-improvement audiobook while you are doing that’s. To those who smokes I know you guys always have something to pass time and that’s not nothing , don’t roll that’s blunt even a snap is way better to your doing nothing time but make sure it doesn’t fall to lazy time. If you have something to do during your nothing time and its urgent please do it and make up for that’s loss time. Hanging out with gents or ladies and talking might seems good at the moment but it will mess with all your growth and beliefs.
Something fascinate me, I have a friend we used to be close really close but since I evolve and grow from every aspect of my life, he no longer want to hang with me the pressure I put on him is too much and I understand and that became a blessing in disguise because instead of going to hang with him I listen to audio book or be busy in my music studio work. Now I have learned to mix my songs because that’s used to be his work but since he no longer want to see me then I keep my distance.
Other friend of mine bought dogs and now I’m scared of dog’s .I don’t like them but it’s nothing personal so I can’t visit that’s friend as well and others are far from where I live so ,now I’m responsible for the company coming into my life because I’m no longer going anywhere. I want you reading to pay attention to all of those who you try to squeeze yourself in their lives, is it worth it. Obviously friendship is nice and important, but now since there is a new distance you can also distance yourself emotionally, sometimes we help our friends because we know their daily routine but now since there is this gab when he/ she needs help its won’t be coming from a friend stand point, that’s might be a way for that’s person to use you on something that’s no longer exist.
You can be able to be proactive rather than reactive
If you can learn this skill alone to accept boredom, you can stop reacting to other peoples reasons for you to get out, you can plan things ahead and really take charge of most of your actions. And this time can open a window for you to re-access what’s really working and where your efforts is spent.
I started writing this blogs , while I had a nice job where I stay inside my work place and go at home only in weekends ,finish work at 16:00 every day ,I’ll hit a gym ,cook ,bath and write then when I sleep I put an interesting TV series that’s will help me fall asleep. Now I’m no longer at that’s job, I’m home now and my life is back and I can do everything I want with my time but it’s would be a big mistake giving up on this project . I’m proactive about it, with that’s said no matter where your life takes you, have this nothing time installed in you, walk around and get your mind thinking.
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As human being we were not made to do nothing, so this time you will have your mind fighting you to do something. And this is the purpose of this moment to figure out what’s to do with your time. Last week while we still at Lockdown I found myself bored and don’t know what’s to do ,but I am a person of principles lot of things comes up as a good action like visiting a friend but I make myself a oath never go to someone not knowing what’s you going to do to him.
Why I wrote this controversial topic
From a workaholic view or burn outs that’s might be a thing but people who are moving at that’s pace has a great work ethic and I recommend it. Reading and writing is working too so to all people who like to work physically, move to other skills like listening and really pay attention and connects all the necessary dots to things you listening to .If your girlfriend or spouse talk, be able to process in their tone what’s important and what’s not, Back to the topic, the reason I wrote this I saw a guy I look up too really get frustrated when pandemic began and everything around it.
Since he had to stop working and all the systems he is involved in gat hited a bit now seeing him trying to convince authority to open the doors of work, made me realize there is never one dope strategy to live life and workaholic is really not one of them, that’s why smart should come through and really get away from things that’s seems to make up your life.
At home they call me, the moment I leave home for 2 days and that’s ok but at some point they should see me leaving and really get disconnected a bit intentionally, why? Because circumstances can do this as well, so why we are not practicing as people? They why we take so much hit when a family member passes, we don’t anticipate this moments. Family is important but balance is really recommended, I love my mother and father but the fact that’s I don’t live with them is a real relief the pain is not the same.
So you can count your blessings during that’s time
Social media has become our diaries, but this things disappear and they are now trying to monitor our memories and that’s good but even if you find yourself having amnesia those memories won’t resonate with you. Memories worth remembering you will always remember so, I suggest you don’t take social media’s features seriously and embed them too much in your life.
Have offline tools instead, if you download an offline calendar even if the company who made it, closes you will remain having it. Back to the subtitle Blessings, do you make time to be thankful for things you have achieved? If you too busy you cannot do that’s and moving forward you can’t keep up because you won’t have a north star, you just drifting through life.
Gratitude and be conscious of things that’s are going well in your life, can be a cool realization. I always heard that’s successful rich people hit a gym and trying that’s has showed me wonders, I once hit a gym and felt so fresh and I saw that’s right now I’m really healthy. I can add don’t overdo things, that’s their impact can be undercut by other life challenges. Hitting 2hrs of gym and 0 on your finances is not a smart way to spend your do nothing time.
