How to protect yourself from bad habits

This advice is not something you don’t know I’m here to reinforce it. I have realize I no longer post as often since I started writing during the lockdown where I had all the time in the world so if you are seeing this from your email you are the reason I’m writing. You believed in my ideas and this habit of writing was one of the strategies to help myself avoid void and end up doing bad habits.

Do something if you have free time
I use to think my job was important but not worth it but up until I lost it and realized it better to work than not. Free time and having nothing to do on a day may lead you to doing negative things that’s doesn’t show itself as negative.

Here is a example the lunch at work is 30 minutes and you finish eating at 45 now the next 15 minutes either goes to ill debates or smoking.

Ever notice at work there is no much motivation around what’s ya’ll doing only paycheck is; imagine talking about your goals during lunch or how your work has changed your life?

That’s worth doing during your free time than gossiping or talking about TV series. The above statement is an example of small batch of free time, what’s about those who doesn’t work at all? For those who I happen to be one of them as of writing this blog what can you do to avoid doing ill?

Disclaimer I may be a little privilege and have a source of income every month on passive income ,passive income means after I receive the money I have nothing much to do which lead me to having this free time.

Now getting back to the point ,the something you can constantly doing is applying and looking for a job or trying different businesses like selling something on the street for starters while having a bigger picture on how you can spend your time.

Depending on where you live there are hard physical jobs and other handyman jobs you can take rather than sitting on a tuck shop and watch the sun take time from you.

Build habits that’s will propel you forward invest your time wisely and take your time choosing the right vehicles don’t be drifted by air and join and schemes that’s won’t last.

Listen to educational content and stay away from television
Your breakthrough in life will come from something you heard or saw and if you get your inspiration from television I doubt there’s something there for you to get you out of your predicament situation.

When you start the personal development route you will learn life contradictions and more and how hooked you may be, I think that’s where you will need to control your intake of this information with a grain of salt.
This might not resonate to you but keep reading as I have a great point at number 4. The summary of this second point is do the boring worth a while things rather than temporally entertaining things that’s won’t matter in your future.

Read books hard as it is but it’s doable on other hand hit a gym and try balancing these things.

When socializing be conscious on what’s you are talking about when you are talking to people and clearly distance yourself from friends that’s lead you to bad habits like drinking and maybe chase girls and unproductive debates about government and celebrities.

Help people
This is my strategy but I’m conscious on who imp helping but I suggest to you do this in real life not on social media that’s way it will be effective.

So last year when I reached what’s its seems to be my rock bottom ,I started helping my rich grandfather who doesn’t stay with me with one of his businesses without expecting anything on the other hand my aunt was building her house close by and I was the obvious choice for helping.

And last month my grandpa borrowed me 40k to get back in business and also my aunt trust me with her finances thus I can use that’s money and replace it every time.

You may not see who you can help but trust me there is a person who need something to get done, all you have to be is be trustworthy and be efficient and always speak the truth in good and bad times.

This may look like motivation and so on but it’s apply in every aspect of a person’s who value success.

I also know there are times where a person who is in great position and make business deals and have to give municipality side drink money, that’s not the case here that’s the corruption on the politicians end and business people are forced to align with this act, I’m sure there are bad business people as well but you don’t want to begin your journey of having a habit of paying bribes to get things done.

What’s causes bad habit
We cannot protect ourselves from something we don’t know how we find ourselves in. Although I said bad habit in the sub-title but I mean any habit for that’s matter but we are trying to fight the bad ones here.

Reading the atomic habit book they say habits are cause by certain cues meaning we do this which lead us to doing the next thing.

You went to buy bread in the morning and remember you have to buy cigarette as well.

The other way is the environment I am an example every time when I’m in my bedroom I crave pop corn because I associate it with the computer screen and anything I think of watching.

And to fight this negative habit’s we must remove the things that’s cause the cues ,like changing a shop and be vigilant most of all of this remove TV or the type of content that’s cause me to want pop corn.
With time on your hand find other tasks to do instead of those causing you to do the bad deeds.

Maybe you have a habit of cheating to your partner and it not something you have got grip off .You may need to work towards solving that’s bad habit like putting your babe on the profile display when you try to take the number of a side chick and you will remember the oath you did to yourself of not cheating.

Bad habit of forgetting people’s names, simply repeat it in your mind the moment they tell you rather miss few lines of what’s they say and ask them again then forgetting their names.

See your life meaningful
Maybe your life is straight forward and that’s not such a bad thing, but since you have people you admire in life the question is why can’t you be the one admired by others as well?

The meaning can be simply having talented kids who sees you as their manager or investor or try to partner with youth who are doing what’s you wished you have become and become a motivator and patch in the back for them and when they realize their goals you will be a important person in their lives and a role model to any one in that’s niche.

This point is simply to say find meaning of your existence other’s say a purpose ,and your life will be aligned and the bad habits will run away e.g. you are a soccer coach and you say no smoking in your team that’s obviously stop you from doing it as well.

You start a business and don’t think a business as a traditional thing of opening a stand outside and wait for people to come and buy, learn the internet and open a website thus your mind will be open to more things.

But if you will do it in the physical world the habit of sleeping in and opening your shop late may take you out before you even begun those bad habits are bad in business and at work.

Prove a point in a positive way, tell your friends you won’t get absent this year and bat on it or you won’t be late. This bat will motivate you and have you never snoozing your watch.

Without mentioning social media and internet habits I would haven’t be relevant so becareful on how much time you spent there because real life will be waiting for you ,check the cues that’s lead you to picking up a phone and dodge your work and put your livelihood in line.

Before I lost my job I wasdon’t already threatened by my boss that’s if I don’t stop using a phone im gone ,it’s was very hard stopping but I had to don’t find yourself in that’s terrible situation.

Thank you if you have read this far and you see other subject below don’t hesitate this information is worth binging. LnM (ULwaz No Makhula) follow us everywhere. I hope I will stop my bad habit of not writing more often.

Don’t let temporal situations trick you to making permanent decision

Hi LnM fam we are happy to have you join us today, ever since I realized that’s I don’t remember much from school but I know almost many things about new lessons I have involved myself in and applied it to my life successfully, I have dedicated myself to share all those insight because like me, someone might have a light bulb turned on and have breakthroughs and make his/ her life worth it. Today we looking at the mistake we make on doing things that’s last all our lives without giving them a consideration when we make them.

