The first title of today’s topic was why you should have a bigger cause in life, but that’s might not get the point right. Mind is the only driving factor in your life and if you can pay attention to it, you can manipulate it to your own ways, rather than allowing emotions dictates your decisions. Now without waste of time I will explain in point form ,but before I start make sure you follow this blog so you won’t miss any information that’s might impact you positively.
Learn to connect the dots with your mind by looking and listening
I have discover a skill of making sense of many things from watching a TV series ,or reading a book and so on ,and I can only do this with my mind . Maybe you have done this before without knowing its valuable human skill so I will make you an example.
If you watch a Tyler Perry movie and a woman have an affair and break a heart of a honest husband, and later on the story shows the wife being sexually abused by her father. But Tyler doesn’t explain that’s the wife has more sexually eagerness than his husband and doesn’t show much the affect of working long hours and don’t give your partner enough attention and lastly for a wife to not open up to his husband in every aspect of their relationship then as I’m watching I get all those lessons .
If you don’t pay attention and can’t connect the dots, you will miss the point of a important lesson in your life.
Listen, Look and try to remember things when you are in a situation. Personally I have made missteps in life and still do even today .But fighting with my mind and trying to do the right thing all the time is not easy but to be a great and a good person you need to overcome the bad thoughts.
See as males some of us find ourselves in rock bottom and in that’s state we can make the most terrible things if we don’t learn to be mindful of our minds for example seeing a little girl and think you can take advantage of her, the uncles at home who has hard life and smoke and all this stuff, they need purpose in life and need help because once they become stuck they are potential problems in a society.
The aunts that’s you can find being soliloquy have a negative potential of destroying peoples marriages they are not crazy but the society is sidelining them and they are lost in their minds as well no one seems to care but if we can as a community try to revive one another spirits and constantly motivate one another we can solve the cases we hear on TV and radio.
Teach your mind that’s working is part of life
Never for a minute think life is worth it without working, even bosses work and much harder than their employees. So if you are a fan of or blog know we are working every time we release a new piece.
The only correction we can make in the concept of working, working is not only hard labor ,but most important side of working is working through using your mind ,it can be calculation ,strategizing ,write ,read and publish ,plan and hold effective meetings , negotiate and so on that’s really work and from all this you can see this is all mind work.
But picking heavy stuff and doing hard repetitive work is also fine but don’t be stuck in that’s while working, in order for you to not be complacent you should work towards something big or what you are passionate about.You cannot escape working, because having a dull day is also work and personally I happen to have those days because I can push so much as well, then sit back and reflect. The decisions you make are part of work and not taking decision is work you don’t want to do.
Feed your mind
This is no brainer if you’ve been here before , you know we are advocate of learning and reading books , I found myself loving to learn more than average person and its has became a habit to me. Then one day I watched a video on my favorite channel on YouTube called success TV, they said if you are passionate about learning you will never succeed, because you are learning for entertainment rather than learn to apply things in your life or business.
Chances are I don’t even have a business and now I have became a motivational speaker because of my learning without any track of success. The point is learn to grow and apply lesson’s in your life try to be a different person every year, personally I have learnt and unlearnt things that’s were not working for me. So it’s also important to pick and choose don’t live your life by the book make your own choices from authors two sense.
I won’t talk much on this subject, I find it hard for now but I have used it and found myself having a nice sleep. Meditating is a way to look at your thoughts from another person’s sand point and don’t act into them while trying to quiet them with mantra technique ,which is repeating one or two words over and over e.g. I AM or Your name act until you get to a peaceful state. Get the advice of Buda on this subject and other’s this is basic for me.
This also means controlling your emotions meaning controlling your thoughts, think before you answer and at least take 48hr before acting on your anger.
Control your consumption and your surrounding
At home they know I don’t watch TV and it’s something I committed myself to doing after hearing that’s successful people don’t have time for it. Now the content I watch that’s a TV program is really a recommendation that’s has education in it other than that’s I’m not interested.
My mom has a tendency to call me when I pass by when there is a crappie thing on TV and she knows I cannot stand that’s and after this realization , I started to understand my own subconscious mind ,if something is not going well in my business I don’t sleep well . If I have a serious fight with a family member it’s hard for me to sleep well, don’t to mention love relationship really mess with me.
So I have develop to deal with situations and not get into deep to soon and started to watch something else before I sleep so my subconscious mind will record that’s unimportant thing than I can sleep well.
Listening to Mr. Robert Green talking about human nature ,he talks about being truthful about yourself and also realize that’s everyone in life is an actor and as a person you should be the best actor for your role. Have a self control and so on, and realize that the life game is social and people are important part of puzzle so get along with people.
I have lost couple of gf’s because I was too transparent and too honest and girls don’t like that’s and that my own view. Now I will be working on my old approach of being a regular guy, because if I get serious too soon they can’t handle it. In closing be aware of the type of person you are and give the respect people deserve that’s you will like given to you.
Well if I was in a conference and you were listening and taking notes, I would’ve stopped you from taking notes because I feel people they practice what they usually practices in lecture classes and worse they won’t revise this ones.
I would suggest listen to my talk then when you get to the office or home write down what’s you remember and that’s what’s you will use in your life ,the lesson you resonated with.
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