Stop thinking and start strategizing, I thought strategy was a critical thing a person can do but all it is, is plan of action now thinking is important because you going to think though the strategy .Bu saying I’m thinking of buying a car, is far from saying on December I’m buying a car because I’m saving R4000 a month and my Bonus is so much if I put it, I can get the car I’m aiming for. Now that’s strategy my brothers and sisters.
Once again thank you for hanging with us, this might be a great spot for you on your free time, have something to focus on for few minutes and have your life transformed. Follow us on all social Medias as ULwaz No Makhula, we are LnM in short it’s a new era don’t be excited working physical hard work, put the work in your mind and let your body enjoy life. Have your spirit connect with people and really made the most of the time you spend in this world.
Welcome to LnM and don’t be offended by the title of today’s topic, but I realized when starting writing this blogs that’s there was nothing special about writing. You just have to pay attention to other people’s format and repeat with different message or same message putted differently from your own experience.
Today I will touch on writing a song and anything you might want to write. My understanding there are few reason to writing like talking is to get a feedback or a messages across ,you can use it as a form of mediation as a reminder and lastly to teach someone or many people at once following certain system.
You are not an amateur if you have something to say
Platforms like social media makes people write for terrible agenda’s but if you are reading this I want you to shift your mind. Think of something valuable you can write about that’s unique to you that’s you think people can benefits from.
That’s it’s all its takes see for me I once reply on twitter on Microsoft post where they want to revolutionize the journalism industry and they wanted people views , I replied and because there is no spelling corrector there I sent the messages but it’s had a lot of grammar so that’s me admitting to the fact that’s there is terrible writing .But I saw tons of like because others understood what’s I was trying to say and only blame the grammar which lead me to putting in browser spelling corrector and that’s when my handicap disappeared ,Microsoft word had me lazy to master spelling but either way I leverage it and avoid unnecessary work.
don’t be destructed
2. You need to know how to think deeply /connect the dots from the main subject to pieces
English is not my mother’s tong but it doesn’t matter its mine now, what’s important is that’s when you write you don’t deviate too much from the reason why you pick up your fingers and type on the first place.
And know if you have a format you have created for yourself like saying like me ,I don’t write below 5 points so whatever I’m talking about I should think even points that’s doesn’t exists to hit my target lollI’m kidding but you get the point.
I could write one script for 3 days because points may be missing at the moment I started so when I get back at it the next day I’m fresh , I keep going. Pay attention to all your material and reread your subtitles to not repeat the same things in different ways ,this apply to artists as well using same unique words on your lyrics or lines makes you seem lazy and not appreciated by your fans. As much as I always suggest writing from a stand point of writing for yourself realize you shouldn’t fool you. As people we want something fresh and new every time.
3. Tackle real issues
By this point you are a writer and for you to be recognized as a better amateur you need to come through at an issue and break it apart and put your powerful two sense. Meaning don’t hurry talking and using information other people already said about the subject , let it cool off and start to do your due diligence as a writer.
I will refer again to corona virus the songs was coming left and write from artists talking about this in its early stages, I waited and manage to do a three verse song with most of what’s has happened and my take about it. You see when you do that’s by then you have all the facts like Mr.
Warren Buffet say’s I don’t care what’s the stock market is doing for as long as I know the facts. So don’t try to pick up the trends writers are original and so should you .What’s has worked for me the most is to write more from my experiences than through research why is that’s because its seems practical for my readers.
Writers put their thought into papers then average people put all their thought in to action even if it’s harmful one. Wealthy people write a lot, I wouldn’t imagine myself spending a day without jotting anything down my point here just know to be great in life you should write.
Be your goals ,Budget and so on its associated with writing and most importantly write reminders of things you must do and things you already done and keep a head space in your head. I putted wealthy people so you can be encouraged to do it. Please don’t take the writing practice and rally people with it or thinks if people write something different from you they are not writer’s or they’re bad ones. I don’t consider myself a great thinker but the thought and ideas I get from reading other peoples work is amazing.
I hate the fact that’s math’s comes hard to me but words don’t so to become great at something also consider your weaknesses ,maybe you should be a statistician or a logical thinker and really crush people’s emotional weaknesses when they take decisions without contacting the head 1st. So on that’s case you love math simplify it for people like us and make it attractive and I’m sure I can read that’s.