  1. Tricking yourself to stealing

I once found myself earlier this year working with someone with a lot of money and because I have already install my personal development in my life , I saw  I was tempted to steal and those I was working with encourage me to do this because  we were going to earn less later anyway. I’m not trying to be a hero here but I knew if I did that’s and steal this will lead to a bad habit of taking with less effort rather I should create the more valuable and money paying thing myself than stealing from bosses. This is more important because it tackle the side of us that’s is called loyalty and integrity ,you see if you have a track record of stealing you can never be putted in a position to look after inventory ,stock or money thus you might not get a job at all. This is great example because moment habit would’ve come with me throughout my life. But the main reason for me to start with this one is because its touches our morality and ethics and if those are broken and we cannot be trusted then we can never strive & prosper in this world

2.Your childhood is not a time to make reckless decisions.

When you are a teenager you might think you know how life work but if you are reading this you are lucky because I will tell you the truth “you don’t know anything about life”. Today we went to see our music mate who we grew up with ,who just lost his mom ,he is about to discover more things about life ,like running a household and more that’s parents usually take care of. Being a teenager is a temporal thing but being a adult last longer unless you kept acting like a kid even then. My advice to teenager or anyone with parents right now, try to teach yourself about life and personal development or at least listen to your parents when they tell you don’t do certain things. Tattoo is something we draw when we are young even in places that’s your spouse wouldn’t be proud of ,don’t fool yourself either saying you won’t get married cause that’s being naïve ,you may not want that but you want a love partner so tattoo is not a good idea ,no matter where it is ,it may cost you jobs and other business opportunities because other people value their surroundings. Unprotected sex with total stranger, maybe after some booze you feel like getting some be careful the abortions and babies left in people’s door and without parents is the outcome of people who make decisions out of certain mood don’t be one of them

3. Failure is not fatal and success is not the end

Giving up is normal outcome from failure or being tired ,but as this subtitle says failure is not dearth is just a small setback that is helping you to do correction as well as success doesn’t mean you can now settle down and enjoy the fruits . Both of this simply means be sad and learn and try again or be happy and unwind a bit and get back to it by setting up another target. The trick you can harm yourself with is having a windfall and taking it and spending it all before realizing that’s might force you to go back and look for the job ,while starting a business is not a must because you have found yourself in a positive financial position ,just keep living below your means and enjoy it for the long as it last. Giving up means never attacking your goal one more time and that’s not a way to do it ,just rest when you are tired and come back strong .Get all the motivation you might need because is all over the internet and the other motivation should be within you. As we speak I happen to be a great example right now ,it’s very cold where I am since its winter and I’m sitting in my computer writing for you and I don’t have any heater or air conditioning I just took a blanket and rap myself up 

4.If you are angry wait 48hrs before responding to what’s made you angry

A person who hold a grudge and act on it after a week ,depending on what’s you did to him he didn’t have a week he was in hell you can’t hold on anger for so long unless you revive it every time you see that’s person who did you wrong. I’ve been done wrong several times and if I always try to get revenge on those, I might have had many enemies right now and because I love business I know one day I will make enemies that’s I know and be able to live with but for now I have saw we don’t want revenge we want to prove a point when other’s do us wrong. That’s mentality means we putted ourselves in a position to get scammed or insulted and we want to show others this behavior is not acceptable to us, so you hurt the other person. What if you let it go? You’ll say what people will say, I’m scared of him? The catch if you are not taking revenge for your own justice then doesn’t do it at all because people won’t give you the respond you want and you will be one in jail or anywhere this anger might lead you.

5. Look to the future or better make the most of the moment without regret

The first part may be me, every move I make is directed to the future I don’t know but all I know it will be way better than my present because of my present actions. You may be the YOLO slogan kind of person, so I won’t be a person who gives a absolute advice do something now that’s you won’t regret later ,meaning if having fun now is what’s you want go for it but don’t wish you did something else ,your only live once must not affect your tomorrow situations  ,drink a rent money then tomorrow deal with a landlord . Stay online all the time instead of reading books and bypass the other people mistakes, then you’ll have to repeat the same shit and waste your life. The only thing life needs is balance you can enjoy now and future by drinking moderately, read on a schedules, gym and work this means be more disciplined than ever.

6. Value serious relationships you have and don’t be too eager to initiate new ones

Changing groups won’t work well on your mindset; you will be all over the place since many influences will hit you and your subconscious mind. Changing friends and partners may cause you to expect certain traits to people because of your past experiences, maintain the relationships you have after school and make them work and be worth a while. Forsaking a friend while still having common goal is not a sound move ,or having grudges within the family and not talk for years is bad because it’s the only sentiment relationship you have on earth ,it’s your bloodline and that’s will never change.

Be angry with them, if they hold you back keep the distance but don’t cut them off totally that’s will be making a permanent decision out of short term thing. And unmaintained relationships don’t show fruits so make sure you make use of your time with your loved ones.

I’m sure there is more that’s we find ourselves in and at the end of the day, find our dreams and vision dead at the end and even find ourselves lonely at times ,I hope the list above you can share to people you think they can find value. Please follow this blog and comment as well ,I would love to hear other people speak here thanks .LnM like our page on the left.

What are you working towards?

Today’s topic might sounds like I’m talking about goals ,not far from it but we going to discover that’s goals are not a fixed resolution they always change according to found new information. With that’s said there should be a driving force in your life for other’s is family ,while for other is financial security and overall happiness and as a human species we all value this things but in different levels without waste of time let’s make it into point form so it will be easy to digest.

  1. What’s the main goal?

Here we are talking the one that’s seems unrealistic to you and people around you but you chasing it anyway. Other’s may say never give up ,but it’s easy because they don’t know the sacrifices you already made and how much your life is on hold just because of this major achievement. See this goal has mini ones that’s keep the momentum going and without those maybe you would’ve gave up long time ago.

I’m not going to make examples because you might get carried away, you should have saw it by now and get a confirmation that’s you not alone and you on the right track.

2. Are you going to keep going or you have already given up (Hoping to never regret this moment)?

Are you taking, a what if road or give it your all? Are you strong enough for the road ahead or you throwing the towel hoping your kids won’t ask you one day that’s what’s you wish you could have become?.

What’s happens to you if you find yourself in the windfall? You run out of things to invest in or you think food, shelter and family security? I know a mom goal is to raise a kid well to see that kid make it that’s a huge goal although a mother can do her best raising the kid ,she don’t know how the child will turn out and even odds but positivity works in everything you put your heart to.

I don’t want to make a picture of a perfect life because there is none ,but what’s we should strive for is being in relationships where we can speak our minds but humility enough to filter what’s necessary but don’t keep what’s hurting you inside just because you are scared of the other half or of the best friend. Of cause compromises and disagreement will be there but they should not tare you apart or end up accepting the other version of a family member that’s frightening you to come home.

Any strategic and meaningful way to deal with problems at home is recommended,I can say although my relationship with my brother is not bad we have grown to understand one another and we don’t get to one another skin .We know our place and my mother tried to get us close but that’s ended up happening by its own miracle ,we still different in many ways but I’m hoping we going to find common ground and be able to look after the grandmother home.

At work thinking about home as well

3. Rekindling your senses and the best in you.

You are getting grim and tight face why is that’s you feeling aging already? Get back your spark and start living again for me that will be purely waking up all my music dreams and get back to the studio. You use to have such a sense of humour, what’s happening are you working backwards on that’s department?

Although this must not always the case you need to get serious now and then but life comes at all angles, don’t suppress life challenges with a fake smile. Are you working towards manifesting your real emotions and work on them adding some sort of self control.

4. Is developing your mind a priority?

Maybe it’s still easy for me to read books and get some perspective about life. But what are about you reading this is catchy topics only thing you read? Get the book with a full content and make sense of it , people don’t read and thinks they compete with people who read books and I’m not just talking about those who reads and do nothing about what’s they read.

Internet has a lot of bad stuff but I assure you the good stuff is there as well, the only thing I cannot encourage is getting on social media and debates this mind tools I saw there too much conflicting ideas from a post to a comments. Do yourself and get books related to the line of work you want to do or things you want to fix in your life.

Your mind will always tell you what’s to do and if your mind controls your actions, what’s do you wish to make a habit to your mind so you will do automatically? I’m leaving you questions because you already know the answers and don’t make your guru success a north star have your own and reach for them using your mentor map to get to it.

Remember this the things we claim to want more in life chances when we got them won’t matter that’s much ,here I’m talking about material things including your spouse until you learn to live with him or her then it will be worth it to have him in your life. Cars I know they make us efficient but on the other hand they need to be taken care of and if you not fit enough you might get stuck.

5. Are you working backwards?

I may be tackling other subject while you are stuck elsewhere and without doing my job and wake you I would’ve failed myself because I’m putting time to this blogs so the ROI should be life changing. So are you trying to get that’s high you experienced in your high school farewell?

Are you still expecting the love you received from the first 6 months of your relationship? Are you still prioritizing memories with your unmarried friends going out and partying while you married now?

If so why don’t you take your family with you, see as I’m growing and experiencing some serious transition my friends from my twenties I’m starting to view them in the rear view mirror since we are choosing the different paths and I don’t want to force them into my life cause I’m changing rapidly as well all I can is I’m not happy with others choices while some are doing well and that’s progress take a toll on our relationship.

They feel it and direct it straight to their heads clearly we’ve been pretending all along and this shows me more of human nature than friends taking different directions. So trying to force this relationship will mean I value more the old experience of the past.

In closing build forward not backwards, learn from your failure and never repeat those errors are grateful for the great times and aspire for better ones with people will substance and values of growth.

We are some of our experiences and we are the average of our surroundings and what’s I have done to remove dirt is to charge people for my time as services no matter who they use to be with me. Cause if I don’t they will feel the void in their lives and try to squeeze themselves and misuse my energy.

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Patience and urgency in life is important you need to find balance

Success TV on YouTube say’s they don’t see young people in a hurry to better their lives and I tend to agree. As we grow up we not taught to have missions in life, we know about goals but we are taught as collaret to jobs, buying cars and houses and getting married although those are important they have less to do with your long term livelihood. Today we going to make examples on how life movement should be treated and I will make with myself and please take what’s I say with grain of salt and if you agree to what’s I say the moment I say it then that’s will means its resonate with you and you are making a realization which is my goal.

  1. Don’t rush big decisions and big things

For a young person could be quitting school because of repeating a class ,as much as most of the school information is not necessary in real world but dropping out of high school can create a bad habit of not sticking through tough times in life.

Adult could be getting married after 6 months in a relationship or because you have a baby with that’s person, lot of considerations needed before acting to that’s fairytale and if you already compromising some part of your life for this person the question will be, can you keep up with this behavior after you are married or its going to make your life harder?

Financial decision’s like financing a car, is not a small one but other’s do it because of the secure job they think they have the problem with that’s kind of payment is your ability to save enough or be flexible with your money this can also means at least buy a 2nd car that’s will do the work take you from point A to point B.

  • Patience to me is

Wait for month end busy to dissipate before I make quick stress less shopping, it’s also mean’s not having commitments that’s keep me in a route to the point that’s I cannot leave my present environment. It’s also means till I afford the luxury watch I want don’t open an account for it. Patience mean don’t settling for a job that’s doesn’t impact my life compare to other options I might have this doesn’t not means fooling yourself though ,if the work you can do is gardening so be it , for as long not wanting a job that’s require profession and you want to wing it. Or fake it till you make it, you will get fired the moment you get in, unless it’s a growing company and its trains its own people.

Its means not looking for highs of life in wrong places, endure the boring parts of your life. I don’t know if it’s just me but relationships and any kind of hang out end up in some spending and compromising you don’t want to find yourself in that’s position while you are trying to build a habit of saving. What’s I have done is I have created my own environment in my bedroom is a studio since I’m into music and because I have access to the internet I started this blog so no matter how bored I am I find something productive to do. To avoid missing people who don’t miss you get to do something or really value your 9-5 and make the most out of it.