Learning is now so easy , to the point that ignorant is stupid
5. Only do outlines if you are writing a huge content like a book or more than 5 pages
Other writer’s may disagree and that’s ok , but my goal here is to make a amateur love to write so once I get too technical I will lose that’s guy or girl. Don’t draw your points for a side points you just wrote unless it’s part of research. But it’s your own dreams and horror’s you experienced just follow your memory and tell us what’s happened.
As of writing this how to write for beginners, I have no other person’s opinion because I cannot confirm that’s and I have no outline either all I do is I write about the things I know. I stare at my title and see value I can give out of it.
There are steps like editing and proof reading in a writing process , for now I’m asking you to do it yourself or do things once and lets the world figure .right now I’m writing from that’s stand point all I know if you squeeze my work hard enough you will find the juice.
6. Why anyone should practice writing?
For legacy purposes, for meditation purposes when you write you get lost and really focus so I want that’s experience for you. Reading is the same thing and way better because through reading you get to have a sense of knowing new thing and your horizon get broaden.
And to be honest with you if I didn’t read the books, I would’ve not written anything in my life. Tweets and posts is not writing and the reasons behind that’s writing is wrong. No one entertain meaningful things there so you always get discouraged. Not hating on this platforms but when you write, write and when you play, play. A bonus what’s writing will do to you, you will stop wanting to write on social media its will seem lame and not life altering.
Sitting here listening to the game song, the way this guy understands his surroundings and background you better believe he is taking responsibility of his life, he’s from Campton and that’s a rough neighborhood and in his song his making its clear that’s he will do everything to protect his one life, he can kill to protect his family and himself cause he knows he has one life. Maybe your situation is different but there’s no better time to remind one another that’s we have one life and I want to contradict the saying we YOLO , this article is not about that’s but bear with me ,thanks for coming back ,if it’s your first time we call this series of articles LnM ,they’re inspired by a music group called ULwaz No Makhula so check them out ,it was meant to talk about music related topics only but we realized many people were reading and artists were living wild ,so we needed something to get everyone on perspective and take life seriously.
1. Ask yourself why you are really in this world.
You may already figure out that’s ,you are a musician or whatever you are passionate about but still feel empty after the song is done ,maybe you have another calling have you ever consider that’s? Maybe you already have a stable job that’s really support your family but was what’s that’s you were made for? Maybe you are doing something that’s seems to be changing people’s lives but are the reasons behind your deeds honest? I will be honest with you I wish to see this blog pay me someday and that’s ethically right from a moral stand point and maybe you in a position of power to donate to me to help me focus and improve this website but I hope I can help myself before you do because I want to take charge.
2. What’s stopping you?
See as of today I was talking to my mother about relationships stuff and being open about it, will help me when the time come for me to leave its won’t be a struggle. My point is things that’s may be stopping you in your tracks you don’t know how to create anticipation for anyone who has influence in your life ,so talk some of your wishes and dreams so when they come true ,they won’t be took by surprise or they will try to stop you. So what’s stopping you to do certain things that’s you know will change the trajectory of your life? It may be your thoughts and belief about the thing you want to do, so awareness is important if it does cross your mind pay attention to that’s negative reasoning, like for example thinking investing is hard or people are like this or there is someone running a system you cannot be rich, most of those thoughts are not real so do your research you will see most people has done it so don’t let your mick play tricks on you.
Motivation cannot be linked with real success , but actionable steps in a motivation can.
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The most respected philosophical thinker of all times call sacroties was qoutes saying : the real wisdom is knowing that’s I know nothing So what’s about you , when you talk to people what’s do you talk about? Are you type of person who have all the answers and disagree to others or on the … Continue reading Why average people thinks they know everything?→
As I grow I have learnt to respect elders more than I use to when I was a kid, its either we talk as adults or someone between us is acting childish. I learnt on a book called millionaire fast lane that’s taking a responsibility and not doing a follow up of fixing what’s you said to ,you were really not responsible , being responsible comes with accountability to avoid repeating that’s deed. So If you lost your phone last week and this week you put your phone in a table in a bar while sipping alcohol, you are still on your old ways. Be responsible for good things that’s happens around you as well as bad ones and fix them, See am guilty lately not practicing what’s I preach and if I don’t wake up and keep it real I won’t be reliable to myself, my eating is terrible and it’s going to reflect in my body, I can say it’s my home or anything but it’s mostly me.