Be aware of yourself ,don’t let things happen to you all the time ,make things happen for you sometimes and most of the time ,be in charge of your actions and think before reacting to what’s comes next. It’s always has been important to be in a love relationship in my life but how it’s happen, it’s always a matter of chance either I react to a stranger’s smile or entertain inbox on my social media and those have not work well for me so far and I have started to embrace to be single because then things I stress remain few and less about company I keep but money I keep and progress I’m making in things that’s I spend my time doing. I know getting a partner is something that’s I will deal with but the reason they fail for now ,I’m still figuring myself and my life purpose and this contradicts with my recent beliefs and my partners don’t help.

  • Urgency to me is

Quick to act on the right things , starting a business is a lifelong commitment don’t rush to execute but be in a hurry to start and get going and really spend time studying your industry and people who are your customers and worker’s and be paranoid but control it. Decide quick  and do ,delaying things is a bad habit but as I said above you can consider hanging out with friends or read a book .but if the option is read a book or hit a gym then no consideration necessary find a way to do both. It’s been said you need to reward yourself to motivate yourself , I will say there is no reward in life like achieving your goal and realizing it those moments in life that’s I rare and other people won’t experience them in their lifetime.

What’s fun to you? Maybe I’m talking like a businessman or abnormal person but I am very ordinary and me too I have to figure a lot in life. But since I am a musician I have been to clubs and parties as a performer and people seems to be having fun while really open to mingle and get a one night stand, since I don’t drink it’s the strategy I had hard time understanding buy a booze for a stranger with a hope that’s she will agree to come with you at your place and hit it off that’s night.

For a sober person I always take number’s and fails to follow up, but guys have cars and can really get this habit going.

Things that’s keep this successful people in their own right and mediocre to not go up and live comfortably or live ambitious purposeful living is they don’t count the financial and healthy cost of this lifestyle and they can’t maintain certain status with wasted (drunk) moments in their live. So you mustn’t aspire to succeed because you want to party hard that’s really the opposite of what’s you will be suppose to accomplish but that’s your homework.

  • Balance

For things that’s related to your long term goal, in the short term you must do them no question asked but how urgent may differ to what difference it can make now as well. That’s means don’t allude you into progress by doing things that’s won’t matter at all now and in future.

Change is important if you are trying to figure yourself in life, my beliefs change a lot because I read book and listen to them as well and many of my realizations happen during this times because sometimes I have been using the wrong strategy for a while the moment I see it doesn’t work then I change not drastically but slowly adjust and see how things go.

This happens because books contradicts sometimes and that’s where the reader come in to decide cause the key to self learning is not looking for solutions but tools to solve the challenges of life and business, if what’s you read claims to have a secrete to make a million chances its will lie to you or show you the techniques but still you won’t make that’s immediately after you have finished the book.  

The quicker you get the result the riskier it is, rush to finish line but don’t want quick result because the illusion of having a business while having a job is a big mistake. Grow your business to the point that’s you are not needed in it but don’t build slowly to the point that’s you are stuck in being an employed person in your business. What’s I have strived and approach I have used to get my business running is I save money from where ever I get it until it enough for me to start something to also hire a person that’s will replace me while I figure other things out.

  • Don’t mistake urgency for a hobby and patience for laziness.

You can be quick to go to a sport field and play soccer with a hope that’s one day you will be a superstar but we both know that’s might be love and passion pushing you not direction and sacrifice and desire to be in top of your game so be careful like me if I find doing music easy and full myself to putting the work with there is little to no progress.

Don’t say I’m being patient while being lazy of doing what’s you suppose to do, maybe I’m repeating what’s you already know and guilty of my that’s not my goal to put you a victim, my goal is to get you going if you may act now on what’s you suppose to do and thank me later then my goal will be reached.

We can summarize the whole article by don’t rush to buy, rush to sell. Don’t rush to chill rush to work. Don’t rush to commitment keep flexibility .Be the opposite of the masses. I want to close by saying do the work and have a standard for yourself and life can be in a hurry but I will suggest you get moments to deliberate that’s way you can have breakthroughs in your life. Thinking is not acting to thoughts but is to listen to your mind and decide and note of fascinating and important things your mind suggests.

Thanks for paying us a visit, as I always say I may say things without considering your position in life and you might be reading and saying it’s because I don’t know. That’s true and my humility lies with you but as long as you grow yourself now and again you have a chance to find a way out to your adversity. I agree I don’t know your environment, your level of schooling and your life baggage but imagine if you are no longer in this world ,what’s will really matter? How will you be missed? LnM be part of this blog and grow with us, follow us as ULwaz No Makhula.

Information hidden in a plain sight

Please read the rest of this article and see how effective it is, and don’t pounder much on the part you don’t understand too.

This will be mostly advice about the approach I would take if I was starting music as a 20k generation or maybe you are old and you are just starting out. Please I may need to disclaimer ,be advised don’t stick with one method of doing things reinvent yourself and try to live 1000 lives while you are one person. Here is the number of the things I have done through my life time.

 I started by being a little boy ,mama’s boy like most of us then as I grew losing parents I started music and at school I wasn’t bad either ,within music I became a producer ,event organizer ,artist and a brand who has his own clothing line. I moved to township real estate and owns two rental complex now I’m into blogs and podcast and also looking towards YouTube as well so you can call that’s media company.

But all this is not enough at home I’m a financial manager if you want your money to be secured and trustworthy I’m your man ,I won’t double it or anything like that’s but you can achieve your financial goals if I can manage your finances just saying I don’t need any clients I assist at home.

Key Books have all the 1000s lives I need because I become part of what’s ever I’m reading at that’s time and I can tell you how Hendry ford lived his life like I was there and I know and apply lot of things that’s other people are ignorant at. So I became a passionate reader and personal development and developed the skill of self motivation and it’s helped me keep going when times are tough.

You and I need to learn to use internet to influence other people to think alike and build that’s trust ,than the base will be broad and in life you will have brothers and sisters that’s will die for you because of valuable you have become to them.

I avoided point form today, so I can touch different subject that’s I get limited to when I focus on one subject. You may be lazy to read books ,listen to audio books or visit this blog everyday and see what’s you get ,the most convenient social media to me is face book Like our page ULwaz No Makhula and you won’t miss doze of inspiration and like Spliff entertainment that’s where we portray our lives into certain extent.