4. Take charge of everything that’s you allow your mind it make you do
What’s is happening in our outside world is reflection of what’s is happening in our minds, you may not be aware but there is something called subconscious mind and its does most of the hard work to manifest things you always think about. Because you not deliberate in your thought , you ask for a job even in your praying cause you not clear of what’s exactly you want to do ,you end up doing miserable job ,which has even has a little salary. Day dream at least that’s way better than wishing, because when you wish you don’t calculate how you going to get there, day dreaming at least has images of your aspirations.
Fights your mind when its ask you to do bad things, that’s will harm your health or wellbeing and so on. You may not will all this fights but at least the progress will be there. Stay with people who will inject positive and actionable thoughts not wishers but people with some progress in their lives. Guard what’s goes to your mind and dismiss things that’s don’t align with your new beliefs. Now it’s a Lockdown that’s is happening for the first time in our life time this situation is forcing me to stay at home with my family ,liking it or not and it’s good to a certain extent but our mindset clash everyday but they see I’m trying to better myself so they let it slide ,with that’s said be a force to be reckon with and have your mind solid strong ,sure working on mine to me stronger and be able to deal with itself cause right now lot of battles I’m failing to win but as John Maxwell say I will fail forward. I have one habit that’s I once tried to fight and people gurus spread a myth that’s says in 21 days you can kill your habit or create a new one ,I dismally failed to get rid of something because after those days I started over so my new strategy is being quitting things and trying to not do them totally , because that’s the goal anyway.
5. Don’t fear being different in a good way
If you understand your new philosophy and what’s it can do for you, why don’t you stick to it? Backlash is a sure thing but embrace that’s difference .Dave Ramsey usually say normal is bad, be abnormal to win in life. The good thing is people are normally scared to confront a different person about his/her behavior’s that’s why I always get away with mines and if you give a shot the advices I share life will begin to be easy. What’s I have realized is people know people who is going to be successful in life but still they find it hard to associate themselves with. It was a compliment what’s my mother said about the way I am. So I have a tendency to just talk and without much of a substance of my deepbelieves, so I tell my mom friend that’s I’m going to be rich and that’s what’s I want and my mom said I am going to be, because people who become rich don’t look after themselves much like you earlier on and they wear rags and so on because they simply priorities money. She was about right but she cannot tell my siblings to replicate what’sI’m doing because it’s just me and my mindset and difference that’s I embrace.
Thanks for reading , I may have brag a bit but I cannot get my point across without me being an example and of cause my weaknesses are important so you can hold me accountable if I don’t improve as well .I’m bound to improve cause we holding each other accountable. I want to make an oath of keeping this blog alive for as long I live because its could be helpful to other generations Thank you.
Writing this articles is getting easier by the day. Once I open my word document I don’t close it without something of value for you to learn.Today’s topic is who you do it for? And the question I found on face book from a poet complaining that’s people don’t take his masterpieces seriously they don’t see the substance of his poems. I want to broaden this question to a bigger scale of everyday people. To parents we know then length we could go to take care and protect our kids and at the end of the day we lose objectivity of our actions and instead sacrifice all our lives for a cause that’s doesn’t show any result. I want to talk to musicians as well we no different from poets and the comment I agreed to about this topic do what’s ever you do for yourself 1st then the next person
We all know this one and it’s a pity I lost my kid before he was born, but I can tell you I was already protective of him. So what’s I would’ve done to prevent this from happening? nothing would be a wrong answer ,its what’s in doing now for the future that’s is ahead of me that’s will determine how birth of that’s kid will turns out along with the mother and of Couse health issues and anything above our power. But our lives shouldn’t be driven by this important things and lose ourselves in the process. We are the primary goals in life and anything we do should follow that’s sequence and if you are a kid reading this as soon as your eyes open see how you can better yourself ,because your mother and father are already old and they did all they could with you. If you constantly do things you don’t like just to impress your parents you will miss your mark in life and regrets not trying things that’s you really believed in. Always give your parents advice a thought and then picture the life that’s you want if its not in accordance politely decline but if your parents are your role model and they had done well for their lives do yourself a favor and take their advice and the comfort of support that’s will come with it.
Who you doing it for?