By this I suggest you follow people who are seeking the juice of life and not those who follow the crowd and shinny movements. The reason I’m on blogging is because I’ve been into music for a long period of time now I want new challenge and build audience here who we can influence one another positively.

I won’t repeat things I have mentioned in my other blogs topics ,look for a topic here on self control or on discipline or lessons in life  just keep going I also talk  about awareness in life and ,why you should consider relocating in your current place.

To big dreamers like me, they say dreams come true to those who work while their dreaming ,I’m not a fan of quotes because they lose context most of the time but I got this one when I was doing metric which Mr. Nelson Mandela put it well Metric is a university entry examination so basically that’s what’s you need metric for but other companies has make it a prerequisite as well like it has anything to do with the repetitive jobs they give people.

Since schools are government regulated most of them and few private we all end up having to get this metric certificate  and wanting to take government jobs that’s most doesn’t need. In closing evaluate the things I talked about today and realize the things that’s seem normal may not be really necessary you just have to find a way to distinguish yourself from the rest and live your own way.

The most important thing after breathing is money then time so try to value both this things and you will have trouble free life  ,use time the best effective way you can and enjoy the results and pay attention to money usage and have a balance don’t value money too much till you miss the point and spend your life saving or value time so much that’s you hire a person to change you a globe at night we don’t encourage spending time on things that’s seems unimportant and repetitive as part of life ,when you get to the position delegate all that’s and really lesser focus on your life and business and figuring things out.

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Question’s that’s everyone has no answers for

We go through life and even die without really figuring certain things about our existence and what’s happens around us. So today we going to look deep and not solving these puzzles but thinking about them might put you at ease that’s we sometimes struggle with same things and fates. Without further due let get down to it.

What’s a dream really represent

Apart from people analyzing your dreams the main question is how they get to your mind in the 1st place. There is no scientist or physiologist who has answered this questions and even people doing brain studies lacks meaningful understanding of dreams. Average people says it’s the events from your past life and we could argue that’s as well that’s if we had past its really wiped in our brains and DNA because we have to see it on our sleep where we cannot make sense of it.

And the fact that’s we have past life seems like Jesus story no offence but since Jesus is from haven is the only person who can be regarded having second life here on earth but we not going to stick to that’s story because its favor one religion. So enlighten me in the comment section below if you have a better understanding of dreams.

Lastly there is a subconscious perspective of this, like saying dreams are your deep thoughts manifesting or maybe it’s a Dejavu but even Dejavu itself is counterintuitive because we can’t trust it either cause people around you during it don’t have a same resemblance of that’s moment, to them it’s a new scene and they cannot back your theory that’s maybe we were once here in an unknown past.

Where exactly do we go when we die?

There is a scientific explanation that’s seems concrete in its explanation ,according to science we are just bodies and mind once we die the body rots and get eaten by worms while the mind switches off for good ,I have never heard the science society talking much about the spirit and soul.

And there is religious explanation which is heaven and hell apart from your body dying, they believe one day you will wake up and resume to life especially if you attend church. In the mean time while you dead you will be waiting in heaven or hell or you will be staying with your ancestors meaning your family that’s is already dead ,once you die you going to join them as well.

But earth been around for many centuries and decades there are man-made fictions that’s has became a fact by now and other has become more of business that’s the reasons behind its existence. Our conclusion come down to we still don’t know where we are going when we die and the ghost part is worse  no one really come back from dearth unless they weren’t dead in the 1st place but  we open to your comments and your point of view.

Why feeling are more powerful than rational thinking

The way human being is made or born its animal like and we can all agree to that’s but we are given more senses than other species like reasoning ,anticipation ,feelings that’s we can explain others that’s we can’t . We know from a certain study that’s a person has 26 emotions that’s include crying ,laughing ,sadness ,shy ,humor ,anger ,envy ,scared and so on. But we not are going to look at all of this we going to look at those that’s affect us the most Gut feeling instead of Logical thinking.

They both work in different circumstances but the problem once you follow the feeling while knowing the facts you taking a risk you going to regret because you saw. In the other hand you can choose gut feeling and trust and most relationships are built on those feelings but once you get betrayed because you didn’t want to admit that’s your girlfriend or a boyfriend was a loose cannon ,you will beat yourself to it as well. So why from all the choices we have to make in life we also have to deal with this two as well?

Why we cannot predict the future

This is not question of having money, tools and everything in life. You can put a kid in the best school in the world the odds of that’s kids success are high but it doesn’t mean that’s will happen precisely the way you pictured it. Its well known that’s after so much civilizations we are still lacking great estimates but due to growing to studies like statistics and  so on ,there has been censuses around the world of babies and insurances that’s maybe needed to solve the upcoming boom of population and dearth rate ,but still our numbers cannot be accurate.

But the progress being made is powerful one, then going back to families and individuals we cannot predicts our partner’s next mood swing so we can act accordingly and that’s makes commitment really hard. If you knew where the next accident is going to take place you will make sure to not be there when that’s happens. In business the markets always changes and leaders needs to be ahead and constantly read to grow and adapt to change and fail to do that’s then your business suffers.

I liked what’s Mr. Bill Gates realized when answering some of the interview , he said ,he doesn’t see Microsoft company as a dynasty meaning his grand grand children may not be able to eat the directs fruits of that’s company. It’s a technology company and technology evolves very fast he knows if he can bet on it’s with all he’s eggs he may lose, he was very successful in the space but it’s not something like healthcare of leading pharmaceutical company that’s has antibiotics and biotic that’s people will always need is just programs that’s engineers has already replicated. Bill Gate type of future can be predicted unless if the company branches to the sectors of essentials like food shelter and transport.

Why we can never be content

Middle class person may act like he has made it in life because of cars, houses and money and satisfied and degrees but deep down he wishes for more. Monogamy has became a norm but we all know that’s not how evolution made us, we are now limit and stop ourselves from having multiple partners and claim to have a real feelings for one person , end up calling the other chemistry just a lust.

The mistresses are now more of a norm while other man has learnt self deprivation and call it self control. The truth is we are never content in anything, I saw a guy release a song while he was still having a great time with other recent release, and he was surprised seeing people not liking the new song and still entertain the old one his ego told him he was hot while that’s wasn’t the case it was just a moment he should’ve enjoyed it while its last and not interrupt it with another song.

Rich dudes keep the good habits that’s lead them to the lifestyle they have now claiming they enjoy what’s they do. I won’t argue with that’s but no matter how hard you work and push you are trying to be more than what’s you are today and I hope this is the only mystery I wish not to seize. In closing the contentment people fake lead to all sort of diseases namely obesity and depression  because now you have became static in a certain part of your life ,we were not built to become like that’s .

How to write as an amateur

Welcome to LnM and don’t be offended by the title of today’s topic, but I realized when starting writing this blogs that’s there was nothing special about writing. You just have to pay attention to other people’s format and repeat with different message or same message putted differently from your own experience.

Today I will touch on writing a song and anything you might want to write. My understanding there are few reason to writing like talking is to get a feedback or a messages across ,you can use it as a form of mediation as a reminder and lastly to teach someone or many people at once following certain system.

Do the work

  1. You are not an amateur if you have something to say

Platforms like social media makes people write for terrible agenda’s but if you are reading this I want you to shift your mind. Think of something valuable you can write about that’s unique to you that’s you think people can benefits from.

That’s it’s all its takes see for me I once reply on twitter on Microsoft post where they want to revolutionize the journalism industry and they wanted people views , I replied and because there is no spelling corrector there I sent the messages but it’s had a lot of grammar so that’s me admitting to the fact that’s there is terrible writing .But I saw tons of like because others understood what’s I was trying to say and only blame the grammar which lead me to putting in browser spelling corrector and that’s when my handicap disappeared ,Microsoft word had me lazy to master spelling but either way I leverage it and avoid unnecessary work.

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2. You need to know how to think deeply /connect the dots from the main subject to pieces

English is not my mother’s tong but it doesn’t matter its mine now, what’s important is that’s when you write you don’t deviate too much from the reason why you pick up your fingers and type on the first place.

And know if you have a format you have created for yourself like saying like me ,I don’t write below 5 points so whatever I’m talking about I should think even points that’s doesn’t exists to hit my target lollI’m kidding but you get the point.

I could write one script for 3 days because points may be missing at the moment I started so when I get back at it the next day I’m fresh , I keep going. Pay attention to all your material and reread your subtitles to not repeat the same things in different ways ,this apply to artists as well using same unique words on your lyrics or lines makes you seem lazy and not appreciated by your fans. As much as I always suggest writing from a stand point of writing for yourself realize you shouldn’t fool you. As people we want something fresh and new every time.

3. Tackle real issues

By this point you are a writer and for you to be recognized as a better amateur you need to come through at an issue and break it apart and put your powerful two sense. Meaning don’t hurry talking and using information other people already said about the subject , let it cool off and start to do your due diligence as a writer.

I will refer again to corona virus the songs was coming left and write from artists talking about this in its early stages, I waited and manage to do a three verse song with most of what’s has happened and my take about it. You see when you do that’s by then you have all the facts like Mr.

Warren Buffet say’s I don’t care what’s the stock market is doing for as long as I know the facts. So don’t try to pick up the trends writers are original and so should you .What’s has worked for me the most is to write more from my experiences than through research why is that’s because its seems practical for my readers.

4. We are all thinkers, become a great one

Writers put their thought into papers then average people put all their thought in to action even if it’s harmful one. Wealthy people write a lot, I wouldn’t imagine myself spending a day without jotting anything down my point here just know to be great in life you should write.

Be your goals ,Budget and so on its associated with writing and most importantly write reminders of things you must do and things you already done and keep a head space in your head. I putted wealthy people so you can be encouraged to do it. Please don’t take the writing practice and rally people with it or thinks if people write something different from you they are not writer’s or they’re bad ones. I don’t consider myself a great thinker but the thought and ideas I get from reading other peoples work is amazing.

I hate the fact that’s math’s comes hard to me but words don’t so to become great at something also consider your weaknesses ,maybe you should be a statistician or a logical thinker and really crush people’s emotional weaknesses when they take decisions without contacting the head 1st. So on that’s case you love math simplify it for people like us and make it attractive and I’m sure I can read that’s.

Learning is now so easy , to the point that ignorant is stupid

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5. Only do outlines if you are writing a huge content like a book or more than 5 pages

Other writer’s may disagree and that’s ok , but my goal here is to make a amateur love to write so once I get too technical I will lose that’s guy or girl. Don’t draw your points for a side points you just wrote unless it’s part of research. But it’s your own dreams and horror’s you experienced just follow your memory and tell us what’s happened.

As of writing this how to write for beginners, I have no other person’s opinion because I cannot confirm that’s and I have no outline either all I do is I write about the things I know. I stare at my title and see value I can give out of it.

 There are steps like editing and proof reading in a  writing process , for now I’m asking you to do it yourself or do things once and lets the world figure .right now I’m writing from that’s stand point all I know if you squeeze my work hard enough you will find the juice.

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6. Why anyone should practice writing?

For legacy purposes, for meditation purposes when you write you get lost and really focus so I want that’s experience for you. Reading is the same thing and way better because through reading you get to have a sense of knowing new thing and your horizon get broaden.

And to be honest with you if I didn’t read the books, I would’ve not written anything in my life. Tweets and posts is not writing and the reasons behind that’s writing is wrong. No one entertain meaningful things there so you always get discouraged. Not hating on this platforms but when you write, write and when you play, play. A bonus what’s writing will do to you, you will stop wanting to write on social media its will seem lame and not life altering.

5 Lessons that’s life will teach you anyway

In South Africa where I’m from especially the black community that’s I’m in learning is something people must do, but no one seems to love it .After school or graduation people reach a plateau stage of life and worse youth and children are not given enough attention to the important of learning, parents leave this jobs to teachers it’s not a habit. So today’s topic wants to tackle things that’s people are going to learn the hard way or even if they don’t like it they will any way.