2. Fans and believers
I don’t know how fans ,have our best interest in their hearts but all I know is people I follow are already successful and if I can be successful as well then their mission would’ve come true. And the ultimate goal will meeting them one day and really explain to them what’s helped me to everything they teach and how people should receive the content cause I was once on the other side. I want to be successful for myself 1st then impress my mentors meaning all my guiding lights are the right ones. But as the follower of their content I cannot tell them what’s I need them to teach me because they know how syllabus go. Now artists and other creative makes a mistake of asking fans and believers what type of song they should release. Look when you started what’s you do you didn’t ask anyone and again after you had some supporters you didn’t try to quite because you saw that’s this works, why ask them now while you are already on the lead.
Let’s take a church example people come to church and agree to that’s belief, butwhat’s I see to some churches keep on trying to change and make people accept god over and over.
3. For the good of all
Some of us have ambitious missions in life and I have found mine recently. Others do it for human kind and other for a cause. While all this is good lot of things can side track you and you message get lost in translation ,it will be better though if most people have this but nature didn’t build us like that’s and even in ancient history people were divided to categories and enjoys life differently and that’s still the thing. All I can suggest here have this cause if it can fulfill something that’s you angry about in a society or maybe overly passionate about. If for not this reasons once a third party come in to play on catastrophic event interfere you will give up , while if you have some sort of a drive you will overcome all the temptations and adversities.
Mr. Nelson Mandela former SA president is famous for not intervening to other countries politics, and that’s why he became a global icon he kept his views to himself and was not swayed by political analysts and reports. With that’s said you can see something that’s is meant to pull you out of your tracks and avoid it cause whatever you are doing is bigger than you even your ego should be kept silence.
People you follow on social media , makes the avarage of the people you spend you time with everyday.
You may be stuck in a life project that’s has no meaning. What’s define you? As a person, is it your spouse, your job or the things you have? Depending on the kind of live you want to live highly successful people they can’t even explain their job description.A person who practice law and have a real estate business can’t be a lawyer or both .So don’t try to be one thing in your life time at the same time don’t try to be everything .When dearth come people who are alive will forget the monthly plastic you use to provide every month if its stop coming. So playing a long game is important something that’s will outlive you. It’s may seems like I’m out of the subtitle but pay attention, I’m saying become duplicable and don’t be intrinsic on one thing. Here what’s I am supposed to do ,go to work and pay the bills and better my life by reading books ,start businesses and write this blog and do music and on and on. So my other answer you already know what’s you suppose to do , get a job or you already working spend time with your family like switch off the TV. Meetings shouldn’t happen when there are problems at home and gathering shouldn’t be funerals you the reader get your whole family together it’s your duty or save for it if you feel it’s going to cost. You know ideas about what’s should be happening in our lives sometimes manifests well when there is money so make it a priority that’s you try to get more than enough so you will be able to be a good influence in your life time , I’m also on that’s journey.
If you could sleep well for the rest of your life doing, what’s you are doing would you take another thing that’s pays you well but more stressful? It’s depends, there are people who loves challenges in life and there are those who wants comfort. You can love both as well but life is more interesting if you immense on something and money needs responsibility and you not 100% comfortable if you need needs to balance checks and bank account .what’s tends to happen people spend all their money and start over every month. Personally I don’t like that’s strategy but people who are working in my culture say’s working body should be spoiled. And my answer to that’s I respond within is that’s, seeing work as a hard thing that’s after it you need to be spoilt is a first challenge. Secondly what’s if I gave those people money without working what’s could they do with it?
Having a piece of mind is also having a good mindset, I don’t want to lie it’s sometimes hard dealing with people who are different than you every day because they’re your neighbors, family members and maybe employees .You rarely see eye to eye even if you have a point .I’m not saying argue with them but spend less time with them so you will have your own piece of mind. So I have decided to put a bit of my life in this articles, today my uncle came back from clinic with my mother and I respect him so much. So there was a guys there with them and they called me and they ask this guy, is a serious mature handsome guy wears R20 sandals like this? I don’t know how to defend myself in situations like this but I’m in a mission and it’s a lockdown I really don’t have anyone to impress I’m just home minding my business and I view money different than them and they know it. This tends to make me happy because not having people paying attention to me for no reason rather than wearing expensive cloths is good. Cause that’s how envy starts and people begging to ask you for stuff , be careful this is LnM and thanks for reading I hope you took something out of today’s topic.