  1. What’s you think your life will be like when you grow up, is going to be the opposite

Depending to who is reading this but the good thing we are all looking towards the future and we have certain dreams and things we want to do and we have a certain picture of how things will turn out. I don’t want to disappoint you but it’s not going to happen that’s way. But I don’t want to be the pessimist here, so I will leave an advice I’m following myself if you want to reach your goal at least close to what’s you envision become the better version of yourself now, and also become an above average person, in terms of your mindset. Let’s say you want to have 1000 000 in your account someday ,the 1st thing you must do is to study people who are already there and simulate most things they do from their money habits to how they spend their time this advice apply to everything you want to accomplish in life. You want a car and a big house, there are many ways to get that’s but I would look at the person who have that’s and who also have surplus of money, because you don’t want to replicate someone who is drowning on debts because of material things. It’s very important to always make a disclaimer I don’t yet have things I’m talking about, if I have it I would’ve said so, but that’s doesn’t mean my information is wrong and I won’t have this things they’re just examples, I already have some of the things I need, the rest will be a bonus and I’m grateful for that’s.

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South African arts and culture, artists and entrepreneur should reinvent themselves

Lockdown has shown weakness in the city innovation and technology, and obviously behind in online experience of music and other sectors but today we will focus more on Music and more on other aspect of art and culture. Let’s us generalize and make you think of this idea ,why should South African Artists should sell music via intentional aggregators who are not working in the best interests of the African society but only on the wellbeing of America? Why network providers are not transparent and accessible for our ideas as upcoming artists and why all the IT students who also passionate about music do not create platforms to help the Province and the country benefits? Lastly why government isn’t encouraging what’sslikouronlife life is doing in Johannesburg so we can control our financial destiny as artists .All I’m seeing is us paying premiums every month and years to guys who want to take advantage of other because they see they’re lazy to do it themselves.

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Call mWith the above questions ,we really don’t have platform to be heard as art and this alone piss me off to the point I’m relying on word press to voice my anger ,yet not only that’s I’m planning and working towards solving this issues. We need efficient online platforms ,where we can see RIO in a matter of a year and encourage our fans and supports to actually purchase our products in this places ,while getting mainstream media to advocate this channels like they do for platforms like iTunes and spotifies

I’m not against this platforms but the legal agreements we sign up for are too much have even fine prints that’s we as artists don’t need because we are not lawyers we are simply musicians .We want something as put my album online and its cost R100 and after one sale I can be able to cash that’s I know there are stories of taxes and are very important but for my blood to start rushing I need to see where my effort is going.

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I guess I won’t do point form today, we saw artists like Zakwe using their connections and influence pushing artists online on face book platforms and YouTube, that’s is fine known and in the long run which is why we need coders to come forward not in the aim of making money only but to strive for a course, we need marketers to come as well and make South African based product mainstream. Tiktok are using artists music to push their platform which is good and knowing that’s this product is from china and china government back its startups and mostly its businesses is no brainer that’s South Africa should cut a pattern.

We not interested in models ,its doesn’t matter if the cat is black or white for as long its can catch the mice

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Music ,Painting ,Dancing , skating ,drama ,film and so on need to be protected as our IP intellectual Property we know this big companies has audience that’s we still need but we can still start our own thing from the scratch and for Coders and IT guys I’m sure you know now how this work ,you build something in order to fill a need ,so be different in your approach and cut most of time consuming part and make your innovation easy and most importantly learn the business side of things because if this becomes a reality Venture Capitalists will pop up everywhere with millions and want control on valuable startups with a vision and eventually wants control ,So this will only mean don’t build to sell because that’s strategy doesn’t work any way build to solve a problem and pay attention to what’s feature people uses the most on the product you put out and embrace that’s pivot and don’t stick to one version so much that’s you miss the whole picture or other players beat you to it. Check all the buy products, the incongruities and so on read books like innovation and entrepreneurship like peter Drucker and rework.

Kwazulu Natal Should lead in the production rather than what’s is happening now which is consuming and private businesses can intervene to make this possible, I don’t want to lie I don’t know anything about stocks yet but the moment we hear that’s south African based internet app or website is making an impact I will put my money there.

Ideas shouldn’t be money hungry too , see I get lot of emails from international brand wanting us to be their ambassadors using our talents that’s ok , The problems is us while pushing their products ,they want us to pay premiums ,so that’s simply a no ,if you build something make sure the ambassador get what’s they work for ,and if they have to be charged then it’s should be taken in the money that’s brand is supposed to pay him ,Same as this thing of royalties I know artists are not greedy ,while this aggregator wants money upfront ,the winning one is the one that’s takes a reasonable percent after the music sales. So that’s how I think it can be a win, win. Money is a fuel of a business but server and fast computers are the tools of an IT guy and they rely on people to test and complain if you put a premium from a get go you will have a problem .Unless there is a direct service on top of it and product.

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We can learn from Mxit introducing moola for their messaging platform ,If you can build something with initial free credits and get people subscribing and hooked with good content in top of it that’s will be a winner .I can keep going but my point is clear now .Those who have money but love to take this challenge be my guest technology has evolve a lot from old days spoon and plate to now computers and coming Artificial Intelligence ,as well as VR Technology .I may add to that’s point to everyone reading that’s you don’t have to bet on this alone this Pandemic has shown that’s idea that’s may seem lame like partying alone at home as a terrible one ,but VR technology shows that’s if the experience I wanted was to see ULwaz No Makhula perform and ULwaz no Makhula wanted to perform for a crowd Black mirror TV series has demonstrated that’s its possible as well as VR technology .but we know there is more to this than that’s so any app that’s can serve that’s experience will do well in a market place .Thanks for checking unique ideas today from this LnM website please share maybe someone might be intrigued and do something.


In closing Vusi Thembekwayo has once said that’s government should make things accessible for businesses that’s has a growth mindset and don’t want to remain small. Tax clearances and infrastructure should be in place to improve our economy as a whole and efficiency in place. What’s he added is business people should think big and act accordingly so check out his videos on YouTube .I’m also guilty of the bad things we do mostly us black people, making the entire paperwork of a business to bid for one tender which is wrong cause its somehow shows the main focus is on money, chances are the math is not good and that’s is way dangerous than having a successful project and don’t see ROI. Thanks please follow us as ULwaz No Makhula on all social media.

Let’s me make a disclaimer , I’m not against USA based businesses and not against how they operate but putting a client 1st is my concern ,e.g. ITunes is too big now to maintain its operations without third parties ok but I was a member of one aggregator and I signed up with a fee ,when I wanted to cancel they asked for another fee why is that’s I asked and didn’t get a valid answer because they were taking premium on me and I was pas that’s aggregator since there was a new better one I want having this problem ,as a customer this did not sit well with me ,they had my card number which meant I was at their mercy .so things like notifying a customer about upcoming charges may be of help ,while others may try to dodge that’s but others will see a great anticipation and budget accordingly. 

What are 5 things that artists do right?

Hunger

Dedication

Learning

This one was obvious for me today looking at posts on face book of people trying to make money out of artists by saying what’s they do wrong and what’s they should do. You see I’m an artist and I get offended when this fake PR talk all they want on social media and this gurus want to be and take a picture with a Celebrity so it will seems like they know what’s their talking about. So this is my heads-up to everyone watching this channel at the moment we not planning to ask money from you and when or if we decide to do so it will come from a place of virtue and principles and respect we have for people… I don’t see you as a number or a like that why we can bump in to each other and talk although tension will be there but that normal .If you as a rapper or Kwaito or house Dj feel like you cannot trust a person claiming to know much about your industry trust your guts and don’t do business with him/her.

Apologies for that long intro let’s get down to business, what’s we did right when we started out and what’s you doing right already. Before I jump to it ,it’s important to remind you to subscribe to our channel by clicking that red subscribe button maybe you’ve been here before and thought yourl never come back here you are and we resonate with you give us a shot . LnM Show by ULwaz No Makhula we not gurus we artists you can check us out ,our songs and Music Video we share insight in terms of our experience and knowledge.

  1. Artists and Producers like to improve themselves.

You see maybe not everyone but every producer I know took some time to master his craft and everyone following will do the same ,it’s become natural it a must to learn new tricks as a Producer listening to other beat makers and mixing engineers doing amazing stuff you say I gatta learn that and you do. Watch Tutorials, read some notes or purely experiment. So I want to congratulate producers keep up the good work. I don’t know what’s value you will find in this episode but for me I felt the need of gratitude hope yourl learn what’s to do as well if you just starting out. Artists improve their writing and they can be conscious of their content and try to deliver what’s people can understand we want to say great work guys that the way. I remember the group from eNanda called double 7 , decided to feature Mphako on a track and after past years of beef and it got squashed a hardcore track was going to create some subliminal so they did a great concept about amaphupho meaning dreams they want to achieve in music which became a huge track featuring a vocalist that what’s industry needs bafwethu  keep it up.

  • 2 Matured artists know the right people and use them.

This is the big boys stuff, you see moving to point number one this one come to mature everything I just mentioned basically Point number 1 is just to reduce work and be able to be independent, this one makes you a master because you know who write you a song, who mixes it, who master it and who distribute it then your job becomes recording it only then lets the pros take off the load on your back. We encourage you to become matured quickly and don’t try to be anything only focuses on that thing that has higher upside.

Take risks , study people your better life depends on it.

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  • 3 Some artists master the skill of performance.

In this one I’m guilty, how do you do this it’s simple but not easy. Here is how I did it if I know I have a new songs that I would love people to see me perform I practice them every night until the day of performance come. I open the beat read my script and recite my verses song by song put my verses aside until I know the songs well without a script ,and then Il sung them during the day at work in my head  just keep track of them. On that I stand up act like there’s mic on my hand and picture the crowd of people singing with me .After all this I’m 99% that I’m going to kill the crowd in kwaito is so easy master the dance moves lyrics is just 4 lines repeated so yah not all artists only few with unknown songs master this but we celebrate their hard work today syabonga.

  • 4 Artists Respects one another.

Here is what’s I like about our music community we know one another and we respect one another. We see beefs on mainstream but we know it’s for show business so you know deep down they know each other’s place. We may be criticized because we used drugs sometimes but we rarely try to harm one another it’s only a healthy competition in everything we do. Even those beefs and diss don’t reach physical fights so we should appreciate that behavior and encourage it to keep going. Respect and Trust goes a long way in every society but we know some categories of the industry tries to separates up , like media and companies as well as awards nowadays the aim behind them is fortune and bribery that why mostly we don’t participate because drama may not good for our physo even if its seems to be good for business but sleeping at night is much better.

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  • 5  Value the platforms they’re given.

We might have an ego or pride now or realization of not wanting to perform for free but every stage we got back then was a hope of getting a recognition but that no longer a case, but as artists we value the platforms we are given and we don’t take them for granted so I want to give thumps up to artists who really show appreciation to people who give them platform. And those who exploit artists shame on you. But as a rule of thumb it’s important to give that community radio at least R50 because you don’t know what’s they give him so yah .humility play a huge role in anyone’s life. Look after people who look after you and when it’s strictly business don’t mix it with pleasure.

It has come to the part I hate the most , of leaving now assuming there is a kid who watched this video as well I want to tell you boy or girl life is not bad things only and it’s not good things only but you have to try a look for the good and make more of it , having money is good so be aware now people with no money and don’t take their advice to heart about money than those with money listen attentively ,this applies to music don’t mind a manager who doesn’t have a track record of managing successful artists and thinks he can tell you or she can tell you something. Do your thing and take advice from experts and people who are where you want to be. Now I didn’t say press a notification bell so please do and don’t forget to follow us on all social media as ULwaz No Makhula this is LnM show its time for that Bonus.

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  • 6 They can open doors for one another without expecting recognition.

If artists were another form of species I would’ve said most of them they are incredible species, as much as we don’t do this often but it does happen, we Saw Zakwe putting on Duncan and Zuluboy putting Zakwe and so on, in Gospel Thina Zungu been putting artists .Dj Tira has a huge successful company as well as Oskido till this day they put on artists to help them feed their families with talent god has given them. Only thing we want to add to our friends don’t expect this as your strategy to succeed put in the work and look for your own path to success hope this episode wasn’t that lame but valuable and its show that in life and media there is less Thank you and appreciation of what’s we have achieved as human being, they push the negative stuff only that why we recommend if you are an artist you must not watch TV and listen to radio. You cannot be a actor and a spectator choose a side Thanks, goodbye.

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